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| 1 | The Ultimate Red Pill is Being Self EmployedHow can you make a decision without knowing? Surely the right course would be to experience employment and then experience self-employment, and then maybe even experience traditional business (where your time is divorced from earnings) before you can make any proper decisions? Too many stay in the employment bubble out of fear and rationalise away the alternatives without even trying. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Red Pill is Being Self EmployedSelf-employment can turn bad and has risks So can employment and employment also has risks! People are laid off all the time. It's hilarious watching RP folk hamster employment so transparently. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beautyI just can't get myself to believe that girls are attracted to power, status and money What about hypergamy? Do you believe that a woman would drop someone she loves dearly because a better offer comes along? That happens all the time and is one of the reasons for the undercurrent of bitterness in the main forums as a lot of fresh faces turn up broken-hearted in disbelief. All you need to understand is that women are people and people are generally out for themselves. They have their own agenda.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beautyWhat else should I get into to get redpilled? I'd start with The Rational Male. That's the original book which inspired all of this. I'd also recommend Meditations and reading up on stoicism in general. The power of something like Freedom From The Known is that it completely rejects all knowledge as Krishnamurti considers it just a reflection of the past. It can't possibly be a reflection of the present because by the time you have turned a thought into knowledge the moment has already disappear… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beautyIt was a long story about what happened next and I'm on the way to school rn and I'll type it up only if you want to read it If it will help to bounce it off someone I'm all ears. Again, thanks for the reply and have a good day man! No problem, you too! Be thankful you're coming to these realisations at a young age. It is paramount you overcome distractions before they take hold and become habitual. Many men waste their 20s chasing pussy instead of using that energy to build the foundations for … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beautyIt sounds like you have a healthy attitude about it (though do some honest introspection and ensure you're not rationalising any of this). Tacking on mindfulness to these exercises does not suddenly make them about mindfulness. The motivation in such postures as part of a spiritual practice has nothing to do with maximising appearances as the whole point is transcend such trivial concerns. My point was that when all is said and done, money, power and status are all that matter in the sexual mark… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 04:52 AM |
| 2 | "On Tinder the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women"I suppose it's good motivation to aim for that top 20%. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beautyIt seems awfully feminine to give two shits about maximising facial aesthetics to the point of performing tongue exercises! Am I missing something? Redirect that energy to making money and stop worrying about appearances. You will not fight back the ageing process. Probably lose your shit when your hair disappears or your face starts to wrinkle or arse and balls start to sag. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's ClothingIn other words, youth is wasted on the young. I always wondered what that meant until I started to experience real wisdom as I got older and my energy levels started to deplete. If only I had this perspective with my youthful energy. Great comment! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's Clothingbut it also gives you something to focus on that solely has to do with you. You have to be careful to not fall for the obvious motivation of looking good to slay pussy, because that's what will start to happen as you build muscle and confidence... but then you'll settle down when you achieve that abundance and get complacent. You have to keep yourself in check to ensure your motivations really are about you and developing your discipline. I still struggle with this because I don't need to go to … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | "On Tinder the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women"Will we lament this for the rest of our lives? Who cares? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Women's Existential Feargives you full control over any kind of relationship with a woman Or anyone, for that matter. This gives you the power to drop friends and family if they are proving destructive to your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How being yourself can go from drying pussy out to giving water to Africamake yourself your only mental point of origin. This is what finally gave me the bliss I was looking for in everything else. Life becomes so simple when you only listen to yourself and watch very carefully what thoughts you allow from others. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | IS THIS THE TRUE NATURE OF ALL WOMEN?I don't believe I contended any of that with what I said. Testosterone clearly has a major effect on sex drive. That doesn't mean women aren't highly sexual or don't have fucked up sexual fantasies like we do. This isn't something to be debated, though - you need to go out and meet women and experience it. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | IS THIS THE TRUE NATURE OF ALL WOMEN?Quote please. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling guilty about girls who fall in love with meThat's not mutually exclusive. She can know about you in a relationship and still fall in love with your [continued] value. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | All this shit just feels pointlessI've been in monk mode for the last 16 months. It can be difficult to pull yourself out because productive solitude is the closest you'll likely have ever come to true, sustainable bliss. Stop whenever you feel ready to re-engage with the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 01:11 PM |
| 2 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."Ha! Very true. My attitude has forever shifted from instead of moping over someone to focusing on good times with someone else. They're as interchangeable as we are to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't be this guy, cucked for 8 years.Agreed. I moved to another country and have been monk mode for over a year. It has honestly fixed all of my personal problems. It has also made me realise just how many people are posing. You can tell how serious people are by the sacrifices they make. People talk a lot of shit but they don't quit their jobs or migrate to another city/country or dump their GFs or get rid of bad friends. They make shitty little sacrifices to make themselves feel good. Trouble is it's difficult to see when you're … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | My borderline is fucking up my personal relationships(?) I'm a loose canon and suspect everyone's motives but I get the idea it pushes them away.What I need to do now is to get my irrational thoughts and paranoia in check so I can focus on treating other symptoms. This is one reason why therapy is so important. You need to treat the source of your problems, not the symptoms. You'll never stop treating symptoms. The struggle is unbearable I know. I've been there. What you need to learn how to do is not attach to your thoughts. Look up mindfulness and meditation, pay close attention to your self-talk. Change the script. Stop saying negativ… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:41 PM |
| 1 | IS THIS THE TRUE NATURE OF ALL WOMEN?Yeh, they are highly sexual beings just like us. They have deeply complex sexual fantasies just as we can. It is only the suppression of women's sexuality which has held it at bay. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys in LTR practice TRP?what you do to maintain your skills in picking up women I don't. I focus on evolving my skills in making money instead. It's easy to know how to behave in a relationship when you take into account the things you learned in TRP. Namely: abundance mentality outcome independence your mission Abundance mentality leads to a few behaviours in a relationship: 1) you will not get oneitis, 2) you will behave as if you are single (working on yourself, chatting up chicks, etc), 3) you will know you can rep… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You guys are too bitter and angryI've spent a good 4 years on TRP. Went from a 5 year dry period to multiple relationships and plates. Still building abundance but I feel like I've got what I came here for. I've learned a great amount of healthy attitudes which I've cultivated by myself, but I did need to wade through a whole bunch of toxicity to get there. asktrp is understandably full of people wondering wtf is going on. There are also plenty of bored trolls. I imagine this particular forum is very difficult to moderate. Lots… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys struggle with thoughts like "I'll never be worth anything, I should just stop trying"?I get caught in a spiral of beating myself up, and wondering if I'm just "too far gone" to ever have any sort of worth. The fact is you don't need to achieve anything to feel good about yourself or value yourself. You are attributing your self-worth to appearance, success with women, weight, achievement.. none of this stuff is sustainable over the long-term because you'll lose it all anyway. You need to build your self-worth on something that is sustainable and cannot be taken away by outside fo… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:37 AM |
| 7 | How do I reduce my drive so that I can focus more on school and work?You're just not capable of reading simple sentences, that's all. That's patronising. Where did I say it was easy? I said hang in there and focus on self-improvement and pussy will be guaranteed. I'd say that's good fucking news! You should be happy it is that simple for men. Not easy. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Feel like im spending too much time with LTRGo build a social life. Have you checked local groups on facebook? There is usually some kind of meetup being arranged for all kinds of different interests. To be fair, I find "a social life" a major distraction to my goals. I've spent the last year in Thailand in my condo and barely left it because I've been focusing on building a software business. I don't know the language so it's quite isolating. No chance would I have made the progress I have (personally and professionally) if I'd been dist… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Doesn't being wanted or seen as a valuable catch boost your self-esteem?Down boy! | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:06 AM |
| 4 | How do I reduce my drive so that I can focus more on school and work?You got to look like a super model to pull that off That's nothing but a self-limiting belief. I believed it too until I fucked someone after an hour of meeting them. Experience will shatter those self-beliefs in an instant | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:04 AM |
| 5 | How do I reduce my drive so that I can focus more on school and work?Nah some people are just insecure dickheads who can't take advice from people who have been there. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How to handle comfort tests from girls early?as long as they stick around while still being able to keep her around. You care far too much about this and it will show. Say whatever the fuck you want. But make sure it comes from a place of abundance and outcome independence. I'm seeing enough other girls and focused on myself where I don't think this will be an issue. I don't think you are seeing enough girls. If you were you wouldn't care about how to respond to this one. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling guilty about girls who fall in love with meLook at it this way -- they are not falling in love with you but your value. Nothing to be guilty about. It's not like they give two shits about you as a person. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I reduce my drive so that I can focus more on school and work?That's not patronising. I'm excited about your future if you focus on self-improvement. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | How to handle comfort tests from girls early?(FWB type relationships where we enjoy each other's company with sex involved, but don't catch feelings). That's not possible. People will catch feelings if you know them and fuck them long enough (especially if you fuck them good). She just texted me out of the blue saying how she's not happy since her pets are sick. It's good you've taken a step back to see this comfort test. Look at it from her perspective. She's talking to loads of guys, she's fucked you and other guys, and now she's droppin… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Doesn't being wanted or seen as a valuable catch boost your self-esteem?You are over-estimating the status of men on these forums. There are some high value men here, but the majority are rabid dogs without any self-control. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How do I reduce my drive so that I can focus more on school and work?Don't worry man there are a lot of fuckheads on these forums who are just posting smart remarks to feel better about themselves or put others down. I found I only stopped caring about sex after I experienced abundance for a couple of years. Probably not what you want to hear. It gets to a point where you become jaded. You see that you're not going to get the kind of sustained validation you were hoping for and it's just a wet hole at the end of the day with no other value attached. It starts to … | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Feel like im spending too much time with LTR> my main study will start on june i decided to study electrician and june is when the pre apprentice starts. Focus on this. You'll be fine. Read. Go get The Rational Male, Meditations, whatever, pore through as many books as you can. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:20 AM |
| 5 | How are you supposed to actually make friends in today's world?There is nothing stopping you from going to general interest meetup groups and meeting new people. You could have a huge circle of "friends" within months if you put in the effort. But it does deserve saying - real friends are hard to come by. I only have two friends in the last 30 years I'd consider actual friends. The rest are acquaintances who call themselves friends, and I wouldn't trust them for a second. There is no avoiding that. The only way to find real friends is to do so over a number… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:16 AM |
| 16 | How to internalize what you read?Act on it. It's experience of what you read that helps internalise it. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 03:11 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?How can you not know? If she were a virgin and you fuck her, you should know it. Hey, could you explain wtf you're talking about? How could anyone possibly know for certain? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?I have plenty of frame. It's not about that. It's the fact I'm leaving the country in 6/7 weeks and it will be over anyway. I don't see the point in also breaking her heart in the process (she's already torn up about me leaving). | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Grim but true. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 12:59 PM |
| 4 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Pretty sad that people feel this is the most valuable response when it doesn't even touch on what I was asking. Bravo asktrp. I've been on TRP for a good 4 years and it's transformed my life.. but this is pathetic. Asktrp is for questions. If you don't have shit to add then piss off. I only mentioned to make note she wasn't some random slag I was considering this with. It's not like I believed a word that came out of her mouth. What a waste of energy. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?How do you mean how can I not know? There is no definitive "if x then she's a virgin". She could have had sex many years ago. She had definitely not had sex in a long while when we started seeing each other. Either way, as I said, it is besides the point. I have no interest in defending her virginity because I'm breaking up with her in 7 weeks. I really don't care if she's a virgin or not. She's definitely a very low n-count girl. It seems to say a lot more about the people responding with such … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Damn, that sounds harsh! Pregnant ffs haha no surrender! Nah it's definitely not worth getting caught. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Appreciate it. It makes a lot of sense. I had a similar transformation when reading TRP but was only 6 months into a relationship at the time. I instantly told her I couldn't handle monogamy. She agreed to let me sleep with other women. She was also BPD so I had to get rid anyway (never ended up sleeping with others). I've never gotten mentally weak, complacent, or out of shape. I continually improve myself and lead the relationship. She realizes she has a lot to lose if the relationship ends. T… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:09 AM |
| 2 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Thanks. I appreciate the back-and-forth! Helped me think through it a bit more. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?can’t get upset if she starts dating and fucking other men if you decide to make the relationship open This is it. My boundary is: I'm not committing sexually, but I'm also not interested in you if you see other men. Polygymy, I suppose. I'm not interested in open relationships. I have the audacity to aspire to this ideal because I'm putting far more investment and commitment into a relationship than a woman. That's the cost. Of course, this wouldn't work unless I was very high above her SMV and… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?I suppose the right thing to do is: "I want to have sex with other women but I want to be with you still. Take it or leave it". I have implied this at times by saying a guy can have 1 girl in his heart, but he will always want other girls for sex. Cheating seems to be more about fear of losing someone. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Yeh this is exactly what's running around in my head. I just don't want to break someone's heart. One of the girls I'm speaking to recently broke up with some guy because he cheated on her. > I have been in a relationship about a decade longer than yours. So she's not traded you in for a better model. What's the secret? Be way above her SMV to the point you are her best option because nobody else at your level will take her on? haha have you never been honest about fucking other women? It seems … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 09:45 AM |
| 4 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?The standards that you want from your woman don't need to apply to you. It's a shame you've been such an arsehole because you are correct. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 09:28 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Yeh, that's the dilemma. I've never pretended to be a one-woman man, but I do have my word. I know the mistake and I won't be agreeing to a monogamous relationship ever again. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Educated guess, I would say virgin yes. But I also know that these things can be very well hidden. > But how many did she have when she was a guy? Now you're just trolling. Be gone you fucking idiot. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | To cheat or not to cheat. Vital for swallowing TRP?Slow down. This girl has genuinely not had many partners. Don't confuse me for some retard without any experience. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Revenge Story: This was in my Quora this morning, I thought I'd share (copied and pasted)Wait it out long enough and we might have artificial wombs and designer babies on sale. If you don't want to get fucked don't give women power over your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Revenge Story: This was in my Quora this morning, I thought I'd share (copied and pasted)How so? I've considered this myself. Seems like the best of both worlds. I can develop strong relationships with my children and raise them properly and keep women away from serious commitments/responsibilities. Surely the surrogate mother doesn't have a say. She must be signing away her responsibility or legal rights over the children? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 10:16 AM |
| – | Revenge Story: This was in my Quora this morning, I thought I'd share (copied and pasted)She should have shown exceptional loyalty, commitment and treated you well for years on end That's the first problem. We don't have years on end to properly vet every women coming through our lives. If I spent 4 years with 4 different women I'd have already gone through 16 years of vetting (unless I vet them at the same time). I wouldn't think about children with someone unless I'd spent 4/5 years with them. The older you get the smaller that window is. Not just that, society is constantly chang… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.Do what you want with her. The focus on her is very small minded, when the focus should instead be on the groups which have indoctrinated her and continue to do the same to other children. Take "she needs therapy" out of context of everything else, sure, but read the rest, ey. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.Modern society acts as if teens, especially teen girls, have no control and no rational thought. Mainly because people love pushing pop science brain imaging studies. I don't understand this. It is often said women are the oldest children in the house. Considering men are far more apt to rational thought and control and they are fuckheads when they're 15, how can we expect more from a teen girl? She was indoctrinated. Simple. Judgement of the person doesn't help at all, cut the bastard head off … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Alpha terrorist fucks and beta government bucks: When cuckoldry goes international.Indoctrination? We're giving this 15 year old far too much credit. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Reducing Turnover by Solidifying Plates Via AttachmentDoesn't matter. She also cares about having a great time in bed. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Reducing Turnover by Solidifying Plates Via Attachment"I've even had ones willingly change their perspectives on monogamy so they could stay." More people need to realise this. If your relative SMV is way above hers she will accept whatever she needs to accept to keep you around, including polygamy. Of course, we have to accept that she is also practising non-monogamy, she just needs to do it covertly to maintain face. Not sure I could accept any other arrangement. Be fucked if I'm sexually committing to someone who pretends to commit to me. Nah. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 08:28 AM |
| 2 | By Marcus Aurelius, releasing resentment and bitterness, finding shelter in the soul of a manAppreciate it! I'll check it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 02:51 PM |
| 6 | By Marcus Aurelius, releasing resentment and bitterness, finding shelter in the soul of a manYou seem well versed on this material. Any suggestions for diving into things to this degree? I've read Meditations and I've been a big follower of J Krishnamurti (Freedom From The Known) and Terrence Mckenna and a little Emerson and some Buddhism, but that's about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | GF acting sketchy with her phoneInstructions unclear. Oh dear God what have I done. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 02:05 AM |
| 5 | GF acting sketchy with her phoneDamn. I have a history of worry and it turns out my gut is consistently wrong about almost everything. I'll trust the material. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?This is a good attitude. When I was inexperienced I'd take every chance I had to learn something, even if it was a 30 minute date. Nothing wrong with squeezing every last drop of wisdom out of those early experiences. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?Often-times women will camouflage their off-the-books unofficial alpha lovers as "gay" to guys they are thinking about beta-buxing. It is incredibly transparent, too. You're a dunce if you can't figure this out. Every single guy my gf has on instagram is 'gay'. I suspect many women will default to this kind of label and it's painfully obvious. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?No rational woman would try to save her virginity in today’s age You have to remember that not all women are in the US or even modern Western societies. Conservative women exist and don't ride the CC because they feel the implicit shaming. I've dated a was-virgin for the last 12 months in Thailand. I think anyone can tip after they've had a taste, so I've tried to hammer home the fact that if she does go slut it up she won't get close to that family she keeps talking about as guys will just use … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?No misogyny involved. Keep trying. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?How did you equate empathy to placing another’s existence as more important than your own??? That’s not empathy at all. Those are two completely different sentences in that quote. It was talking about imperative at that point, not equating empathy. Also from Rational Male: By now I’m sure that much of this comes off as some encouragement towards a retaliatory selfishness or narcissism, but putting oneself as his own point of origin doesn’t have to mean being anti-social or sociopathic. It requir… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to girlfriend who has a very high libido?Bitches love makeup sex! Frankly I'm getting tired of pretending we're finally breaking up. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to girlfriend who has a very high libido?To be fair, from moment to moment it could be for any reason. Agreed, though, coupled with other red flags is a bigger red flag. Still, 4 weeks doesn't seem like a long time and I don't see much mention of other red flags. Though I did date someone who played this shit for 5 months (she got off on making me jealous) before I realised she wouldn't change and I lost interest. That's too long to wise up. I also dated a BPD chick for 12 months and that was a nightmare. Best to stay away from women w… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?It's hard to unwrap that, but I'll try. Women spin plates. Not debating that. As I said, sloots in the West spin plates and actually fuck 'em, most decent women just spin orbiters for backup. Yes, those women do exist outside of hookup culture. You don't own her sexuality. Never said anyone did. I said those are my boundaries and anyone is free to fall in line of fuck off. Doesn't matter. She either willingly submits to that or doesn't. I'm not forcing anybody or assuming I own somebody's sexual… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?Nice deflection, but that's not at all what you're saying, and that's not anything like I'm disputing. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?It's a BP kinda thing. From the same article on Rational Male about polygamy: That’s exactly what the Blue Pill teaches guys; they should always defer to, empathize with and identify with the feminine. This is Blue Pill conditioning at its most basic. It is a boy/man’s imperative to place women’s existence as more important than his own – and with men’s innate protection instincts for women this Blue Pill training is key to establishing a gynocratic social order. ... you say: If you genuinely th… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?All is fair in love and war. I don't give a shit if it's hypocritical if it leads to a better dynamic. Women spin orbiters. Sluts in the West spin plates. Yes, as mentioned, "women are natural plate spinners". This is not a system where only the man wins. Let's not forget the man is providing resources and protection for a lifetime. How the fuck is that losing? Women are getting a good deal out of men. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?Well, yeh, it is that different. Go read a few more posts on RP about why it's different. From Rational Male: The first sexual strategy, the one in which a higher SMV (sexual market value) male can enjoy the sexual experience of many women is a strategy predicated on what our most basic, evolved, biological instinct directs us to. It served ancestral men better to ‘hit it and quit it’ and move on to the next girl as expediently as possible for a variety of reasons. This is also a reason why wome… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:26 AM |
| 7 | How to respond to girlfriend who has a very high libido?I'm not in the US where every princess is raised to be a huge sloot. And I'm in a place where almost all of the women are gorgeous and where hookup culture hasn't fully taken form and destroyed the family dynamic. It's happening though. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?What do you expect after a month? If it became a theme for a couple months then I'd simply relegate her to FWB maximum. But a month is nothing. You're still strangers. You don't honestly expect somebody to drop everything after 4 weeks of knowing you? As someone else said.. withdraw attention. That really is the best advice. Better yet, get over your divorce. When you are ready to get serious with someone else, do the legwork to find someone who doesn't have an ex. It's worth it. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend texting the ex... hard next or chill?Yup! It's called polygamy. Let's not start preaching equal rights when we already know male and female sexual strategies are not equivalent. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 11:07 AM |
| 9 | How to respond to girlfriend who has a very high libido?I'm in a similar situation, but not quite as dire. She likes messages her guy “friends” and comments on how hot they look in their IG’s That's nothing but a shit test. Ignore or agree and amplify, or get some hot chicks up on your phone. Excuse yourself to the toilet. Believe me, you can fuck up her head more than she can yours -- women are incredibly insecure. If these guy friends are local.. next that bitch. Not worth hanging around with a sloot who's tempting herself. The chick I'm with is 24… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 10:50 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?I'd take a look at the most popular languages going around: Java, C# (if you like Windows), Python, JavaScript. Depends on what you want to do. For web development, JavaScript would be the one. For games programming it might be C++. Don't worry too much about planning a perfect path. Get your hands dirty and try to build something that would help you. You'll inevitably have to research how to do it and will find more specific suggestions to your use-case. If you're talking about solely job secur… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?Yeh I toiled away on freelance marketplaces at the beginning of my career (for around 5 years), then got a full-time job, then quit that after 3 years and returned to freelancing a year ago and moved to Thailand. I have a couple of clients I work for @ $40/hr for around 10-15 hrs/wk which is more than enough to sustain me in Asia. When I go back to the UK I'll likely find some short-term on-premise contract work as a lot of positions are paying $500+/day. I also have a SaaS (software as a servic… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?I dropped out of school and skipped college and uni and started looking into how to make money online while I did part-time data entry. I spent a good couple of years getting nowhere with internet marketing (due to not taking enough action or not having a passion for it). I then stumbled on freelance programming and have enjoyed a good 8-10 years career. I'm now building a software business on the side while I freelance part-time. You don't need anything but your two hands, a laptop and an inter… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.Man that really sucks. Just don't make the same mistake again! I'm very sceptical of any commitment passed the 1 year mark. Cheers for an overview on the methodology. I'll look into some of those methods. Stay strong! It'll pass eventually. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I like my wife less the more I eliminate codependencyWhat I mean, and mind you this is a theory I am working on - is that any self-improvement a woman attains under your leadership and by virtue of your frame, creates a bond to you. Should she consider a branch swing - her subconscious hypergamy has to be willing to sacrifice some measure of that self-improvement in order to do so. Even if she truly loses nothing, if you are the foundation of that trait in her there is subliminal fear that she will lose it. Yeh, I can see that. With my last GF I s… | /r/askMRP | 17/11/18 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.Good God you know how to pick 'em! haha Great to hear you've started some therapy. Even a couple of years can help greatly for many years after once you've learned the tools (CBT, etc). In fact, CBT didn't do too well for me and so my therapist moved me onto ACT (acceptance commitment therapy): Accept your reactions and be present Choose a valued direction Take action. This was what finally had me unstick -- moving past the reactions and emotions and whatever turmoil was going on and instead foc… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/18 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.Hey, was just running through past discussions and noticed this. How are things going now? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I like my wife less the more I eliminate codependencyJust wanted to come back and say this is on point! Thanks. Could you expand on this: "Also, a personal theory of mine: that her changes tied to you are mentally linked to you. Hypergamy won't be able to optimize as easily due to it damaging the "improved her" in the process. Hypergamy will literally be in conflict with itself. Which is what you want. Divide and conquer" What do you mean by "her changes tied to you are mentally linked to you"? | /r/askMRP | 16/11/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How many times did you get oneitis before you had a breakthrough?I always consider my "oneitis" in context of the abundance of women out there. That usually takes the edge off. Sure, I can fall in love with this girl and maybe she outshines the last 30 women, but there are always others around the corner. That coupled with having a mission which genuinely fulfils you makes it pretty hard for some random bitch to knock you off your horse. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:29 AM |
| 3 | How many times did you get oneitis before you had a breakthrough?No. That is already too much investment in her. Who cares. Fall in love, fall out of love. Keep moving. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?So keep doing it until you learn how to be happy alone. Then it will become productive solitude. Considering you are the only person you can rely to be there 100% of the time, it is crucial you are able to spend large degrees of time (talking years) alone and at peace. One way you might accelerate your development is by seeing a therapist at the same time. I spent a good 5 years in my bedroom alone and I suffered horribly with depression and social anxiety. However, I handled it much better afte… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:13 AM |
| 8 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?You stop by relying on yourself for a while. I've spent the last 12 months in Thailand and barely left my condo. I've experienced some extreme highs and extreme lows, and, after the first 6/7 months the novelty wore off and the real challenge began. Lean on yourself and don't stop leaning until you're strong enough to weather any storm. That is the only way to build internal strength. People don't think themselves into strong, defined bodies. They go to the gym. Solitude is an internal gym. Stic… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop relying on others to make me happy?Social proof is a thing women love to see, for career success it's a necessity. And? This is one source of the lack of authenticity in the sentence following.. for women. No. Who cares if social proof is a thing women love to see. They also love to see a guy who doesn't give a flying fuck what society thinks. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | LTR Deleted our pics together.Thanks. Best way to tell a girl's n count is by how comfortable she is being intimate in the beginning. This girl was a bad kisser, bad at giving head, bad in bed. If you ever find yourself teaching a girl something as basic as how to kiss then safe to say she's not been riding the CC. Another, more long-term, indication would be how she bonds with you. She will treat you as THE man in her life, not ANOTHER man she's leeching with her pussy. I think it takes a bit of experience with loose women … | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | LTR Deleted our pics together.It is, somehow, still going. I've been living in her country for 12 months (met her fairly quickly after arriving, though carried on seeing other girls), and have been upfront about going home in 6-8 months. She asked if she should wait for me to come back and I said no. I think they can only take that for so long. We both know there is an expiration date, and I don't know how she's still hitting me up. That's a good example of the staying power of a low n count girl. We know it's over, but she'… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | To plate or put on holdFocusing on handling my shit, STFU, reading and trying to instill some self discipline at the moment. That's the best thing you can do. Don't forget, that involves putting you first, not her. Forget her for a while and keep working on yourself. Ideally, you want to get to a point where you know you can walk out at any moment and have female company within the week. It's a huge problem if she is your only potential source of intimacy. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Marriage/Sex Counseling Basics?She has always been very resistant to any form of counseling or therapy when I've suggested it (which is why I think it now needs to be part of my ultimatum if things go that far) Ultimatums are weak. You can't coerce her into change and attraction. Stop trying to control her and focus on your own behaviour. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I like my wife less the more I eliminate codependencylead her to improvement. Isn't that + hypergamy another problem, though? Help her improve and watch her thank you by fucking one of her improved options? | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | To plate or put on holdI'm working on myself, physically (weak but naturally fit and attractive) and mentally/frame-wise (weak but improving). Question: Was just propositioned by ex-work acquaintance outright for sex. She knows somewhat of my situation though her ex who was an ex-good-friend of mine, but also a pathological liar it turns out and currently serving a long term prison sentence. I let her know I was potentially interested and tried to not stiff arm her or lead her on excessively. It is no surprise you hav… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | wife says, “I don’t know what game you’re playing “It is sad to say, but she is also clearly damaged in some way due to her upbringing. You said yourself she is avoiding therapy. If there is no time/energy for it, fair enough, but if she clearly could but won't then that's a grave sign -- she's not willing to help herself, and you can't help her. I don't know if that was a thread prior to giving birth, but if it is or becomes a habit (lazy), then you need to start thinking about damage control. You cannot change some people. Is she or do you thi… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 08:36 PM |
| 1 | wife says, “I don’t know what game you’re playing “Great point. We're all human, after all. Have some empathy and make sure it isn't you who is creating unnecessary pain. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR Deleted our pics together.All it takes is someone different, not necessarily better. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 09:55 PM |
| 4 | LTR Deleted our pics together.No worries man. You'll relax the older you get. You said 20 in another response. I'm only 31, but I've noticed I've calmed down big time over the last few years. Age and experience will take the pussy off the pedestal for good. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:42 PM |
| 1 | LTR Deleted our pics together.Im thinking about just cutting it off with her because I find that flat out disrespectful It could easily be a shit test. It's pretty weak to be spying on social media. Regardless, the answer is always the same: soft next. Those who give a shit will chase you without ANY effort on your part. I've just got done with a 12 month relationship where I barely texted her, didn't friend her on FB, and she just used messenger to arrange to come round to my place where we hung out and fucked. Not a booty … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | LTR Deleted our pics together.Just a note here - in the future, mentally prepare from the beginning. Get to a point where you can experience a year relationship and not miss a beat if she left.. because you've already been behaving as if she isn't in your life. In a time like this you would barely notice her leave -- you'd be busy focusing on far more important shit. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts actually a thing or is it all just excusesIt's a thing. There are genetics at play, but it can also be learned behaviour (nurtured). I do feel sapped when I'm around people for too long, whereas others just seem to be more engaged as time goes on. Maybe I'm just bored to tears of people's shit, who knows? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksI'm talking about now, not how it started. Without money it doesn't exist/sustain on this scale. Though given you have built this into a business I'm sure you're well aware of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 12:17 PM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksI can see what you mean but I wouldn't call America a free society considering it is run by corporations. Safety leads to longevity of life. If life is a right then surely the healthiness of that life (i.e. human rights) extend to safety? From the doc: the right to work in just and favourable conditions; the right to social protection, to an adequate standard of living and to the highest attainable standards of physical and mental well-being; the right to education and the enjoyment of benefits … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 05:56 PM |
| 0 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksIt's incredible that people actually think more guns is a good idea. Hilarious, really. Akin to arguing with Christians about the existence of God. I've lived in that one country. It's not the Wild West like America because a few criminals have guns. Just realised how US-centric TRP is. Talk about building power against a global force.. in your own country. The rest of the world is fairly sane when it comes to gun laws. US is the odd one out here, not us. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksI have zero political affiliation and couldn't give a shit about left/right. What other country can be punked by Sasha and have local representatives agree that they should arm children in classrooms to protect against school shootings? The shit is bat crazy and anyone who thinks more guns is a good idea is deluded. Maybe more nukes is a good idea too? Let's make it as easy as possible for the average moron on the street to slaughter groups of people? Having said that (from a debate).. This isn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 11:13 AM |
| 0 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksWhat do you think these average criminals are doing with guns? Robbing and raping. Guess what still happens despite every citizen being loaded with a weapon? Robbing and raping. Are you proposing the solution to that problem is to give guns to shop owners and women?.. or, as America has done, give guns to anyone of age? You're not going to be able to logically wind yourself out of a pro-gun debate because it is straight up retarded to think more guns on the streets is a good idea. You don't have… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksI'm just mentally preparing myself! haha you too! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 05:57 PM |
| -2 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksThe arms dealers aren't the problem. They shouldn't be able to sell guns to citizens. I know it's hard for Americans to grasp a life without guns, but, believe me, plenty of countries are doing well without arming their people. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 05:55 PM |
| 3 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksYou are going to grow old and unattractive. What will you do when that happens? In terms of pussy, money is the only thing which matters in the long-term. Why would I care about genuine desire? Sounds like validation-seeking to me. I'm happy in myself, I don't need someone to have genuine desire for me. I need to blow a load in their arse. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksIt's a waste of money, no doubt. I'm not contending that. But what else are they going to spend their money on? They're going to waste it anyway. Might as well go to a good cause. We need more RP-focused businesses because money == power. It's the only way we can maintain and build it, not by heated discussions on reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksIt's a business first, no denying that. How that business puts value into its customers/community is a different story. Just because they make money doesn't mean they aren't trying to be part of the solution. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | TRP gets nuked? I raise you one SOLD OUT Red Pill Summit - 200+ Men Attending in just 2 WeeksTrain them for what purpose? For "traditional features of beauty such as strong cheekbones"? To look good for women? That's the problem right there. Don't worry about your cheekbones man, worry about your bank balance. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Quarantine What Does It Mean?That makes sense if it's the case. Do they own that content, though? Wouldn't they have to seek permission from all of those authors? From the TOS: Your Content You retain the rights to your copyrighted content or information that you submit to reddit ("user content") except as described below. By submitting user content to reddit, you grant us a royalty-free, perpetual, irrevocable, non-exclusive, unrestricted, worldwide license to reproduce, prepare derivative works, distribute copies, perform… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 05:08 PM |
| 4 | I was living proof that all this about woman was bullshit-until I got dumpedI have to agree. It's no coincidence that most break-up posts are by weak men. I used to do the same thing. Now I understand a post on a forum isn't going to help because I have nobody to turn to for consolation but myself. Once you embrace that reality you really don't need a soul to depend on. ..and break-ups without marriage and children involved? Please. Grow up before you experience a real loss such as losing a cherished parent or child. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Quarantine What Does It Mean?Kudos. Didn't realise you put that kind of work into those lost souls. What I can't understand is why, even when facing the unfair whims of reddit censoring, that the above comment from redpillschool says the priority is to remain here? No doubt the space should be fought over.. but are we just going to continue to invest until they eventually shutdown the whole thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 3 | There's a Civil War coming.We can build whatever platform we want. For example, we could build a platform to connect the many different communities surrounding this cluster-fuck of a society and try to get them to engage in civilised discussion, while offering dedicated sections to the more hardcore. Quora bought out a huge platform that was wholly focused on bringing mature discussion to acerbic subjects. As for expositions to normies on reddit.. mirror the posts on the platform to post to this sub, when somebody comment… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Why You Need To Get HugeThe physical attraction comes from being physically imposing. There is no denying that height adds to your presence due to this. It's the whole point behind lifting - build muscle to be more physically imposing and increase the power of your presence. That shit is attractive no question. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | A Man's Dating Pool is GlobalThey just wanted to fuck me, bad. Mostly because I was American, I'm not a male model by any means. Are they like towards other foreigners, or is it just an American thing? I'm British and have been living in Thailand for the last 10 months, but am considering cheapish places in Europe to enjoy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | A Man's Dating Pool is GlobalIt is unavoidable. You are being used one way or another. It can be quite subtle, too. I'm dating someone who likely sees me as BB simply because of my apartment. It isn't anything special, but it is above what most foreigners have in this country (Thailand). I didn't spend any money on her for 6 months - she actually paid to get taxis to my place and we barely went out. Now she is trying to get me to pay her phone bills and buy her a laptop for studying. Her friends have foreign BFs who buy the… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 04:41 PM |
