To "spoil" my ex bf on Valentine's Day, I took him to a sports game in a large city near us and paid for all of it. The 4 hour trip to get there and back, the hotel, and the tickets to the event itself. After the game was over, he returned the gesture by taking me to Boston Pizza for dinner. On Valentine's Day. I look back and cringe at all the stuff I did to pamper him and make him feel special when he never appreciated it or deserved it. I still see all over social media pickme's that go on and on about how the man in a relationship deserves to be pampered too. Uh, yeah no. Not until he can prove he's actually worth it first and not until it's reciprocated. Ladies, don't bother spoiling these LVM, nothing good can come from it.