Some of you may find yourself having feelings for a guy who is not pursuing or in a relationship with you. If that's the case, do not take initiative in adding or interacting him with social media even though you may want to do that.

1) If he wanted to get to know you better, he would. The fact that it's a crush already implies he doesn't like you back. FDS is against women taking initiative in pursuing men.

2) What your crush is doing doesn't matter to you given how he is not interested in you. You hence shouldn't be wasting your time snooping around his social media profile.

3) Everyone else can see your public interactions with him. Many pickmes prefer interacting with a guy who they are unsure if he likes them back publicly on social media. If other people noticed your behavior, they may gossip about it.

4) It's harder to move on when you're always lurking on your crush's social media profile. It's not healthy. You may as well not add or interact with him on social media and try to meet other men.

5) It's hard to have an exit strategy. You will naturally want to stop interacting or unfriend your crush if he ignores you or you find out he is taken via his online posts. However, if you suddenly stop interacting with or unfriend him, your actions imply you had feelings for him and that's embarrassing. The best thing is avoid being so "close" to him in the first place so you can easily bail out if you sense his lack of interest or suspect he is taken.

6) Your crush may use your personal info on your own profile against you. It's not unheard of for guys to show their friends photos of pick mes who are pursuing them. His friends may diss your appearance after seeing your photos your crush can access on social media.