| 3 | A Man's Dating Pool is GlobalI've been dating a really down-to-earth Myanmar girl. I've met savage Asian chicks while living there for the last year, and I agree - they are sharks. Just don't give them anything and see if they stick around. That's the only way to tell. Most will leave, some will stay. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | “It’s like everything is always on your terms”That is an incredible turnaround, well fucking done! Don't suppress the weakness! My parents were struggling heroin and crack addicts and repeatably relapsed due to never dealing with the reasons they fell into those addictions in the first place. My mum overdosed 2 years ago and she'd been struggling with it for 30+ years. I cannot imagine. Kudos to getting clean. Can't even imagine what that kind of addiction must be like. Big win for vivtrol, too! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The Stratospherebut instead a challenging mystery to perhaps never solve but use as a tool grow as a man beyond one's ability to grow alone. They can certainly test a man's ability to grow in the face of chaos. But I don't think women are a mystery any more. We know why women behave the way they do and we know how to read ambiguous messages. The idea of feminine mystique is yet another BP construct. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | FR--Woman's Post on DeadBedrooms Confirms EVERYTHING We're Working Towards Here in MRPYou need to be more than comfortable with being the bad guy at ALL points. She wants alpha male bad boy right? He isn't just comfortable with being an arsehole, he relishes it. Disregard her feelings -- are they going to kill her? Are you emotionally abusing her? No? Then who gives a fuck if she's balling her eyes out like a child. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 3 | FR--Woman's Post on DeadBedrooms Confirms EVERYTHING We're Working Towards Here in MRPOr do get to that point and disregard whether she stays or not. Attitude is far more important as it will influence your general behaviour. I honestly couldn't care less whether my GF leaves or not because I'm 100% focused on myself and my mission, and I have all this cool shit (incl. other women) I'd get involved with if she left. I value that she's not a complete whore, but I'm sure I could find someone else. I'd say just never get to the point where her leaving has a drastic effect on your li… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticI'm a programmer. Thailand is the Holy Grail in terms of Asian countries. Philippines is a bit too rough for my liking. There is also Indonesia (Bali is apparently gorgeous), Cambodia, Laos, and, of course, Vietnam. If you're looking for somewhere to work, then I'd recommend Vietnam. I see loads of teaching jobs come through on expat forums and they pay $20/hr standard. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.grinding down the former hardcase blue-pill me takes a lot of hard work over time That is a good point. I took a 6 month hiatus from this place and needed a "re-education" when I got back just to keep that BP at bay. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.Sure. That's why I say the only reason to continue pontificating is due to how the world is constantly changing, as are men and women and society, and, consequently, so is the game. But, on a primal level, in terms of the feminine imperative, in terms of long-standing behaviour of women, we know why they behave the way they do. Therefore, we have solved this BS feminine mystique. They are no mystery. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.Fully agree. From my perspective women are a solved problem. This place has illuminated the reality and anyone who has digested the material is 10 steps ahead of them. There is no real reason to say anything else other than to stay wise to the ever-changing landscape. But we keep regurgitating the same stuff, and, in doing so, over-complicate things. This forum could be just as useful if it were locked down and all we had was the sidebar and a few top posts. Non-neediness, outcome independence, … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticAlthough I don't necessarily agree on your cross continental move motivation being a higher SMV female(s) To clarify, that was one of the minor motivations. The core motivations was for the second point: personal freedom. By reducing my living expenses by 80% I've been able to take on part-time work and now have full-time to focus on my own projects. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticYou really think oral and toys will keep above average woman in her 20s? Because thats what i want, ltr and family in future. Look at it this way. If you're looking for a family, then you're looking for a low N count chick who hasn't been alpha-widowed, which means that yes, she probably would be satisfied with oral, toys and a below average penis. If she is a candidate for a family, then she's not whoring herself for alphas. She will be easier to please. However, as you touched on, life is no f… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticYep. I'm no model -- 5'8, bald/shaved, nothing swinging between my legs. When I broke up with my first girlfriend I started hitting the gym. Had a great summer, took risks, confidently persisted with some chick at Salsa and ended up getting her in bed and had her coming back for more over a few months before I left the country. The hottest chick I'd fucked since I started a few years back. Now I've become comfortable with someone and held off on gym. The dilemma is - I cannot motivate myself wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticEven I've experienced this and I have a pretty poor profile with one good pic. One of the reasons I don't care any more is because I know those platforms are ready and waiting when I'm ready to put effort into chicks again. Great for abundance. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticI taught myself programming 8 years back and have been in full-stack web development for almost a decade (mostly contracting, but also full-time for 3 years). The answer entirely depends on your preferences. Web development: JavaScript. Game development: C++. Enterprise: Java or C#. Mobile apps: Swift. It is a vast industry and every single thread leads onto another thread which turns into a 2-year rabbit-hole of technology. Labyrinthine is a good word for it. Try Python "Learn Programming with … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticThis is why many low/mid-tier guys move to other countries to level the playing field. I did it by moving to Thailand. Even though there are plenty of young, successful, fit, driven men here, most of the women are 10x more attractive than the average chick where I'm from (UK). Therefore.. abundance. Couldn't care less whether one of them disappeared, no matter how hot she is. Some other sexy bitch will come along. high SMV females This is another important aspect. What is a high SMV female in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticask her dietary restrictions first I'm sure she'll be soaking wet. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesI suppose because you have experienced some kind of abundance any time. Yep, you're absolutely right and I did mean to clarify that point. I remember when I was in my early twenties and was in a very similar situation. I was alone in my bedroom pretty much all the time. The difference is I hadn't experienced any kind of abundance and my negative self-beliefs and self-image destroyed me and it led to crippling social anxiety and depression. With how many women have you been during your life? How … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Yes, absolutely. Location is a huge factor that determines many aspects of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesand I can see the difference of how they treat me and even look at me when wearing a cap Wearing a cap? One of my bald friends does that, too. It's obvious he's insecure about it enough to cover it up. Don't wear a cap, especially if you're doing so to hide your baldness. This is one of the things I do not agree with TRP and I have seen various EC/Vanguards contradict it as well, compare intimacy to money/water... Have a constant flux and everything is OK, have none and you are fucked. I wouldn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/18 04:22 PM |
| 4 | The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisisWell, yeh, we wouldn't be here without procreation. But we don't all have to procreate; plenty of human to go around. What I have found difficult to reconcile is that if we (RP men) don't procreate, then we leave it to the weak to raise weak children to perpetuate the dreadful societies we've created. It's a tough one. Either way, I'm not invested in the past or the future. Live forever or fall into extinction, it makes no difference in the grand scheme. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 06:07 AM |
| 7 | The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisisYup. Many people parent, ironically, due to the existential crises we're discussing on this page. They lack true meaning or purpose in their lives and need to pass on their legacy, have someone to look after, someone who needs them. Look what happens to those parents when their children grow up and leave. I'd rather learn how to happy with nothing but the clothes on my back. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesI'm bald, rarely work out, sometimes shave my head, sometimes look like a twat. Plenty of pussy to keep me busy. Honestly, why does it matter? For attractiveness.. for women.. but who gives a shit what women want? Focus on building a great fucking life for yourself and pussy will surround you regardless of how many strands of hair you have on your head. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 03:12 AM |
| 26 | Bouncer talesFully agree.. and ya know, once you do have access to women and have your own life you enjoy, you are no longer desperate for the loyalty of anyone. Let them ruin their lives. Who cares. I'll have a long, fulfilling life regardless. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesGuys are just as promiscuous. Worse, in fact, because there is no social stigma around being a stud. Being gay wouldn't help. The issue is relying on another person for loyalty to your cause. You're on your own. Gotta deal with that shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 03:05 AM |
| 14 | Bouncer talesThe only red flag which matters is presence of a pussy. Never trust 'em. The end. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | She's Bored, Evoking Emotion in HerSadly from what I've observed this is the state of most relationships I see. Cue Chad's arrival, who suddenly sparks excitement again, suddenly makes her feel alive again We should be careful to not assume responsibility for her "feeling alive again". In the face of this anxiety about her excitedly jumping on another dick, we choose to what? Manipulate her emotionally to keep her excited? It's effort. And it's completely unnecessary because regardless it is just your turn. Why does it matter how… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | All you have to be is different for her to cheatOver the years it has been tried a few times but ended up fizzling out. There is also a scepticism because of doxxing.. prats on the internet have tried to uncover people's identities and proceed to ruin their lives as best they can. It rarely happens, but enough to be a fearful undercurrent around here. I would like to develop something to allow people to meet AND protect them from that kind of threat, but it's difficult to come up with any solutions. There is always the chance you would arrang… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | From the 1970's the signs were thereTrue. I went through a string of 2 dozen skanks when I started applying what I read here, and then met a virgin. I'm thankful I've been able to experience a woman in her true feminine form. But the internet has allowed ideas to spread extremely fast. Internet dating and hook-up apps are available anywhere there is an internet connection. It is tragic to watch a traditionally oriented society head for destruction. I'm in Thailand at the moment, and though there are plenty of low n-count, family-o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Men in today’s society: an explanation. Understand what’s going on, or give up.Nah, they can't see past criticising the generation(s) before them. No surprise Enjoy The Decline grew legs, considering it absolves us of responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 04:10 PM |
| 3 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillFully agree. Let's not forget our self-appointed elders are just people, not Gods. Though some may be well-read and have a firm grasp of their domain, they still have personal bias, they still have faulty arguments, they still go off the deep end.. and they still don't know how to lead the 250 thousand subscribers of this sub (nor do I, managing communities is difficult). Isn't redpill just a set of anecdotal/empirical observations With that being the simple case, and with mods having dev skills… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillSpeaking of Jordan Cuckerson, have you spoke of Jordan Cuckerson? Any posts which go in-depth into your particular beefs? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Used drugs to escape the betaboy depressed mentality.It's good to hear you're on a better track now. I do agree - sometimes you have to do something drastic to shake up your foundations. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Used drugs to escape the betaboy depressed mentality.So read. That's your problem. Where is your curiosity? You have an opinion and you're right and you don't care if you're spreading misinformation. TRP is about conviction to truth. No chance am I standing by while you starting spouting bullshit about something you clearly have no idea about. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Used drugs to escape the betaboy depressed mentality.That is but one person I mentioned.. go on.. move onto the next. We'll step through this together like children. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Used drugs to escape the betaboy depressed mentality.wanting to do drugs other than weed is a trigger that you are dopamine deficiency Stop. That's utter bullshit. Do some research. "Taking LSD was a profound experience, one of the most important things in my life. LSD shows you that there’s another side to the coin, and you can’t remember it when it wears off, but you know it. It reinforced my sense of what was important—creating great things instead of making money, putting things back into the stream of history and of human consciousness as mu… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Used drugs to escape the betaboy depressed mentality.I don't give a shit about your propoganda on psychedelics Already off to a bad start with this kind of defensiveness. I can't have a real conversation with the beta ass fucks around me because oh those drugs can ruin your life. That's not us. Psychedelics have been brought up a few times around here and the conversation is usually quite grounded and mature. Primarily because there are many other visitors who have a lot of experience with them and soon shutdown the morons who start speaking from … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 12:43 AM |
| 7 | Can someone create a downloadable PDF of the TRP sidebar?I have a feeling you want me to ask about your programming. How are you finding it? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Don't do easy dopaminesFrom Meditations: At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself: 'I have to go to work — as a human being. What do I have to complain of, if I'm going to do what I was born for — the things I was brought into the world to do? Or is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and stay warm?' But I'm still reconciling this urge to "progress", work, move, improve.. with an increasing sense of utter contentment as I grow older. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.I think this is the vid (no cheesy music): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhdj1Z5TUG8 Be well brother. You too, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.That's rough. It was up to me every single day to pick her up, give her what she needed/wanted, and try to enjoy our time together. It was beyond exhausting and I’m sure I lost touch with myself more than once trying to keep up with her emotional needs. Seems like that was your mistake. I refuse to take responsibility for someone else's feelings. If she's down all the time, crazy, lost in her tornado.. I respond with nothing but disregard for her turmoil and yet remain present to it, which acts … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.That sucks man. They're fucking idiots, no doubt. Find someone they can travel the world with.. still not good enough. I'm in a position probably just prior to your 3 year relationship. Met a 23 year old virgin in Asia, have the ability to travel the world (and work), she's fallen hard, haven't spoiled her with money or anything and she just keeps coming back for more, proper bonded.. and yet despite that, I know it is absolutely futile to attempt to build anything long-term with her. What is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 06:49 PM |
| 12 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.None of this stuff is compatible. It's philosophy. Krishnamurti (as mentioned above) is not compatible with Buddhism is not compatible with Watts own tune it's not compatible with Stoicism is not compatible with TRP. Learn from others but live by your own philosophy. You'd go mad trying to fit all of these philosophies together. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.Out of Your Mind series of Watts lectures are great! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 12:20 PM |
| 11 | Stoicism is an evolutionary defense mechanism in men. It is designed to protect us.Big fan of Krishnamurti. Another great book is Freedom From The Known.. possibly along very similar lines as the book you mention. Essentially, all knowledge is of the past, all projection based on it. Therefore, knowledge is already outdated by the time it's been thought. The only truth is the ever-changing reality in front of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | A Doxxionary Tale.> We agree that trp faces a dire challenge in its current incarnation. That's all I was making sure of. I do have the ability and time/resources. Only issue, as I say, is that without official endorsement, it wouldn't get very far. I'm also making the move out of software development and building a software business. I'll definitely be doing something to help, just not sure to what capacity yet. Greatness never waits for permission. I’m sure if you have the chops and ability to build the platfor… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | A Doxxionary Tale.I've been in discussions with some ECs over the last few months. I wouldn't even attempt to build something unless I got full endorsement from majority of ECs. There was a post made requesting feedback on exactly these things which never saw anything come of it: Building Power: The Brainstorm (search) But like you say.. ECs are software engineers right? Why don't they put their engineering where their mouth is? Or shall we build another blog and newsletter and write a few ebooks and sell it all … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 04:28 AM |
| 2 | A Doxxionary Tale.software engineers That's a bit of a stretch. I know one of the main ECs is a php developer, not a software engineer... and if forums.red is anything to go on, they are missing the mark big time. Time is our most valuable resource.. and how much time do we have if we pool our time together? Plenty. I escaped the rat race and have 30+ hrs/wk while I am part-time contracting and travelling around Asia. I've met RP people around here who are in a much better position than that. We could build a far… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 03:43 AM |
| 2 | A Doxxionary Tale.Also reddit has the anonymous feature which is better than just about any platform out there. Yep, which could be improved - no need to even create an anonymous account. We can allow anonymous content without accounts. I think with GDPR Reddit probably have the function now, but it is important you can also instantly delete all of your data. Previously we've had to use bots, and it's still not a complete scrub. I do agree on the exposure aspect, which is why once this superior platform is built … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | A Doxxionary Tale.You could pay for the usage of this sub for probably $50/m if that. It isn't expensive to fire up a server in almost any country which could serve the traffic coming through this sub. We certainly don't need unlimited resources. All of those things I mentioned have mostly a time-cost. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 04:39 PM |
| 8 | A Doxxionary Tale.Great comment. My question (as mentioned in my comment) is - can we not develop a better platform which has a lot of this built into it from the ground-up? For example, we can automatically strip meta data from images, we can purposely mangle user behaviour data (requests from their browser/device), we can store data in privacy-strong countries, we can use VPNs in those countries to contain as much of the traffic as possible to combat data leaks, we can selectively anonymise mod content while st… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 03:30 PM |
| 7 | A Doxxionary Tale.Ya know, I used to read about concern of doxxing here and yet never understood it until this post. I guess I've just been lucky and never had an online stalker psychopath try to ruin my life. What is even more disturbing is this: I contacted Reddit admin, showed them the links, and that he was circumventing bans by using alts. Their boilerplate response was... we've investigated and have taken action. Which means they suspended that particular alt. I inquired about IP banning twice, no response.… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking, there is such a thing as a middle groundI remember programming my first computer - the educ8 - with dip switches. No mouse or keyboard or even a monitor. Kudos! I thought I had it hard in the beginning. I wish I could have watched the industry unravel over the last 40 years. that was the beginning of a long journey....Vic 20, commodor 64, amiga, ti99, the beeb.. I can't actually remember them all. A journey is a great way to describe it. I always feel like programming hijacked my attention. Sometimes I wonder how I get paid to have so… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking, there is such a thing as a middle groundThe brain that derives an automatic repulsion whenever a category is linked via hashmap to a value pair is the one that has what it takes to drill down and be a programmer. Ironically, on the binary nature vs nurture assertion.. Programmers are not born. Any human brain with enough brain-cells has what it takes to drill down and be a programmer. Think of the incredible complexity involved in basic language and communication. We're built to think on these abstract levels. I've been a self-taught … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking, there is such a thing as a middle groundIt's strange. I'm used to dealing with complexity in a very conscious way (been programming for almost a decade) and yet I catch myself in binary thinking with regards to many things. I see it as different levels of distinction. If the only terms I know are nature vs nurture, I have no choice but to think in those terms (at least when communicating). Linguistic relativity I think it's called. Considering humans engage in great deals of complexity when translating images to sounds and deciphering… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Stop using Tinder.Slept with 3 dozen [attractive/semi-attractive] women on Tinder in the last couple of years and could have slept with more and I am not 8+, have 3 boring pictures (all of my mug). Bald, 5'8, lack of personality, barely lift. Facial aesthetics rule. Confidence will outweigh your weaknesses. Good sex keeps them around. Cannot imagine how easy it is for people with decent profiles. No chance am I throwing that away because I'm buffering myself against real-world approach anxiety.. and? I'm busy as … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadAlso i cannot imagine how to improve tinder while keeping the paid versions. Online dating is really about squeezing money out of betas or creating a pay-to-win scenario for men. I think Tinder pro features have done well at this (stars, boosts, hiding age, changing location, infinite likes, etc). But the problem is still the same - women are inundated with attention and are forced into snap-comparisons of guys and, inevitably, choose the much better option as displayed by their profile. How do … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/18 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadStory as in.. what? Pictures of yourself? Not into social media at all, but I do enjoy photography at times. Would it be worth building up a bit of a following if all I have to upload are landscapes and such? From what I understand, most people on social media are braindead monkeys constantly searching for their next dopamine hit? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 06:25 AM |
| 9 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadPlease do. We need more men on the frontline pushing back hard against the BS. I've never understood the attitude here of staying out of harm's way lest our reputations be destroyed. Look at the fear of doxxing here. We're scared of being outed and ostracised by a society that doesn't give a shit about us.. and the answer is to what? Curl up in the fetal position and pray you're not castrated? Fuck that. This is the way the world ends This is the way the world ends This is the way the world ends… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadAs discussed farther down the thread, I don't think we can actually pinpoint this on any one thing. Perhaps the counterculture of the 60s was core, but what caused that? War mongering, early American society, lack of civil rights? How did it possibly take hold and how did it spread? It's a failing of society. And perhaps the internet (and, more importantly, mass media at the time) simply helped provide a vehicle to spread the disease farther. Regardless, the internet/global media (I tend to bunc… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadJust to clarify - individual developers are also "us". I mean we can't point a finger at one entity for the blame but if you were to ask me; I'd blame Hollywood and the media. Then feminism. Exactly the problem in discussions like this. The reality is far too nuanced to be summarised in a couple of sentences on a random subreddit. Hell, we could spend years going into the nuanced reasons for how this came about. But blame isn't going to lead us anywhere. I have the urge to replace it with cause,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadIndeed. Even then, could be extended to the love of power. ..also a great example of the loss of clarity. How many people could have read that comment and walked off thinking it was (wrongly) "money is the root of all evil" and perpetuated it. How many other thoughts are running through our heads that miss the mark? Seems this mass of communication requires a great deal of diligence along with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 01:10 PM |
| 39 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadWe hoped that more promiscuous women would mean more pussy for all men Let's not pretend we had any real control over this chaos. Technology and the internet have created an unprecedented situation. Who is more responsible for hook up culture: us, or individual developers of hook up apps? The fact a single developer can build an application that can facilitate and grow such a culture is nothing short of miraculous. We've become very powerful as individuals. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever hadintentionally trying to degenerate society. Either that or they're just greedy for money and don't care about the consequences. That's exactly what it is - greed. Sex sells. Money is the root of all evil. It perverts and pervades all of our actions. Our value systems are completely out of whack. having said that, behind money is power, and perhaps it is the greed of power which is the real problem. We're in a frenzied grab for resources on an individual and collective level across every facet of… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Text game: Optimal response?If in doubt, shut ya mouth! | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Advice For Becoming An Alpha While Mentally IllAre there any services for this search? I noticed in sidebar there was a site, doesn't seem to be anything significant to help us find these redpilled therapists. My therapist was a woman, and I came out of that therapy (2 years) as a much stronger person. But I do think I missed that "been there, done that" insight that comes with being a man in the generation ahead. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Honest Feedback From a Girl Who Just Dumped MeThat is amazing to hear! Thanks for coming back to share it. I only made this shift about two years ago. If you've spent many years building momentum in the opposite direction it may not happen overnight. Be prepared to take a couple steps back. You will likely need to consciously cultivate it for a while. Of course, after 2/3/4 years of thinking like this it will just become more and more ingrained. Another important point to recognise is the shift from other-responsibility to complete self-res… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Lost and Depressing Rant..talk to me HELPIt was just an opportunity, though. It wasn't Your Big Shot, it was an opportunity. And you have many thousands of opportunities every day to make good decisions. Mulling over the past won't lead you anywhere. You know exactly what you have to do to change your life for the better but you're not doing it. I dodged a free invite to a conference many years back which could have opened up my network drastically. I would be in a much better position. In fact I lost many opportunities back then due t… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Lost and Depressing Rant..talk to me HELPForgive yourself by sharing.. what happened? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:21 PM |
| 10 | What are some of your favorite charming ways to ask a girl back to your place?Are you putting cocaine in that ice cream? Obsessed! haha | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 20 | What are some of your favorite charming ways to ask a girl back to your place?"Wanna come back to mine for a drink?".. as someone else said, anything. If she's attracted you could invite her back to your cold, damp basement and she'd probably ignore you and nod. Oh, and if she doesn't agree - shrug it off in the most blase way you can, and head home. I've had so many chicks flip at this point by using this care-free attitude and being willing to instantly drop them. Cuts out any push/pull BS, adds attraction (you appear well-laid/in abundance), and forces her to make a qu… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Lost and Depressing Rant..talk to me HELPhmm.. go find a copy of 48 Laws of Power and soak that shit in! I'm sure that'll help you leverage the opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Lost and Depressing Rant..talk to me HELPWhat are you starving on the plains of Africa? No you don't need it. 21.. you don't need pussy, you need a mission! Now is the time to knuckle down and start working on your empire, start building yourself and building something that will serve the kind of life you want to live by end of your 20s and into your 30s. Try to think a decade ahead. If you have your shit sorted, body, mind, wealth, and you're hitting late 20s.. you will have more pussy than you can handle. I'm glad I spent my 20s as a… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Honest Feedback From a Girl Who Just Dumped MeWell I hope will rouse you to make some meaningful changes! I wasted majority of my 20s in a pit of despair and insecurity for no reason. I think in those moments of low-empowerment we forget just how in control we are. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 05:25 PM |
| 10 | RP reading: The Memoirs of Giacomo CasanovaIf you're talking about one-on-one lifetime monogamous relationships - they are an invention. Who says they are even capable of being healthy over ever-extending lifespans? It's just an ideal, and it's based on our desperate need for security and pathetic urge to possess others. She is yours, it's always your turn. How comforting. Even the captain/mate dynamic is a romanticising of this same exclusive relationship. Stop looking for "healthy" relationships until you have a genuine healthy relatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.This. I've been in Thailand for 7 months and have seen countless hotties with the most effeminate men I've seen in my life. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 02:51 PM |
| 8 | Honest Feedback From a Girl Who Just Dumped MeThat's what I'm faking - being the prize. Gotta work on this self-esteem of mine. Read up on mental point of origin, locus of control, frame, etc, If you keep working on it you will reach a stage where your self worth and value are ONLY determined by you. As in you are the only person who is permitted to pass opinion on that and all other opinions are disregarded. It's all about what you allow into your internal world. Don't forget that you are the gatekeeper to your own happiness. It's all on y… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Lost and Depressing Rant..talk to me HELPYou don't need to start your life over.. just stop putting so much importance on pussy. Improve yourself and your life and pussy will become a side-effect, not an end-goal. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I address this issue?Should you put milk in your tea first? It doesn't matter, like I said. Don't make any kind of issue out of it. You're overthinking. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Should I address this issue?Sounds like a shit test. Never once not had sex in that situation. Women know some guys cave in and some guys don't flinch. To me a little (or lot) of blood is a non-issue. Make her comfortable and it'll be a non-issue for her, too. If she thinks the magic words to control you sexually are "I'm on my period".. you are a laughable excuse of a man. But it sounds like you approached it with the kind of disregard it deserves ("Doesn't matter"). Don't mention her period AT ALL. Just keep treating it … | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Lost and Depressing Rant..talk to me HELPAll this while my ex is having a blast. I will never forgive myself. You really have to date other women and move on from your ex. You clearly haven't. You know way too much about her life and care way too much about what she's doing. Is she writing posts on askwomen about where you are? No. She's moved on. You're still dancing around the remains of the relationship because you can't let go of it.. well.. there is no other way. You HAVE to move on or it will slowly destroy you. My advice here wo… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Might be my first time nexting a plate... need guidance.On Wednesday, I texted her about making plans for next weekend, and she said she would get her work schedule Friday and let me know, to which i replied no problem. The conversation was brief and lasted 6 texts. Fast forward to today (Friday), and no text about her work schedule. I also viewed her Snapchat story and saw that she had gone out to a different city, though I don’t know with who, and not really concerned about with who. I believe I may have to soft next this girl, but I’ve never had t… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 11:11 AM |
| 11 | "You do all the work, i just wanna lay here I'm tired" How would you handle?> this bitch went through so much to finally get me she should be enthusiastic at all times to fuck. Enthusiastic at all times to fuck? You said you woke her up to eat her pussy, then started to fuck her.. she's not a machine. That sounds like a legitimate reason to shrug off your moves. If my GF woke me up licking my balls, I'd feel great, if she started riding me, I'd lie back and relax.. but if she woke me up and expected me to start throwing her around, plunging away like a mad man.. no. I'm… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | What are some red flags to look out for when surveying a potential LTR partner?What do you mean by this point? As in she's not interested if she is on her phone? Or that she's worth more than some chick who sits around on her phone? Looks like I'm dating basic bitches. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 05:12 PM |
| 2 | What are some red flags to look out for when surveying a potential LTR partner?I never really understood how people were doing this for a whole year. Surely a woman worth her salt doesn't have to wait around for a year for commitment? Bitches are pushing it after 3 months usually.. are good quality women really sticking around despite you turning them down? I'm not saying it doesn't happen - I've been plating a very low n-count chick for the last 7 months, but she's pretty much started calling herself my girlfriend because I wouldn't give her commitment. Also, if you are p… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:16 AM |
| 2 | What are some red flags to look out for when surveying a potential LTR partner?> I forgot what this means... will be too clingy with the guy as she didn't have a guy figure in her life? Nah, it runs much deeper than that. Her relationship with her father can heavily determine how she relates to other men, how she sees other men, how she treats them, etc, etc, As you touched on, if no father raised her, then she could become extremely clingy, but that would depend on her attachment style. Just too many variables from person to person. Just stay away from women who weren't r… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:11 AM |
| 0 | What are some red flags to look out for when surveying a potential LTR partner?-on phone a lot around me That's not realistic in this day and age. Every woman I know is glued to her phone... and if you're dating younger women, this is even more the case. To be honest, I'd prefer a woman to be occupied on her phone majority of the time. Where are these endlessly captivating conversationalists? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Broke up with a gf of 2 months because she went for a walk with another guy, whom she has known for 4-6 weeks only. Did I do the right thing?2 months and she's your GF? Stop it. As you say, it's unacceptable to you, but I'd say your expectations are way too high -- not just of her behaviour but of the nature of dating. 2 months is nothing. So what. Maybe should raise an eyebrow if she's pulling this shit after 6 months and you're considering an LTR. Stop committing to women so easily and you'll stop being so dumbfounded by this behaviour. You should assume at very least she is talking to other guys (orbiters at min), and very realist… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Im lostI hope you do! I just started doing it with no real intention and realised a few months down the line how it had affected my self-talk. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Set me straight with this woman> she'll bail soon when she realizes I won't bend Yep. Good riddance. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:42 AM |
| 7 | Having an existential crisis right now... Is true love real?> Once you become a man, your purpose and goals are more important than women, and you are no longer afraid to lose someone you love. True. I also experienced this loss of fear over losing someone after I lost a very close relative. It trivialised all other losses. Broke up with my 1-year GF at the time and barely felt anything. Now with other women I simply don't care because even if they do leave it will be a drop in the ocean. I could catch my best friend and my girlfriend and lose both at th… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Set me straight with this womanShe married a businessman, rode his earnings, earns double what you earn and demands you pay for her, gives you shit when you don't, and yet.. > Bottom line, I could have her if I want You are her plate. Make no mistake about that. Keep having fun and go date other women. This chick isn't worth a second thought about her place in your life. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | The only way to avoid being cheated on, her branch swinging is higher SMV than her?What you can do if you want a LTR is vet very well, check to see if she is willing to be submissive, good relationship with father, not feminist, low n-count (good luck with that) and other green/red flags. And even then theres no guarantee, even if your SMV is way higher than hers. Found a 23 year old virgin in Thailand who has a great relationship with her family, submissive, fallen hard, my SMV is much higher, etc, etc -- I don't trust any woman, but I'd trust her at the moment in terms of be… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Im lostYes, you are lost. We're all lost. Not a single person on this planet has their shit together 100%, I don't care what the exterior says. It sounds like you have a lot of work to do, though. I was maybe in your position 5 years ago, alone in my bedroom all the time, programming and playing games. I think programming is the only thing that's kept me on track. You need to find something that endlessly engages you. It allowed me to pay for therapy for a couple of years, kit my life out, etc, .. but … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Wait for her to text ?The way I see it.. if she isn't chasing me after I've laid her, then she's just not the girl for me. If she doesn't continue to chase me (always messaging me first, and usually every few days/week), then I'll just chase fresh women. Because women who chase you are the only women worth investing ANY of your time into. These are women who are genuinely interested in you (and your current lifestyle -- read: some chicks will be like this even when you're down and out, others not) , and will generall… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Plate broke, and I felt sad for the first time.It's just a possibility, but sounding more and more likely considering all other bases are covered. Of course, something personal could have happened and she decided to bail for another reason. It can be interesting to know why you were ghosted, but I think it is unwise to chase answers with the tacit intention to use that information to prevent the outcome in the future. That kind of strategy is much better applied to things that actually matter such as career, self-improvement or business. I w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Crash course in how to sellBecause a customer scorned is nothing like a woman scorned. Bitches be crazy. No point running around making enemies of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Plate broke, and I felt sad for the first time.Hypergamy? A bigger better deal came along and you were forgotten as if you never existed? It is well-documented, not sure how someone hasn't suggested it yet. I know you're not fixated on her (as someone suggsted) as much you are likely fixated on the outcome and reason for her behaviour; Keep doing what you're doing (it's working) and lay off studying women for a while. Who cares why she did what she did? You can't prevent her from being a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"How jacked are we talking? I'm only 5'8 so is easier to get bulky, but wondering when this starts happening? I keep getting this feeling most people who are seeing big success, especially with harems half their age, are not average looking dudes. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"> Apparently it isn't OK for a guy to flirt with a girl without having the full intention to bang her. Exactly. We should be predictable, obedient dogs. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.and I agree so long as the therapist isn't one of those brainwashed monkeys Yup! Finding a good therapist is probably hard work itself. I got lucky after a couple. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Focus on the missionKudos for the bravery of sticking that out. I like Canada. Probably one of the few countries I would fight for. However, I don't think it is wise to fight for any country. Was it really the fight for your country that kept you running through that gauntlet? Or did it give you a sense of identity or belonging or acceptance? This is a point that stood out (my emphasis): > It had been on my mind for a while, what exactly caused this dream. And in the end I realized - I stopped focusing on the missi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.Would you have improved on your own without the 2 years of therapy Hard to say. But, as I said, I was using psychedelics on a self-improvement level for 5 years. By that, I mean I went as deep as I could on solo trips, hardly ever took it to "have a good time". And yet I would say I matured on a different level due to therapy. One big difference is that during big psychedelic trips you don't have your ego along for the ride. So while you might experience many great insights, they aren't in conte… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.I mean.. for the 2 years I was in therapy, I probably had 8 or 10 big LSD trips, and, for the 5 years before that likely around 30 trips. That drug has without a doubt had a significantly healthy effect on my state of mind. But even 5 years of using that on a nearly pure self-improvement level, the 2 years of therapy that followed still had a powerfully beneficial effect. Some people take LSD and breakdown and end up in depression. It is silly to play with psychedelics without understanding them… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:11 AM |
| 4 | AWALT example: Bluepill Gymbro tries to white-knight a single mother> If you're relatively savvy on the other hand and understand the dynamics, they're on of the easiest groups to take advantage of. Exactly. Once you stop falling for every woman your penis enters you'll have no problem dating single mothers without getting attached | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.I think everyone should go through a period of therapy, even as a simple exploratory venture if nothing else, but definitely if they think they need help. I put it off for many years until I came dangerously close to a legitimate suicide attempt. I then lost one of my parents as I was coming out of that therapy.. and have since spent the last 6 months almost entirely alone while travelling and not gone mental. To say that it has strengthened my state of mind is an understatement. As someone else… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.My God. I hope I die on the honeymoon if I ever get married. Didn't even realise until reading some of these stories that countless men actually go through this every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Girls Enjoy Using Guys Even More If They Don't Like His Personality> I have a higher awareness of the world no one else has, as evident by my post Most certainly trolling, and yet.. From your post (your main point): Girls enjoy using guys even more if they don’t like his personality. It happens in fwb situations/flings too, not just relationships. I think most guys could relate, think back to their exes and see parallels. ..relies on anecdotal experience to back it up? That is not on point. I think there are likely some decent nuggets in there, but you could ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 10:10 AM |
| 8 | Girls Enjoy Using Guys Even More If They Don't Like His Personality> You're intimidated and jealous of my post. Anyone who goes on the offensive is. You don't know any of that. I'm relaxing with my feet up, coffee, laptop.. couldn't be happier, not on the offensive, don't really care about anything. Just trying to give some constructive feedback. You've dumped way too much in this post without revising it yourself point for point. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Girls Enjoy Using Guys Even More If They Don't Like His PersonalityIf guys were honest with themselves they’d realize they take sex way too seriously and need to focus that energy more productively ..followed by.. Some girls would rather be celibate than deal with guys sexually at all. I’m sure most of the times girls get out of relationships some part of them is glad they don’t have to fuck the guy anymore. Most of the sex people are having isn’t that great. It’s funny because sex is the only thing guys miss about girls. That’s probably why girls have an easie… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 09:43 AM |
| 1 | I find that texting girls more gives me better results...why?I do flirt sometimes, but I think recently I've just lost interest... and, yes, the flakiness of the women has increased. But after I've hooked someone the text game changes completely (for me). I just don't text, and it is like catnip to 'em. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Leg day ruined by just one female.I am demanding that the front desk guy be fired for punishing me without investigation and threatening to call the police on polite and calm me. I am demanding that she be kicked from the gym for lying and disturbing other gym members. Plus her vulgar and rude behaviour. Don't be a pussy. Who gives a shit about him or her. Sort out your gym membership and forget they exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | When a plate tries to go through your phone..Exactly this.. though there is also nothing wrong with being blase about the whole thing. Say what you want. Your words don't mean shit. A week of no-contact means something she can't ignore -- you're not hers. Is also worth shutting people down instantly. A girl recently said she might be pregnant and what would I do. I said I'd leave the country and let her raise the kid on her own, and that I'd find a way to ruin her life. Some things you can cool on, some things need to be expressed cuttingl… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Exactly.. one of those ideals. We want a wife who out-earns us, who is young and stays attractive into her older years, who is loyal and submissive and always wet. These women don't exist. Don't marry, sure.. but someone will have kids or the RP male will be wiped within a generation. So we have to decide which traits we're going to take on the chin. Gold digging is something I'd be happy to live with.. I know what I'm worth to her, and I happen to be chasing money anyway. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I find that texting girls more gives me better results...why?I flirt over text, completely ignoring the recommendations made here, to great success Have you tried both with and without this? That seems to be the only way to attribute the success. Could have nothing to do with your texting and everything to do with your presence when you meet. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | I find that texting girls more gives me better results...why?Yeh but the question is why would you text more when you don't have to? I literally do only text for logistics, sometimes to respond to their texts, but mostly one/two word replies. And I've had plenty of plates do all the chasing and maintenance for me. I just give em a good time when I see em. They take care of themselves. During initial interaction I've found you have to put more work in, no doubt. But after you've hooked someone there really is no need to chase/text them at all. Those girls … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Agreed. None of them are "wife worthy" under the ideals spewing forth below. So what if your wife is a gold digger -- what woman isn't? What is wife worthy? Someone who won't steal all your shit? How will you know unless you put them to the test over a 20 year period? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:22 PM |
