Pickme’s are dangerous

Mulkvistee · 2020-09-12T00:56:22+00:00

What in the fuck?!! If I had a choice and chose my husband while letting our child burn to death he'd probably (rightfully) leave me for it. Do these pickmes think this declaration makes their men look good? Yiiiikes. They think they're going to have some weird romantic soulmate bonding over their child's preventable death ashes? I say again: what the fuck?

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-09-12T01:06:15+00:00

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Madholley · 2020-09-12T01:23:30+00:00

Imagine reading this and it was written by your mom?! Ouch. My mom would never.

Cautionary_Legend · 2020-09-12T00:59:41+00:00

Nope. I'd want the child to live. I would save my baby by myself. An adult human can go.

peanutbuttatwix · 2020-09-12T00:46:07+00:00

LevelTurbulent · 2020-09-12T00:45:37+00:00

Holy shit. That's horrifying.

Anonsubordinate · 2020-09-12T01:28:37+00:00

Absolute shit human beings.

oldncranky1982 · 2020-09-12T02:24:32+00:00

Any adult with sense knows they cannot be number one in someone's life the entire time. Run from any man who "wants to be the priority" at all times.

plummyjellyfish · 2020-09-12T04:40:33+00:00

Once you have a child, you become responsible for that child. No matter the cost, no matter the effort. This is one of the many reasons why I am childfree, because I'm not capable of that level of sacrifice. My father was a deadbeat, and my mother wasn't too keen on parenthood either, and it hurt me tremendously growing up. I would never put a child through the same kind of torment, and it sickens me how many children are being brought up by parents who have no real sense of responsibility towards their offspring. They aren't parents. They're simply breeders.

lalalalaika · 2020-09-12T02:12:31+00:00

This is literally insane. Your child contains 50% of YOUR DNA. The father shares 0% DNA with you.

Save the child, you fucking psychos

spasiebamot · 2020-09-12T01:41:49+00:00

These people clearly don’t have kids.

I’m not with my kid’s dad, but if we were together I’m pretty sure there’d be an unspoken rule that we’d both attempt to save our kid from a fire before we attempt to save one another 🤷‍♀️

lhatw · 2020-09-12T04:16:14+00:00

This made me so uncomfortable

newuser20202020 · 2020-09-12T04:44:33+00:00

I don't even want kids, but I would 100 percent choose them over a spouse. Kids are innocent, beautiful and helpless little being.

WTF is this drivel???? Oh the irony of childless women contending with a stigma of being heartless???

phobi_wankenobi · 2020-09-12T01:10:34+00:00

That definitely feels like sarcasm tho.

to_learn_to_fly · 2020-09-12T09:51:09+00:00

Nah, sis. You can have another man. When a baby is born, he or she becomes your top priority. If you prioritise a grown man, who can and should take care of himself, yourself and the baby, over a baby whose survival depends on you, then you should definitely reevaluate your life.

r00tang · 2020-09-12T02:26:04+00:00

Oh my godddd.

shedragoness · 2020-09-12T03:42:38+00:00

In the case described on the reply, the kids must definitely needs to be saved because the other parent can (more often than not) save themselves. That’s an example where the kid is priority.

However...

“It’s time to “Ferberize” and move Junior to a different bedroom, in lieu of room sharing, once and for all.” This where the spouse should come first.

BasieSkanks · 2020-09-12T18:23:48+00:00

This seems like an outlandish view, but it’s clear that so many choose their spouse over their kids. By choosing to procreate with a low value man. By constantly making excuses for the low value man’s lack of effort towards his kids and trying to laugh it off, as is the case in a certain mom subreddit. Children, especially when they’re very young, cannot defend them self against an adult. Even animals understand this. Lionesses and kangaroos are extremely protective of their young.

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-12T13:38:03+00:00

I feel any men worth their salt would be appalled by this shit.

iamaninsect · 2020-09-12T15:09:50+00:00

What the fuck. I seriously hope this is jokes. Okay Stannis’ wife. You wanna let the red woman come in and burn your house down too?

2020-09-12T15:32:49+00:00

I feel ill .

TheTower_14 · 2020-09-13T17:29:04+00:00

What the fuck is this? If anything, my man better go help me get the children out

youdipthong · 2020-09-13T18:05:03+00:00

I genuinely have no words

rinabean · 2020-09-12T15:16:37+00:00

I don't see any problem with this if that's how she wants to live.

People are talking about if it was a woman? Well, yeah, you know it might be? Statistically, it's way more likely. You know it might be you or your foetus when you're giving birth, and they might ask your husband to choose? If you want a man to murder you because he thinks it's his right, or nature, or whatever, just write letters to a wife murderer in prison, don't bother with FDS.

Then relax and remember most people never have to choose between their spouse and their child in a fire and even if they did there's no betting they'd do what they thought they would in cold blood. Really doesn't matter.

This is nothing to do with eg letting a man abuse your kids. Which actually happens every day. Or not getting an abortion you should have gotten.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-09-12T06:22:50+00:00

最高? More like 最愚蠢的 your spouse comes before the kids unless he’s doing fuck shit but in the event of a fire the man should sacrifice his life for his kids

Title	Pickme’s are dangerous
Author	zaiikaa
Upvotes	153
Comments	46
Date	September 11, 2020 8:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iqy5rt/pickmes_are_dangerous/
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