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[–]lostmilleniaFDS Newbie 158 points159 points160 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The baaaar? The baaaaarrr, where did it goooo?
[–]bizzybumblebeeFDS Newbie 138 points139 points140 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
being able to do a man's laundry 🧺 is such a flex, cuz nowadays they be only having one pair
[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
LMAO. That one pair has holes in it too
[–]MiaNaimFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
With the elastic stretched to hell and exposed.
[–]Shot_Presence_8382FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget skid marks 🤢😂😂😂😂😂
[–]RabidWenchFDS Disciple 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]MACMUAFDS Apprentice[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]DuchessDuragFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That elastic band holding for dear life 🩲
[–]Chubby-LovieFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Literally "who you live with" and "I don't want to leave the city but my lease is up" summed up my last couple of dates with a man.
[–]AocwannabeFDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I seriously cannot believe how many men have asked me about my finances on first dates!!!🤯
And the same men who herald 50/50 are the ones who look for “independent women” with women who obviously have more money.
[–]TikiTikiTata-chalalaFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My new response to men who ask about this is "what, you poor or something?" And if they get sexual "what, you a pervert or something?"
I need to have something to acknowledge in the moment or I'll sit with it and give him more thought than he deserves. Just full stop- STOP
[–]macabrasiveFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Haaaahahahaha. Having a place of your own with no roommates is a firm standard for me. I had a guy ask me out once, to come over to his house to hang with him and his 6-7 roommates. He’s 35 years old. I noped so hard out of that realm of possibility. If you don’t have your shit together enough to have your own place you manage and take care of and pay for, the same way I do, I predict EASILY to be the one doing all of that in the future. No thank you.
[–]oh_shit_oh_fuckFDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember back in my naive days, when I was 22 I started dating this 33 year old man who lived in London. He also had like 6-7 room mates!! I remember being soooo disappointed when he told me that. Like I get he lives in London, I was expecting him to share a place with maybe 1 room mate - not 6-7!!! I even knew people who just turned 20 when I was at uni there who only had 1 house mate. No excuses. I never ended up visiting his place because he got dumped by me lol, but I bet it would have been grim.
[–]snowwhite224FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same standard for me! I’m 24 and I’ve had my own apartment for almost 2 years now. I feel like once you hit 25, it’s time to transition out of the “roommate” phase and stop living like a college student.
[–]ButterfliesHurricaneFDS Newbie 49 points50 points51 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk about having high standards 🙈
[–]Gologic34 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Facts. When I was online dating, the number of men who owned their own home, let alone lived without roommates, was minute. Good thing I do lol.
[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn the bar is really this low??? 🤦♀️
[–]cat_realness 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The bar is so low that it is being swept these days. The actual audacity
[–]Trojaneer_SouthFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
While many of us have had experiences that relate to these sentiments, I'd like to see fewer posts in this format (screenshot of Twitter/OLD with minimal commentary). Because the source is hard to verify/easy to fabricate, it makes the sub susceptible to astroturfing by male lurkers. Even if they can't post, they can upvote dubious/apocryphal/lower quality content which shifts the subs focus away from more substantial topics and strategy.
Perhaps there's a way to designate scheduled threads for content like this to reduce the influence of bad actors. i.e. a bunch of trolls can upvote brigade a bunch of individual threads on the sub, but their influence is mitigated if all image posts are contained in one thread. At least then newcomers to the sub won't see a bunch of screenshots/memes first and think that's the essence of FDS.
[–]crazykitten27FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As women our entire lives we are taught to be careful what we say so we don't offend others. Lets not do that here! Male lurkers can just be mad about it🤷♀️
[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree
[–]GreytracksuitPantsFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty common where I am from. It’s incredibly difficult to own your own place with the market as it is.
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[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 13 points14 points15 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MiaNaimFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Shot_Presence_8382FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RabidWenchFDS Disciple 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MACMUAFDS Apprentice[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DuchessDuragFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Chubby-LovieFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]AocwannabeFDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TikiTikiTata-chalalaFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]macabrasiveFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]oh_shit_oh_fuckFDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]snowwhite224FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ButterfliesHurricaneFDS Newbie 49 points50 points51 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Gologic34 30 points31 points32 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]cat_realness 25 points26 points27 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Trojaneer_SouthFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]crazykitten27FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GreytracksuitPantsFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link