| 11 | Traveling TRPers, which country in your experience has the most feminine women and the most wife worthy women if there is such a thing?Yup! They might be feminine, but they submit to anything resembling alpha with no resistance. They're not ashamed to have fun with their bodies. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Pedestalize Your MissionThailand.. been here 6 months. Visa is up at end of the year. Might go for another, or might hop to another country. Not sure yet. Didn't come here to travel or party, though, so happy to keep my head down and grind away. Thailand is [mostly] paradise! Highly recommend.. though I can feel South America calling. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Pedestalize Your MissionI think there is a missing piece of the puzzle here. Telling someone to follow a mission is like telling them to be confident. The how, the what, the details are the much more difficult aspect, and I think it would be worth expanding on how you arrive at a mission that grips you enough to sacrifice all the trivial shit in your life. You can be brought to this point almost forcefully; I only really started to forge a mission and make massive steps towards it when a close family member died. It co… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 10:00 PM |
| 29 | Pedestalize Your MissionFuck bitches, get money. They warned us. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 09:39 PM |
| 3 | LTR: Mistakes and adjustments I made to get her to chase againThe passive part of it is that it becomes non-effort on your part because it is either who you are or who you've developed yourself to be. Far too many contributing factors that would culminate in effective passive dread to list them all. A good place to start is being a few points higher in SMV. If you're easily replaced, there is no dread. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 12:11 PM |
| 14 | LTR: Mistakes and adjustments I made to get her to chase againThe single most effective way to keep her interested is with passive dread and having access to multiple girls. That's it. Fuck the attention games (pretend to be busy?), and balancing compliments and trying to keep her primed for sex. Way too much thought being put into what is essentially a parasite with a pussy. Your only thought should be "how can I get what I want with the minimal amount of effort". And I've experienced that by not texting, not chasing, not complimenting, not giving her tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 12:49 PM |
| 7 | Farewell BSA: The Death of a Great Male Spaceyes i think feminism is a cancer, but we men must also share much of the blame for the decline of our societies, Exactly. We constantly tout about responsibility, about how we're the ones who build civilisation, and yet it is suddenly not our fault when difficult issues arise and we should clean our hands of it and "enjoy the decline", abandon long-term commitment and child rearing (leave that to the betas) and.. what.. be flushed out within a generation? Pathetic, really. I honestly don't think… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 12:28 PM |
| 7 | Why I use Social Media and how you should too to show-off your SMV.It's called maturity. Would love to see the demographics of this sub. I doubt very much the majority are in their 30s or beyond. I found TRP at 27, had some fun and became completely jaded with women within a few short years. Now approaching 31 and couldn't care less about slaying a different girl every week, and don't even care about getting my fill every day. Priority list has now turned into: Me. My Health. My mission. My family and friends. My hobbies and interests. Women. In fact, there are… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Tinder and the Attention EconomyAlmost all of my lays since I found TRP have been from Tinder. Going on 30+ now, though slowed down a lot over the last 6 months because as someone else said here, they're "useless whores". But it is rarely a simple process. Some chicks are DTF and will literally bring themselves to my place. Others will attempt to string me along for as long as possible even though they have no intention of meeting. So I'd say 30+ lays from Tinder is "success".. but that doesn't for one second mean the same per… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Tinder and the Attention EconomyI could handle that if it weren't for the stringing along for attention. Infuriating to match with loads of chicks who have no intention of meeting. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Why you should ditch your Oneitis immediately: a reflection 15 years laterReally? I've said I love you to chicks in the past and it didn't go downhill. Maybe you've just dated slags or maybe you said it first or said it too much or it didn't adhere to the golden ratio or whatever other variable is involved that differs our experience? For example, what was your behaviour like outside of that? Was it also mushy? Did it also scream that same sentiment? Words don't mean shit. I've said I love you in the bedroom during/around sex, and then I've ignored her for 2 weeks and… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 02:00 PM |
| 20 | [FR] She'll Cheat if the Time is Right, and You're NotAbout two years ago I got accepted in an entrepreneurship program which lasted about one week No surprise the 'independent', high-achieving women you met there were primed to ride dick. Second lesson is don't expect a semblance of commitment out of such women. AWALT and none of them are yours, but you can give yourself a fighting chance. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 01:53 PM |
| 13 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchInspiring! Good shit. But marriage again? Why? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 07:44 AM |
| 85 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchPussy ain’t worth it Full stop. In our current climate pussy has zero value. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Redpill has destroyed meGood to hear! Keep reading and digesting all the good stuff. It will eventually have a fundamental effect on how you think, even if it takes a good few years. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Trying out a comical tinderI'm happy you found your mum dead, serves you right. Hopefully you will find your children dead in the future as well, I wish all the best luck for that. That's the dream! Thanks man :) | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I'm seeing alot of super hot middle eastern chicks on instagram married to fat, ugly, and/or balding men.Hey leave us balding men alone! | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Is the game different for virgins?Being in a situation that teases out your oneitis is a good thing, though -- it gives you something to work on while it is happening. It's much harder to overcome the effect of oneitis while you are completely absent of it. They want you to be exclusive but you don't have to agree and, if your SMV is high enough, they will agree to non-exclusivity. The true downside, as you have touched on, is that you will become the love of her life, and nobody wants to be in a position where some girl is fall… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Is the game different for virgins?I recently moved to Thailand and picked up a virgin for the first time in my life. Kept her around despite the difficulty in fucking her because I was a little jaded with casual sex. Took me a good 4 months to fuck her. She only wanted sex with someone who would commit, who might be the future father of her children, etc, etc We did everything else during the time I was seeing her (had her in bed within a month), but actual penetration was painful and weird. Wasn't at all worth it because she's … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:27 PM |
| 19 | Ex-girlfriend, now turned plate, refusing to have sex unless we have MFM threesomeDevelop enough self-respect to walk away from this woman and not turn back. You don't plate an ex (full stop) that you broke up with a month ago. You need to go no contact and get over the relationship and work on yourself and have fun with some other girls etc etc. What a mess. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Am I an idiot for preferring monogamy?Nothing wrong with monogamy, but humans are not naturally monogamous. You're both fighting against your deeper, sexual instincts year on year, and it only takes one moment of passion to breakdown the fantasy. Someone will cheat or leave; it's inevitable given enough time. I now don't even try to play the monogamy game. Any women I get serious with I say I will be talking to/fucking other women. Ideally, there will be one "special" woman I eventually have a family with, but I am under no illusion… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:17 PM |
| 13 | Am I an idiot for preferring monogamy?don't ever live your life for her I feel like that is the only requirement, and that the rest falls into place. If you're not living your life for her, then you don't even need to be at the top of your game because it doesn't matter whether she remains attracted or not. Her interest level will not even be on your radar if you're living for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Men from Asia, I know AWALT, but are the N-counts for girls here generally lower?Hmmmmmmm perhaps I'll swing by Malaysia :P Yeh, there are plenty of chicks on Tinder here. I have noticed I get vastly more matches here, though still tonnes of flakes. Most girls tend to lean on the side of relationships, but still lots just looking for fun. Lot of them use Tinder to meet guys just off the boat, so to speak. They'll match with guys who haven't arrived yet and try to get 'em fresh before other chicks sink their teeth in. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Men from Asia, I know AWALT, but are the N-counts for girls here generally lower?Yeh I'd say their N-counts are generally a lot lower. I'm in Thailand at the moment (been here 6 months). Met a 23 year old virgin pretty quickly (from Myanmar). Just not a common occurrence in UK... and happened within a few days of being here. Much fewer broken families so most have been raised to behave themselves. Having said that - they are all the same and Western culture along with hook-up culture will destroy this place. N-count obviously has a major impact on their ability to pair-bond,… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Trying out a comical tinderThat's a hell of a sweeping set of assumptions you have there. Does not compute. Spent 8 years teaching myself programming and carved myself a very lucrative career. Sold everything, left family, friends and everybody and everything I know to move 10,000 miles away where I have spent the vast majority of my time alone, working my soul to the bone building a software business, of which I intend to work on for at least the next decade. And that was only a year after I found my mum dead in her apar… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How to have abundance mentality during monk mode?So i am basically in monk mode and whenever i talk to a girl, i basically become attached to her as i don't talk to much women. So how do you maintain abundance mentality? That's good. You have to start seeing these negative behaviours as opportunities to develop deeper self-awareness. If you get attached to chicks because you're not talking to many of them, cool -- get attached, just don't do it blindly. While you are developing an attachment, read everything you can about how attachment works,… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How to have abundance mentality during monk mode?Great, sound advice. To add to this, I would say abundance, in terms of women, is more about belief. Once you believe there are an abundance of women and that, with the right amount of effort, you can fill your pipeline with enough women to last a lifetime, it is hard to not have abundance in or out of monk mode. Of course, this belief is much easier to have if you've experienced actual abundance, even for a short time. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Trying out a comical tinderI'm at a frustrating place on Tinder. I get enough attention but not completely satisfied with hoop-jumping and flakes and the rest from the hotter chicks, and yet I am satisfied just enough to not warrant hitting women in the wild. Seems at this point the only thing that will motivate me there is the fact that approaching is a great way to build confidence. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Unsure where my life is going in the context of TRP. In need of some manly advice.My dilemma is that TRP promotes not chasing women, I'm all for that, but it's the opposite of what I'm doing. I go out night gaming, approach a ton, and nothing comes out of it. Let's say I stop doing that and therefore stop chasing, I'm not going to get any more girls. WTF! Yes! Exactly! Learn to live your life without pussy for a while. Yes, your're thirsty, but you are also chasing validation. I did that with the first 30 women. I just wanted to have as much sex as possible because every time… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:36 AM |
| 4 | Redpill has destroyed meThe only difference now is that not only do I not get the results but I know why I'm not reaching them in the first place Well, at least be thankful you know why. That's progress. As Metalgear touched on, one of the reasons you now feel shit is because you know why, and you are not living up to your new standards. There is no way to avoid the work. Moral of the story: I cannot, no matter what I do, get rid of the notion of "love" that's been created in my head since birth. I continuously want to… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Redpill has destroyed meOr Asia. Within 2 days of being here I met a 23 year old virgin who took 5 months to bed, and who only wanted sex with someone she loved, who had a decent family, who had protective mum and a dad she respected. Of course, AWALT regardless of who they are now and hypergamy can strike at any moment. However, one of the biggest benefits of being with someone who isn't sexually spoiled is they still have the ability to pair-bond. But this works both ways. I've slept with a few dozen women over last … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 04:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you minimize general anxiety/depression.You mean keep yourself distracted from the reasons you are depressed instead of tackling the source? Sounds kind of repressive. As long as you're not covering up your problems by keeping yourself busy this is great advice. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 3 | How do you minimize general anxiety/depression.This guy smiles. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Always have a full pipeline.Been living in Thailand for the last 5 months and it is ridiculous. Strangely, after the first 10 bitches I became very jaded and have since pulled back heavily and started to focus on much more important stuff (building a business). This place is very distracting! Within two minutes of being outside I've seen 3 or 4 slim chicks in tight shorts. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Always have a full pipeline.When your 'pipeline' is full you inherently vibe as 'The real McCoy' and people chase. When you don't you vibe 'desperate' and people run. Well.. no, you don't vibe as desperate if you have your mindset in order. Mindset trumps reality. It doesn't matter how full your pipeline is, it matters how full you believe you can get it. I barely chase women any more because I have better shit to do - but, more important, because I've experienced a full pipeline before, I already know that if I put in the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Always have a full pipeline.You really don't need a full pipeline of women. You need a full pipeline of fulfilling things to do that don't involve pussy. I have 1 plate at the minute that I'm potentially opening up to something more serious if she keeps behaving and doesn't disappear. I barely talk to any other chicks.. .. because (1) I have an abundance mindset and know that women will be there waiting if I pull out my shotgun again and (2) I'm working towards building a business, I'm working on myself, my health, my sche… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Woman only care about one fundamental thing.My only gripe would be with this dependency on women for men to achieve more. If you don't pedastalise pussy then the promise of pussy, fresh or otherwise, doesn't drive you to succeed. It has lost it's lustre, you know it is an everyday part of life and more will come in time. Suddenly it doesn't motivate you nearly as much. Now you gotta find something else, and this time make it sustainable! My suggestion would be gaining and maintaining personal freedom. You need to motivated about escaping … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/18 12:58 PM |
| 2 | How to stop obsessing over trying to get a girlfriend?I spent 5 years isolated in my bedroom from about 20-25. Came out of that with severe depression and acute social anxiety that took me a few years of therapy and a full-time job to shake. The thought that fluttered through my mind through the majority of that? "I'll be alone forever", "I'm not attractive", "I am not worthy of women", etc, etc -- with nobody and no counter-experiences to contend with the onslaught. At the same time, my brother who is a 21 year old virgin who spent the last 10 yea… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 03:36 AM |
| 12 | If I trust, it hurts. If I don't trust, then I don't live. What to do!? This is very depressing.don't trust anyone I like something I read here a while back - "trust a woman to be a woman". There is a problem with trust because you are putting the pressure on someone else to behave to your ideal. Then we romanticise it as "poor me, I can't trust anyone because everyone's a cunt". Nah. They're just not what you thought they were, and they're certainly not what they say they are. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Celebrating International Women's DayShould also be noted that Western diseased culture is quickly spreading to every corner of the planet. I moved to Thailand to get the fuck out, and this place is going in exactly the same direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 12:08 PM |
| 4 | Make your phone greyscaleYep, that is very true! I guess this is a luxury only afforded to free men. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Make your phone greyscaleExactly why I stopped it. I think it actually just happened kinda naturally when I realised how much it was annoying me. But I have lived life without a phone before (30). I reckon it could be a different story for people who have been raised by constant messaging and notifications. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you bail the first time FWB rejects sex?I think you need to re-read then. This is a woman who invited me to her hotel room over Tinder. I'm most definitely not invested in her and have not in the slightest catalogued her as relationship material. Take your pop-psych elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Do you bail the first time FWB rejects sex?Sound, level-headed response. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you bail the first time FWB rejects sex?I spent a couple days with her and didn't want to kill her, so I suppose. But minus her vagina and I wouldn't even know her... and she goes backs to her own city with wet panties and no cock? Haha I'm sure I don't have to spell it out. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you bail the first time FWB rejects sex?No, not really a friend. I should clarify - when I say FWB, I don't mean a typical kind of friend you've known for many years who you happen to occasionally have sex with, I mean a plate (eek) who you don't just fuck. I'd edit the title if I could, but I can't. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 03:09 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill Blueprint: a brainboy's journey to PussylandHaving the abundance mentally is a key. Absolutely. You really do have to be in the frame that you can let this person go within an instant and you'll be ok -- in fact, you'll be better than you were, because you didn't need them and never will. If you are not in this place, your first priority should be to go deep enough into yourself to get there. In the end it comes down to the acceptance that we are fundamentally alone in a state of impermanence. Everything will end and there is nothing you … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 02:28 PM |
| 26 | Make your phone greyscaleAnother really important change - have it permanently on silent! Then only filter through calls from a few select people. Everything else can wait. I've had my phone on silent for the last 3 years and my life only gets better. You don't need it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 02:19 PM |
| 7 | How do women "love" men?Men love women, women love children, who cares what children love. It is argued that women love 'opportunistically', that is, so long as the conditions are favourable, 'love' will emerge, and so long as the conditions are unfavourable, 'love' will disappear. Men and women have completely different perceptions of love. Men generally, though we are biologically driven to spread our seed, have a kind of sniper mentality when it comes to romance. We zone in on a woman, we dote over her, we surrender… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | What do I do when I'm feeling stuck and depressed?Well what do you like to do? Start there. You like to get high and play video games.. turn it around and start producing value instead of consuming it.. grow weed and build video games haha On a serious note, though - maybe you would enjoy building games? Maybe that would be a great introduction into programming or some other useful skill. What about writing about games? Build a review website where you review the latest games, or a particular niche - survival games, for example. Start a gaming … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 09:54 AM |
| 3 | What do I do when I'm feeling stuck and depressed?I would highly advise you do a search for "Jordan Peterson - Advice For People With Depression". Though, in that short video, he mainly puts depression down to people not thinking they can cope with the complexity of life, and mostly because they over-complexify their life and don't have the tools or organisation to manage it. I'd rather get high and play video games all day I think a better video for you would be "Jordan Peterson - How To Stop Rotting Away At Home". I don't think you are feelin… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Guys I just break up with my gf of 2 years LTR and i feel like shit, i have a feeling in my stomach like butterflies, but my mind is good I just cant get rid of the fucking buterflies,gym,walking, running dies not work and if it does they came back after. What should i do ?be very careful! Not the greatest time to start drinking. You know yourself better than anyone. Are you at risk of developing a habit/addiction? Also.. what do you usually do when shit hits the fan in your life? What have you done in the past when something dreadful and prolonged has happened? How do you usually cope? When I broke up with my GF I started a 5x5 gym program. Started hitting it a few times a week, and started dating again. I won't lie, fucking other women helped. I think it also de… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 05:32 AM |
| 1 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.It's good that you're able to notice the problem. Focusing on yourself, your studies and your own progress will pay off a hundred fold compared to focusing attention on her. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How late in life can men responsibly have children?..a post made by a married man.. really? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:13 AM |
| 9 | How late in life can men responsibly have children?Slow down, nobody said marriage. What is the alternative? Let all the betas raise dickless beta children? Somebody has to raise good men. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:10 AM |
| 4 | "GF" may be cheating. Don't really care... frame/mindset check me.Well.. you could put your abundance mentality to the test and drop her outright. Plenty more girls round the corner, right? You've already rationalised in your post why you're keeping her around and your hamster is in overdrive. Don't really care ... give me the reason I need to blow off doing stuff with her I don't feel like doing, but do anyway just to keep her happy Says it all. Stop fooling yourself. Of course you care, you just came here and wrote 5 paragraphs about it. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Sabotage all my relationships because it's just my turn..Well, yeh, we are taught that the vase is already broken. I agree, it is an excessively negative viewpoint, and perhaps is used by most as a way to avoid pain (heartbreak). You should feel the opposite because knowledge is power. It’s a cheat code for life. True. I do feel much more in control knowing the underlying dynamics... but hypergamy doesn't care, so what does it matter? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder even worth it nowadays?I've slept with a good 30 women from Tinder over the last couple of years. Slept with 8 women in the first month and a half of being in Thailand from Tinder alone. And this is as a bald, 5'9 guy who has a SINGLE picture as my profile. It's a good mug shot, that's it. So yeh, it works, even if you're not in the top 10%, providing you have at least one great picture the majority of chicks would say is "cute" or "handsome" or "fit". If you put a load of crappy selfies on there, half naked with your… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureHey, good to hear! I started with static HTML and CSS.. then moved onto PHP and all of the server-side technology that came with it (databases, etc). Then hacked on JavaScript. I eventually hired a PHP developer from Indonesia to help with my freelance projects. He started learning Ruby.. and I've been riding that train for the last 5 years. I'm also interested in using Go, and may learn NodeJS or Python in the future, but mostly just so I can teach it. There is plenty of Ruby/Rails legacy stuff… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 04:20 AM |
| 9 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureThere isn't much to share at the moment. I taught myself programming 8 years ago, spent 5 years freelancing, got a job for 3 years, quit that a few months ago to go back to freelancing, sold all my shit and moved my ass to Thailand. Currently on an education visa which will keep me here for at least a year. I'm up north in Chiang Mai. I think there are plenty of options for retirement when you hit 50, but until then you're limited to business visas or marriage visas for long-term stay. There is … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureI live on a 1st world salary in a 3rd world country. Perhaps I am a high value player, relatively speaking? I can travel whenever I please and support myself (and someone else) while I travel. Yes, there are a lot of women who want to come along for that ride, and are willing to accept non-exclusivity for the privilege. ..and I'm not even on the ladder yet. I'm surrounded by high value players who would still be high value players in their home countries. But note I said "then my SMV isn't relat… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 01:58 PM |
| 6 | A slut getting faithful and clingy and thinks I am her oneitis. Advice?But your time is your most valuable asset, not money. 5 years is a long time to give someone without any aim of long-term commitment.. a vast waste of time. And I can't be seen hanging around an old aimless employee chick in public. Really destroys my image. Sounds like you've completely outgrown her. Don't try to drag her up your mountain. Go find someone else who is climbing their own mountain. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 06:23 AM |
| 2 | How to use TRP to grow “rich”?Be aware that this focus on building riches or success is another fantasy that has been sold to you. Try to think of it in terms of power, and see money simply as a means to power. Nothing more. Aspiring for riches aside, I think one of the most important goals anyone can aim for is to develop enough power to not have to throw your life into a job while you save for retirement/freedom. Being in that position will put a lot of crap into perspective, and you might realise you don't actually care a… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 06:05 AM |
| 5 | A slut getting faithful and clingy and thinks I am her oneitis. Advice?I've read up on dread games but at the moment, I'm really busy struggling to get my new business running so I can't be fooling around with chicks, either to make her jealous and stuff. Good stuff. Focus on that. Instead of just dumping the chick right away, I want to use this situation as an opportunity to learn more about game. Don't kid yourself... I will try one last time. If she fails to live up to my expectations this time, I'm going to dump her. You are not just using this situation as an … | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 05:49 AM |
| 8 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureInteresting. I might have to change my tactics. I've literally just started saying "one woman is not enough".. because, hey, one woman is not enough, and I couldn't give a fuck what she thinks. I'd only ever enter an LTR with someone who has wrapped their head around the fact I'll be sleeping with other women - that she will never be my sole source of intimacy. If she's not willing to share me with other chicks, then my SMV isn't relatively high enough for her, that's all. In the end, who really… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.Exactly. I go to the gym to strengthen my mind and body. I'm surprised, based on the facts, we waste any time with women, let alone in the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Branch swinging 101 on the confessions subreddit: "I'm in love with both my boyfriend and our best friend"Women are always looking to branch swing. How do you effectively prevent that? Be her absolute best option? -- because I might be her best option in terms of commitment, but she will assume any man who fucks her is willing to commit to her - and there will ALWAYS be plenty of men who are lightyears ahead who are willing to fuck her. Thankfully, I've largely dropped the bitterness.. but, unless we want to all die out within a generation, somebody is going to have to have kids.. and yet I'm comple… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | ManipulationRather than relight this discussion (I received another reply to my latest response), I just wanted to address, as clearly as possible, why I think sadomasochrist is completely off base with his responses. 99% of businesses you'll run as a self employed man. You work, all the time. You'll make, on an hourly rate, below what you'd make working for someone else. This is actually wrong. There are many self-employed people who do not run themselves into the ground for their business, and earn consid… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/18 09:06 PM |
| 0 | ManipulationDoesn't really matter how I'm coming off. Results matter. You can't just throw around these opinions as if they are fact. I clearly explained in that response the reasons why he was wrong on almost all counts. His experience is not at all similar to my own experience. I wouldn't be surprised if the business he ran was a brick-and-mortar ("for most of my adult life" - it definitely wasn't an internet business). He said himself he gave up after the first failed business. Great, he dropped out of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Manipulation..and I was still socialising, though mostly over the internet and with my closest family when I visited them every few weeks. So yes, I AM thankful I spent those years mostly out of reach of society for the reason I said - I was beta as fuck and I would have easily fallen under the spell of a woman. That isn't to say there weren't other alternatives I would also have been thankful for. I'm well acquainted with rationalisation. This isn't it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | So my grandma just diedI guess since my dad passed I've lost my motivation for life and the drive I used to have, I just feel like what's the point anyway with all this. This loss of meaning is exactly what happened to me when my mum passed. A lot of my motivation around improving was to impress her, make her proud, and to one day repay the favour, help reduce her suffering, buy her nice things, increase her comfort, etc - then when that motivator is suddenly taken away, you get that feeling - what's the point? Now I … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | I have just gone from being poor founder to 0.1% in terms of wealth for my age group (< 25). How do I not fuck this up?I need advice on how to not fuck this up. Do whatever you want, but don't accept monogamy, don't get married, don't have children with the wrong person, and, from the looks of the recent #metoo trend, record all consent so some stupid bitch doesn't come after your money the direct way. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | So my grandma just diedSounds like you're on your way. Perhaps less focus on decoration, and more on functionality.. Well, it doesn't matter you have a fancy job, doesn't matter you visited 15 new countries.. BUT it does matter that you have a valuable qualification, moved to the beautiful city Sydney, you have a well-paid job you can use to save/invest, you can live in privacy and comfort in your 1 bedder, and you have access to a beach. Sounds like you are in the process of building an awesome lifestyle. One place t… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Approached by girls after years of no contact and raising SMV: Go for it or move on?Enjoy yourself! Only you know if you are operating based on a scarcity mentality or whether you just want to experience the poetry of dominating an old playground. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 02:20 AM |
| 2 | So my grandma just diedAnd I think I'm not going to tell my friends.. At the end nobody honestly cares except your family Honestly, that's a pretty pessimistic attitude and not reality. One of my friend's skipped work to come to my mum's funeral. He wasn't obligated and he knew he wasn't. He did it out of respect for her (and me). On the flip side, there were family members who turned the situation into a drama -- it was all about them. Tell your friends and then, based on their behaviour, decide if you want them in y… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 02:11 AM |
| 1 | So my grandma just diedSorry to hear about that. I went through something similar when my mum passed when I was in a relationship. I wouldn't say she intentionally made things worse, she was just incapable of putting someone else's pain first. It's shit you've not been able to overcome that grief. I loved my mum dearly and I will never get over her death, but I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life, and it's not even been two years since her passing. Have you made any dramatic, positive changes in your life? My gri… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | One of my worst dating experience so farDude.. send it to asktrp. Not supposed to be any posts on the main forum about specific girls. This is not a great example of AWALT. You overly-invested in a random chick after one date and she toyed with you before getting bored. She was comfort testing you the whole time wondering if you would be an emotional tampon.. and she likely would have fucked you instead of her ex if you actually had the balls to seize the opportunity on the first date. Lesson isn't AWALT. Lesson is escalate. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | ManipulationGood point. And I think it's important to approach this from a playful perspective, not from a perspective of "I must provide this woman with all the elements of DEVI" otherwise she will get bored and.. what.. leave? Who cares. I think I would lose steam pretty quickly with that attitude. I'm not willing to put that amount of effort into entertaining someone. I guess my question here, and leading solution, is how do you sustain this passively, with little effort? I'm not going to keep a mental n… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | ManipulationEDIT: one of the biggest assumptions you're making in these replies is that I view my contracting gig as some kind of business. I don't, and I have no plans to expand it - it puts food on the table. That's it. My business will be developing products. trying to red pill you here, and you're "purple pilled." More assumptions - I know exactly what I am. I know the reality. I know the difficulty and uncertainty and risk involved in business - I know exactly how my own values, skills, experience, kno… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | ManipulationI respect your opinion, but I think your replies are based on many more assumptions than living in the states. For example, the assumption I will burn out. I have experience with burnout - it took me out of the game for a few months back when I spent 5 gruelling years teaching myself programming and freelancing for peanuts. I know exactly how to deal with it - don't work all the time, allow myself plenty of leisure time, have a healthy work/life balance, be aware of disengagement/withdrawal and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | ManipulationThis is naive. Here's the rub on 99% of businesses you'll run as a self employed man. You work, all the time. You'll make, on an hourly rate, below what you'd make working for someone else. Certainly not naive. I live in Thailand and work 10 hours a week as a contractor. I've not even nearly made it, and I'm already living 1000x better than when I had a high-paying job. So I've already won.. a sustainable lifestyle business is just the cherry on top, and I have many many years to get it right. D… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 08:52 PM |
| 3 | ManipulationThe wage slavery issue is a lack of widespread psychological development. You're in stage 2 of 4 when you plot your life. You imagine your goal path to sexual access and happiness is a good job and status. My aim with moving out of wage slavery is a matter of personal empowerment, radical responsibility, and creative freedom. By building my own livelihood through my own business, I am in control of the direction and responsibility of my success -- and I am not constrained by artificial corporate… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 08:42 PM |
| 4 | The Anna Karenina Principle and the Problem of Bad RelationshipsThis is primarily why having a mission/purpose is so crucial. I've successfully dated for the last couple of years since finding TRP. Been through a few dozen women, found a decent virgin in Thailand who worships me (for now), haven't really socialised much since I moved here two months ago, not many friends.. and yet if she walked out of my life tomorrow (she's shit tested me with this enough times), I would be absolutely fine. The ONLY reason for that is because I only look to myself for susta… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Is there no chance to be an alpha if you're not a huge muscular dude?Alpha is about power, status, attitude. Sure, physical appearance (height, muscle) can certainly add to the appearance of alpha, but it is no way a strong indicator. I know plenty of gym rats who are insecure chest-beating betas underneath the chiselled exterior, and I've met a few short, lean guys who couldn't care less about their appearance with long lists of achievements behind them, who live life on their own terms and DNGAF about these silly games. -- they have power. They don't question w… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | What Price Honor?Black Mirror Completely forgot about that series. Thanks! :P I only ever watched first ep. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 07:11 AM |
| 2 | What Price Honor?It's only a matter of time if they continue to exploit the system. Men/betas will wise up, record sexual consent in some way, and some lying bitch will get caught out and made an example of. Who knows, maybe we'll develop technology to do it? - iConsent? Terrifying thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/18 05:57 PM |
| 15 | ManipulationPast a certain point, women are child's play when it comes to manipulation. It's just a case of assuming everything they do is suspect and is an attempt to manipulate you. As you say, when you have bigger things going on in your life, you just don't have the energy, time or interest to play into BS. However, I've found the manipulations of men in higher positions of power to be a little more difficult to navigate, and much more dangerous. For example, I didn't really wake up to wage slavery unti… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/18 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Alpha Male Strategies 10 Dating CommandmentsWhat the hell are you talking about? Roissy did it earlier, better, and from a position of experience It's the truth. The forum was on lockdown for a few days because of the amount of shite coming through here, and within a day we're back up to speed! I'm not interested in points? My life is good enough without imaginary internet points. I'm just making the point.. where is this well-researched, valuable material? I get it, be the change you want to see.. but wow. That's the only response? BS ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/18 07:59 AM |
| 7 | Alpha Male Strategies 10 Dating CommandmentsTrue, but where is the evolution? We're just rehashing old stuff. A better idea would have been to go read 16 commandments of poon, do a search on the forum for every other conceivable idea/commandment we've had about this, go do a search in google, go read relevant blog posts.. THEN come back here and make THE ultimate post about it. Anything other than that and you're just masturbating yourself; you're not interested in providing value to others. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Building Power - The brainstormI understand what you're saying, but I would say an online tribe can be an extension of or a precursor to a meatspace tribe. It would be a shame to throw away the great connectivity potential of technologically enhanced tribes. I respect the end goal of your thinking, but I don't think we're going back to stone-age networking any time soon. Hyper connectivity is here to stay, and those who make use of it will prevail over those who don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Building Power - The brainstormMeh? We weren't talking about meatspaces, not sure why you diverted to that. Every system will get gamed quickly. Most of us are not stupid men. The next best solution then is to completely keep monetization out of it. Now your back to the motivation problem. We were talking about engagement, specifically user engagement in these systems (the motivation problem as you said). Plenty of people provide genuinely helpful contributions with secondary motives to build reputation and recognition. They … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Building Power - The brainstormTo me it is as alien as the idea that you would need to take a lion out and teach it to kill and eat prey. That's fine. It's impossible to satisfy everybody. What matters is we produce value to help those who seek help, instead of saying "be a lion" or "be yourself" to those people. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Building Power - The brainstormThere are plenty of non-monetisation strategies for maintaining engagement and contribution. One of the obvious ones is recognition and validation through a voting system. Many here contribute simply for votes. I've done it in the past -- and rep doesn't really have any effect on my life whatsoever. Knowing I'm on the right track does, and that is usually indicated by how well received my contributions are. Putting the greater contributions at the forefront is a good way to encourage users to pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Men and Suicide | 7 in 10 suicides are men (majority white) between the ages of 45 and 65. As expected from gynocentric media, the primary reason always cited is men’s so called stubbornness in seeking out psychiatric help...again absolving women’s influence of any complicityI don't know what is wrong with psychiatry in the US, but at least where I lived, they do not impulsively reach for medication the second you seek help. That's actually one of the last resorts -- I did 2 years of therapy, and she never once suggested I try medication. It was me who brought it up after losing my mum 1.5 years into it. I understand his point. You clearly have to be much more resilient depending which country you were born in. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Men and Suicide | 7 in 10 suicides are men (majority white) between the ages of 45 and 65. As expected from gynocentric media, the primary reason always cited is men’s so called stubbornness in seeking out psychiatric help...again absolving women’s influence of any complicityMake an argument or piss off. There is no need. There is nothing to argue; it's a pathetic statement. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | recently started dancing salsa but 99% of the girls are women (post wall) so is there any better social activity to meet girls around 18-22?It doesn't matter insofar as you can develop masculinity -- if you're not masculine, you can still dance, and it can still become a great way to develop some masculine abilities (leading, for one, as discussed). I had bigger fish to fry when I started dancing - that didn't stop me, and it didn't stop me from becoming a better man through dancing. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:47 AM |
| 5 | Look i need to fucken vent.There was a guy where I used to work who was 5'5. He was in his 40s, manager, highly intelligent, highly competent. Retired and went travelling the world in his camper van with his wife. He was a great speaker, great at hiring and cultivating people and was well respected. He was also trolled frequently by people taller than him. Did that turn him into a bitter old man with no confidence? Fuck no. He didn't give a shit. He was doing what he loved, and he was being rewarded highly for it. There w… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | recently started dancing salsa but 99% of the girls are women (post wall) so is there any better social activity to meet girls around 18-22?+1! I had social anxiety and insecurities when I started dancing. Dancing didn't fix that, but it did help greatly in getting me used to being intimate with beautiful women, and it did force me to take the lead. However.. If you have social anxiety or insecurities you will fail dancing big time. I'd hate to think less confident readers are put off because you have assured them they will fail if they start dancing. It should be said that it doesn't matter if you are masculine or not, or if you fa… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Men and Suicide | 7 in 10 suicides are men (majority white) between the ages of 45 and 65. As expected from gynocentric media, the primary reason always cited is men’s so called stubbornness in seeking out psychiatric help...again absolving women’s influence of any complicityThat isn't what I'm contending and you know it isn't. To say psychology is more likely to drive suicidal people to suicide than anything else is indefensible. Go do some research before you spout crap like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 11:15 AM |
| -1 | Men and Suicide | 7 in 10 suicides are men (majority white) between the ages of 45 and 65. As expected from gynocentric media, the primary reason always cited is men’s so called stubbornness in seeking out psychiatric help...again absolving women’s influence of any complicityAre you under the illusion you are not weak in some way? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 11:11 AM |
| 8 | Men and Suicide | 7 in 10 suicides are men (majority white) between the ages of 45 and 65. As expected from gynocentric media, the primary reason always cited is men’s so called stubbornness in seeking out psychiatric help...again absolving women’s influence of any complicityBecause psychology is more likely to drive them to suicide than anything else. That has to be one of the most uneducated and immature things I've ever read me in my life. Utter tripe. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 11:10 AM |
