Men, would you get married in the USA? And if money wasn't an issue, would you live in another country to meet women?

wtknight · 2021-09-05T22:27:46+00:00

Removed. No men asking men or women asking women questions.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-09-05T21:03:53+00:00

I'd move to another country, yes. I don't think I'd ever get married though unless the woman was totally worth it.

lagavenger · 2021-09-05T21:54:33+00:00

Am married. Mid 30’s. I wouldn’t move simply to meet women, if I were single. Would travel just for the sake of traveling.

But had I met the right woman when I was traveling as a young man, I probably would have stayed or figured out how to make it work. Wouldn’t have bothered me to stay in a different country.

While there are cultural differences, I think you’re going to be upset to find that foreign women aren’t just going to worship you because you’re a man.

If you spent more time working on yourself instead of looking at how messed up women can be, you’d find that your prospects improve.

I’ve been to maybe 20 different countries. Women never worshipped me. Though they are super cool, and I totally recommend hanging out and flirting with them if you get the chance. They’ll politely (usually) let you know what you’re doing right and wrong.

ToughAnswers · 2021-09-05T20:36:46+00:00

Modernity is everywhere, and it only moves in one direction

Playful_Dig8694 · 2021-09-05T20:52:20+00:00

No, almost 30, no, the poison has spread too far

rustjelqing2 · 2021-09-05T20:57:06+00:00

The US has draconian child support and marriage laws. Really, the legal system there leaves a lot to be desired in general. Changing citizenship isn't that costly.

Key-Progress-8873 · 2021-09-05T20:54:57+00:00

I would move if this is what my prospective spouse wants, or if she needs to in order to pursue studies or a goal she has. I am fine with going to the USA, or anywhere else really as long as it's safe, has clean air & water and access to food & medicine for us to survive.

As for moving countries to find a woman, it's "Black Pill" thing, telling western men who have too low of an SMV to move to East Asia where men on average will be shorter and poorer than him.

But I have also noticed people saying "move to Eastern Europe, women there are more feminine and traditional". Allow me to utterly break this fantasy apart for you.

No, women here aren't necessarily more "feminine". In fact, some Eastern European countries like Bulgaria and Estonia rank among some of the highest ranks in terms of number of women in tech & female engineers. These countries are also where women win Gold medals in boxing and karate. So if you're looking for a traditional wife, won't be easy to find one here either.

From what I know, Africa may actually be where women are most "traditional" in the sense that the word typically is used in.

Guilty_Neat_8120 · 2021-09-05T20:43:05+00:00

Never getting married I get all the benefits of a relationship if I wanted outside of marriage and the laws in the west are bad for any man to get married in today's society, plus western women are toxic to be around and are more of a liability than a plus, so no thanks. I'm 21, and if , money is not an issue then im traveling to Asia and going to meet women there, they are more respectful and bring value.

midwestufohunter · 2021-09-05T20:49:57+00:00

And if sex tourism were legal

EstablishmentKooky50 · 2021-09-05T21:46:53+00:00

Given from what i know about laws and the dating market situation there, I'd only risk it with a well vetted woman, if i want kids.

I am 35, i live in the UK, "imported" and married a Thai woman. Turned out all right eventually... :D

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purplish_possum · 2021-09-05T20:43:58+00:00

If I were wealthy I'd get a nice old house in England. I like English culture and seem to do OK with British women.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-09-05T21:15:38+00:00

Mid 20s. Yes to Q1, no to Q2.

My social circle consists of people who aren't toxic and don't suck though, so ymmv.

PMmeareasontolive · 2021-09-05T21:15:42+00:00

Well, it does sorta seem like romance is dead here. People are too cynical about gender roles being an illusion and disappointment and form of oppression. Some of that is ok. The awareness is good. But there is something to be said for enjoying playing the role,, even if somewhere at the heart of it it is a charade. There is a certain, not 'fake it til you make it' but more like, "willingness to give it a try and see if you get the hang of it" attitude that seems more prevalent elsewhere. I don't know if that's really truly, not having traveled.

wrtcdevrydy · 2021-09-05T21:29:23+00:00

Depends (I've always liked eastern european women), early 30s.

I'd get married in the US to the right person after proper vetting.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-09-05T21:45:28+00:00

I would get married in America, but i would require a fair bit to have that happen

-- prenup w infidelity clause in a fault-divorce state

-- postnup with separate income streams and accounts, house ownership with Tenants in Common, etc.

-- she has a good career making at least as much as i do, or at very least within 10%, and is educated, at least a bachelor's but preferably a graduate degree

--she wants children and is willing to allow me to take a leading role in caring for them or at least an equal role. I will not be the "oh is daddy baby sitting today?" Father.

-- she is willing to jointly commit with me for both of us to stay fit for health reasons first and foremost

-- she loves her career and would hate to quit it, i do not want a housewife

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-09-05T21:59:14+00:00

35yo Male, and no I would not get married, the closest I would be willing to go would be like a commitment ceremony or something like that, I've been thinking about it, I love her very much but no I'm not going to get married

Also, if money wasn't a problem, would you move and live in a different country to meet women? And if so, what country or area of the world?

Not specifically to meet women, I have pondered the idea of moving to Liechtenstein once I retire in about 10 years or so but move just for the purpose of meeting women? No

Jakes1967 · 2021-09-05T22:16:43+00:00

Men, would you get married in the USA?

Absolutely NOT!

And if money wasn't an issue, would you live in another country to meet women?

I actually did, so definitely yes.

zyramain69 · 2021-09-05T22:18:55+00:00

There are 0 benefits ot marriage, and I wouldn't move for it either

Hoopy223 · 2021-09-05T22:19:59+00:00

Yes if I liked her and yes if I could afford it. Why not? I’d love to live in a South American country for awhile or maybe in the hills of Italy/Greece.

FuckWhatYallThink · 2021-09-05T22:23:59+00:00

Were i single, I would totally go to thailand or cambodia and get me a wife who knows her role and knows better than to start shit. Get that domestic bangmaid life

Western women be on that “why cant a man cook and clean too” shit. Well then what was the whole point of your gender??? Lol shit is senseless

GoToPurplePillDebate · 2021-09-05T22:28:48+00:00

late 30s, white: I'd rather be tortured to death.

Would I move? Yes. Where? Anywhere non-western.

Title	Men, would you get married in the USA? And if money wasn't an issue, would you live in another country to meet women?
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Date	September 5, 2021 8:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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