| 13 | Men and Suicide | 7 in 10 suicides are men (majority white) between the ages of 45 and 65. As expected from gynocentric media, the primary reason always cited is men’s so called stubbornness in seeking out psychiatric help...again absolving women’s influence of any complicityEy? I went through 2 years of therapy with a female therapist.. and she didn't once suggest I do anything of the sort. I also came out of that therapy having almost completely overcome years of depression, social anxiety, and suicidal ideation, and plenty of psychological tools (through CBT and ACT) that I use on a daily basis. And yes, perhaps I could have reached the same point through philosophy alone -- so what -- that doesn't negate the potential effectiveness of psychiatric help with the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | It's called a unicorn for a reasonAgreed, perhaps in terms of how society in general values that girl. However, her value to the guy is completely subjective. In that sense, it is me who decides what her pussy is worth, and it is worth nothing to me. And, my value, regardless of how society weighs it up, is worth astronomically more than her pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Sudden massive loss in confidenceGreat point! To give this some context: I've been dating successfully for a good couple of years now, just coming out of a frustration phase and picking up some plates. Met my first virgin about 6 weeks ago.. and tonight she disappeared (or at least I thought she did). Cue panic, sadness, loss, hit to confidence, self esteem, whatever.. the lot. Then, while this was happening, I returned back to some healthy attitudes I've picked up along the way: there is an abundance, I will find better, it is… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | recently started dancing salsa but 99% of the girls are women (post wall) so is there any better social activity to meet girls around 18-22?LOL I've hooked up with plenty of latin girls on Tinder, and one of the first things they say is "you salsa??".. in fact, plenty of women, in general, are intrigued. Doubt you would have lost any flings. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 03:32 PM |
| 2 | recently started dancing salsa but 99% of the girls are women (post wall) so is there any better social activity to meet girls around 18-22?Agreed. Whatever gets you trying new stuff. I originally got into Salsa for women, then realised that I enjoyed latin dancing for the love of it; women became a bonus. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 03:31 PM |
| 2 | recently started dancing salsa but 99% of the girls are women (post wall) so is there any better social activity to meet girls around 18-22?Try a different place..? I met a hot 24 year old Italian girl at Salsa and had a fucking fantastic time with her for a few months. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 03:29 PM |
| 3 | What the hell am I doing??? Worst case of oneitis ever.By the way, don't be so quick to define yourself as bipolar. I did that during a bad depression phase. I was up and down all the time. And yet now I'm almost always up -- therapy helped, leaving my girlfriend helped, as did moving out of the crappy country where I lived. Work on improving your lifestyle and see if that helps. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 01:36 PM |
| 2 | What the hell am I doing??? Worst case of oneitis ever.I say fuck it and tell my ex-wife I'm now ready to start working on us again and trying to repair things. Wow.. let her go.. It sounds like you were in the middle of break up and just refused to completely cut her off and move on. It's natural to not feel much for other women amid the emotional fallout of a break up. Ok, date a little, but, yes, focus on yourself for a while, look after yourself and develop enough self-respect to never contact your ex again (unless to see your kids). You don't k… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Attention is the only tool modern men have [theory]This is also why I think most men should not use most social media. It's a way of giving women attention and validation that is unlikely to lead to sex. Social media dissipates your attention on low-value activities. Fully agree. I straight refuse to get involved in that shit-show (unless for business purposes). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 08:01 AM |
| 6 | It's called a unicorn for a reasonYou underestimate what some people will do for pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/18 04:15 PM |
| 3 | It's called a unicorn for a reasonPlease tell me you're trolling. You're still in the teenager phase of the relationship. Evaluate who she actually is once you're 3/4 years deep. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/18 08:04 AM |
| 19 | It's called a unicorn for a reasonPoor return for what? Pussy? She shouldn't get anything for her pussy - we don't get anything for our commitment. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/18 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Always remain calm. Nothing is worth your anger. (Divorce story)It's horrific how selfish and remorseless someone can be. I know AWALT but I truly hope most don't do shit like this. Anyway, nice one! You managed this well. I think lesser men would have drove that car through a wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women: Not worth an investmentI plan on reaching our two year mark before proposing to her. Probably wise to make that at least 3 years, so you have time to digest the changes after the honeymoon period. Making a lifelong commitment during the honeymoon period is straight up idiotic. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Women: Not worth an investmentNah.. there is a wise man up there who says you can't bang young chicks if you're over 35.. and says if you do, they are likely unattractive. So, what this 19 yo gross? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | I cannot stress the importance of being funnyNah, humour isn't that important. It's a great way to compensate or enhance your personality and presence, but you certainly don't need to make a woman even crack a smile to get her into bed. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Teacher former student AWALT example.I mean no disrespect but you're basing your entire argument off your parents who you've admitted didn't do a great job. No, I'm really not. I'm basing my argument off many failed marriages and a legal system that is completely one-sided - and you are saying you are getting married for the illusory security of that legal system? My mother bought a house with a boyfriend and he was not a great guy Yes, big mistake - WITH. Don't buy a house WITH a woman; buy your own house. Sounds like a whole bunc… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Teacher former student AWALT example.Come on. You married her because you needed to if you wanted to spend your life with her? Your life? She has great motherly skills.. yeh, and so do many hundreds of thousands of other women under the right circumstances. You didn't need to marry anyone to raise children. I was raised out of wedlock and my parents did a half-decent job -- I'm not a complete fuck up and my life is on track. Marriage wouldn't have made them better parents; it would have just added more complications to their relati… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Just a thank you to everyone here.I remember first hearing about TRP from seddit, and I remember how I recoiled in distaste every time I came here. I ran back to my BP comforts again and again. I'm happy my commitment to truth led me back here again and again. I've never been more at peace with my place in the world, and I've never been more at peace with women. It is still bitter at times, and I still have a way to go, but I'm also very thankful for this place. It is great to see others who have positively changed due to the ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | An important bit of Human PsychologyThough you are correct that with a certain degree of self-awareness you can see the hamster spinning in your brain, rationalising your bad decisions, I don't think that same degree of self-awareness suddenly stops it from happening. It still happens, you're just aware of it. Perhaps a good first step. ..and, yes, I do believe women are capable of reaching high degrees of self-awareness, but people in general are far too lazy minded to work through the many layers of self-deception. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 05:32 AM |
| 7 | An important bit of Human Psychologyboredom will lead her to look elsewhere. ..and I was put on this planet to entertain this hoe endlessly until I die? Next. I think I've reached a point now where I honestly couldn't care less - yeh, I'll get into a relationship if a half-decent woman comes along, but I won't invest in that relationship very much - that's her job. I'll continue to invest in myself and I'll take it as fast or as slow as I want. If I cut back on expenses and live a minimal lifestyle for a couple of years while I bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Teacher former student AWALT example.Ya know what, man? Fuck it. Chill out - focus on YOU. Do what you want. Relax. Who cares. Can you support yourself and your lifestyle? Great. Enjoy that, go explore other stuff you enjoy, go help some people. ..and if she leaves amidst you enjoying your life.. fuck her.. let her go. You have to find something infinitely more important than her and your marriage, and you have to be secure with or without her by your side. Though this behaviour is not for her - that is the ultimate form of passive… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 05:01 AM |
| 15 | Teacher former student AWALT example.It's been exploited and has no benefits to men any more. Lots of lost and/or moronic people still find a veil of security in it - that's where the faith lies. That faint hope that this is the security we've been looking for. Fuck the rest of the world, just promise me I can at least take refuge in my marriage. Nope. You can take refuge in yourself and that is all. The sooner we become more secure in ourselves, the sooner we can be done with these pathetic pleas for security elsewhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Teacher former student AWALT example.Speak for yourself! She's worth my trouble :P | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Teacher former student AWALT example.But in an age where women can put you in prison for fake rape allegations, can't she just produce a fake cheating allegation, or do the courts require heaps of reliable evidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 04:47 AM |
| 1 | 20 and lost? Advice from an old guy.My God that is terrible. Can you not cut down hours and work towards something more lucrative -- or take your skills to another country? You could earn that working 10 hours a week as a freelance programmer. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | 20 and lost? Advice from an old guy.Wish I could, man. I'm in about $20k debt, but I've moved out of the country (not for that reason), and I don't nearly have the means to pay it off. I'm building a software business, so the plan is to pay it off in larger chunks as things start to take off. Course, no idea how long that will take. Rather than grind myself to the bone to pay it off in a year or two, I'm going to focus on drastically increasing my earnings. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | 20 and lost? Advice from an old guy.Agreed. I'd rather raise my earning capacity than my capacity to save, and I'd rather reinvest what I would have saved into my earning capacity (i.e. business). So long as my living expenses are covered for a month or two, I'll be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 02:20 AM |
| 2 | How far would you go changing your appearance?Probably not - height is about dominance. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I still have a hard time accepting she is not mine it's just my turnSpeaking of your experience.. how many relationships have you had and how long have they generally lasted, and who broke up with who? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:53 AM |
| 1 | I still have a hard time accepting she is not mine it's just my turnYeh but what if you'd impregnated that loaf of bread and now had to pick up the crumbs for the rest of your life? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:52 AM |
| 2 | How far would you go changing your appearance?I got braces at 27 when I could afford them and sorted out a severe misalignment. Took me a couple years and was well worth it. I'm pretty much bald (probably couple years left of skinhead) -- and I'm almost certain that when I come into some money I'll get a hair mesh. BUT I've slept with 20 women since I started shaving my head, so it seems kinda pointless. No other reason to get hair other than to increase my attractiveness, and yet I'm attractive enough (that's all that matters). Not really … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:44 AM |
| 3 | girl ghosted me, feeling like shitFirst of all, there is a slut in every one of them. She is not a unicorn. Those false beliefs are creating a scarcity mindset. There are plenty of women out there who are better for you. Case in point - I've been seeing a virgin (never dated one before) and it's been difficult to sleep with her.. done everything else but penetration. She really is quite a good girl, and I don't think she's putting it on. I've slept with 30 or so women so I'm not completely retarded.. and still haven't managed, d… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:36 AM |
| 2 | girl ghosted me, feeling like shitWhy am I catching feels so fucking fast and how do I stop doing it? You stop doing it by dating multiple women at the same time. If she was one of your random plates, and you had two other chicks you enjoy fucking and spending time with then you would barely notice her absence. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Suicidal thoughts and depressionHey, it's good you're seeking or willing to seek help. Don't let your pride get in the way of your mental health. Therapy is one of the best decisions I ever made and gave me the tools to handle my depression, social anxiety AND sudden, almost unthinkable bereavement. Without it, I don't think I would have got through it, and I certainly wouldn't have thrived as I have over the last 12 months. My suggestion would be to do a search on Google for local therapists, perhaps find a local directory (w… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Suicidal thoughts and depressionI meant I was back to feeling good again. I can't say I've entered any long-term depressive episodes since. Maybe a day or two here and there, but I've learned how to handle the ups and downs and try not to sweat it so much. Can't expect to feel happy all the time. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Suicidal thoughts and depressiondo not take antidepressants unless you're seriously at your wit's end. I remember taking antidepressants last year. Was an initial phase of heightened anxiety for a few weeks, then I felt fucking great.. and then, after a few weeks, I just stopped taking them because I was back on the horse. Not touched them since. Glad I did it. What I would advise against is prolonged prescriptions. Anything beyond a few months and it would surely become a dependency. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Suicidal thoughts and depressionThere is definite value in this! I did exactly the same thing and came to Thailand. However.. I have still had suicidal thoughts at times and I wasn't particularly suicidal or depressed. It really does depend how tight the grip of depression is. I've been overcoming my depression for a good 3 years now after 6 years of hell. Good luck OP! | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Suicidal thoughts and depressionI've been there, too. I remember the night before I first went to a therapist. I'd not had sex in 5 years, I was struggling to stay motivated with my freelancing, was coming out of a few years of isolation and now living with a mate. I used to live next to a very busy road and trucks driving past would often rumble the house, which made it difficult to sleep. I remember fantasising very vividly about walking out of my front door and into the road. These trucks were going downhill at a good 40mph… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?I can't take everything that is said on here as gospel Good! That would be a huge mistake. As much as there might be a lot of harsh realities being spread here, there is also a tonne of meat-headed, short-sighted ignorance. Raise your SMV, get money, get pussy, satisfy your senses.. blah. The best advice that ever came out of this place is to focus on your mission. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | LTR caught me texting, broke upIt's different this time because you're still in the honeymoon period, feelings are still strong, still got all those lovely chemicals surging around your body - and now you've been cut off at the height of your addiction and you will now withdraw, big time. It sucks, man.. we've all been through it, or will go through it, and it will happen again and again. I'm sure it gets easier with experience. Look over those pictures and get in touch with that sadness, and at the same time try to develop a… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 04:32 PM |
| 0 | LTR caught me texting, broke upMove on, work on your SMV so you get to a point where your LTR doesn't care if you sleep with other women. Would she have broken up with Tatum because of this? No. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?I know it seems like vandaalen was being overly abrasive, but he really wasn't. All he is saying is, of course, the guy who is currently in a marriage is going to rationalise it, and that will come through in the statements he makes. Oh, so you know more than the guy who created this community? THAT'S needlessly defensive and abrasive, and is the reason he called you an assclown. It doesn't matter who created this community, it is an evolving body of knowledge that spans way more than one person… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Did I break it off for the wrong reason?is it naive of me to think she genuinely wanted and respected me though I'm afraid it is naive. She wanted you for a while. Don't worry, you would have got bored of her given enough time. was genuinely busy and just immature? All women are immature.. and do you really believe a 19 year old girl in college is actually busy? I highly doubt that. I just genuinely want to understand and move on. But this is where you have to develop your own maturity - some things will never be tied up and some answ… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?Give it a few years and wait for the feelings to wear off before making any conclusions about her. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?How long have you been seeing her? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?Whether we like to admit it or not, money is the great social divider on this planet. If she earned 10x what you are earning, she would simply be outclassing you. She would have a lifestyle you can't afford. Similar to if you lost your job tomorrow and couldn't find another. How long do you really think she will drag you before she loses respect and attraction? I know it's brutal, but it's really a question of need. Maybe she needs you now for a potential family. If you said you were getting a v… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Did I break it off for the wrong reason?Read the sidebar. Then I travel for two weeks to Colombia, so day before I leave she comes over and we have sex for first time. Have a pregnancy scare. Whole time abroad, we talk everyday. I come back, and we pick up where we left off. We're both in college, and see each other when we can. But then I notice she becomes less engaging, flirting more or less ceases, literally avoids certain questions, sometimes doesn't respond to texts, blows off texts asking to go on a 'date' twice, and says she's… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?Money = power, so sadly not. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:08 PM |
| 7 | Hypothetically speaking: Is there a way to keep a long term relationship stable and healthy for decades?I would surprised if the entire RP community died out within a generation because nobody raised a family. That would be quite ironic considering how forward-thinking we supposedly are. I'm sure many here will eventually have families. What does confuse me is that we rarely talk about this almost certain end-game when it comes to women. If, in fact, it ISN'T possible to raise a stable family in our current culture or the risk just isn't worth it, what is the alternative? I think one of our greate… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find relationships WAY more fulfilling than fucking around?..exactly. So let's see how long she stays. One of the worst things you can do is invest into a relationship at such a young age. Nobody knows what they want, you're both riding the highs of 'love', and she will be ultra fickle. All that time invested in a relationship should be invested into establishing yourself. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find relationships WAY more fulfilling than fucking around?Put money in her pocket and see how long she stays. Drill it into your head: you are a utensil, not a person. She is incapable of loving you and is only interested in what you can offer her. When she doesn't need you, she will drop you faster than you can say "unicorn". Don't worry, her commitment will be put to the test when some 25 year old established chad puts the moves on her. All your investment will be for nought. Save yourself, focus on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 05:31 PM |
| 13 | Are all women semi-sociopaths with no human decency or is it just the sluts?If I cheated on my 6 because I found an 8 I'd simply break up with her in an adult manner Yes, because of your concept of pride or some other masculine ideal. She doesn't care about dealing with things in an adult manner, she cares about looking after herself and her emotions - and that involves clinging onto someone else and pretending you never existed. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Anyone Else Turn Socially Awkward from Monk Mode?Hobbies are a good shout, as already suggested. I did something similar but unintentionally for a good 5 year period in my early twenties. I spent the entire time learning how to program and build a reputation on freelance websites. Neglected dating and socialising completely.. and I came out of that with heavy depression and acute social anxiety that took me a good 2 years of therapy and 3 years at a normal job to overcome. BUT - though your social skills might rust by spending lots of time alo… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | New to Tinder, could someone help me out?Fair advice. I'll work on it. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | New to Tinder, could someone help me out?..and how do I increase my SMV over the internet? I think one of the major problems in Thailand is that the foreigners over here are usually of higher quality than the general population in my home country. I'm white, so I have that privilege, but these chicks are spoiled with white cock.. so yeh, not much I can do apart from improve my pictures. I've been here 7 weeks, slept with around 7 women, mostly 6s, couple of 8s.. but the majority of these girls are next level flakey. I've been flaked on… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | New to Tinder, could someone help me out?..and what if you're dealing with women so flakey that you can't even get 4-5 texts out of them within a 24 hour period? I've had most of my successes inviting chicks out within 2-3 messages, but where I am at the moment (Thailand), these chicks are so incredibly flakey it is hard to have even a partial conversation with most. Now my effort is so low I can't even be arsed unless she is DTF that second. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Very first girlfriend... what to expect?Cheating, lying, constant shit-testing and a declining sex life? :P enjoy I also have a sort of obsession that I have to entertain her all the times and be funny all the times. Seriously, man, focus on yourself! Please, for your own sanity, do you not give yourself up for some random woman because she makes you feel good. Those feelings will be used to do nothing but manipulate you for her bidding. Look out for number one - that is how you keep her entertained. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 06:20 PM |
| 2 | *UPDATE*got the 'we need to talk' textIf he blocks her he looks like a chump who can’t handle his break up eloquently How he looks to who? Surely the only thing that matters is how he sees himself? You cannot be saying he shouldn't block her because he might look like a chump TO HER? Sounds like a whole lot of investment in her perception of him.. which means nothing and shouldn't even be considered. One reason not to block is because she might be a potential plate in the future.. but even that is creeping on your abundance mindset.… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 06:11 PM |
| 1 | *UPDATE*got the 'we need to talk' textBetter yet: "we need to talk" .. "no we don't" And not even give the bitch a second breathing space over the phone. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 06:09 PM |
| 2 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.You have a limited perception of wealth if you believe wealthy people have to work 100 hour work weeks... at least in the current climate of automated systems. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 11:38 AM |
| 3 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.Watch the details. If she leaves it costs him 7 figures. Doesn't sound like the dream to me. Being in this position WITHOUT marriage would be the dream. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.Why though? As if those waiting for answers are suddenly going to pull their fingers out because someone has validated a path? The answer is irrelevant. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 11:26 AM |
| 0 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.I think you can quite easily get to the same place with simple disregard for other people's opinions. That doesn't have to be anything close to narcissism; you just value your opinion more than anyone else's - at least on matters you know about (i.e. you). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 03:40 PM |
| 15 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.This is exactly the position I aspire to be in.. in fact, the ONLY position I will ever consider in terms of any long-term engagements with women. Better get on the grind! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 03:32 PM |
| 16 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.Yup. One of the reasons I quit my job and went back to freelancing while I build a software business on the side. No chance am I throwing the best of my ingenuity into someone else's dream. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 03:30 PM |
| 8 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.He just told you what he does and how he made his money.. Why? I put myself first. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Hey, thanks for this. I know it's a harsh reality, and I'm doing my best to not shroud it in BP fantasies. I've been spinning plates the last couple of years (only been dating the last 3) an am already bored to tears with casual sex. It's fun.. but that's it. It's not challenging, it's not rewarding. That's what has me wondering "what is the end game". Perpetually spinning plates into my 60s is not it. Truth is, I did recently meet someone with a low notch count who has, as you said, made my oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentI didn't say one thing about any alternatives. My point is - even this is too high investment for what is essentially a bunch of Tinder hoes? Come on. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentIt is true.. Case in point I just lost a few matches that I was talking to trying to hook up tonight because they don't even know what they're getting into. They can't hear my voice, they can't see my body language, they don't know if I'm relaxed and confident or thirsty and anxious. I might even start getting some of these chicks on the phone.. it's impossible to sell any kind of personality over text. So yeh, even though I have enough successes to keep me busy, I am by no means satisfied with … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Thanks for the insight. Do you have children? I just cannot see myself dying alone without spreading and raising my own little people. The alternative would probably be a life eventually dedicated to helping families/children in some way. In that sense.. whether she is going to cheat or not is irrelevant - I have to find a way to build and support a stable family structure or give it all up for some alternative end-game. And, no, marriage will never be involved. I'm in Thailand at the minute and… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentThis is RP 101, and I can't believe it's been upvoted -- don't listen to what women say, listen to what they do. Many women will say they aren't down for hook ups who will suck you dry within 30 minutes of meeting you. Ignore whatever comes out of their mouth, and ignore whatever they say in their profile. Run your game and escalate.. that's how you work out what she's really like. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentDo you think body shots matter much? I have literally one really good face shot and that is it. I get enough matches to keep me busy, but reckon I'd get more if I was showing off I wasn't at least out of shape. I've been hitting gym for the last 6 months, so I'm sure it will only get easier as time goes on. ..and I do agree, despite believing the specific instructions are not low investment enough for me, that Tinder can provide all the sex a man could ever need once you've found a system that w… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:25 PM |
| 34 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentneed to fuck women all the time to feel good of about myself Agreed. I was there when I first started finding success with women, but sex is quite ordinary now.. and casual sex is vapid, anyway. Maybe it's part of growing up and slowing down (I'm 30 now), but I couldn't care less if I only have sex once a week, so long as I have plenty of time to enjoy it. Quality over quantity! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:22 PM |
| 146 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmentThat does not sound like little time investment. Recreate my accounts and add 100 friends on fb every week? How is that low investment? I just go through 'em all, maybe buy a boost here and there, usually always have active Tinder pro subscription.. and just deal with whatever matches come through. If it dries up then I go through my matches until I'm certain there is nobody worth pursuing THEN I might consider refreshing my account, but I'm usually distracted by something more worthwhile by the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Ha! Didn't even notice that. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.I said to keep them around :P I can think of many reasons to have them in my presence. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Don't worry, I won't ever be getting divorced because I won't ever be getting married. Was just wondering how others might avoid some of the financial raping. Seems like you can't really avoid it, and by trying to (at least by hiding it) you make it much worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:25 AM |
| 24 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Too right! The only reason I can see to keep a woman around is to raise children. Beyond that, I really fail to see the value they bring that I can't easily deliver for myself. You know who deserves a cut of his cash for emotional support? The guys in the project who kept him company during the long nights, convinced him to keep going when he was getting tired of work, brought him coffees and played pranks on him. The ones who he sat, half-slumped from fatigue, with in a coffee shop booth, nursi… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:15 AM |
| 7 | Insight from QuoraInsight.. into a confused Alpha-wannabe turned Nice Guy? No thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 10:25 PM |
| 10 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.You're seriously trying to tell me there are many legal benefits to marriage for a guy? Is that why this guy is asking for a post-nup, because of all those legal benefits he has? Please.. just stop. Go find your crowd. We are not it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 20 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Maybe your parents divorced or you had a bad break up or divorce yourselves. Better yet, my friend, my parents never married and raised me well. That's the only proof I need that marriage is unnecessary. What exactly do I, as a man, gain from marriage? Because I can't see a single benefit, and especially no benefit that outweighs the huge risk. If I was a woman, or a man under the spell of the feminine matrix, I can see plenty of benefits! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.But can a pre-nup provide as much protection as not getting married in the first place? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Agreed. I'm in Asia at the minute, but I still wouldn't consider marriage here. Ironically, marriage just incentivises separation. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Figured. Well, shit. I deserve to be divorce raped if I ever get married knowing what I know. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Didn't mean to imply they were. Oops. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:11 PM |
| 20 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.which in the end will bite him in the ass Marriage is a lose-lose situation for a guy. Regardless of what he does, it will ALWAYS bite him in the ass. Accept the reality of the shitty situation and stop hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:10 PM |
| 17 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.It's sad to see my programming brethren fall for it. Oh well. Save yourself. That's all you can hope for. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:09 PM |
| 12 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Loyal? I don't think her loyalty has been put to the test. How long have they been together? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.What about if you 'give' it to someone else? And they 'give' it back to you after divorce? My God I think like a 5 year old haha | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.No, a real "red pilled" man understands what he is dealing with when in association with a woman. That is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:04 PM |
| 104 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him...yep, and they're already doing it for her: "This is so important and exactly what I was thinking! Hell, who's to say he would have been so successful with his projects if he didn't have emotional and physical support (helping with chores more so he can focus on his side project after work, etc.) from his wife at home before she ever quit her job" Sickening. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:52 PM |
| 12 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Truth. As said elsewhere on this page, there is nothing wrong with a ceremony, but I am not signing away my potential to a fucking soul, and especially not to a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:51 PM |
| 122 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.I don't think she believes it - I think she's wondering whether she should use the opportunity to cash out now or later. Fact is, if she doesn't cash out now, she might lose a lot of his money in the future when this agreement comes into place. Wisest thing they can both do is split. "This is so important and exactly what I was thinking! Hell, who's to say he would have been so successful with his projects if he didn't have emotional and physical support (helping with chores more so he can focus… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:41 PM |
| 84 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.She's probably wondering whether to cash out now or later. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:41 PM |
| 36 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Worryingly, surely her best play now is to divorce him under these grounds and take what she can and run? If I was in his position, I think I'd pay her off and go find a younger woman to bear my children. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Me Too Guys! Times are a Changing Faster than we knowI won't work with women any more out of fear of the impact of wrongful accusation. #metoo I really don't see how this BS will come to an end. They've found a new superpower and they're going to use it to continue to propel them towards their own demise. Idiots. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 07:09 PM |
| 33 | Keep it to yourself. Honestly.Pick your battles. If you care enough about your family, pick 'em off one by one. I did that with my brother, initially, and he has completely turned around his attitudes about women and is, hopefully, on track to escaping the feminine imperative matrix. Depends how much you care about your family members, and how entrenched they are. Took me a good 6 months to convince my brother to get some vitamins down him. ..but women in your family? They don't want facts, they don't want to be saved, and d… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 06:13 PM |
| 2 | LTR - Simple Steps to SuccessSounds like you carry around a large degree of passive dread. Kudos! I'm working on my second income stream at the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 06:07 PM |
| 3 | LTR - Simple Steps to SuccessI have considered that, too.. at very least having a visible mistress in the sidelines. The way I see it, if she doesn't agree to me having multiple women, then my SMV isn't relatively high enough to consider an LTR with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 05:07 PM |
| 4 | LTR - Simple Steps to SuccessAgreed. But I don't really plan to die alone with my sperm, so I will have children one day.. so, at least for me, regardless of the reality, I will have to solve this shit one way or another. The best solution I've seen to this is partnering up with someone who is so below your SMV they have no deluded thoughts that they will ever do better. For example, if I am earning 6 figures as a business owner, and I'm with someone whose only skills involve raising our children. That's the kind of daily d… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Go spent some time with your family. Get off the internetWhat family? We've been told to perpetually plate women - we won't have families. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 01:47 PM |
| 15 | LTR - Simple Steps to SuccessThe first time I even think there's interest in another guy, it's over. Unthinkable, I know, but she is attracted to and interested in other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | 6 Months of Owning My Shit: A RetrospectiveIs the general advice to not have children here? Who is going to raise the next generation? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | 6 Months of Owning My Shit: A RetrospectiveShit.. I'm 30 at the minute and don't even have a GF. Currently plating, but am hoping to build a stable family environment (not necessarily marriage) in the future once I've further improved my SMV. Why is 35 the cut off for men? I can understand with women. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/17 05:31 PM |
| 21 | Don't be afraid to be a child again!Naturally, we're born with the tools to impregnate them as they are born with the tools to manipulate us. Overthinking this whole dynamic I'm sure causes many of our problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur Schopenhauer..yet the most painful thing about reading this here is that I have to take a massive risk by investing in a woman enough to impregnate her to have any of what sounds like a very fulfilling experience. Not that I need it, maybe being a playboy for 50 years will be a great experience.. can't help but think my end-goal in terms of life is to grow old with a family. Can't think of anything more rewarding than influencing your own little people to grow into great people. I'm only 30, but I really ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur SchopenhauerNot all human interaction. The love I share with my parents is not a mutual transaction or conditional. In fact, is likely the same with my siblings, and would surely be the same with my children (if I had any). I don't think many people dish out unconditional love and loyalty on either side. You're lucky if you have a few people like that in your life. And worse - a woman can't see that and will still give it all away for feelz. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Worth getting involved with a potential virgin?Good luck and merry Christmas. Haha! Thanks for the present! Next her until she comes crawling back and you hold all the cards or else she’ll dangle that carrot for as long as she can Yep. I think that's my only play at this point. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Worth getting involved with a potential virgin?Just did a search. I have had a 3rd of my finger inside her. The attitude seems to be more of fear than pain.. but yeh, perhaps you're right. If it is her first time, surely she needs a bit of stretching out, anyway? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:22 AM |
| 14 | Are women truly capable of loving you at your weakest?But you're not blood related. She can quickly transfer that image of you being a superman onto another man and forget you existed. In that sense, we are disposable dads. One of the worst cases of this happening is when she branch swings to someone who she believes will raise your kids better than you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 11:00 AM |
| 12 | Are women truly capable of loving you at your weakest?Well, they don't love you - they love your value. What value does she derive through association at your weakest, and what potential value do you represent? Because if that value isn't high enough, or she has better offers, why would she stay on your ride? It's broken, it's boring, it's going nowhere or it's too slow. You have to learn to see through the eyes of a woman - she sees you as a provider of value first and foremost - whether sexual, social, political, etc. On top of that, she is worki… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?Ya know, I did notice a big increase in matches when I updated my profile pic on Tinder to a skinhead. I don't particularly think I have any problems in terms of physical attraction - but, relatively - I do oftentimes feel inadequate when next to more conventionally attractive guys. I guess it's all mental at this point. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:48 AM |
| 1 | First serious girl after 2 years of slutsI'm in a similar position, but am probably a year/two off the kind of SMV you've built, though still in a very good position. And suddenly a more serious chick (and virgin) has walked into my life after plating for a while. Tempting, but .. it's just your turn.. hard to invest when faced with reality. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:30 AM |
| 6 | First serious girl after 2 years of slutsI don’t wanna fuck this up, by being to distant and stoic You've already fucked up with that mindset. Like others have said, keep the focus on YOURSELF - she is along for the ride, and she isn't yours and never will be. You could take it a step further and purposely do something that might fuck it up but won't (such as ignoring her for a few days) -- you need to keep your abundance mindset sharpened. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?That's it. Tinder has kept busy enough to not really venture out. Guess it's a good and bad thing - but I also know I'd snag hotter/saner women in person and would be able to qualify them almost instantly. I have had some success with Salsa dancing in the past. Might jump back on that. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?This actually sounds like great advice, with or without the intention of meeting women. I do need a bit of a social circle here. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?I see where you're coming from. I only had a 2-3 plates when I was back home, but they kept me busy for a good 4+ months before I moved, and that was well enough. I should probably just focus on that again. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Want to enter monk mode but have social anxiety, how do I work on that by secluding myself?Great idea! I'm in a simple boat. Not necessarily social anxiety (has heavily reduced), but a severe lack of social skills through years of isolation. OP: do not isolate yourself. It will not help. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to finally accept other men will fuck the girl i like?My time is more valuable than your pussy Not gonna forget that! | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Tips on Growing Thick SkinGotta work on that frame! | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Best message to send on tinder to immediately find out if they're dtf without getting reported?"What's your num? I've got something to show you" ..creepy.. but.. if you're attractive.. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 06:07 PM |
| 15 | TRP made my life more successful, but I'm depressed as everBuilding on from this excellent answer about the first set of bullets, the second set imply a sort of alienation due to robotic behaviour. What I mean by this OP is that you have started this journey by following the advice of others, and taken some prescribed actions, but now feel like you're playing a role. Like you said "can never be myself around girls". Who is yourself? Your old, dis-empowered loser self? Or do you feel this is all an act and it is taxing you to keep it up? That might expla… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Reminder (novice advice): Committing into a relationship does not change the conjecture and modality of the sex she is willing to give you - not a single bit, everTheir entitlement is incredibly strong. I mean how else can someone assume they can have everything and provide nothing? Shocking. Kick 'em to the curb the second they stop putting out. Most behave like they can't be replaced within 5 minutes. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 11:25 AM |
| 5 | Reminder (novice advice): Committing into a relationship does not change the conjecture and modality of the sex she is willing to give you - not a single bit, everThat sucks, man. GTFO, start plating and experience some abundance before you step into another relationshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | A bit of advice on giving adviceIf you're explaining to Billy the concepts of sexual strategy, text game, and frame, but he knows you haven't been laid in 6 months, then he's going to nod his head politely and write off any advice you give. ..it really depends WHO this person is and how well you know them, and how much you care about them and their future. Case in point - it took me about 3/4 months to convince my brother that his BP bullshit was drying up all his opportunities. I gave him The Rational Male when I left the cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Training for results vs training for skillI remember reading a post on one of the RP blogs title "one approach a day" or something similar. I've been using Tinder for a couple of years but it's become a major crutch, and I reckon some simple cold approach would alleviate that. I need to prove to myself that I don't actually need Tinder. I have (slightly) through hobbies (salsa dancing), but never cold approach. Probably approached 3 women in the last 3 years. Internalize abundance: the future is bright, there are many opportunities and … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Training for results vs training for skill..and then don't cold approach because you're not attractive enough? haha that's all that post says. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach for you PUA Sperg DorksI'm white, British, self-educated, with green eyes. I am certainly using it! Have had a lot of fun over the last 6 weeks. Just trying to keep a few of these women honest by refusing to pay for shit. I wasn't doing that bad in the UK, but the fact that I rarely match with Western girls over here, and yet match with plenty of attractive Asian girls, is a great example of the white privilege, and a depressing fact that Western women's standards are just far too high on Tinder. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Cold approach for you PUA Sperg DorksI see where you're coming from, appreciate the explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach for you PUA Sperg DorksThere is a small subset of women who are into bald guys though, but they only like them if those men are tall and fit (lift weights) Wrong. I'm bald, 5'9, only go gym couple times a week.. have plenty of matches on Tinder and have slept with 6 new women this month. Drill it into your head: facial aesthetics will trump everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Cold approach for you PUA Sperg DorksYeh, I've noticed Thai women are far superior than their Western counterparts. Of course, that won't last forever. They've also been named the fattest women in SEA, though from my experience I will see 3-4 cute, in shape chicks within 10 minutes of being outside. I don't necessarily have a problem. Tinder is ok.. but I still feel like I could be doing a lot better if I gamed in person. I definitely get more double-takes and lingering eyes over here. Was planning on capitalising and finally overc… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach for you PUA Sperg DorksThat doesn't mean don't approach. If she shows you indicators of interest, go for it! Agreed. I think that's what I'll have to learn to seize. It has happened quite a few times. I'm not tall or buff, but I do hit the gym and I have decent facial aesthetics (helps on Tinder). But I've rarely seized the opportunity to approach someone who has shown any possibility of interest. Not really interested in just approaching random strangers, though I am a half-attractive white man in Thailand so.. this … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 07:18 PM |
| 14 | Cold approach for you PUA Sperg DorksWhat I don't understand is it seems this post is advising you not to approach if you're not stereotypically attractive. Or am I missing the point completely? Tinder generally keeps me busy, and I've had some success with salsa dancing. I'm sure same would go for most groups I work my way into.. but there are plenty of attractive women walking around, and now, apparently, these women are reserved for only the most attractive guys? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.It's saved my life, that's for sure. I'm 30, and have only been dating last few years because I was so BP I thought I was 'forever alone'. Luckily found TRP after a year of dating and proceeded to cut off from all the women in my life to get my head straight. Now at least I have nobody to blame but myself if I go and fuck my life up by choosing to close my eyes again. TRP has helped me put women on the BOTTOM of things that matter in my life, behind myself, my mission, my finances and my leisure… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/17 03:16 PM |
| 2 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Through accepting this is inevitable (this cannot be willed by the way) you do not have the subsequent reaction to the reaction Ya know, this is a really good point, and quite relevant to the kind of material I've been reading over the last couple of years (J Krishnamurti). I think his point was that there is no such thing as detachment, as that is just another form of attachment, and it is the resistance to it which creates further forms of attachment. Thanks for the reminder. I want to be able… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/17 09:31 AM |
| 2 | The subreddit Deadbedroom is a cesspool of blue pill madness...Worse, they don't want to know the truth because the truth requires difficult changes. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 06:04 PM |
| 0 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"I slept with a good few women in the first two weeks, then it went dead while I was working on a virgin. Then I slept with someone else last night. That makes 6 by my count. Why the hell does this matter to you so much? You just cannot accept that I'm happy? Boo-fucking-hoo. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 05:42 AM |
| 0 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Mate, stop hounding me. Like I said at the start, you know fuck all about my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 05:36 AM |
| 0 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"I'm wealthy by time, mate. 62k at 15 hours a week is a lot of money and a LOT of free time and, considering I work on my laptop, a LOT of flexibility in being able to live wherever I want.. which I'm using to build a software business. Not that any of this matters. Not trying to impress anyone. Enjoy your commute ;) And stop hounding me before you get banned. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 05:33 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Fail at getting laid? I've slept with 6 women in the last 4 weeks. Again, you're just not trying hard enough. I even said that in that post. The trouble isn't bedding women, it's how flakey these young hoes are.. and, yes, my game needs improvement (hence when I'm here). Look, I get it. Your blood boils because this cuck is living the dream in paradise and barely has to work to support himself and can, actually, enter a kind of semi-retirement, because the skills I've taught myself allow me to c… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 05:08 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"You're a fucking idiot. I'm out. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 05:04 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"For one, didn't claim I was a RP-man. For another, nobody cares about your opinion, calm down. Finally, the only reason I responded to your retarded comments in the first place is because you said I should take charge of my life... which I have been doing for the last decade, and I'm seeing plenty of rewards. Again, you really do have to try harder, dude. Work on yourself. You'll get there. Right now you just sound like an angry little boy on the net. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"You really need to try harder. This just isn't good enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"How am I full of shit when that's the truth. I just realised I have a million other things I'd rather do than argue with some random clown on the internet. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 04:57 AM |
| 2 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"No point in even trying to explain. They also have an involuntary convulsion at the thought of 'CUCK' or any flavour of it. There have been a couple of interesting thoughts regarding fetishising insecurities. Apparently it is a bad thing my body/mind is feeding me pleasurable sensations haha | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 04:29 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"You have worse issues than me if you think I have the time to create fake accounts to add fake support to random comments I make on the internet that have no bearing on my life whatsoever...for what? I'm 30 years old for Christ sake. Nobody cares enough about your comments to go to those measures. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 04:19 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Your life sounds just so good. Everything so idealistic and wonderful that it screams of bullshit. ..and your opinion matters for what reason? I'm living this life, I don't need to prove it. Certainly not idealistic, they're just the highlights of my lifestyle that I've managed to achieve by "taking charge of my life", as you put it. Do tell us how you've taken charge of your life recently, because as it stands, and looking at your post history, you just seem like a man with a lot of words and n… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Want to ruin a girl? Be a mix of Alpha and Beta.This is just my natural state at the moment because I'm fluctuating between alpha/beta as I build confidence and experience and SMV. And yes, any girl who gets close enough laps it up. I wish it wasn't this way, I wish I could enjoy the comfort of being a beta bitch, but if I want to maintain attraction I simply have to be a cunt. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Want to ruin a girl? Be a mix of Alpha and Beta.I think the kicker is that this might be a whole different story at year 1 vs year 6. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"You do make some good points. I'll do more digging and try to determine just how healthy it is for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Things are so out of hand right now...Which is the whole point of multiple income streams. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 01:11 AM |
| 0 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"From your posts, you do seem to have a certain level of sexual anxiety about your size and abilities, so you retreat to the fetish where you have the power (by proxy) to drive her wild. Understandable, but not necessarily healthy. Yeh, I'll admit there is some sexual anxiety. I've only had a regular sex life the last few years so I've spent most of my life sex-starved. I don't retreat to a fetish where I have power because I have the ultimate power: being able to go without. I couldn't care less… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 03:19 PM |
| -3 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Heard that one before. Thanks for the diagnosis, doc. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread December 11Tell your girl how goofy he is Sorry, can't agree with this method of apparently showing how much more alpha you are than other potential suitors. The best method will always be disregard. Someone makes a move, you sit back, smirk, enjoy the show and wait until she tells him she is busy. If she doesn't, well, you found a reason to GTFO. If he isn't a threat, then why pay him the slightest attention? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 02:50 PM |
| 3 | It's funny, women are the cause of all conflicts and suffering...yet men created everything good. It was men that invented systems to create peace, comfort, equality, security, technology, fed the poor, created wealth and everything else. ..and primarily FOR the adoration of women! They are the great motivators. It might seem like a gender war that both genders are losing, but we're just on the frontlines. The genders will find a way to complement each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 01:38 PM |
| 3 | It's funny, women are the cause of all conflicts and suffering.....and he'll spend the next two years digesting it in a pool of tears and frustration :P I love the shock of it - the big realisation - the sense of progress.. and then, the slow dawning of the fact that life just isn't the fairytale that was sold to you, and never will be. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 01:36 PM |
| 13 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Lot of sense here is downvoted. The place is filled with immature, chest-beating children. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 01:33 PM |
| 31 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"No, it's certainly not a bad thing -- it's an opportunity to overcome that attachment. But I don't think I've fully come to terms with it. I'm still saddened by it and I still lament the loss of what relationships could be if women weren't so fickle. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 12:58 PM |
| 1 | The EggSounds like a slippery slope into solipsism. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 12:43 PM |
| -2 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Living what way? TRP is not a way of life, it is a set of truths. How you use those is up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Social circle, cold approach, night game, online dating.. what are your preferred methods for meeting attractive women?Impressive, never heard such a high number. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Social circle, cold approach, night game, online dating.. what are your preferred methods for meeting attractive women?Some occurrences I’ll get 9/10 girls that I talk to Talking aside, how many of these women you have approached have you slept with? Aside from building confidence, that's the only result I'm interested in. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Social circle, cold approach, night game, online dating.. what are your preferred methods for meeting attractive women?How many cold approaches? In your experience, can you snag more attractive women through cold approach? Do you consider it worth the effort? The problem for me is I can get by (mostly) with online dating, and yet is nothing but a crutch at this point. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:07 PM |
| 7 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"The ideal for both genders is a man who sleeps with many women: open on his end, and the women only sleep with him: closed on her end. Unfortunately, life is rarely ideal. Yup. I think one of the only ways to increase the chance of this ideal is to have a very high SMV relatively to your spouse. That's my plan, anyway, because there is no way in hell I'll ever allow a woman/person to have sole-control over my source of intimacy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 12:05 PM |
| 6 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Blogs? Who knows. I'm not part of that crowd (yet). Getting there, but I'm still gaining some minimal benefit from reading posts here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 11:46 AM |
| -4 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"As someone who leans on the side of cucking simply because I find it quite arousing and I'm just following my nose, and, as a white guy, I mostly agree with this post. Not the whole story, but some great points! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 11:41 AM |
| 4 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Really? That's not the attitude I see at all when this is perpetuated around this place.. it's more "we can't stop the decline, so you might as well enjoy it". | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 11:36 AM |
| 19 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"this place becomes nothing more than an ideological echo chamber. That's exactly what is has become. One of the reasons a lot of the original crowd moved on since it became semi-mainstream in the manosphere. I prefer monogamous relationships. "Well what if she cheats?" Dump her and move on. Ya know, I prefer monogamous relationships, too.. maybe with a little something on the side every now and then. I guess one of my biggest problems is because I've heard "it's just your turn" so many times, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 11:11 AM |
| 2 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Lol, you're being cucked by all your plates. Wake up, friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 10:59 AM |
| 1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"I can respect that attitude, and I fully agree. I think I'd have a similar attitude if I were in a relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 10:58 AM |
| 8 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Rather than take charge of your life, You know fuck all about my life. If you've read my post history, then you know I quit my job, broke up with my girlfriend, sold all my belongings, and moved 10,000 miles away to Thailand where I work barely 15 hours a week (programming, which I taught myself) and am living in paradise in a gorgeous, spacey condo. And I'm not taking charge? Haha Try harder, dude. You need to be taking points from me you joker. Your BS isn't getting anywhere because the only p… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 10:56 AM |
| 2 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Hmm.. not really. I mean, yeh, sometimes the thought is arousing, sometimes not. It's just a random fetish, no big deal dude. That's the problem with the black-and-white thinking in this place -- people are treating it like a big deal and refusing to attempt to understand the mindset, while chastising those who have it. Sad, really, considering this community apparently makes a push for swallowing hard truths about reality. Seems on quite a few issues we would rather close our eyes, downvote and… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 10:31 AM |
| 4 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"fucked up poly bullshit relationship ..and monogamous relationships aren't bullshit? Think about the amount of rampant cheating. We constantly chant to ourselves "It's just your turn" here all the time because women are notoriously NOT loyal and will swing onto another dick just for feelz. How is any monogamous relationship not a sham in light of that? We advocate plates.. well, plates are open relationships. Your plates are being raw-dogged by other chads. If one chooses to be in a relationship… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 10:27 AM |
| 5 | Fapping?if you are always well-fed and satisfied? Seems like a great way to preserve energy for more important things than pussy, such as your mission, which, ironically, will lead to securing pussy more easily. Daily sex? Holy crap, so thankful I've slowed down since hitting 30. Chasing temporary pleasure is such a waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Social circle, cold approach, night game, online dating.. what are your preferred methods for meeting attractive women?https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7jf87r/concealed_intentions_and_plausible_deniability/dr6fc49/ This shit is all over the place. Apparently cold approach doesn't work anymore. Who would have thought? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 09:52 AM |
| 3 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"It'll happen. It's funny how so many of our insecurities and jealousies are based on just the concept of monogamous relationships, as if that's the way it is supposed to be. Yet if we accept the reality of human promiscuity, we will also overcome the insecurity, possessiveness and jealousy that the denial of it fuels. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:48 AM |
| 14 | Things are so out of hand right now...Ya know what, fuck jobs then. Build a business and stop relying on employers to survive. Diversify the risk through many customers and many streams of income. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:44 AM |
| 8 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"I suppose I can see that reality for the average beta. Thankfully, that isn't the reality for a RP-man. After all, women would rather share a high quality guy than possess a low quality beta. More guys need to wise up to this and insist on polygamy from the outset. If she doesn't agree, work on your SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Concealed Intentions and Plausible Deniability (Day/Campus Game)I don't get it - seems this post has things completely backwards.. but to each their own I guess. Surely women in night venues have bigger bitch shields because of the amount of times they are being hit on, and women in daytime have their guards down because it doesn't happen all that often.. then a confident, attractive guy with strong fundamentals approaches her and says he thought she was cute and starts a conversation and.. what.. she will reject him because he didn't pretend he was lost and… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Concealed Intentions and Plausible Deniability (Day/Campus Game)Nah, stop introducing nuance! Me dun lyke nornce! Fucking joke this place at times haha | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Ignoring a woman will make her want you and Focus on yourselfYou think she's not seeking cock elsewhere, anyway? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:17 AM |
| 9 | Things are so out of hand right now...fired from your high SMV job and you are on your ass If losing a job puts you on your ass, you need to work on building more in-demand skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:08 AM |
| -4 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Not defending anything, buddy. Just explaining how this kind of fetish can spiral. I do know some guys do this despite feeling extreme forms of shame, jealousy and humiliation. I know this place can't handle nuance, but there it is. If you don't have the intelligence or maturity to take it in without thinking "OMG CUCK" then that's on you. Endorsed? Lol | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:04 AM |
| -3 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Can you not read? I just said I barely watch porn. Try harder... and I'm not a dud haha plenty of plates come back for more. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:02 AM |
| 86 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Cuckholding will be super mainstream in the future (5-10 years) Open relationships will be the norm, because guys have been porn soaked and trained to think its a great thing their woman will be moaning and horny for someone else. I wouldn't be surprised in the future if women will have 3-5 people watching her in person get pumped by chad, because porn. Don't we advocate lifetime plating here? How exactly are we contributing to anti-open relationships by perpetual plating? You have open relation… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 09:01 AM |
| -1 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"..and these things didn't exist before porn? Porn is just a trigger. It is evidently inside a lot of us, considering the stats on extreme porn fetishes. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 08:55 AM |
| -13 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"Interesting all of these great insights and facts from people who don't even experience the very thing they are making assertions about. I do experience this fantasy, sometimes quite vividly, and I barely ever watch porn. Nothing to do with being a cuck. Granted, porn I'm sure could open the door, but it can arise through several means. For example, I'm an average guy -- I don't have a cricket bat between my legs, I can't just sit back and watch her convulse. And yet I know every woman I'm with … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 08:51 AM |
| 1 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeYeh, ok, I think I understand where you're coming from. But let's stop pretending we're all infallible machines. Whether you vent, or indulge in vices or what, you are weak in some regard. Everybody is. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeWell, I would have loved to have seen you go through what I went through and see how you responded. Believe me, I am more than capable of suffering in silence. I handled it pretty well the first few days, but sometimes the world just kicks you in the balls day after day and eventually you start to crack... and, oh how very weak, do a little venting to a facebook group between you and your friends. Come on. Stop it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 06:32 AM |
| 2 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeThere is nothing wrong with occasional venting. Case in point I had a really shitty week in Laos trying to get education visa for Thailand. Didn't take my debit card and was scrambling for cash, cancelled flights, embassy delays, lost £250, you get the picture. Me and my friends have a group chat and I needed help (Western Union).. and, yes, I also vented quite a bit after the third day of nothing but bad luck. Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you vent in the right direction. Talk to frie… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 07:51 PM |
| 48 | 3 Words That Will Change Your LifeCore aspect of self-confidence. - "the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 07:46 PM |
| 4 | 25 yo virgin. Point of no return?Lol. I lost my virginity at 22, then didn't have sex for FIVE years. Not a single kiss. Then, at 28, after having found seddit and trp, started having a regular sex life. In the few years since have probably slept with 30 or so women. Keep working on yourself, keep reading, get your head straight, get your fundamentals straight, keep putting yourself out there, build confidence. Just keep moving forward and stop allowing your shitty self-beliefs to stop you from taking the actions you know you s… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Shortcuts, Self-Improvement, the Present, and YouWhat if I do everything in my power to get better every minute of every day? What would would I be in one year, let alone five? Will he thank me? Or will he take me outside and kick my ass for being a lazy fucking bum and ruining his (my) life? By the same token, can you today thank yourself for where you are right now? If we are constantly improving ourselves and our conditions, then we should be able to thank ourselves for even the progress we've made in the last 3 months. I thank myself daily… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:50 PM |
| 2 | For the guys using sex as a validation tool: patheticYeh, I can agree with that. I can't say I've ever fucked any true stunners. Definitely top 8s, hot latina chicks and a petite Italian chick who salsa danced. My first real GF was a Chilean and I primarily got into a relationship with her because of how she danced on my cock. Was hypnotic.. but she was also BPD. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Think for yourself, take what you read here seriously, but also with a grain of salt.I understand where you're coming from, but unless children or marriage is involved or we're cohabiting, I can walk out at any time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | For the guys using sex as a validation tool: patheticI only ever really go for a kiss once they're back at my place, so that's the only IOI I need. I'm a bit of a bitch going for a kiss on the first date, but have no problem inviting them home. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:33 PM |
| 3 | For the guys using sex as a validation tool: patheticThe number one change was I started to escalate faster.. I started to go for a kiss midway through a first date and invite them home/somewhere quiet. That particular night we went to a hotel. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with downswings in dating?I've had I think about 5 or 6 dates, and yet have probably had 20+ women agree to meet up and flake. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with downswings in dating?All these flakes are based on idiots from Tinder, yes. It doesn't happen every time, just noticed it is happening much much more than in the UK. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 03:21 AM |
| 13 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.Yes, they are (emotionally) children. They don't know how to behave if boundaries aren't set. We are the gatekeepers of commitment. Our game, our rules. She has her own ruthless behaviour when it comes to gatekeeping her pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 08:21 PM |
| 5 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.He took his ex back and moved in with her. End of story. The flaws are patently obvious even from a 30 second glance. There is no way these super-beta actions are isolated. They would have been seeping out day after day. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 08:19 PM |
| 5 | How to mantain a healthy long term relationship.But isn't it also about vetting? As in, you generally don't date women who are all over social media and frequently go out clubbing, and so don't have to tell her anything -- social media whores and clubbers have already been filtered out. Or, are you saying I shouldn't care if a prospect is all over social media and out at bars every other week? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Needy Texting Instantly Destroys Attraction (Image Example)Pretty much, yeh. Why not? I've sometimes intentionally let go of women just to develop my abundance mentality. Who cares about any given woman, the underlying attitudes are what will change your life. Of course, people have different methods and different ideas about how to go about this. This is just my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Needy Texting Instantly Destroys Attraction (Image Example)You'll get there. Just fill your life with more interesting things than pussy, then you simply won't have the time to text for anything but logistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 08:23 PM |
| -1 | Needy Texting Instantly Destroys Attraction (Image Example)Abundance? Who cares if it loses him even 100 girls. Plenty more where they came from. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Needy Texting Instantly Destroys Attraction (Image Example)Truth. Lot of people here have been there. Hilarious that now we're pointing the finger. Text game is reeeaalll fucking simple: text for logistics, keep it short and sweet, don't give her attention. The amount of time I've saved from just texting for logistics and filtering out flakey clowns is ridiculous. Bitches have beta orbiters for texting buddies. If she isn't fucking you, she should have about 0% of your attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 08:19 PM |
| 41 | For the guys using sex as a validation tool: patheticExactly. Over-exposure is a great way to de-pedestalise it. I remember when that starting happening because I would, before sleeping with a new chick, already know the entire process from start to finish, already feel like "it's just a warm hole and a bit of mutual masturbation". Made me realise that actually I could quite happily be more than satisfied sleeping with less-than-ideal women for the rest of my life, because the ideals, the 9s and 10s have what exactly? A more beautiful face? Physic… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:21 PM |
| 43 | For the guys using sex as a validation tool: patheticYep! I remember the first time I slept with an attractive woman within an hour of meeting her. That experience alone was responsible for breaking down years of shitty self-beliefs that I wasn't attractive enough for that to happen to me. Cue months of successful dating. Perhaps it's ok as an initial motivator, but it becomes destructive if you carry it on for years. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Got a girls number by telling her I have a tiny dick.They call it manhood for a reason. Easy to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Got a girls number by telling her I have a tiny dick.Yes, it's easy to not let anything rattle you when you have a big dick. All of these stories are no really great examples. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 02:24 PM |
| 2 | I am at the end of my fucking rooeWhoa, you're 4 years in and you've NOT done any programming jobs? I started applying around month 2! Learn on the job man! Just do your absolute best to not over-promise. I frequently took on projects I didn't know how to accomplish, and learned how. You have to cut your teeth somehow. Charge very little or do the work for free initially, just get yourself working on actual projects for people with money and the rest will take care of itself. Don't hang about on low rates too long, though. I was… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | I am at the end of my fucking rooeLearn programming. Go find freelance work. It took me 5 years of grinding (through depression and social isolation, too) but I carved a well-paid career out of programming and now live in Thailand and work barely 15 hours a week to survive. Stop allowing your BS self-beliefs to rule your life, pull your boot straps up and get to work! There are a million ways to earn money on the internet. LEARN, and don't stop until you do. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number by telling her I have a tiny dick.Is it though? I'm not so sure. Maybe is easy to say when you have a big dick? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Got a girls number by telling her I have a tiny dick.Don't let anything rattle you.. and have a big dick? Along with be attractive? Come on. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Think for yourself, take what you read here seriously, but also with a grain of salt.This is about the only mentality that keeps me interested in a relationship at all. I'm bored to tears with casual sex, and yet have a tendency to breakdown a bit in a relationship because I find it incredibly difficult to invest in something that can just walk out the door with another person. I think we need a few more posts on increasing your chances as you put it. Buddy up with someone at least couple points lower than your SMV, keep improving yourself, etc, etc. There are a few women that h… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Learn To Respect YourselfThanks, it's good to know I can inspire others with the actions I've taken. Hard, smart work will always pay off. Just be brutal with the sacrifices you make. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | SalesWhat are you talking about? The post is talking about selling, not sales in general (despite being titled as such). And I'm well aware marketing =/= selling. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 06:49 AM |
| 1 | (Emotions & Their Bitch) The Missing Key To Not Giving A FuckBetter phrased as - do what you're afraid to do, and know you should do. I know I should get off tinder and approach more. Ok, I don't. But I also knew 3 months ago that I should give a few standups (brief announcement) to the team where I used to work before I left because it would help with my confidence and the opportunity was running out. I was afraid, but I knew I should do it. I pushed it for a good few weeks and it helped to rewire a lot of my faulty beliefs about public speaking. I think… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Learn To Respect YourselfIf you have the ability, see a therapist, maybe even start a small round of anti-depressants. I used them for 3 months once and it helped me out of a very dark period, and I was able to keep myself up. Regardless, a therapist will be able to advise you on that. Don't just sit back and watch your mental health deteriorate without trying everything you can to change yourself for the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Learn To Respect YourselfThink about your job for a moment. Do you enjoy it? Are you paid decently for the work you do? If the answer to both of those questions is not yes, then why are you doing it? Fully agree. I recently quit my programming job, moved to Thailand so I could work part-time freelance and spend rest of my time working on my own goals. I think I just became disillusioned with pouring my life into someone else's goals. I figured I owe it to myself to be doing something I love every day. I loved programmin… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 01:01 PM |
| 2 | SalesI'm a programmer and building my own software business at the minute. The product is useless if you can't sell it. Marketing is the most important aspect of spreading things that are useful for humankind. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Pioneers: Charles BukowskiI said true peace of mind. That isn't it.. take away their religion and their peace of mind disappears. Not sustainable. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Girl says "you're really not going to talk to me" but makes no effort to contact first...what do I reply with?Holy shit, damn right! Don't let her fool you into thinking she will only sleep with you if you take her out. Drop this girl and work on yourself. I've made the mistake of paying for women a few times -- but I quickly stop giving attention to the chicks who don't pay for themselves. ..and if I really like a girl, then in an effort to save her from herself, I'll tell her I'm not paying for shit. Usually, if she's not just looking for a free meal, she'll stick around and she'll start paying for he… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | "Promise not to make any moves on me"Ha, yep! But that aint my reality. I'm sure the chick I'm seeing at the minute would open her legs if I cut all contact and started ignoring her messages.. but I'm more interested in building anticipation now (while fucking other hoes on the side). | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Pioneers: Charles BukowskiIt puts you on guard at first, not forever. That's just part of the process. Once you've accepted the reality that you don't own anybody and you can't control anybody, there is nothing to guard. You EXPECT people to be endlessly unpredictable and changeable. It doesn't matter because you no longer hinge your existence on their behaviour. You have become your own person. Admittedly, this all goes out the window when you give up actual power to someone through marriage or children. Hence, don't ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | How much does height and build play into attractiveness?Women ..and why should I care about what women care about? By not caring, they are mine. By caring, they are not. Such is the irony of this game. If you seem lacking in confidence, needy or otherwise low-status then no amount of physique will be sufficient to maintain frame enough to get the result. Thanks for the clarification. I think I understand where you're coming from now. Though my conversational skills are lacking, I don't think I give off a vibe that I need validation or I am pussy-star… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill Pioneers: Charles BukowskiThe peace of mind that this knowledge has taken from me Nothing has been taken from you. We are all in the process of losing our religion. True peace of mind is not found in the illusory, anyway. Be thankful it is gone, and look to develop a more sustainable peace of mind from a place of truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 06:08 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill Pioneers: Charles BukowskiIn effect, woman's love means: safety and escape from society. And women are not hesitant to manipulate his exhausted need for relief; women prey on the desperation and confused anger of men, and their need for rest and recreation — lulling them into the false assumption that they have found a sanctuary. Very insightful stuff! On this point, this is why it is so important you are your own sanctuary and look to nobody else for security and fulfilment. I am possibly the most happiest I've ever bee… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Pioneers: Charles Bukowskithat moment when a woman's feelings turn off (for you) Yep, I noticed that when I split up with my first GF. Was one of the first pills I had to swallow. Having said that, I've also gone completely cold on women and flipped switches -- though was usually to protect myself emotionally. 'War brides' have a bigger propensity for it, and for different reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Girl says "you're really not going to talk to me" but makes no effort to contact first...what do I reply with?Soft next? Don't date women who don't chase you after you've slept with them. Not worth it. Plenty WILL chase you and not play stupid fucking games. There are a few cute chicks I lost out on likely because I didn't chase them after I slept with 'em.. but so what? If they were that interested, they would have been in touch. So I filtered all those hoes out and now just keep around the women who are genuinely interested in me enough to chase. Why the hell should you settle for anything less? You a… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 05:39 PM |
| 5 | How much does height and build play into attractiveness?Interesting.. I'm 5'8, have seen some awesome noob gainz in the last 8 months and actually have a decent build now. Still want to pack on a couple more stone, but don't want to overdo it. I can maintain current physique by only going gym couple times a week. ..at the same time, I've only just started finding success with women over the past few years, and was previously forever alone. My personality doesn't match up, and perhaps it looks compensatory to some.. but who cares? I'm sure a few women… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 05:36 PM |
| 13 | "Promise not to make any moves on me"This. I know it's a shock to the system, but some women are actually capable of keeping their legs closed for a while. I recently met a chick.. seen her about 10 times, been in my bed 4 times, STILL not managed to fuck her because she's scared. Apparently is a virgin. Closest I've got is ONE finger a third into her. She gave same story "I trust you, promise not to blah blah blah".. "ok, honey".. escalate.. "promise..", "ok, we're not having sex".. escalate. If she gets distressed, pull back and … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 05:20 PM |
| 2 | How long did it take for you to love yourself?It took my mum dying to finally understand the utter vitality and importance of loving yourself unconditionally. Self-compassion should be cultivated daily, and, eventually, extended unconditionally to others. The hardest part for me is changing these destructive thought patterns and conquering my depression for good. I still seek validation from everyone but myself. I'm trying to love myself finally instead. I know I have good qualities and values, and a hell of a lot of potential. I've been th… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Can you fuck a coworker if it is a college job like fast food, retail, etc if you plan on being there for a few months?Stop asking permission, man. Each situation is different. If you're both clearly cool about casual sex and non-drama, then I say go for it. Plenty of coworkers sleep with each other and go about their lives. It's no big deal.. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it?I've recently met someone who definitely has a very low n-count. Lots of involuntary behaviour giving it away - I did my best to completely ignore her words and watch her actions. Still... it doesn't mean anything. Whether she's a virgin or not, she will not sexually commit to one guy for the rest of her life, just like I won't sexually commit to one girl for the rest of my life. Seems one of our biggest issues is in accepting this reality from both sides. Nobody should be accepting monogamous r… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 08:47 AM |
| 2 | I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey.So get to know your plates better, have deep conversations and all that, do everything you'd do with a gf just without the title and the drama I do, but that doesn't happen in the first week. That happens over a period of months.. and, if it's a plate, then it's inherently a short-term situation. 3-6 months and she's demanding commitment. if you've gotten to the point you're aware enough to not fall into BP mistakes. I think I probably have. To me, the only mistake is to get to a point where you… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 10:24 PM |
| 3 | I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey.This is a great point, actually, IF you're doing all of this for hits of dopamine.. which I reckon a lot of people do when they first find success with women. It's natural, and, if you keep improving yourself, you will experience it, too. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR. Did I do the right thing?Didn't read because the answer will always be YES. If you had doubts to even get to this point, then yes, you should have. It wouldn't have worked, whether it was your fault or hers. Yes because it gives you a great opportunity to learn and grow. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 06:59 PM |
| 5 | I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey.The only thing I can see lacking with a plate vs a gf is a deeper intimacy and more fulfilling sex. With plating, it seems I will always be having vapid sexual encounters that, after some experience, feel more like masturbation. Or perhaps that's a chemistry thing? I always think back on my best sexual experiences, and they ALWAYS involve someone I'd been fucking for more than a few months. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Another lost opportunity because I failed to approach..rejection is better than regret Absolutely. I'll keep working on it. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 06:35 PM |
| 7 | Don't let TRP consume you.I second this. I come here when I swing on either end of the spectrum and become too pessimistic or become too brainlessly beta. It always brings me back to centre. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Never forget that Western Culture changes foreign womenYep. One of the saddest things I've seen is McDonald's in Thailand; land of gorgeous food. Over-consumption is approaching and it will play out as predictably as it has played out everywhere else. So many western ideals need to be eradicated. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 12:16 AM |
| 3 | I'm an idiotWhich country did you move to? This is all about perspective, man. I just gave up my job, friends, family and apartment AND GF to move to a different country for ME. Now you're in a great position to do exactly the same thing, because you've already done most of it. Focus on yourself. Did you move to a country where you can live a better lifestyle? I moved to Thailand. I live cheaply and absolutely a better lifestyle than where I'm from. I do whatever I have to (except become ladyboy) to stay. I… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How is this happening?Could you tell us more about what changed in that you "never knew interacting with women could be so fun?" | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 07:28 PM |
| 59 | Have some fucking standards and self respectThis is the reality. If I only dated women who were a fuck-yes towards me, I doubt I'd have slept with anyone. Women warm up a little slower. If they don't become a fuck-yes after I've slept with them, THEN ok, bail. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Lay One Brick at a TimeYep, experienced a similar thing in SEA. A great way to experience instant abundance is to go to a culture abundant with attractive, feminine women. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Lay One Brick at a TimeTruth. Can't remember which blog it was, but I remember hearing something to the effect of "women will fill the container they are in" and explored exactly this reality. Goes for people in general, though. Men will also integrate with cultures they move into, given time. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Turning Off "Read", "Last Seen", "Read Receips" Keeps Me Sane and Preserves My "Online Frame" {mistakes I made a year ago that regret a lot}Take it a step further and keep your phone on silent apart from emergency calls. NOTHING aside from an emergency can be that important that it needs an immediate response, or needs to break your train of thought or interrupt you in any way. I've had my phone on silent for the last 2 years and I haven't died. Easily one of the best decisions I've made, and I refuse to go back to being randomly interrupted by trivial crap. Doesn't stop me from routinely checking my phone, though :P that's the next… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Turning Off "Read", "Last Seen", "Read Receips" Keeps Me Sane and Preserves My "Online Frame" {mistakes I made a year ago that regret a lot}I've heard that one before. Definitely an analogy that goes the distance. By a similar token, men are like dogs and can be carved to be loyal and obedient. Building on your analogy. I went to a cat cafe the other day. Nobody was there, just me and a couple staff and about 12 cats roaming around, chilling, etc. they had clearly been spoiled by attention because not a single one came to me when I got there. Contrast this with attention-starved cats I've seen elsewhere and the behaviour is night an… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Turning Off "Read", "Last Seen", "Read Receips" Keeps Me Sane and Preserves My "Online Frame" {mistakes I made a year ago that regret a lot}Same. I plain refuse to date women who don't chase me. What's the point? Might as well hang out with girls who are interested enough to message me unprompted. This has led to many plates saying "you don't text enough", "you never text me", etc, and has led to many other women simply screening themselves out by not chasing me. Great. Now I'm left with the ones who are genuinely interested and who I've made an impact on. The ONLY time I'll chase someone is if I haven't met/slept with them yet. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Female coworkers around the water coolerModern dating is pathetic. So happy I've gone beyond waiting out for a "quality" woman and learning to be happy alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | The challenge of a successful LTR.What country? I just moved to Thailand and feel like this might be a decent place to find a woman who is halfway LTR material. Didn't see a single one of them in the UK. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 11:38 AM |
| 33 | Last Minute Resistance [LMR] and why you need to stop taking it so seriously.It's easy to let LMR go when you're not sex starved. It happens with almost every woman I bring back to my place. Every time, I just pull back attention and relax, and every time, they come back for more. or you're a savy guy, you give it a brief pause, just look at her, grin and amp it up, have sex (or) you freeze her out (stop all touching, check your phone, whatever), re-initiate, escalate, have sex, now all of the sudden she's into you, plate material Please, for your sanity, if you haven't … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Put yourself first, women are merely a bi-product (and other ramblings)I can see how skateboarding can do that. I think one of the reasons I've found lifting so rewarding is that initial progress was very rapid.. I began to see noob gains really quickly. But I'm really not into hanging around in the gym. I lift hard a couple times a week and I'm more than happy with my physique. Now I'm more focused on something more interesting.. swimming, salsa dancing, rock climbing, yoga. I do remember picking up skateboarding for a while as a kid. Had a lot of fun, but that sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Put yourself first, women are merely a bi-product (and other ramblings)What makes you think Freud has all the answers? Nobody is infallible. Everybody can be wrong. Except Elon Musk. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Put yourself first, women are merely a bi-product (and other ramblings)Well, lifting is generally prescribed as a starting point because, other than improve your aesthetics, it is a powerful way to train your discipline, increase your energy levels, increase your confidence, and increase your testosterone. All important aspects of succeeding in many areas of life, not just with women. Either way, I fully agree with your sentiment. If the gym doesn't inspire you, go find something that does. Your life is too short to be doing what you don't actually want to be doing… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Put yourself first, women are merely a bi-product (and other ramblings)I would really welcome a post on how to traverse the frustratingly difficult journey of crossing from betahood to stoic king. I've made incredibly big strides over the last few years, mentally and in terms of dating, since finding TRP. But, even after having found great success, I still fluctuate at times. I recently found myself beating myself up and driving myself into despair because a chick flaked on me at the last second.. someone that was chasing me and I was looking forward to seeing. I t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys always come up with a witty response?I just freeze whenever I really feel insulted. any tips? Work on your amused mastery. Learn to not take anything personally. That will immediately disarm any and all comments, good or bad, and free up your intelligence to decide whether it even warrants a response or not. Remember, man, you have been here before many times. It's nothing, it's trivial. Focus on what matters - you and your behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Once you lose frame with a girl, can you get it back and recover?Maybe. Best method is to cut all contact and date other women. Lack of your presence is about the only thing that will pique her interest. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | I’m struggling with spinning platesWell. first of all you don't commit to a woman without vetting her for a good 6 months. So, without commitment, you absolutely should go and explore your options and date multiple chicks at the same time. I get it, though. I'm 30 and have only been dating successfully the last few years and I am so jaded by casual sex now. It's boring, vapid, empty.. I might as well masturbate. But, I know that it's important for the experience.... and, sometimes, it's surprisingly fun. I only started dating mul… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 12:47 PM |
| -1 | How Would You Handle Telling Her You Made Other Plans?18 hours go by with no response lmao ..and what should you do? Do exactly what she did - ignore the bitch. Maybe ping her when you get back, who cares? Go chase other women. You've already spent too much time thinking about how to handle this. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 12:32 PM |
| 49 | Getting your shit together: Goal setting & self respectThat's it. I've been the happiest when I've been totally focused on improving myself, my life and my conditions.. and enjoying time with friends/family. Women have usually come along for the ride because I've been more lighthearted and DNGAF, and I've been in a great position to drop bitches that won't behave. Make women a priority and you will live in perpetual dissatisfaction and disappointment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/17 08:35 AM |
| 63 | My Grandma's Response to My Alpha Grandfather's Decline: a Horrific AWALT StoryIt's good to see stories like this amid these depressing stories of abandonment. I've seen many other cases of women who stuck by their men through difficult times.. but I have zero faith in the next generation of women. And yet, unless we all want to die out within a generation, somebody is going to have to raise healthy, strong children, which means somebody is going to have to commit to this next generation of women. Scary. Can't imagine the amount of broken families that will be left behind … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/17 08:31 AM |
| 3 | [Rant] On Greiving and Women.Truth.. but even good friends are hard to come by. I have TWO friends that have gone the distance over the last 15 years. I dropped the rest because they're not real friends, always out for themselves or only interested when you have something to offer them. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/17 08:25 AM |
| 26 | [Rant] On Greiving and Women.Ya know, I've heard round here a few times that men don't need women, but women need men. It's primarily because they look to us for emotional stability amid their endless storm. We are the rocks, lighthouses and anchors, and when we crumble, fall and unhinge, women will enter panic-mode and start looking for something else to grab onto for dear life. Her captain failed to do the one thing he was hired to do and captain his ship. How are you supposed to manage her if you can't even manage yourse… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsYa know, I really do hope SOME will. But how the hell do you screen for that? Waste 7 years with the selfish cunt first? Fake your parents' death? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsPlease, for the sake of your future, don't ever invest anything into her again. She has literally just proven to you that she will bail when you need support. If that doesn't disqualify her for any kind of commitment, I don't know what does. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsThat is horrific... and what is even more disturbing is that ANYONE, man or woman, and especially someone you shared your life with for 7 years, would abandon you at such a crucial time. I lost my mum last year while in a relationship.. but had found TRP prior and I pre-emptively broke up with her. Don't know how I didn't top myself, but a year on I'm generally much happier than I've been in years. Keep looking after yourself! Once you're over the worst of it, nothing will be able to cause you t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsI was thinking... what about faking something like that early on in a relationship to screen these selfish cunts out? There's gotta be a way that doesn't involve 7 years of building a fake relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 11:51 AM |
| 8 | Dating Crisis Goes MainstreamWho wrote the film?? We need an AMA. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had oneHave considered this myself. Seem much more sustainable and realistic than monogamous relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had oneAs in they're ALWAYS good in the beginning when she's on her best behaviour, and ALWAYS bad in the end when her real face emerges. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had oneSo happy to see these couple of sobering responses. I thought this place had gone mad for a second and completely lost sight. Come educate me about relationships when you've been going at it 3+ years and I'll listen... And I'm very inexperienced. I've only had a couple relationships, 6 months and a year respectively. I wouldn't have the audacity to then come here and enlighten others about how great they are. I know they're rigged. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had oneMisinterpret this as a reason to slack and you will loose her faster than you can say beta bucks. But isn't one of the most important principles about abundance mentality? Why, if there is an endless amount of women around who I could happily have sex with or develop relationships with, should I care about whether this one woman sticks around, and care enough to not dare slack in case she leaves? Seems like a massive contradiction, but perhaps I'm not looking at it correctly? Perhaps I'm missing… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had oneWe're together since almost a year now. Stopped reading there, sadly. Of course they can be beneficial in the first year or two before she turns into the devil. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:21 AM |
| 1 | The memory that makes it easy to swallow the Red Pill.I said relationship, not marriage. Fuck. That. I've already lost the most important woman in my life and I'm still alive.. in fact, in her passing I thrived if anything. No loss of romantic relationship will ever come close to that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 02:17 PM |
| 4 | The memory that makes it easy to swallow the Red Pill.Sad, but true. But ya know what, I'd consider it a major success he has made it 10 years and is still happy in his marriage/relationship. Who cares if it doesn't last forever. If I can get 10 relatively happy years out of a relationship, I'll consider that a great achievement. And if/when it all falls apart, I'll just jump on another woman and go another 10 years just like she'll jump on another chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 01:23 PM |
| 2 | First Night Lay Tinder GuideYeh, quite a few on Tinder are a few points lower than IRL, and the attractive ones I'm chasing are flakey as fuck. Still, managed to snag a couple of cuties.. but I'm sure cold approach will take me much farther. Thanks for the advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 05:45 PM |
| 2 | First Night Lay Tinder GuideYeh, I'm white. What would you suggest? Cold approach? I've noticed plenty more hotties matching on Tinder, and most chicks here seem to be cute and in shape.. literally, too many of 'em. But I'm absolutely shite at cold approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 05:09 PM |
| 7 | First Night Lay Tinder GuideSeems like a great guide.. but it's missing one key metric - how attractive are these women that you are bedding? If you're bedding 8+, then I'm all ears. But if you're only scraping 4/5/6s.. then..? I don't have your physique, though I have a decent mug which I've used to sleep with maybe 20 women in the last couple years. I'm in Thailand at the minute, not entirely sure the women will respond as well to overly sexual messages/shots, but I guess there is only one way to find out! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Establish frame by giving less fucksYep - that was a bit of a game-changer for me -- the way I didn't lose friends, but was actually respected more by being a selfish, arrogantly confident guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationThat's testament to just down difficult it is! I'm hoping to return when I'm a little more prepared. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 05:26 AM |
| 8 | What is DreadDread don't mean shit if she isn't invested in you. Hook 'em first. I also agree with the other comment about how it should be implied through your behaviour. If you fuck up, then sure, apply directly and ruthlessly. But, generally, you'll carry natural dread if you have high SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 07:22 AM |
| 2 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationBy breathing techniques, I'm talking i.e. pranayma techniques, etc. I'm not saying diaphramatic breathing is an improved breathing technique. Yes, you're quite right - it is how we naturally breathe as children. Interesting claim about why we generally breathe through our chest as adults. Do you have any sources? I'm finding it difficult to pin down through a couple searches. There is no disagreement here regarding breathing technique, just the fact that proper breathing technique is NOT a prere… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Law 38 in Practice: In the coming years, you may need to do more..and I'm perfectly happy to APPEAR as the oppressor. Who cares what the average person thinks? I think you actually win by standing by your convictions. What are we supposed to do? Quietly let this crap run amok? That seems to be the prescribed method around here for some unearthly reason, considering we are supposed to be the effectors. We say this is BS and it is leading to the demise of society, and yet lack the backbone to stand up and refuse to allow it? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Law 38 in Practice: In the coming years, you may need to do moreThis is what we need! To make a mockery of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Law 38 in Practice: In the coming years, you may need to do moreTrue. I should have a better response, but I have this near-uncontrollable urge to do whatever they tell me not to do. I guess ignoring is a more constructive approach, but some people need hard lessons. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:27 AM |
| 2 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationThere are many objects of meditation, and compassion is one of them. You first start with compassion for yourself, then you extend to compassion for your family, then to friends, then to someone you have neutral feelings about, then to difficult people. The idea is that if you have a default state of loving-kindness and compassion, you will, in the same breath, bring a great awareness to wherever that energy is directed. If you come up against a difficult situation or person, and you instantly, … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:21 AM |
| 7 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationEntirely depends how frequently and for how long your sessions are. It is generally recommended that beginners start with 20 minutes, twice a day. You'll see significant differences within months if you commit to it. But, you don't even need to put time aside for meditation to get the full benefit. Look into mindfulness - that is essentially bringing meditation into all activity. I've not actually sat and meditated for a long time, but I've committed myself to bringing mindfulness to most everyt… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 05:58 AM |
| 5 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationNot a prerequisite, but certainly important. The breath is a common object of meditation when first starting, which can lead onto diaphramatic breathing and other, improved breathing techniques. I guess they can feed into each other. There are no prerequisites to meditation apart from being alive. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 05:51 AM |
| 8 | A Beginner's Guide to MeditationI'd also recommend a Vipassana meditation retreat for those looking to jump into the deep end. Personally, though, I found it too much, too fast. I went to a 4-day retreat yesterday.. lasted about 8 hours and came home. It was far too ascetic for me, and I'd not meditated properly in years. Great post! Meditation and (especially) mindfulness can significantly improve the quality of your existence, regardless of circumstances. In fact, they can lead to such a sense of contentment that you realise… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Random Thoughts after Twenty Years of GameYeh, but moving onto an edu visa shortly, and will (hopefully) be staying for a few years. Highly recommend it if you can get out here. I'm not even on the islands and it feels like paradise. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Somebody tell me to GTFO TinderFuck. You're right. Even the thought of deleting it and any other dating app makes me feel like I'll have zero pussy in my life. I've only really snagged one chick in real life (the Italian I met at salsa) and, sure enough, she was likely the hottest, most feminine, least fucked up girl I've dated. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 05:14 PM |
| 6 | These early stages are awfulMove faster man. If they hang out more than once then they were clearly interested the first time round. They are giving you opportunities, you just aren't seizing them. Kino, tease, go for a kiss, invite them back to your place. I know it's difficult before you have the success, but you gotta go for the kill again and again. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 05:07 PM |
| 2 | How can I learn to love myself on a more profound level?Absolutely. Find a good CBT or ACT therapist. It's taken me a couple years to unwind a lot of crap in my head, but it's been worth it. Can't put a price on mental health. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 12:02 PM |
| 3 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickYep. These truths have been passed around for many years. TRP has just expounded on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 11:56 AM |
| 24 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickFully agree. That part of you she can never have is your mission, btw. As long as she knows that is your number #1 priority, she will never stop trying to climb. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Random Thoughts after Twenty Years of GameAhh I see. Yeh I've heard they are attempting to reinvent the place. I might do a post in the future once I've settled in somewhat and have something insightful to contribute. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Random Thoughts after Twenty Years of GameI'm working (freelance programming). I mainly moved out here so I could afford to work part-time and give myself much more time to build a software business on the side. It's working out well so far. Have a nice one bedroom apartment in a prime location for £350/m. Can eat for ~£2/day. Beautiful women, warm ALL the time, every hour of the day and night. Definitely one of the best decisions I've made in my life. Highly recommend to others who are in position to work remotely. And, if not.. learn!… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Irrational ConfidenceI would have likely killed him and then killed myself. I lost my mum last year, and I found it astonishing that I managed to pull through without topping myself. I don't think we understand just how resilient we can be. Even that is incomparable to the kind of suffering you've managed to overcome... truly, incredible. Have you thought about getting involved with abused children? Sounds like an ideal mission (if you don't have one). | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 03:46 PM |
| 2 | What should I focus on after break up? Girls, gym or career?I second this, too. As much as my career has taken me to some great new levels, the gym/frequent exercise is fundamental to a healthy body/mind. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approach is King.Social circle is extremely limited compared to cold approach. Do the numbers. How many women do you have access to through your social circle, and how much effort does it take to maintain said social circle.. vs.. approaching whoever the fuck you want whenever you want. Come on. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Random Thoughts after Twenty Years of GameCheers. I'll have a look. I'm starting to think serial monogamy is probably for me, maybe with the odd fling. Btw, Pataya is not at all representative of Thailand. I'm in Chiang Mai. Very different story up here. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Random Thoughts after Twenty Years of GameSo you're in a relationship. Any suggestions on that? I'm becoming a bit jaded by plating. Just moved to Thailand and there seems to be plenty of traditional minded, less experienced chicks around. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Louis CK 'Scandal' and the spread and dilution of OutrageWeird? By whose standard? Yours? Society's? .. why would he get them to jack him off? It's his fetish.. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Advice on bypassing heavy LMR after trying all methods in my toolkitThis! Your most powerful method is your ability to walk away. She will either come running with her panties around her ankles or she won't. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 11:57 AM |
| 10 | Louis CK 'Scandal' and the spread and dilution of OutrageI don't know. I reckon a more confident Louis would have said something like "I'm going to yank myself off to you. The door is over there if you want to leave". | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 06:34 AM |
| 1 | The Montage Generationjust how slow, grueling, boring and unrewarding self-improvement actually is Speak for yourself. Sure, those moments exist.. but even when I suffer and grow, I still grow, and I still enjoy that process.. which means I don't suffer ;) Anyway, great post! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Law 38 explains why a lot of you here are actually struggling.I said 'largely' for a reason. The machine I'm working on was 'largely' built my machines... and I don't need to be part of the herd to take advantage of other people's work. That wasn't the point, was it? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Law 38 explains why a lot of you here are actually struggling.That's a good thing, though. Who wants to be part of this betaized herd? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/17 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Law 38 explains why a lot of you here are actually struggling.but the flipside of this is that the herd will then expel you. So? We live in an era where we can survive largely without the herd. My people will join me, I'm sure. The rest.. who cares. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/17 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Next Her FastI love her I've found the best cure for oneitis is to do the opposite of what is suggested around here and open your heart completely - love all the women. The love you are talking about is not real, it is possessive and jealous and exclusive. If you encourage a kind of open love to all women, your oneitis for any one woman will disappear. You'll have a kind of omni-itis. I think that is a much healthier state than to withdraw emotionally and not emotionally invest in anyone out of fear of aband… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetDark web probably your best bet if you're in a country that is simple/safe to deliver to. Be careful with DMT, though, that's possibly the most powerful psychedelic experience you can have.. and, from what I've heard, because of the sheer power and lack of time up there (lasts around 15 or so minutes), it can be difficult to integrate into your life. +1 for shrooms, though. That's a good place to start. ..and none of this is a panacea. Take it one step at a time and be responsible about it. That… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 12:06 AM |
| 10 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.I will be. I'm bisexual haha | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetAs an alternative I'd suggest a meditation camp in Bali where its safe instead... and at the end when your mind is in a good stable place maybe take a legal magic mushroom shake with a few of the friends made while meditating. I love that idea. I'm in Thailand so will definitely consider doing this. Yeh, I should have clarified RE ayahuasca. Great comment, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/17 12:31 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetI definitely agree with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.An even bigger cause is a drop in infant mortality. People now have 2 kids and both usually survive. Very different to having 7 and 2 survive. Good point. I'm sure there are many other contributing factors, too. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 02:46 PM |
| 40 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetWell, psychedelics can help you discover what your real values are, so it can go both ways that one. The two main components of a good trip are set and setting. Set is your mindset, how you've felt recently, how you've felt in the past, how you feel today. It's obviously not a great idea to explore (alone) if you're not in a good mindset. Having said that, shrooms have been shown to have a positive effect on people suffering with depression, and obviously their mindset is not necessarily in a gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 01:52 PM |
| 49 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetSounds like that ego death did you good! /s | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 01:32 PM |
| 51 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetGlad to see others here preaching the good book. For others: educate yourself FIRST! Don't just jump into big psychedelic trips and expect positive life-changing experiences. Interpretation of the experience itself can lead to many different outcomes, good and bad. I remember a post a while back from a guy who had taken ayahuasca (not LSD, but is psychedelic) expecting it to change his life. It did, but by way of years of depression. Upon reading more into what had happened and what was happenin… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 01:28 PM |
| 1 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.Well, I can't read for ya! :P | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 01:23 PM |
| 55 | The Red Pill Cheat SheetCome on, lets be real.. token LMR is a very common thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Dontis your name ryalln or ryan? :P don't listen to these chumps! We understand ya find. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:25 AM |
| 2 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.That's just the way that millennial women are Ha! That's just the way PEOPLE are ffs. How long before we accept that monogamy is not our natural state. We are in complete denial and seem to think that lifelong (extended to 50+ years) monogamy is somehow healthy. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:20 AM |
| 21 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.What would you do if you had 800 pussies ready to serve you at your whim I just moved to Thailand and, well.. instant abundance of hot, young chicks chasing white dick. I know for a fact I couldn't handle monogamy. Only question is, are you upfront about that before getting into a relationship? Many are not, men or women. We're all in fucking denial. It's pathetic. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:19 AM |
| 6 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in her.This is a fantastic way of laying it out! As much as I'd like a relationship with some action on the side, I will never ever assume a person is capable of life-long commitment. This goes both ways, too. No woman should ever expect a man to give her life-long commitment. We are all fallible and far too complex for such an infantile ideal. We should be looking to the real source of all this anguish - extended lifespans. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]sex is a bad reason I'm not saying it's a bad reason. I'm saying, ok, at least for me, it's more of a way of being. And I'm very careful with my motivations, so I try to purge stuff like sex/climbing hierarchy. At the moment I've found a sweet spot just by being motivated by the curiosity of what I can achieve. Nothing more. Everything else is a given and a bonus. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]I completely agree with the fact it all boils down to sex and evolution. But we're capable of consciously directing our energy for pursuits outside of these biological imperatives. Are monks improving their state of existence to pass on their genes? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 08:55 AM |
| 3 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]A-fucking-men! Pussy is a solved problem. Focus on yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 06:20 AM |
| 1 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]Ey? Self improvement is a way of life. It should be as natural as breathing. If you're doing it for a goal, you're doing it wrong. Goals just keep us focused somewhat. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 06:18 AM |
| 2 | I am your Competition [Gold Repost]Truth. My only competition is who I was yesterday. I thought we were trying to cultivate abundance mentality? Who gives a flying fuck what women want haha work on yourself and your mission and you'll never go without. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Two Words That Can Change Your Life/GameThis kind of brutal self-honesty is great to see, and I'd like to think is one of the more constructive things you pick up as you wander through this community. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Two Words That Can Change Your Life/GameI've recently quit my job to chase my mission. Are you self-employed? I've found that your purpose is challenged much more when almost every choice is on your shoulders. At the same time, I've experienced a lot of contentedness recently and seen that I don't actually need to achieve anything to feel good about myself.. seems now the purpose must be less selfish, perhaps more about helping people? That's the only purpose I could see that would stay burning. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Tinder tips after 2 years datingLeaving UK next week to live in Chiang Mai for a while. Cannot wait! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Having a few slut friends have shown me how women can experience the entire spectrum of dating (simultaneously with multiple men), with complete control, frame and ease.So what is wrong with an open relationship? You can still exercise your polygamy..? Plus, I'm sure I've read "women would rather share a high quality guy, than settle for a mediocre one". As in, surely some women will be ok with you sleeping around. Not really sure what I'm trying to get at. Just a bit confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/17 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Dread GameHow do you think this might affect an open relationship? Do you think it would cause even more dread, or have her crack? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Any strategies for maximising longevity of plates with minimal effort?Interesting viewpoint. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The dangers of opening up to othersIn trying to teach you that women are oftentimes not the ally you thought they were, TRP accidentally sells you the lie that men are your allies. I see what you mean. I agree, and thanks for explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Any strategies for maximising longevity of plates with minimal effort?Yeh, fair point. I just feel my effort might be best spent extending lifespan of plates rather than chasing new prospects. I mean the last few months I've barely had to put ANY effort in because I've managed to spin a few plates with minimal effort. This plate almost breaking has just spurred me to recheck my strategy - hence this post. Appreciate the advice, man! | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Any strategies for maximising longevity of plates with minimal effort?Thanks for the advice! I'll be sure to pay more attention to how effectively I push/pull. I'm sure she'll be back for more. When I'm with her I spoil the fuck out of her with attention/dick.. and then she doesn't hear from me for a week and keeps asking where I am and what I'm doing, who I'm with, random drunk texts, etc, etc. I haven't even responded to her bail and Sunday suggestion. Can't actually be bothered putting any effort into these hoes any more haha pussy is just not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?My friend.. she had a great time in bed and is now ok going without your cock for 3 weeks? Come on. You have to be honest with yourself. If you're 100% sure it has fuck all to do with your sex game, then fair enough -- you know more than me. I just find it very strange she would pass up another ride if she enjoyed herself so much. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Any strategies for maximising longevity of plates with minimal effort?Yeh, I might dangle that in the future. I'm moving to Thailand in a few weeks so haven't been able to use that tactic with current plates. They know nothing is going to happen. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Work on your sex game.. read The Sex God Method and apply that shit. One step at a time, man. You've done more than most just by day game. I haven't even worked up the balls to do that. Most of my lays are from online or group (salsa). If you give her a good time in bed a few times she will be hooked. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Any strategies for maximising longevity of plates with minimal effort?As in.. not texting? I've employed dread quite effectively by just not texting them. That usually drives them a bit mad and they chase me, random texts at night wondering who I'm with, etc. But dread without attraction is useless. So maintaining attraction is also part of the strategy. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Until you understand their nature on a deeper level, follow the rules, don't worry about the exceptions. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?I wouldn't say it is that bad in that she DID respond to your text.. but it sounds like she's on the fence. Regardless, you should develop a shotgun mentality - think in many women. Yeh ok text her again in a week, but don't just focus your attention on her. Go chase other women - and even when you hook someone, keep chasing other women. Get out of this one-woman-man mentality because it will lead to nothing but disappointment. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Can you remember the exact wording you used? Is your sex game decent? I can't see why she would ignore you for 5 days after if she had a great time. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Yeh, it's called buyer's remorse. Because you didn't text her and reaffirm you had a great time, she would have felt rejected and slutty and then remorseful for fucking you. So now she will associate those bad feelings with having sex with you and obviously not be as excited about doing that again. It's shit, but it happens. Don't beat yourself up about it. The only way to learn is to make these mistakes! | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?If she didn't answer your call or reply later.. that's not a great sign. Don't see this as waiting a week. Set a reminder somewhere to ping her in a week. You shouldn't be waiting around for her. Forget this bitch and go chase other women. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Yeh I completely agree with that. I imagine would lead very quickly to buyer's remorse. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Best you can do is leave it a week and text her again. Still no reply? Maybe give it a couple more weeks for a final stab. In the mean time, date more women. You might even meet someone else and forget about her. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?Never explain anything to a woman. It will come across as apologetic and weak. Focus on your actions, not your words. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Plate tells me she's busy for two weeks studying for midterm. called at behest of friend, is it over?What about if you've fucked her a few times? I have this tendency to not text plates and leave it to them to chase me. Seems to have worked fine with my last few plates. However, my current plate has bailed on me this Friday and wants to see me Sunday instead - we arranged for Friday at beginning of week and I haven't texted her since. Should I be texting every few days to keep them warm? I use text for logistics and I couldn't really give a fuck about feeding them attention over text -- they ha… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | It's quite disheartening that we rarely hear the story of the older bachelor with his shit together.they are not the average person They are people.. they were the average person. You seem to have this belief that isolation means loneliness, but it doesn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 09:32 AM |
| 1 | It's quite disheartening that we rarely hear the story of the older bachelor with his shit together.Being self-sufficient is one thing but isolation is proven to be detrimental to mental health Could you provide proof instead of anecdotal evidence? I agree, isolation CAN have a detrimental affect on your psyche. I've experienced the worst of it through 5 years of near-isolation where I spent almost the entire time in my bedroom. The point of my comment is to introduce an aspect that has been discussed for thousands of years - the problem of loneliness, and how we do whatever we can to avoid it… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | It's quite disheartening that we rarely hear the story of the older bachelor with his shit together.Yeh but why ever marry? I don't see the benefit for a guy at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 01:50 PM |
| 2 | It's quite disheartening that we rarely hear the story of the older bachelor with his shit together.How about we all start adopting the next generation of abandoned children before shitting out more kids? The nuclear family is not a sustainable structure for raising children. We need to make more efforts towards raising children in a communal setting where we are ALL responsible for raising them. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 01:49 PM |
| 2 | It's quite disheartening that we rarely hear the story of the older bachelor with his shit together.It can seem lonely sometimes but having a large social circle, enough money in your pocket for whatever, and a busy calendar doing mostly shit you love makes the pain go away. "What you are concerned with is dependence, which is a fact, with all its implications. Then there is a deeper fact, which is loneliness, the feeling of being isolated. Feeling lonely, we attach ourselves to people, drink, and all sorts of other escapes. Attachment is an escape from loneliness. Can this loneliness be under… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 01:45 PM |
| 2 | An attractive woman's abundance mentalityThey can get sex, yes, but again--"getting sex" is a male psychological projection. A woman doesn't want sex per se. She wants attention from a high value man. Very few women will have an abundance mentality with respect to high value men because there are not enough of them. This is such an important thing to cement into your head. Adding onto that -- yes, women have an abundance of sexual options. They DO NOT have an abundance of quality sexual options who are willing to commit. Your commitmen… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 01:32 PM |
| 2 | The Playroom PerspectiveFirst, this is a fantastic post and a great attitude to approach life. Having said that: Not only will it make you more interesting, it’ll also develop your sense of self which, in turn, will increase your confidence. ..developing your sense of self through ANY external means is a recipe for cyclical satisfaction and dissatisfaction. You don't need any of it for a strong sense of self, and, in fact, the step after it is to realise your own emptiness and let go of the self altogether. You certain… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The dangers of opening up to othersBut in most cases, the other person will attempt to dump their own problems onto you in return. At best, this will result in commiseration, a process that lures you in a misplaced sense of comfort that, in turn, encourages you both to stagnate in mediocrity. What a sad attitude. We are, in this very community, opening up to each other and dumping our problems on each other and, lest we forget(!) SUPPORTING each other in growing into stronger people. Having said that, I do agree that opening up t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 10:49 PM |
| 6 | When a beta makes progress, its quite disturbing to women, and I have found nothing but confused, hostile people around me going out of their way to knock me down.Fuck you. I won't do what you tell me. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | When a beta makes progress, its quite disturbing to women, and I have found nothing but confused, hostile people around me going out of their way to knock me down...err.. men also slot people into roles. Come to think of it.. PEOPLE slot people into roles, all the fucking time. Ironically, just like we slot women into roles! :P | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 10:43 PM |
| 2 | When a beta makes progress, its quite disturbing to women, and I have found nothing but confused, hostile people around me going out of their way to knock me down.It's a simple case of offering value.. connections, good feelings (humour), intelligence/knowledge/insight/wisdom, encouragement, strength, money, toys, experiences. Real connections don't happen much any more, real friends are hard to come by -- all you got are superficial connections based on mutual utility. Everybody is looking for what you can do for them, and if it isn't much then they ain't much interested. So.. become a person who naturally offers value just through your presence. On top … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 10:41 PM |
| 8 | Fucking on the first tinder date.The craziest bitches I've met have been on Tinder or online in general. Met much higher quality chicks through salsa dancing. And no, the ones I dated weren't on Tinder - they didn't need to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 12:44 PM |
| 7 | Shelve Plates Before They BreakThis is very simple when you have a mission you are committed to. All the trivial shit, including women, just fall to the wayside and you naturally behave like you DNGAF because you don't. However, though I've tasted the bliss of that, I do still sometimes fall back into this mindset of seeking validation -- or making stupid conclusions about my own SMV (or lack of) if a woman doesn't chase me to the ends of the Earth. My strategy now is - hook 'em, forget 'em. The ones who chase are genuinely i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 12:41 PM |
| 5 | For God's sake, women can play the game too - deal with it.Accordingly being - have fun with them, don't rely on them for anything else. There is a place beyond the nuclear family and insecure relationships. Focus on the relationship with yourself, develop love and compassion for all things and help people. We say it time and time again - men don't need women; women need men. I think a lot of us just need to go live our lives without any focus on women so we can see for ourselves how little value they have when we have our shit together. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 12:32 PM |
| 1 | It's fucking SaturdayI'm incredibly socially unmotivated and therefore isolated I wouldn't say this is a problem. I'm also incredibly socially unmotivated.. but I work on software instead of doing nothing in my room. Go find something that engages you more. Try loads of different things and you'll start to understand what gives you enjoyment. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 11:54 PM |
| 2 | An Old-School TRP MottoYup. It's in the 16 commandments of poon. "You are granted two freebie “I’m sorry”s for the life of your relationship; use them wisely." I never say sorry now unless I am genuinely sorry, such as if I've accidentally hurt someone physically or caused them a great deal of pain/loss. It's also made me realise how many people, at least in the UK, are sickeningly apologetic for nothing. My country really is too polite. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 12:13 PM |
| 1 | An Old-School TRP MottoHer response will be to "compete" by doing more to improve your opinion of her. Profit. Or go fuck some other chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 12:10 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill Actions Stimulate Fantasies. Be Her Fantasy Man.You do realise you can give someone a foot massage and THEN dominate the fuck out of 'em afterwards? You do realise that swaying between a seemingly nice guy and a ravenous animal ALSO is extremely arousing to women? FFS why is everything here either/or. What the hell happened to addressing the nuances? Fuck it, let the black-and-white thinking pollute this place. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes they don't comeEither/or.. ha. I can see why you're at the back of the class. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Learn To Take A HitFighting is part of being a man Agreed. And that fighting doesn't have to be physical. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 01:11 PM |
| 8 | Sometimes they don't comeEy? Depends on your mentality. If you're doing it for her, it's beta. If you're doing it because you want to, it's not. I don't eat her out because she wants me to, I do it because I want a gorgeous, wet pussy in my mouth. If I don't want to eat her out, I won't. Same goes for ass. Some bitches have delicious little assholes and I just cannot help myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feeling the pressure of becoming something great?Hey! I'm going Chiang Mai first! :D Going to stay there for 10 days or so and then head to outskirts of Bangkok and spend a couple weeks there, then decide where to hang around for a while. I think I'm likely going to prefer the quiet of Chiang Mai so I can get shit done. Glad to hear you had a good time! So excited. ONly 5 weeks until lift off! | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else feeling the pressure of becoming something great?I have this innate urge, or drive, to always be improving myself... I used to be a huge pothead loser in high school, but since then... I've developed a mentality where not achieving my goals or fear of not making it in life keeps me up at nigh Though this might help to get you off the starting block, this is not a healthy long-term attitude. You'll become a slave to achievement and be in another trap. Self-improvement should be like breathing. It should be natural. We were born to explore, crea… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | I just found out that im craving for external acceptance. I want to quit this bullshit.I like that idea! Definitely a great way to exercise your vocal chords! :P | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Career guidance+1 on software development. If you want to travel or be location independent, just learn a skill or build a product you can deliver digitally. Plenty - writing, programming, translating, proofreading, ebooks, applications. Be aware though, you WILL have to grind and it WILL be repetitive and monotonous for a long time. Stop looking for this ideal career/lifestyle - just go and get involved and find out for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Career guidance+1. Sales is a great skill to get ahead. I went into programming because I hated sales, but I saw the pack I left gain much more in terms of 'success'. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 06:31 PM |
| 15 | Monk Mode - Be Your Own Abbot Edition'Drugs' are BP is like saying 'Food' is BP. You can't just categorise every substance under the umbrella of 'drugs' and then make general assertions and expect not to get called out by people with actual experience. I've seen and integrated realities on psychedelics that have massively accelerated my development. Hell, I remember one trip where I spent almost the entire time on Ration Male digesting those truths. That couldn't be any further from BP. Psychedelics are excellent at breaking down b… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 06:24 PM |
| 2 | I just found out that im craving for external acceptance. I want to quit this bullshit.Stay clean, organized, eat healthy, exercise, get outside, spend time both alone and socializing, wake up early, get good sleep Absolutely. If you're not generally happy, it's important to cover the fundamentals first. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 06:00 PM |
| 5 | I just found out that im craving for external acceptance. I want to quit this bullshit.I could be doing way much better at work, i could be pulling way more ass but all i find myself doing is barely solving shit and women rolling their eyes at me when i show interest These are the facts: everything is constantly changing (they like/dislike you today, they might change tomorrow) everything is impermanent (they are there today, they might not be tomorrow) I think it is man's hubris to think he can get a grip on the complexities of life considering these two facts. Don't even try. Ju… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Medical issue kept me out of the gym for nearly 2 months. Returned to the gym today and learned that lifting is by far the most important part of TRP. Don't take the gym for granted.Interesting. Might give that a try. OHP is first one I struggled with. Saying that, Almost injured myself by upping weight on DL too soon without optimal form. I'm increasing the weight at my own pace now. It allows me to focus on my form and forces me to listen to my body a little more. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/17 04:40 PM |
| 14 | How I fucked up my chances with a girl by showing concern.You're right, it is BP and it's part of your nice guy routine -- go read No More Mr Nice Guy. She isn't a helpless baby deer that stumbled into your path. She is responsible for making her own mistakes (even if getting this tattoo isn't one of them). It could have come from a place of protection - we are naturally inclined to protect the innocent and weak. That's fine, so long as you understand that this kind of behaviour triggers her to seek betabux and not jump your bones. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 10:43 PM |
| 5 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPThe feeling is mutual ;) Enjoy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 10:36 PM |
| 6 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRP2 months? Haha. Keep trying. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 10:23 PM |
| 10 | Medical issue kept me out of the gym for nearly 2 months. Returned to the gym today and learned that lifting is by far the most important part of TRP. Don't take the gym for granted.Can agree. I only started hitting gym about 4 months ago and have been going twice a week on the 5x5 program. Had some great noob gains and my mood has stabilised dramatically. Can't imagine where I'd be if I lifted through the depression back in the day. Oh well. Hope others learn from our mistakes. At very least you should be frequently exercising to exhaustion. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:38 PM |
| 196 | How I fucked up my chances with a girl by showing concern.It wasn't concern. It was judgement. That's why she bailed. Imagine all of the other stuff she could have told you, such as how she let a couple of dudes DP her anus in Cancun that one time? You showed judgement and so she closed up. Live and learn. I did it recently but to someone I was fucking. Took them a good 6 weeks to come back to me.. and that's only because we were having a good time. Do that with someone who isn't hooked and it's over before it's even started. In fact, fuck up in almost… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:35 PM |
| 13 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPThe only way to not give a fuck, irradiate confidence and being a cocky asshole is to have past merits. Wrong. You've just added a bunch of conditions to your confidence and your DNGAF attitude and, therefore, turned it into a conditional state. Who gives a flying fuck about your abs, your hobbies, your career, or how far ahead you are (based on some random 'success' metric that society handed to you)? Confidence is to trust yourself. DNGAF is something entirely different. None of us need anythi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:27 PM |
| 2 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPProps on that transformation! This is exactly the kind of inspiration and content that will help others transform themselves and their own lives. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:08 PM |
| 15 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPI'm going through a similar phase. Main thing that triggered me was losing my mum last year, then I broke up with my GF, moved out of my flat, quit my job, sold all my belongings, started working out and am moving to Thailand at end of Oct, freelancing programming and building a software business on the side. Don't know anybody there and that's exactly how I want it. If you're not happy with your lifestyle, imagine you have nothing.. what would you do? Go fucking do that. Go do what you want and… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Wedding day coming up, celebrating without sex?I think I understand more and more that my way forward right now consists mostly of Crossfit, building up a social life away from the family, and withdrawing some of the support I'm currently doing at home and for our family. This is a great step in the right direction. We generally call this 'passive' dread, because through improving yourself, you will naturally give rise to it, and she will definitely notice. Having said that, when you do this during a relationship, be prepared to have her shi… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Wedding day coming up, celebrating without sex?Don't forget, this isn't just an abrasive community, you're also on reddit. Be thankful every time you receive a mature response to anything! :P What he's saying is, if you start applying dread now, it will be completely out of character and she will shit test you into oblivion until you eventually crack and your beta re-emerges. In essence, you're likely not in the frame of mind to sustain dread. The right frame of mind is: I don't need this woman. Until you are truly there and truly don't need… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 01:22 PM |
| 6 | I'm burnt out. I can't date anymore. Sex isn't special. How many women do I have to experience before I find one that.. works?Fucking 30 women in a year isn't healthy How is that not healthy? It isn't the pleasure itself that is unhealthy, it's the way we grasp hold of it as if it leads to some ultimate satisfaction. No wonder we're lost. We're looking in the wrong places for fulfilment. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 01:17 PM |
| 31 | Girl I'm interested in tells me about other hook-ups!Ignore, next, chase other women. She is playing childish jealousy games. Almost every woman will do this as a way to shit test you and see just how mature and immovable you really are. Too many guys fail because they can't handle jealousy. I was like that for a long long time. Redirect the conversation to something else (meeting up) and act like she didn't even say it. If it crosses a boundary, then next her. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 12:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm burnt out. I can't date anymore. Sex isn't special. How many women do I have to experience before I find one that.. works?Embrace that and make your own artificial meaning via something challenging. Yes, exactly. Solve bigger problems than how to stick your penis in as many vaginas as possible. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 12:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm burnt out. I can't date anymore. Sex isn't special. How many women do I have to experience before I find one that.. works?A man isnt built for this. Or if he is, he cant go through life with that as the goal/aim. Exactly. We do constantly advise that you don't make a woman the centre of your world. Same goes for women, in general. If you're seeking fulfilment through blindly pursuing women, you're going to eventually be jaded and disappointed and disillusioned and all of these things we're discussing here. As you say, it should be a byproduct. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 12:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm burnt out. I can't date anymore. Sex isn't special. How many women do I have to experience before I find one that.. works?But what does it mean?? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe that her availability to you means you're specialIT IS IMPOSSIBLE to form emotional bond to someone and not be phased when thst person disappears. Sounds scientific. Or doesn't. Sounds like a random opinion. But my direct experience of this doesn't really care about opinions.. the experience itself is proof enough and I don't have to convince anyone else of it. Buddhism + RP = utter peace. That isn't to say I haven't regressed at times. And the reason you have to be unemotional with women is bc they are to men You're misunderstanding. I'm not … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Don't believe that her availability to you means you're specialI'm not talking about our commitment, though. I'm talking about this fear of abandonment that is floating around. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe that her availability to you means you're specialthere no way you're just letting them go and it doesnt phase you (BULLSHIT) That's the problem, right there. It just isn't a reality for you and so you can't accept it. Kinda how BP cucks can't accept RP reality. Keep swallowing, man. It IS possible. I'm living it. I don't develop oneitis because I maintain a shotgun mentality. There are many women and I have plenty of love for them all. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Don't believe that her availability to you means you're specialhe shouldnt even think about developing feelings for her We're talking about weakness, and yet it IS weak to avoid developing feelings for her out of FEAR of having his poor, brittle heart broken when she abandons him? Come on, wise up. Develop feelings, just stop loving people with possession and attachment and you'll be fine. I develop feelings for all my plates and have no issues watching them disappear. I wish all of them well. I thought we are supposed to be outcome independent? Doesn't sou… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 05:44 PM |
| 5 | Second Fuck, Third Fuck, and BeyondWell yeh, if they are coming back for more, you're doing something right. This post seems more for people who are struggling with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | A month out from the wedding... Finds TRP... Do I call it off?TL;DR (which needs another TL;DR) Leads to skype call. Ends up being 8 hours. Best call of our lives. End up talking all the time. She finds out I am going on dates and such. Is supportive but not of sex cause Christian virgin girl. FYI she is intentionally celibate, looking to get married. We talk for 6 hours. Eventually I come to conclusion that this woman is wonderful and closing that door for some sex I am not particularly interested in with dumb coworker is not worth. Tell her we need to ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Stop worrying about your height, your lifts or your face - start worrying about your teeth instead.Nah, worry about your face. I'm 5'8, bald, 30, had braces for the last couple of years to correct a severe misalignment.. never had trouble dating the whole time I had braces. Your face matters. Confidence matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 02:30 PM |
| 18 | [FR] "I don't mean to offend you, but are you gay?"I agree. If you've got gay hands, flail those faggy fuckers around with abandon. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 03:32 PM |
| 9 | TRP Tinder as an Attractive MaleYep, I can agree with that. It might have taken me a couple of years to see the kind of experience you've seen in a couple of weeks, but we all reach the same point of being jaded with casual sex. And that's a great place to be. Nothing more visceral than that to take pussy permanently off the pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 08:51 PM |
| 3 | TRP Tinder as an Attractive Male..heading to Thailand end of Oct. Cannot. Wait. Saying that, why are you even on Tinder? Surely it should be easy enough to just step out your front door for two seconds? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 7 | TRP Tinder as an Attractive MaleI am handsome and can confirm that confidence does NOT just magically manifest itself because you are easy to look at. It's how you see yourself that matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 08:48 PM |
| 2 | TRP Tinder as an Attractive MaleWhen would you say is a good time? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 08:45 PM |
| 3 | TRP Tinder as an Attractive MaleGetting girls becomes a complement and easy. Yup.. and when you hit a dry spot, you always know in the back of your mind it just takes a bit of effort to get back on the horse. Why the hell does it matter about their preferences? Why does any of this shit matter when all you need to be able to do to completely solve your dating life is juggle a couple of cute plates at a time. If you can do that, you have won. You don't have to attract every rando on the planet. A modicum of them will keep you b… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Being a tall guy, let me tell you that height is not as important as everyone wants it to beMight be worth making a post over at the skincare subreddit? Lots of clued up dermatologists over there. Have you been to a dermatologist? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/17 09:42 AM |
| 6 | Being a tall guy, let me tell you that height is not as important as everyone wants it to beFacial aesthetics are more important than almost everything else. I'm 5'8, bald, braces, average cock, was skinny-fat.. didn't really have much of a problem with a bit of confidence because of my mug. After discovering RP and lifting and building confidence and having my braces removed, I now have even less of a problem. If you're able to hook a couple of cute plates with some initial effort then your sexual life is solved. You don't need to attract every woman. Go solve bigger problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Those tits, manThat would fall under serious life decisions and long-term commitments, of which we already know women are piss poor with. You really trust someone, man or women, to commit to your cause for 18 years through the ups and downs of raising children? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 09:31 AM |
| 2 | TRP is.... giving me oneitis?because if you give her all the attention she needs for that amount of sex, that's the amount of sex she's going to give you. I agree with everything you said, but that's starting to sound a little transactional. You have sex because you desire each other. Her lack of desire and/or sex drive is the real problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 05:16 PM |
| 7 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.She's just manipulating you by preying on your urges to save a damsel in distress. It's sickening and selfish, but it is simply the way they operate. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:47 PM |
| 38 | Those tits, manWomen have nothing to offer besides her body and her feminine presence I hope others can drill this into their heads. The more I live for myself, the more I realise women have very little value in my life beyond those two things. They can't be trusted with long-term commitments or any serious life decisions.. so that relegates them to FUN. They should be put in the same category as video games. Enjoy 'em while they last but don't convince yourself you're actually building anything substantial by… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:20 PM |
| 9 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.She said she did it because she thought I didn't care about her or the relationship so she's going to do whatever she wants and can have her cake and eat it too. And if I found out that we'd just break up. Yeh, because we are disposable. She can go find another beta within 10 steps of walking outside. You mean literally fuck all to her. Those pleas are because of the dread. Don't worry, she'll continue riding the CC with abandon the second you are out of her life. She's on a path of self-destruc… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:16 PM |
| 3 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Fuck that. Don't pack for her! Tell her to pack her own shit and GTFO otherwise it's going out the window. This bitch doesn't deserve a modicum of effort. In fact, OP, just pretend you're not even in a relationship with her and start dating other chicks and inviting 'em back to your place. She'll get the message and be on her way pretty quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:12 PM |
| 4 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.Stop having feelings for someone who's giving you nothing of tangible value Though I don't think there is anything wrong with developing feelings for someone (so long as you maintain an attitude of impermanence), we really do need to hammer it home that women provide very little value to your life once you've got your shit together. Bit of feminine charm and a vagina. They're just a bit of fun and should not at all be involved in any serious life decisions such as long-term commitments and build… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:03 PM |
| -1 | Don't attempt LTR unless you know you're good enough. If you are, it's still playing with fire...and yet I can get all of those benefits from plating.. The only thing I can't get is a deep emotional bond that is built over many months/years. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Over the last 4 months, I talked to about 120 women. Here are my observations and advice on how to (mostly) overcome approach anxiety.I am also a dancer Have you tried partner dancing lessons? Easy as pie if you're a good dancer. Current FB is a sexy Italian chick I met at a salsa class. Still had to game her a little, but it was considerably easier than picking up in a club. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.The girl would be calling OP the piece of shit man and all of that. Yup :/ My advice was mainly for people in relationships where they see every step of the [most likely temporary] decline. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 11:59 AM |
| 7 | [Field Report] Sickened by how little marriage counts and how much physique countsBetter phrase: "it's just her turn". Never settle, never sexually commit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 04:15 PM |
| 6 | [Field Report] Sickened by how little marriage counts and how much physique countsHad same experience. Simply speaking up more and with confidence has garnered a lot of respect and admiration from colleagues. But this doesn't have much to do with TRP, it's a side-effect that could have been reached by many other paths. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 04:13 PM |
| 18 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.The same month i was losing my home of more than 20 years, she was lining another dude. She kept giving me great sex, love and help while cheating like that. Would you call that cognitive dissonance or what? I think it's important to note something here. She was not cheating from day one, while giving you her devotion and whatnot. She was invested in the relationship until you started to decline. Then you were on the downswing and she branched to another guy. She only kept up appearances so she … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable.Another classic argument! Man you are on a roll! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 11:20 PM |
| 10 | Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable.This is where we honestly discuss differences in the sexes in case you didnt get the memo. Making statements such as "women are devoid of character" is NOT a discussion. Your post is full of random assertions, just like almost every other post. Here's another: we're all trying to be Rollo, and we're all behaving like we've discovered enlightenment. But character, grit, toughness? This is the domain of men. Tell that to female soldiers fighting ISIS. You talk of honesty and yet you are completely… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 10:27 AM |
| 8 | Women are devoid of Character. You giving a fuck what a Woman thinks of you is like a hedgefund manager worrying what a hobo thinks of his investment portfolio. Its fucking laughable.These are subtle messages to help the average guy stop worshipping women. This is the problem - they aren't. Maybe that is one of their unintended consequences, but too much of our own literature is infected by bitterness and has NO concern for other people, men or women. It's sad because this is a potentially great place to enable positive, masculine, change, and it is being polluted and derailed by immature little boys who are spazzing out with pointless, angry outbursts every other day. I'd l… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 10:16 AM |
| 9 | Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you.I think you're missing the point. To spell it out - it is neither good nor bad that he is calling certain women ugly and low value. That is how he feels because of his natural sexual strategy to mate with attractive women. That doesn't have anything to do with misogyny OR manipulation. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 09:19 PM |
| 21 | Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you.Yeh, exactly. He didn't call people ugly and low value, he called WOMEN ugly and low value.. and that is part of how sexual strategy manifests. As I say, it's amoral. Getting butt-hurt over it just muddies the reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Negging on dating apps..and?? Who cares, you're replaceable anyway.. as is she. Abundance man. Who cares what these chicks think/feel. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 04:22 PM |
| 25 | Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you.but it's ok Don't forget, sexual strategy is amoral. There is no good/bad, nothing is ok or not ok. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 04:17 PM |
| 9 | If you're starting out your journey from Inceldom to Chaditude, best start with "introverted" girlsWhen I asked higher SMV women the same questions they basically told me to piss off. Because women get this shit all day long. I don't really think half of us are appreciating just how bombarded women are by thirsty cock desperately vying for pussy under the guise of building rapport. They can see it a mile off. That's why push/pull, negging, dread, being direct, etc, etc all work very well. You are breaking rapport, and, by that, showing her you simply don't give a fuck about her opinion. What … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 03:55 PM |
| 10 | A Man is Only as Good as His WordA Woman is only as good as her... ..love of children? Ability to nurture? Yes, it can be switched, and, yes, there are many women who are incredible care-givers. Men and women are raised for different purposes. We value different things. What is unfair is how that statement was made by what men value. The equivalent would be made by what women value. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | On Cheating: "THERE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOU."Agreed. If we can all just be brutally honest about this when getting into relationships, maybe we would have a healthier structure going on. Almost all LTRs are based on denial. There is no chance I would agree to sexual monogamy, and I wouldn't expect any person, man or woman, to agree to sexual monogamy for the rest of their lives. However, TRP argues that this enables "open hypergamy", and that it is important to keep their hypergamy in check. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | On Cheating: "THERE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN YOU."Never stop improving yourself each and every day ..agreed. Just don't do it for her OR your relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Unplanned pregnancy.. she wants to keep it? How can I ensure she doesn't?Thanks for this. I've told her I'll pay for the abortion, but if she goes ahead I'll be having a paternity test, will pay as little as possible and the child or her will never see me. Hopefully this is enough to deter her. I've got a one-way to another country (in Asia), it would seem I'm in a perfect position to simply disappear. Just turned 30 and am starting my own business. Definitely NOT a good time to become a father. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to put "blinders" on in life and have "tunnel vision" and just focus on your mission and not DWELL on it when people (1) insult you or (2) ghost you?Would you call that CBT? Do you have any thoughts on that vs ACT (acceptance commitment therapy)? I've been through CBT and then onto ACT. I've found ACT more effective, but I think could be due to my personality. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Is a bodybuilding coach worth the price of admission?Depends on price, of course, but I would say you can figure this mostly out by yourself, reading, watching videos and other people's form in the gym, and even asking every now and then. Do the 5x5 program and focus on good form as you slowly increment the weight. I've done it for the last 3 months and have already noticed great noob gains, and I only go twice a week at 30-40 min each time. Try it out. I've found it really simple and low-investment. Good way to get started. If you've already buil… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 06:48 PM |
| 3 | What does a healthy relationship look like with your mother?To me, it would be someone I can be 100% honest with, who I am proud of and who is a true source of unconditional love and consistent support..and having that feeling go both ways. I don't imagine many of those relationships exist. I almost had a healthy relationship with my mum. She accepted me completely and was ever-loving, but had a drug addiction that I frustratingly couldn't help her with. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | I can't reconcile having sexually submissive desires and becoming Redpill. Anyone here has?A good therapist will leave it to you to talk about what you find most helpful. They don't tell you what or how to think, they just teach you how to approach your thoughts with maturity and awareness. The most important thing is honesty in what you talk about. You don't have to talk about everything, but what you do choose to bring up should be discussed fully. It's worth trying a couple of sessions. I did a few spaced out quite a bit until I started to see the value in it. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I can't reconcile having sexually submissive desires and becoming Redpill. Anyone here has?I went every two weeks for most of that, so about £2000. My mental health is worth more to me than any sum of money, though. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I can't reconcile having sexually submissive desires and becoming Redpill. Anyone here has?+1 on therapy. I've been going for the last couple of years (she's female) and finally started to make some big steps through ACT (acceptance commitment therapy). CBT was great, too, but that mainly gives you tools to challenge/change thoughts. ACT gives you a framework to help transcend the thoughts entirely. For that reason, it complements meditation and mindfulness very well. Highly recommend looking into it! I'm also in UK and went private (£45/hour). | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What was the worst mistakes/most cringeworthy things you've ever done before discovering TRP?Did exactly this last night with a plate I've only seen couple times :/ stupid! | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:43 PM |
| 2 | What was the worst mistakes/most cringeworthy things you've ever done before discovering TRP?Neediness on steroids. I just fucking cringe at some of the shit I would text to women I was chasing at the time. Oh man. Some of the crap I must have come out with, too. Right there with ya! I cringe every time I think of how I would try to negotiate desire over text if I got a LJBF after a first date. Now it's simple: maybe one text, but otherwise don't chase at all. Women who are interested will chase you. I've lost a few women like that, but it leaves you with women who are genuinely into yo… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is spending this amount/kind of time giving her too much comfort?You want to stay in yoir comfort zone of being a nice guy while enjoying the benefits of being the Chad What do you mean by this? Do you mean I should not be cooking with plates, not go out with them, not spend the night/day in bed with them? Should I just get them round to my place and kick 'em out when the dust settles? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Is spending this amount/kind of time giving her too much comfort?Telling her she can get a ride home isn't pulling back. Pulling back is sitting back with your smartphone, reading some stuff, answering messages and laughing a little bit. Not giving her anymore attention is pulling back. Yeh that's exactly what I did. That's when she started massaging me. And that doesn't make you think that she might be looking for another experience You're right. The last session wasn't that vanilla, it got pretty dirty with the leash - which she wore all night. Maybe that w… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:24 PM |
| 5 | How does one truly be happy alone? I feel like I have no close friends and am getting depressed.Invest in yourself. Lift, learn, read, work on a new skill, learn to dance, learn public speaking, do some improv, go to therapy, get proper sleep, eat well. Once you start investing your time, energy and money into yourself you will start to value yourself much more. but I have no motivation to study when I'm always thinking about the fact that I have no close friends and that everyone else out there who "has a mission" is still able to maintain an active social life. This is the real problem. … | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What the hell is going on inside her head?Jesus, man - back to basics! Assume attraction! Play it as if you've already fucked her. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Reached top 10%. Existentialism.If this fantasy is in fact not a fantasy.. you'll find meaning by giving back. Start a charity, go help people in need. You've made it, you can stop being a selfish cunt now. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Did you ever start to get bored with meaningless non-emotionally-intimate sex with strangers/near-strangers? And if so, how many girls did you have to fuck to reach that point where you started to get bored?Have experienced the disillusionment of the value of sex recently through learning how to get laid somewhat regularly, as you put it. I think that's why it is so important to keep pushing yourself to a place of abundance before you decide just what place a woman has in your life. I've lost so many Tinder chicks recently because I just don't care enough to even play the game. Am now having more fun meeting women through dancing/meetups/social etc. -- but, again, once it becomes a known that pussy… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Amused Mastery vs CondescendingNo problem man. Let me know if you continue to struggle. I'm happy to go through this a little with you if you need any support. As I say, I'm about 4 months on, so I'm just sharing what has helped me. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Amused Mastery vs CondescendingHey :) First of all, sorry to hear that.. but kinda glad. Because your life is about to get much better. The first paragraph sounds like you were still gaming her. Why make her wait? Just cut it off. This last however many days have all been your choice. You could at any moment turn your attention to the rest of your life, and, in doing so, be quickly out of a relationship. Change your priorities man, a woman cannot be at the top of that list! Not even top 3! Tbh I started doubting my frame, I s… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Beta Bucks boss: do not do this. If this is what you've become, wake the fuck up.Bigger question is, why are you working for chumps like this? If you don't have a plan, you're part of someone else's. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 11:58 PM |
| 14 | Being uncomfortable around Alpha Males.TL; DR - compassion. You will cede the territory (perhaps even physically), he might not take it from you, but the women will take notice and move towards him anyway. ..and? Why do I care what women think? In fact, why do I care what anyone thinks, AMOG or not? Will I be cast from the group and forced to fend for myself? Nope. Those dangers are long gone and those fears are based on a reality that doesn't exist any more. Remember, we are living in abundance and we are outcome independent. Too mu… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Whats TRP's take on NoFapWet dreams? lol Honestly, I don't go long without release (max 4/5 days). I usually only do this if I'm seeing plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 09:28 AM |
| 8 | I was on a date with a 19 yo girl (I'm 30) and when we were speaking in a cafe her lips were trembling, wtf?I was shocked to see this with some younger women, too. But, of course, they are intimidated until they become entitled through understanding the true power of their pussy. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I love like a woman?Err what now? You are confused about your sexuality and you think TRP has the answer? Run. Go to therapy and work through these issues with a licensed therapist who has been dealing with such things for decades. Don't ask random internet people. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 05:30 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up. What's my play?Didn't even have to read and already know the answer: move on and date other women. That will ALWAYS be the best course of action when you fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about size?..Well.. facial aesthetics are one of my fallbacks. Likely one of the only reasons I do still get action (I largely date online). I also lift, but that's only in last 3 months. ..having said that, I'm also rejected on a daily basis. Rejection don't mean shit when you only need to hook a couple of women to keep yourself busy for 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk more about building a social life instead of just chasing women.Truth. Answer to yourself alone. Once you've had enough girls it gets that way Doesn't even take that long, either. I've only been dating for last couple of years, last 8 months on RP-mode and pussy has already been taken off the pedestal, permanently. Onto bigger and better goals. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk more about building a social life instead of just chasing women.don't become a pushover. Nah. All that takes is just not being an actual pushover. People will push regardless of how 'feared' you think you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 04:23 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid emotional attachmentCatch feelings. Who cares. The feelings aren't the problem, the attachment is. I've thankfully reached a state where I can fall in love with every girl I spin. She will generally fall in love, too.. and yet I have absolutely NO problem walking away while looking back in nostalgia. Try to develop a kind of omni-itis. Fall in love with everyone. Stop pouring it into any one person. And, yes, this is possible and it IS possible to do this without any attachment. Be wary of people who tell you to av… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice dealing with life in general.The only judgement that matters is from your close friends, family and relationships. Though they are more useful mirrors, they still don't matter. The only judgement that matters is your own. Nobody is inside your head 24/7 to be able to make the kinds of value judgements you yourself can make. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Insecurity about size?..Lol. I'm 5'8 and bald and have never been more confident in myself. Spinning plates and having a blast. You are measuring your worth by the wrong metrics. Fuck your physical appearance. Max it out and move on. Not worth a second thought. Stop caring what women want. Go after what YOU want. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | How much does gym help with frame?Go to the gym and find out. Nobody is responsible for your life but YOU. Get to fucking work. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Whats TRP's take on NoFapHaving said that, I'm not saying abstain from ejaculation through edging for testosterone reasons. Purely for training your willpower and learning how to prolong the sexual response. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Whats TRP's take on NoFapRemoved by accident. Have reposted. Will read, cheers. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Whats TRP's take on NoFapBetter yet, just edge when you do masturbate. What's the obsession with ejaculation? Bonus is it trains up your stamina (if you care about that) and teaches you how to enjoy without release. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | My frame and Inner Game always bucklesIf the girl leaves me on read I text instantly trying to keep her interest. I am now less relaxed more fidgety and nervous in body language. I trip over my words. I dont know what has happened to me. Overthinking everything. You are getting desperate because you are still begging them, mentally and actually. Realise this: they are nothing but a momentary pleasure. Imagine the best case scenario.. you spend the weekend filling every hole of a beautiful woman, she falls in love with your dick and … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | More On Frame...won't get into it ... Time wasted on a lost cause But what is the cause? The have EVERYBODY concede to your frame? Because that's an impossibility. Be thankful for finding someone with strong frame. There is much to learn about the strength of your own by interacting with them. Most definitely NOT a lost cause. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 05:36 PM |
| 4 | The most important trait a man can have is being able to laugh at his failuresAmused mastery - laugh at it all. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Frame: A Crash CourseWho's world perspective are you adopting? Yours, or hers? On this point, question that with regards to other men, forums (such as TRP), philosophies, religions, etc. In short, question everything and everyone and ALWAYS return back to your own perspective. It seems here we have a tendency to fall into each other's frames and it creates a spiralling echo chamber of drones. Nobody can tell you how to live your life, nobody can tell you what to do in every conceivable situation. One day, you have t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The Right Way To Masturbate and How to Transmute Sexual EnergyOuch. You hurt my feelings. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in Pattaya/s? haha - just looking out for number one, first :) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Frame when it comes to women: Become delusionalArrogant? Yes. Does it work? Fuck yea it works. For people struggling with confidence, this is EXCELLENT advice and can be transferred to every other area of your life. Allowing myself to be arrogant led me to finally overcoming a lot of my confidence issues. Ironically, through that, because you be polarising, you also have to learn to NGAF about what other people think about you. Lose some friends, make some enemies, who cares. You can calibrate later and dial it down - for now, push it in the… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Reading - The Guide.Some great books that have had a dramatic effect on my life for the better: Freedom From The Known by J Krishnamurti Introduction to Tantra by Lama Yeshe Rational Male (obvs) Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Manson 48 Laws of Power by Greene Sex God Method by Daniel Rose Millionaire Fast Lane by DeMarco Zen Mind, Beginners Mind by Suzuki How To Win Friends and Influence People (obvs) A Guide To Rational Living by Albert Ellis Self-Reliance by Emerson | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 03:26 PM |
| 0 | The Right Way To Masturbate and How to Transmute Sexual EnergyWell, there is some truth to the benefits gained from withholding orgasm.. but past around 7 days it is useless. Have witnessed the dramatic energy and confidence boost myself. Experience is the only truth you need. You can twist and interpret it however you want, but until you've experienced the difference yourself you're just talking shit. Why is TRP turning into this? Maybe because it can actually have an effect. Just as this place turned into a meathead LIFTING ground. Certain things are gre… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Attractive Women Want it All: Good Genes, Economic Investment, Parenting Proclivities, and Emotional Commitmentlol good luck to 'em! :P what do they have to offer? Pussy? Is that it? Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar Reviewyou're living in your own solipsism. Some of us have shitty parents and we screw ourselves over by putting up with their shit for way too long That isn't what I was contending though, is it? You were giving a prescription for how we should treat our mums based on your own shitty experiences with your mum. Who is living in their own solipsism? Moving out of my mum's place was also one of the best moves I made, but that still doesn't mean we should all maintain frame, be seen as a man, etc, etc. w… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsI've already got it, but not read it yet. Interesting comment! I'll get on it. Appreciate the suggestion. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewDon't open up to her, maintain frame, she has to see you as a man, not her little baby, otherwise she'll have control over you and will get you off the track. Wow, what a terrible attitude. Some people have GOOD mums, despite their flaws. My mum knew EVERYTHING about me and never once tried to control me or send me off track. All she cared about was my happiness.. and, obviously, my love for her. You are walking around in a reality that simply doesn't exist. Maintain frame with your mum? She has… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaThanks :) I won't be going near Thai business partners. All property and businesses need to be 51% owned by Thais (from what I've read). I guess it's a way of maintaining control of their economy. Fuck that. They aren't maintaining control of me haha If you're ever over there and need a place to stay or a friendly face, feel free to get in touch. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaHahahahaha! You know it! Gonna have a lot of fun, but I'm not going to waste the opportunity to live a cheap, minimal lifestyle and focus on building a business. Psychedelics, though.. hmm, not sure I can stay away. Bit of a love story that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 01:18 PM |
| 3 | I've "achieved" everything I wanted and still don't feel good about myself, I think I might have internalized the wrong things from Sedditstill fundamentally have horrible self esteem and just some generally fucked up views on life that maybe stem from what I internalized trying to better myself You sound very self-aware and self-honest. Be thankful for it; not many have that gift. We can't tell you what you should do or what the problem might be or why you can't shake your self-worth issues - we can only speculate based on what you've said. I would advise therapy (ACT is great and helped me more than CBT). One of the problems I c… | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaGood to hear! The more I talk to people who have been the more I just want to jump on that fucking plane. :) Appreciate the pointer. I'm not going for partying/women, so I'll take it slow anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewI think it can be really rough. My mum suffered from bad drug addiction and I tried many times over the years to help her, but she always went back. You can't change people, and if there is something you don't like you simply have to tolerate it or stay away. Sounds like you've done what you can. You care, but you are not responsible for how they live their later years. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Amused Mastery vs CondescendingI know, let's do a pros/cons for starting a business while in a relationship. IN RELATIONSHIP: pros - possible financial and emotional support cons - constant shit testing, lots of energy/attention/time to maintain relationship that could be spent on business, worrying if she will leave or not, emotional drain, fighting against her dragging you down and trying to hinder progress, using her sexual agency to manipulate you SINGLE: pros: ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO BUILD YOUR BUSINESS AND IMPROVE … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Amused Mastery vs CondescendingIt's because you're falling out of her frame and she can sense she is losing you. The spell has been broken. She wants you to be a good little beta boy. Whether you went into the relationship as the dominant force you are now, it doesn't matter because a woman will always try to destroy your dreams. But you really don't need that right now. She is being selfish, she doesn't care about you or your business or your mission or any of it. She cares about having a comfortable BF. If I'm not getting a… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Why You Should Keep a Daily JournalA place to vent. Be careful of this trap. I kept a journal for a while and would just vent into it ALL THE TIME. Mountains upon mountains of crap, going over the same stuff again and again.. and it didn't help. It helped to keep all this crap at the forefront of my mind. You have to strike a balance and you have to journal with some kind of structure and intention if you want it to be effective. I now have a journal that is ONLY about my mission (software business). I know I'm not focusing enoug… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaAhh, that's easy then! Doesn't sound like I'll have much of a problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Amused Mastery vs CondescendingThis isn't going to be easy.. but you need to break up with her. I went through exactly the same thing with my GF of a year about 4 months ago. I started improving myself in a big way, made some big decisions about the direction of my life. My confidence increased, my dominance increased, my assertiveness increased. Essentially, I stopped being a beta bitch. ..and she could not handle it at all. Suddenly I was shouting when I was simply being assertive. When you change for the better, a lot of p… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaNice one! Do you reckon it's worth waiting until I get there to sort long-term accom? Also, I've seen a lot of rentals say "6 month max". Is that just how the contracts are structured? Appreciate the advice! PM me your email if you wanna go for a drink. Would be cool to shoot the shit with a fellow RP in paradise. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaInteresting. Thanks for the curve ball! :P I haven't lived in either so I guess I'll quickly find out. I have a flight to CM at end of Oct and I'm going through BKK. Don't have any long-term rentals setup or anything. Seems like it would be a good idea to stay there for a week or two and go to BKK for a week or two before I get into any long-term accom. I can deal with the distractions, but I'll be setting up a software business on the side, so the more peace, the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Amused Mastery vs CondescendingDoesn't sound like amused mastery. Amused mastery is the attitude of having seen it all and you just find it all amusing. If you were there, you wouldn't be talking down to someone, they wouldn't even stir you. You'd laugh shit off, grin, and move on. Are you explaining things to her? Women don't communicate in facts, they communicate covertly. Read The Rational Male if you haven't (or again if you have). What are you arguing about? And what, specifically have you said that she might find condes… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaHave you been to Bangkok? Far too busy for my liking. I get that CM attracts digital nomads.. I will be one myself, working remotely as a programmer. I don't have to socialise with fuckboi wannapreneurs. I'll be socialising with established expat businessmen. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:21 PM |
| 31 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewThanks. Over the worst of it, thankfully. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaI don't think I need luck. I don't have a problem with women here, and I definitely won't have a problem with women there. I'm not going for the women lol that's just one of the perks. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:03 PM |
| 119 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewWell, she is a woman, after all. My mum was deeply troubled. I felt the same. Then I found her dead in her flat one morning last year. Keep telling yourself not to put her on a pedestal, then see how you feel when she's gone forever. The worst thing about it is that I neglected our relationship to go chase sluts. As I say, gotta be careful not to take those constants for granted - they're not constants. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 08:43 PM |
| 157 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewYep. Fact is, if you're lucky, she is the only source of unconditional love and acceptance you will ever find in this life. Irreplaceable but easy to take for granted if she's been a constant. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Meet Tim Ward, aka Sharky, a pimp in PattayaOh ffs I can't be any more excited about moving to Thailand in Oct. I'll be in a much quieter place up north (Chiang Mai) with actual relationship material hanging around, but there will be far too much fun to be had to even think about settling down. His mission now is to help stray dogs in Pattaya, give them a voice, bring attention to their living situation and hopefully change the Thai culture that see dogs as dirty animals. ..and what a virtuous mission! Good for him. I think it's stupid to… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 05:33 PM |
| 72 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewErr.. how close should I get to my mum? :/ | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Quick tips to Staying Lit: Non-Sidebar ReviewConcise! I like it. Covers a lot of points and you'd live a happy life if you unquestionably followed it. Of course, it's also important to understand why some of this advice is passed around. Most of your points cover that, but a few don't (marriage/kids, posture, body language, etc). I know it's not the point of this post, but would be cool to extend it a little in that case. Great post nonetheless! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Talk Female RatingsOh God, we've gone too far, haven't we? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Dancing and TRPI know beforehand what my strengths AND weaknesses are This distinction between alpha and beta should really be put to rest I think. We're getting way too carried away. Think of it instead as - alpha = confidence, beta = insecurity. We all have different degrees of confidence and insecurity, and a lot of it can be contextual.. BUT.. the reason blackedoutfast said an alpha would be out there dancing regardless is because a confident person doesn't give a flying fuck what their strengths or weakne… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsI think that's what has started to happen to me over the last couple of years, thankfully. The [over]exposure to pussy helps greatly in taking it (and sex) off the pedestal. That's allowed me to relax significantly about this whole thing and actually start having fun and focus on stuff that actually matters - mission, lifestyle, health. But my point was about loyalty/monogamy. Can you see yourself, in your position of abundance, first, even being in an LTR, but then staying in a LTR and only hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. "they are not my people I guess I'll only truly digest this when I've been there for a while. I've never stayed in another country for long so find it hard to relate as yet. I'm with you about Australia, I might end up there myself! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsGood point and important distinction. Having said that, it doesn't make a difference to my point. I was talking about honour. Let's not try rationalise that it's different because there are different degrees of honour. Under the right circumstances, men are not honourable, just as women aren't. We're all flawed people and almost every single one of us is ultimately selfish. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Huge tips I don't see addressed here oftenAre you giving these hot babes a great time in bed? You are simply competing on a different level than when fucking some uggo. You have to get absolutely primal on these hoes to keep their attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsThat's what I was looking for! :P | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. "Good to know. I'm doing something similar but heading to Asia (Thailand) and working remotely on a Western salary. If that falls apart, I might end up somewhere in Eastern Europe. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Sounds like a mature, drama-free way to approach confrontation. Good to see responses like this here! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsPerhaps I'm thinking of something else.. an open sexual society on both ends. Not sure the term for that. Similar to Brave New World. Of course, that has its own complications (raising children, for one). Any suggested reading material to dig further into this? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 10:37 AM |
| 11 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsThat's a horny man doing what he was born to do and spreading his seed. To be fair, it was an extremity to make a point. The only reason men are loyal/monogamous is because of their lack of abundance or abundance mindset. As another comment mentioned on this page, look at what happens when we finally get to a place of abundance. you need to work on your impulse control That doesn't really matter, point still stands. We could say women need to work on their impulse control. Doesn't change the rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 10:23 AM |
| 102 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendshypergamous cunts Careful. Channel that anger towards yourself, not them. Use it to improve yourself. You're still allowing their actions to affect your mood. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 10:00 AM |
| 109 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsYep. We should really stop perpetuating this BS that men can do no wrong and are 100% honourable. If they had hotties staring them down all day, best believe they are seizing some of those opportunities regardless of their relationship status. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:59 AM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.You were explaining that you didn't need to fight over something stupid when you have something(s) to lose I appreciate the feedback and you're right about my position, except I should clarify on this. Though my life has been drastically improving over the last couple of years, I am by no means successful. But, having said that, though I can lose things, I did not behave in that situation due to the fear of losing anything. It was more of an attitude of complete disregard and disinterest in any … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:31 AM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.I was thinking that last night! Does appear like a laughable amount of irony! Haha | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:22 AM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Appreciate the feedback, and have learned from the positive/negative feedback I've received here. It's useful to see a full spectrum of opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Hmm.. maybe I am playing devil's advocate a little. But that's not nearly my intention. I'm trying to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.One day you will understand this. That day is today, my friend! It's quite simple to grasp. Thanks for the pointers. Haven't heard of the divide and rule, but have glanced over the trivium method. Particularly interested in the "close minded on thinking" aspect. Arguing and debating can be extremely productive if done correctly. I'm not an advanced debater and so I have not done it correctly. So what. I'm learning and I will, thanks to your input alone, improve how I debate in the future based o… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:51 PM |
| 0 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.I do. I said grinding against others is beneficial for my self-improvement. I didn't say I am promoting a herd mind. I'm in the process of coming out of such a place. In fact, maybe it is the process of rejecting the herd mind having realised that I've given up a lot of my power to others that has me being abrasive? Hmm.. perhaps. But yes, all final lessons will be internal. I do respect your stance on the way TRP should be navigated for the benefit of all. I'll try to take that into account bef… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.I like the way you explained frame there. Definitely something to aspire to! I should have considered these things and presented things in a more constructive way. Abrasiveness, though, has generated quite a response, so I'm learning plenty! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 06:53 PM |
| 0 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.You're possibly getting to the point where you know who you can take easy and who will fuck you up, but the way you write is filled with insecurity. Even > more so because you're overly concerned with if it's alpha or not to defend yourself, or your honor. The fact that you don't know proves your inexperienced and have no clue where you stand vs 95% of men. Great insight, but it's a little off. It' true, I am in the process of determining my status among the male population (and female). But I a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 06:49 PM |
| 0 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.A quiet rejection is fine... they need not be aware you rejected them. Agreed, and, as I said in the post, I also posted this to help newbies navigate this forum. I hope TRP does eventually embrace every facet of the self-improvement movement. I've gained a lot from the female aspect, but it's easy to see the cracks now. Quiet rejection is fine, but grinding against others is very beneficial in my self-improvement journey. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 06:20 PM |
| 0 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Hmm.. what frame? How do you know what my frame is? Virtue signaling of the highest order. Some might even say concern trolling. Virtue signalling to who? TRP? Why do I care about what a bunch of guys on a forum think of my character? Little troll, perhaps, but not concern. Like I said, this community has given me a lot of value, and if I believe I can be of value, even if that means I lose my trivial status here, then I'll do it... wait, am I virtue signalling again that I'm so humble I'll thro… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 06:03 PM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Dear TRP, I came here needing help and received it Stop there. That was correct, but everything else after was garbage. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Good to know there is some wisdom here! I wasn't looking for agreement, but the overall response is shocking considering the forum. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.You seem to have a stance yet lack conviction, thus frame. Lifting is the go to answer. Ha! I've replied to almost every single comment despite having to repeat myself repeatably. I lack anything but conviction. but in one version you are perceived as having restraint and frame, the other a little bitch Again, not concerned with perception. Now to come in here and ask for a court ruling, and validation, and groveling your case for approval and to be placed higher in the pecking order.. clueless … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?This is what I noticed, and is another reason that prompted my post (concern for my brother). I'd love your opinion on this.. He was in care for 10 years and came out of care a couple years ago at 18. Our mother then died a year later and his head is obviously a little fucked. He has miraculously managed to keep it together and actually make the best of it. He's been meditating a while and is walking the spiritual path. However, after this happened and he blew up, I put the emphasis on his react… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?For arguments sake, let's say I'm not upset and your first sentence is off-base again. if you react to it poorly, it just makes you look bad. I don't understand how this is not sinking in. Look bad to who? Who do I have to prove myself to? My family? Him? Some woman I'm with? My work colleagues? My business partners? Seriously.. where is the threat in looking bad and why it is such a problem. For example, I look like an absolute tool in these comments from the responses I'm getting.. and yet it … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Ha! Yep, that's the situation I saw coming and decided to nope out in favour of having fun with my family and enjoying my food. Yeh, training would be wise in those instances where violence can't be avoided. I've done some krav maga. Might have to dive back into that. Your pops and bro just didn't like seeing you dishonored Good insight! I didn't really consider this but it sounds about right. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Abundance mentality is shit without actual abundanceSo you get sexual pretty quickly? I think I'm going wrong in that I don't even imply sex until I'm on a date - I just move fast in terms of getting them out. I do this because it seems everyone is getting sexual almost straight away. Maybe your attractiveness plays into this? I've seen those chats of male models saying whatever the fuck they want and the chicks don't bat an eyelid. I wouldn't get away with it, but if being more sexual early on during texts would work, I'll have to try it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality is shit without actual abundanceDo you not consider it fearful to not tell your wife because you're worried she might leave you if you say you're sleeping with other people? Why have you not opened up the marriage? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:33 AM |
| -1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.If you easily let someone take what's yours to avoid a fight you are a weak pussy In some cases. I read a story the other day about a family that was held hostage by a couple of gang bangers. They took the dad's car, but he wouldn't stand for it and called the police as one of the gang members came back in his house. He noticed and murdered him, his wife and their two children. Did he gain anything from that attitude? No. He lost everything. Granted, we're not talking on those extremities, but t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:20 AM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.After all, isn't the point of this forum to help those that are less able than ourselves? Yes, exactly. Like I said, the reason I made this wasn't to berate, it was to criticise the vocal majority who, in my other thread, did nothing but prove their ignorance and contradictions. I've been called out for shit, most of it missed, but there are definite elements of truth. I'm simply calling the vocal majority out on their shit. As I said, this place has helped me greatly.. but back when I first arr… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:59 AM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.And yet I don't have weak frame, so the reality is different. Doesn't matter how it appears, that's the whole point of the post! haha | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?1) I did hear those people out and responded to almost every single one of them. 2) Their advice on some matters hold more weight. Not on these matters. People around here don't pull punches and are quite insightful. I value that. Sadly, making that post and having majority of people project weakness and assume certain things about me that simply aren't true made me realise how full of shit a lot of US are. Hence this post. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:53 AM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.i didn't feel compelled to voice my support because it was nothing remotely new, there was no original spin on it etc To be fair, it probably was better suited to asktrp -- I posted it in the main forum because though the personal advice would help me, it would also stir up a discussion I was interested to see. I got what I wanted. I learned something and I've been able to have that discussion with a few different people. Jumping the gun and immediately assuming "a majority of people on this sub… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:36 AM |
| 4 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Ha! My favourite response yet! We'll all be fine. We're all learning. Nobody has a grasp on life and we're all winging it. The second we think we have it sussed, another boot comes out of nowhere and kicks us in the groin. Your response is not one of those boots, nor was the situation in my other post, nor was any of the replies. You're quite off-base, but definitely I've been through what you've described above on a very visceral level so there could very well be elements of it. Appreciate the … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:27 AM |
| 4 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.This is my battle Torabor64! :P Don't expect anyone to agree. The way I've gone about things has been quite abrasive. Good. This community is naturally quite abrasive. It is eye-opening to see the contradictions, ignorance and false assumptions bleed out into these comments. It's hard to know whether someone is full of shit if they're talking about something you don't know about. When they're talking about you and you maintain 100% honesty with yourself, it's clear as day. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.The third and main problem with your POV is that it is absolutist and fails to grasp that social intuition is required to determine the best course of action I appreciate that insight, but it's a little off-base. I agree, every situation is different and the context is important in how you deal with it. But, as I said in the post, this isn't about that particular situation; it's mostly about the apparent contradictory nature of the active, voiced community -- the people who are influencing the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:18 AM |
| 1 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Ofcourse, whenever you see individual members then deviate too far to either end of this virtue-normative, the product is an instant desire to "correct course", and offer your 2c to "help everyone else". You have to understand, this community has given me actual value in my life. It has undeniably altered the course of my life for the better. I have been here for a couple of years, I know where I came from and I know there are others here who are where I was. I know for a fact a post like this w… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Latest time to go for meets/lays on tinder in weekend?Obvious when you know ;) I don't. I'm learning. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?In my experience that's a bad response as it is usually interpreted as weakness Nah, sounds like your problem, not ours. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Throwing a fit? Haha. I'm sat here sipping hot chocolate. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?is a DHV since your inaction will probably be seen as cowardice. HAHAHA! Hilarious! These comments are comedy gold. Listen - please - I, nor anyone else, should give a flying fuck about DHV or being seen as a pussy or a coward or whatever, especially when with your family. None of us have anything to prove, and in fact by asserting that we do, we lose our frame. Man, so many here just have no idea. It's shocking. Harp on about frame all the time, lose it the instant someone challenges you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:55 AM |
| -1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Did you even read the post? Clearly stated why I posted this. 1) to see if my response did have an indication of weakness. Yes, I know I still have to introspect,but I value the opinions of people here (not so much any more, though haha). 2) to see how full of shit TRP community is here. Apparently, quite full of it. Lots of weakness and childish chest-beating in these comments. I doubt many here are even close to 30. If so, I'm seriously disappointed. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:52 AM |
| 0 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?The key is using your brain. Look at the guy. Does he look physically superior to you? If you were to honestly evaluate the situation as an impartial bystander, who do you think would win the fight? That's what your reaction should be based on. Wrong. No it shouldn't. My thought should be 'is this guy a legitimate threat to me, my family, or enjoying my meal in his current state?' .. if the answer is no, why the hell would I turn that into a yes by 'asserting my dominance'? Who cares who is phys… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Agreed, as a group we were probably quite self-absorbed - good vibes, and we assumed good vibes all around, forgetting that, at least in my area, there are a lot of unhappy people. If this happened with a group that was genuinely happy and in good-cheer, I doubt any of them would have responded so aggressively. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:44 AM |
| 0 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Would you acknowledge a child's tantrum and get in a fight with it? This is possibly the most mature response I've heard, and is exactly the kind of mindset I'm in the process of cultivating. What you can do to not feel weird about it, and even feel GOOD about it, is to hope that he resolves whatever awful thoughts he has towards himself or others. Exactly! I'm in the middle of building a lot of compassion, starting with myself and extending out to others. If anything, this was a great opportuni… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Torn now, actually. Maybe I would have hit him.. ..and the 2 other guys he was with? Lot of macho-boys on here. Fucking hilarious. Must be all the lifting haha | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Ey? What you believe means fuck all to me buddy. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?the situation was instantly reconfigured in everybody's mind and you became the submissive party ..and what about if I couldn't care less about my social status? Haha.. you see, these problems are just imagined. I am not afraid of losing social status, or looking like a pussy, or proving I'm the dominant party, or any of this shit. Your question was about what's up with you, and you're getting the real answers My question was not what was up with me, it was 'is this behaviour a sign of weakness … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?looked down and away I didn't look down and away. A challenge It wasn't a challenge. He felt threatened and was pissed off my table gave his table too much attention while they were singing happy birthday. He probably felt like a twat.. instead of brushing it off, he resorted instantly to aggression. He was weak and I'm not sure what I have to prove by escalating with weak people? but you have to meet it head on somehow, or else you're a pussy. I don't have to do shit. Pussy to who? Why the fuck… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Good point. Maybe part of it was shock. I didn't turn away quickly or in fear, but I did just think "wtf is his problem.. anyway". I've had a history of using weapons, and there was plenty around. I'm not really into ever going to those places again. My life is getting too good and I'm becoming too happy to be dragged back down into the sewer. Thanks for the vid! Love that film. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:19 PM |
| 8 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?You are not some kind of superior being levitating over the rest of us. I'd love to know why you felt the need to say such a stupid thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?That was exactly my attitude. The reason I came here was because I've struggled with massive insecurity in the past and have, thankfully, started to overcome a lot of personal issues through therapy and digesting TRP. Sometimes I don't know if I behave in a certain way due to strength or weakness. I'm glad to see in this case it appears to have been strength. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:49 AM |
| 6 | Abundance mentality is shit without actual abundanceBelief is a strong thing. It doesn't matter if you have actual abundance. If you believe the abundance is there, you have actual abundance. Maybe you're not putting in the right amount of effort or behaviour to capitalise or access that abundance? That's a different issue. The abundance IS there, though. For example.. it's pretty quiet for me at the minute in terms of attractive chicks. I fucked up a couple of plates, can't really be bothered dating too much because I'm going to Thailand in Oct.… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:47 AM |
| 11 | Abundance mentality is shit without actual abundanceAny suggestions on getting your text game on point? Advice, material, etc? My texting game isn't too bad at times, but I wouldn't mind being more consistent. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Yeh, I have a feeling there are plenty who take pleasure in breaking down those strong fronts. The way I see it, most people escalating shit, or beating their chest in confrontation, are not that dangerous. There are gang members who routinely kill people. Those people are dangerous. The rest of these tough guys are muppets. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:37 AM |
| 8 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Instead if you offer a strong front, without escalating but without backing up, that's how you avoid most violence situations How so? Maybe if something physical is impending, but at the beginning of a confrontation? I don't see how anything but amused mastery is a win. Nothing to prove, nothing to gain. If they see weakness they'll close onto you So then I would act out of fear of them closing onto me? I don't care if it appears weak. Hell, fuck it, I'll use the element of surprise and ruin bot… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?I wasn't interested in the girl or any of them. I think maybe we just gave their table a bit too much attention when they brought the cake out and he thought we were mocking them. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?This sounds like the kind of attitude I'm trying to cultivate. I've done a few krav maga lessons myself and learned some nasty things, and learned that there really is no benefit in escalating a situation into violence. I have nothing to prove. I'll defend myself if I have to, that's it. Out of curiosity, have you ever injured yourself in krav maga? I'm looking for something to train in that won't wear me down physically as I age. I'm staying away from hard martial arts for that reason, but the … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 11:21 AM |
| 5 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?I like that. I'm certainly not a big dog, but I think I had the mentality of one in this instance. Think I'm going to cultivate this mindset as I can see it keeping my life mostly drama free. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?the real thing bothering you is your family Is it? Haha.. not really. Nothing is bothering me. And it feels fucking incredible. I think I'll stick with this feeling for a while. Btw, they wouldn't have kicked anyone's ass. They are non-violent. My little brother was pissed off and wanted to set the record straight. My dad can barely walk. We're not a bunch of cage fighters. Considering my brother has been meditating for the last few years, I'm a little disappointed, but that's about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 02:12 AM |
| 7 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Not responding can make it seem like you're submissive To who? Whose opinion do I give a fuck about but my own? It was kind of a gut feeling to not even laugh as that would potentially escalate. I was just having a good time with the family. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Well that's it, what is the intention in provoking? He did back off.. and I didn't have to do a thing. My response was in my head "ha, really?".. and then back to my meal. It was pathetic and it came out of nowhere. Not sure, seems like anything but ignoring him is playing into his BS. I didn't feel threatened or the need to get even or set him straight. I think I was just so fucking happy today that not much was going to bring me down. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:53 AM |
| 2 | The most bitter pill to swallow is widely neglected on here and I understand why. Looks > everything else. Confessions of a manlet with an attractive face.Chase money. The women will come, don't worry. I'm not sure why people are that hung up on physical attractiveness when every woman is a prostitute in some regard, anyway. Sure, attractive people get a lot for free, but we're all being screwed regardless. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Be handsome?Attractive people can still be beta faggots and get divorce raped. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people?Well that's it, I knew almost instantly he was acting out of insecurity or fear. I didn't at all feel threatened.. words are words. If he stood up and started to walk over then I would have primed myself and responded. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Keep her in dread without even trying.Good point. I've been on both sides. I think I was imagining someone more masculine when I wrote that comment. There is definitely a thrill in getting a "strong independent woman" to purr and turn to mush. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to WomenThat's way too much time investment. If we don't have sex on the first date we done. After that, she either chases me or I move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 04:55 PM |
| 16 | "Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace." Remember, don't take things personally. Holding on to resentment is like drinking poison and hoping your enemies will get sick."Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do" We're all victims of our own nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Wife had an affair, I have awakened to the RedPill, and now I want to know how do I make my wife go wild sexually?..and they will all betray you eventually. Love with abandon and awareness and you'll be able to walk away from that betrayal with your head high and heart intact. Just make sure you don't tangle up your lives to such a point that she can fuck it up overnight. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Keep her in dread without even trying.You're right though, any man worth their salt would recognize it's more trouble than it's worth to try and deal with a bull headed woman who's constantly challenging your role I don't even think it's that. As a man, it's just not attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/17 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppable.It seems many people are forgetting that "success" is very much subjective and entirely depends on how you measure it. Not everybody is looking through the same lens, and my success is guaranteed because, as I mature, I will continually redefine what it means to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Endorsed Contributor Field Report: An Example of an Abundant Lifestyle - Money, Sex, and Neurochemical OptimizationThe plan is to just do enough to survive so I can focus majority of my time on my own business. 9-5s are comfortable and very distracting! That's why I'm quitting my job and leaving. I need a kick up the arse to carve my own path. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 12:59 PM |
| 29 | Endorsed Contributor Field Report: An Example of an Abundant Lifestyle - Money, Sex, and Neurochemical OptimizationHe's just looking for pointers. No need to be an asshole. To answer the question - programming, software, outsourcing. Essentially, any business that allows you to run it entirely from an internet connection. On top of that, build valuable skills and you can't lose. I'm a programmer and will be moving to Thailand and starting up my own software business.. but, failing that, I also have a few remote programming jobs lined up that will give me a western salary in a 3rd world country. I'm glad you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Can you describe The Rational Male & Red Pill theory in one sentence?Hypergamy doesn't care, women aren't loyal, women don't love you; they love value, invest in yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Are all girls like this? Break up.I won't be getting married, don't worry about that. Zero benefit to me. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | >>Update<< of My girlfriend wanted to experience more!Ironically, that low-investment, implied/actual abundance will make you behave more attractively (not needy, not chasing). But be sure to consciously do it next time to start fucking someone you like. Just carry on dating and eventually you'll find yourself with a growing harem and then you can focus a little on plate theory. It snaps you straight out of a monogamous mindset and you can start to truly play the field and learn. Good luck! Sounds like you handled this break up really well. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Are all girls like this? Break up.Any reason you say Asian and religious? Is it because of the societal/peer pressure to suppress their hypergamy? I'm heading to Thailand soon (Chiang Mai) and am hoping I'll meet some LTR material over there because the prospects are bleak in the UK. LTR isn't the goal, but I'd still rather have those kinds of women in my life than dirty sloots. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 02:46 PM |
| 5 | >>Update<< of My girlfriend wanted to experience more!He's being serious. Once you've learned to juggle a couple of women almost effortlessly it'll be hard for you to return to monogamy. As a bonus, it will help keep your head level by not investing into one person. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Do not let her waste your time. Use your power to walk away...which ironically leads to more girls. How can you not enjoy it once you've woken up? haha | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Do not let her waste your time. Use your power to walk away.Yup. I've seen 5s with hundreds of messages on whatsapp. Just assume infinite orbiters. In their minds it is an endless stream of validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 03:55 PM |
| 13 | Do not let her waste your time. Use your power to walk away.Hate to perpetuate the circle jerk but... I'm 30 and only just hitting my stride, already having fun and improving the quality of my plates. To think I've got another 20 years of this! One way ticket to Thailand in October, cutting all ties with previous life and taking my programming skills and working on a software business. FUCK I'm excited! It makes me think how I had the audacity to ever assume I was a victim. I was born male. I've already won. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 03:49 PM |
| 7 | Unplugged during a good LTR and started to view things differently...It's like I can't even be satisfied through mind blowing sex Exactly. Be mindful about that. Stop looking for satisfaction in external things. Stop grasping the momentary pleasures you experience. It sounds like you're a little jaded and coming to the realisation that pussy really does not equate to ultimate satisfaction. Good. Keep learning. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Unplugged during a good LTR and started to view things differently...In other words: familiarity breeds contempt. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 02:00 PM |
| 14 | Having Sex With a Female Human? Focus on Your Pleasure Only.A+ troll. Correction, though: put your pleasure first. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Time For a Sex Talk.Again, what is the benefit beyond stroking your ego? Retention rates? To 'get me off more'? To get her off more? More women? Already too many women and too many orgasms. Come on.. plenty of people with average dicks have absolutely no problem finding and retaining hot chicks or having a great time in bed. It's a nice-to-have. But I doubt I'd put in the commitment for it when it's so inconsequential to my life. If I put that same time into building a bigger set of balls I'd be far better off. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/17 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Time For a Sex Talk.Dick size is just one element of great sex. I've no doubt if I had a bigger dick I'd be able to produce more pleasure.. but why does that matter? It doesn't. It only matters to me if I make it a personal issue. It certainly doesn't matter to the majority of women. If it did, I wouldn't ever get laid more than once by attractive women. Something keeps 'em coming back and it ain't my dick size. Therefore, it matters squat (to me). I wish I'd had the experience to understand this a couple years bac… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 04:49 PM |
| 13 | Time For a Sex Talk.Again, though, the issue is moot unless you have a micro penis. I've hung around on thunders palace long enough to know that going from an average dick to a big dick does squat but stroke your ego. Again.. why do I care about someone else's pleasure over my own? Especially some fickle creature such as a woman. Doesn't matter if I'm the best, biggest, most ecstatic, orgasmic fuck she's ever had.. it's still a momentary pleasure and she'll still hop on some other dick when the hypergamy train come… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Why girls leave you and how to stop spark of love from dying?..and men never get bored of fucking the same girl every day? Stop it. EVERYBODY gets bored. I'm sexually bored with every woman within a few months. She's emotionally bored within a couple years. It is what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 02:10 PM |
| 11 | Time For a Sex Talk.Sad that we can be so hung up about penis size. I couldn't give a fuck any more. I'm average. I'm aware big dicks feel different/better (if you know how to use it), I'm aware I have to put in more work.. but hey, I wasn't put on this planet to be a walking dildo. I couldn't give a flying fuck how much physical pleasure she gets from my dick.. which is why they keep coming back. I'd like to see a post on penis size here, putting stuff into perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Time For a Sex Talk.wait lol what? From what I've read, it does work, though can only expect couple inches length and half-inch girth after months/years of dedication. I'm average and wasn't happy until I met someone who was actually in pain from my penis. Then I realised I'd rather go look for tighter pussy than make my dick bigger. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 01:56 PM |
| 2 | On Motorcycles and ManhoodHa! if I die on my motorbike I died HAPPY. Believe that shit! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 01:32 PM |
| 10 | Do you care too much about the opinions of others? Do you give too many fucks? There is a simple exercise to get over this, it's called 'shaving your head bald' | Let me explain, there is a method behind the madnessJust do it! I put it off for a good year.. I went to hairdresser and took a pic with my phone from the top. It was pathetic. Shaved it and never looked back. Banged 10x more women since and I couldn't give a flying fuck any more haha Got more important shit to focus on than your hairline. Too many women to go around, anyway. Who cares if you filter out a bunch of 'em. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Understanding and Embracing Dread Game - Bacchus' Comprehensive Guide to DREADThis is an important point. Though you should think about how to use dread from the beginning, it is useless if you haven't built attraction or hooked her... or, as you say, she's been unhooked because you fucked up beyond repair. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Is showing your emotions not crucial to have good sex? how do you have good sex without emotions?Not introducing emotion into sex because you might catch feelings and she might break your heart reeks of insecurity and fear. I don't give a flying fuck if someone's nature (!) breaks my heart, I'm giving them 100% of mine, regardless, simply because I find it more pleasurable and it spreads a little joy to other people's lives. Now commitment? That's another story! Seems a better use of energy would be to learn how to enjoy pleasure without attaching yourself to it. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Losing My Inner Fireso the idea of "finding universal answers" just isn't a motivating factor for me It doesn't need to be. You don't need to do anything. But if you want to escape this circle of dissatisfaction you have to come to the understanding that looking for ANYTHING to fill a void inside yourself is a fruitless endeavour. I do meditate in attempt ..listen to your words, carefully. In an attempt.. again, trying to achieve something, get somewhere, obtain something. Maybe it would be helpful for you to try a… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Losing My Inner FireOn this note, I would highly suggest An Introduction to Tantra by Lama Yeshe. It's exactly about transforming such desire for sensual pleasure into a blissful internal state. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | 4 Rules for a good conversationYup! This is exactly the path I'm trying to follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill "shower thought"Anyone with half a brain can program! No excuses. You can do writing, you could get into sales writing (copywriting). Lots of money in marketing. But don't be fooled, EVERY single one of these avenues requires you to grind. If you want it that bad, you will. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill "shower thought"How old are you? Don't make it into a big event. Go find someone experienced. My first time was with a bit of a milf and I was drunk. It turned into a FWB. She wasn't great in bed, she just liked having sex with a young, enthusiastic guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill "shower thought"Learn programming or some other skill you can deliver over the internet. I'm quitting my job and heading to Thailand. Only difference is I have a marketable skill and can get a remote job or freelance. Suss that shit out and you can go fucking anywhere! Don't think so much about saving up money. Think about how to sustain yourself and the lifestyle you want to live over the long-term. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I be telling women I live with my Uncle or should I just take them back to my place and mention when we get there?Comprende. Of course. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..I'm studying haha only 2 years in but I've learned a shit-tonne! Went from a 5-year dry period to too many women I don't know what to do. Just in the process of upping the quality of plates. Appreciate the feedback. Still a lot to learn. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..Ok man, I'll chill. Thanks for the advice. I'll start being more direct with future women, too. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..I just said "We can dance another time :) I'm going ice skating later in the week. You should come along! :P".. ..and she replied "ahh which day? I'll let you know!" Will I ever learn. Concrete plan! Gah. Should have mentioned a day haha Oh well, she seems to be letting me off with a few blunders. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..She's not a dance teacher. She's a friend of the teacher's wife. Ok, I'll respond with a concrete plan and see what happens. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..I'll take that into account, thanks. Another comment said I should wait a couple days, act like nothing happened and then go for the kill with something strong and specific this time. If she doesn't bite, THEN forget about it. Are you saying you would just drop her now unless she shows another IOI? I haven't even responded to her last text from yesterday. Is she even likely to ping me considering I've essentially ignored her? Or does that ignorance only help in this regard? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..Is it possible to recover from this? I've not replied to her message yet, been about 24 hours. Was thinking of responding with something similar to what you put.. or at least being more specific about what I'm doing and inviting her to tag along. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..Thanks for the feedback. I can see that being vague is not helping. Next time I'll be more direct. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 09:34 AM |
| 5 | A redpill perspective is needed.why would someone Deny having a relationship with you while contacting a family member who they know you aren't close with , and trying to paint you as a total loser You answered your question in the line above. She cannot accept responsibility.. no woman will. She got lukewarm because you didn't man up and have sex with her quickly enough. Forget about her and go meet other women. Nobody is worth this amount of energy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..I just thought it was creepy that, after she gave me a dud num, I text her from this group. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..I would simply ignore that message now. Wait 48 hours. Fair enough. Thanks for the feedback. Is it best to wait here or not just counter with this 'fun' thing I'm doing - "We can dance some other time :) I'm going to a trampoline park on Y. You should come along" Does waiting demonstrate something (HV?) or increase chances she will bite vs the counter offer above? In terms of DHV, she knows I'm a programmer and I'm going to Thailand in a few months to travel with my laptop... and I can dance (so… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..Thanks.. appreciate it.. Me: is that Larissa? :P Her: Larisaaaa Her: It's ------! Her: Ciao ------ Me: Oops! Thought was somebody from -----. Ciao :wave: Her: What is that? Me: It's a latin dance school. Hope you enjoy your 2nd day here (from prev convo)! Her: Yes :) I'm delivering CVs :smile: Her: I hope they'll hire me on __ stadium store (hour later).. Me: Only just got off the plane and already got CVs! Good girl! haha Me: You deserve a break. Fancy doing something fun this week? Her: haha n… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..Hmm.. ok, I asked her out and she said what if she invites me next time she goes dancing. That will obviously be a class or group setting so I can't go for that. Seems, again, she is looking for a little rapport. Any suggestions based on that? Ya know what, I'll give you her number and you talk to her for me? :P | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..Fair points. Based on that, I've just gone for it. I was surprised she replied at all to my message, but yeh she does seem quite interested. I've just said she should take a break from handing out her CV and we'll go do something fun this week. You're right, I've lost a few girls to meandering around in the past, and even on first dates because I've not moved fast enough within a couple of hours. Most of the women I've slept with it's been because I got them in my bed quickly. Good point RE how … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested..I came across ok at Salsa. There was someone else there who was interested in me and complimented my dancing, the instructor was impressed, the other guys there were real chumps. I was flirting with her while dancing (leading different spins etc. to instruction). I didn't follow her around or stare at her, we just had a couple of short casual chats. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Did something a little creepy but she seems interested....and yet the other comment thinks otherwise. Which is it guys? Haha. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Why would mothers raise their sons and teach them beta male characteristics?I agree with almost everything you say here, but.. Basically, single moms raising boys is child abuse. Ha! Gotta love the drama in this place. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How to manage plates and jealousy? (your own and theirs)I wouldn't necessarily say I use techniques.. but, essentially, passionate sex and a non-judgemental attitude so they relax into themselves. I've had a few women say they like me because they can be themselves around me - get her to open up sexually and her emotions will follow. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Salsa class.. did I play this right?Damn. I don't know. She gave me A number, but I've not received any reply to a text I sent before just letting her know what my num is. Is it preferable to give your number to a chick and have her text you? I'd rather screen out the bait and get to the rejection asap if possible. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Salsa class.. did I play this right?I know I'm reading too deep into this, but what about turning up at this place with another chick? I'd already asked for her number but I think I asked too soon (within first few minutes of our conversation) -- admittedly this was after an hour of dancing with her. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Salsa class.. did I play this right?Shit, I think I asked for her number way too soon :/ | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Reddit Post of a 18 Years Old Girl. She is asking for kuddos for her N-Count of 100!..and why does it matter? I rarely see people out on their own having a drink in the UK. Some find it odd, some find it brave, who cares? If there is one thing that gets a woman's attention it is an attractive guy that isn't moulding to societal norms. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Today I Really Fucked UpGood to hear man, can't go wrong with that attitude! | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Reddit Post of a 18 Years Old Girl. She is asking for kuddos for her N-Count of 100!My honest dream is to never have to work 9 to 5 ever again Then be prepared to work 9-9. If you are going to break out of wage slavery, this is definitely not the hardest hustle you are going to go through. In fact, this is the easiest hustle.. which is why the majority are comfortable doing it for 50 years. Sound like you're on the right track. Focus on building skills and money machines (businesses, streams of income). | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Reddit Post of a 18 Years Old Girl. She is asking for kuddos for her N-Count of 100!You cannot just go there by yourself and hit on random women Err.. you can do whatever you want. I'm in the UK. Cannot believe your tripe is being upvoted. Makes me wonder what other tripe is being upvoted now :/ I've gone out a few times on my own on the way home. Spent 30 mins at the bar, made eye contact with a few people and some random chick usually starts talking. Met a FWB this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Today I Really Fucked UpFirst, I commend you for dealing with your break-up in such a constructive way. It's so easy to spiral into depression and ruin your life for no reason. Fact is, if you're not married, don't have children or own a house with your ex, then you got off EXTREMELY easy compared to a lot of people. However, there are a couple of things I noticed in your post that perhaps might be worth thinking about.. It's been tough for me Sounds like you are maybe playing the victim card in your head? I hardly thi… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 12:15 AM |
| 7 | Where the women at?BS that is TRP Please do explain what is BS and why. People who are here for the right reasons are only interested in the truth. The rest of your comment makes me think you haven't actually read into TRP.. "socially inept", "screw over women", "no concept of healthy boundaries", "being a shit-bird".. none of these things are RP. There are many who find themselves here because they either struggle with attracting women in the first place, or they have felt the cutting edge of the fairer species. … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 10:02 PM |
| 2 | There is Hope for All: A few thoughts on Female Attraction and Male AttractivenessYou're right, he was doomed from the start. If it wasn't your post, it would have been someone else's. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 08:32 PM |
| 4 | There is Hope for All: A few thoughts on Female Attraction and Male AttractivenessYou gave him aids. You should at least apologise to the poor man! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?Lol yep, learned my lesson big time. I guess you can't really avoid these situations when you're learning. Feel like kicking myself in the balls. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?don't be afraid to next her I think that's one of the problems. Though I was dating someone else at the same time, I didn't want this plate to smash regardless. But yeh, she did also start causing me a little more grief than I needed. Every time I soft nexted her she came back and then pushed me away again. I've offended her big time anyway so I won't be seeing her again. Onto the next one! | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?Yep. I'm still learning. I think in the future I need to just relax for a few minutes instead of reacting to their BS. I figured it was a shit test, just a little too late! | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?Thought so. What an idiot. Question.. she took a book a few weeks back - I guess as a way to make sure I don't disappear. I've used this card and said I will come pick it up. She hasn't said she'll leave it outside or anything so we're going to see each other. If there was ANY way to salvage this, what would you do? I feel like the only thing I can do at this point is admit I was a dickhead and play it cool and leave it to her on the off-chance she might get in touch later down the line. This is… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: You've Already Lost EverythingJapan! What a twisted place, would love to live there for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/17 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: You've Already Lost EverythingYeh, where you heading? I've got a one-way ticket to Chiang Mai late Oct. Hit us up if you're in the area! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Exploit The Red Pill; Obliterate The CompetitionWhy did you remove the post? :/ | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 11:29 PM |
| 2 | What is a good book for finding your inner most insecurities and drives.This sounds ideal for insecurities.. Why Do I Do That?: Psychological Defense Mechanisms and the Hidden Ways They Shape Our Lives Not read it myself but in my basket. Another one I'd suggest is 6 Pillars of Self-Esteem. But I would also say that you shouldn't get too lost in books, or looking for solutions to your personal problems in books. They can help greatly in raising your awareness, but you still have to do the inner work yourself - which means you still have to learn to manage your state… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Man works himself to death for his family, still treated like a shit.I've heard of keeping your enemies close, but he really took it to heart! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Plate developed feelings for me, now doesn't want to be treated like an object?Fair point RE my hamster. I'll try keep it occupied on things that actually matter. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Plate developed feelings for me, now doesn't want to be treated like an object?Ha. Yep. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Plate developed feelings for me, now doesn't want to be treated like an object?I did ghost her and she did come back.. and this is the shit she is hitting me with now. I lift a couple times a week - just starting 5x5 programme and seeing noob gains. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Catholics once again encouraging an unfaithful woman to "heal" a 10-year-long divorce, which started when she cheated with Chad.That has to be one of the most disgusting things I've read in a long time. My trust in any woman has been irreversibly broken. Thank you. Now I can get on with the job of looking after number one. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women will never forgive you for your lack of SMV.How tall are you? Are you handsome? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Women will never forgive you for your lack of SMV.While we're theorising, perhaps it's because their offspring might mate with the omega's offspring? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Only two plates smashed, immediately reverted back to AFC behaviourThanks for this! Very insightful, and exactly the kind of thing I needed to hear. I'm probably only 6 months or so into TRP. Feels like I've learned a tonne, but there is obviously much more to learn as I internalise this. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Only two plates smashed, immediately reverted back to AFC behaviourI'm doing both - reason I'm such a late bloomer is because I was busy growing (teaching myself programming).. but yeh, it shouldn't even be a priority at this point. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Cannot find a passion please help!I just want to reiterate what others are saying: keep exploring! That is the only answer to this. You'll begin to find things you genuinely enjoy and that fulfil you the more you explore. Try dancing, rock climbing, trampolining, martial arts, fishing, camping, music production, instruments, etc, etc. Plenty to discover. Develop that attitude of looking for new experiences, make that your passion. For me, I've found lifting, salsa dancing, photography and motorbikes to be the most satisfying. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Only two plates smashed, immediately reverted back to AFC behaviourI've got The Rational Male and 48 Laws Of Power. Really enjoying them so far. Yeh, you're right. I guess I'm just looking for insight from people who have been there to tell me to do what I know I should be doing. I've focused a lot on myself over the last couple of months so I'll just turn that up another notch. Thanks. Appreciate the advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Only two plates smashed, immediately reverted back to AFC behaviourI'm well aware they were chasing/dating/fucking other men. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Only two plates smashed, immediately reverted back to AFC behaviourThis is why I think I've done well to a degree. Because I was seeing a couple of women at the same time, I didn't give either them much attention. Hardly ever texted.. they chased me. But yeh, internally it is obviously still there. Thanks. I'll do some more introspection and try to overcome this BS. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 03:41 PM |
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