A long overdue post that I've been wanting to write for a while!

This one is for my fellow Asian FDSers <3

Part One: Vetting for Asian Fetishes Among Non-Asian Males

Here are a few things to look out for:

-Too much interest in anime, kpop, japanese videogames

-Takes you to an Asian restaurant without you expressing your wanting to go to one

-Asian decor or cookbooks at his place

-Talks about his previous Asian gfs or wives

-Has many Asian ex partners

-Talks too much about Asian culture

-Acts like an expert about Asian culture, acts like he knows more than you

Part Two: You are NOT REQUIRED to date Asian men. Despite Libfem propaganda, they don't own you and you don't owe anything to them.

You are not required to date Asian men out of guilt because they are stereotyped and have dating "struggles". Historically, Asian men, have abused, raped, and tortured Asian women. They forced us to be their concubines, literally cheating on us in public for years. But just because they can't get laid by a few ladies, now they are the victim? Do not allow them to manipulate you into sleeping with them out of guilt.

Libfems will subtly try to convince you to give them an extra preference, but you should ignore them, and do what is best for you. Do not listen to libfems who try to defend Asian men and argue his side. Libfems are so sympathetic to Asian male racism when that problem is literally nothing compared to what we have to go through. No gaslighting about "both sides".

Remember to dislike Asian men and White men equally.

Asian men do not own us, we can do whatever we want without guilt. PLEASE do not let libfems convince you that dating a HVM white man is bad, especially if it'll improve the condition of your life.

A side note about the comparison between Asian men and Black women in terms of dating struggles. This is a bad comparison. Black women are historically innocent. They have no blood on their hands and do not hurt anyone. This is not the case for Asian men obviously. Also a key difference is that Black women fight against racial fetish because they simply want to be cared about for who they are, not their race. Asian men like racial fetishes because it gets them laid (If you want an example of this, watch Jimmy Yang's interview with Joe Rogan).

A side note #2 about Non Asian women fetishizing Asian men. Libfem culture says it's okay, it is actually harmful to Asian women because Asian women have endured centuries of abuse and rape from Asian men. Idealizing Asian men turns a blind eye to the pain Asian women have endured. Asian men are just as bad as white men. These non Asian women who fetishize Asian men are NOT your friends. I know this from past mistakes and experiences. They ALWAYS have a superiority complex. They will be negatively racist towards you, and oftentimes put you down out of feeling somewhat threatened.

Things to keep in mind when dating Asian men:

-A lot of them aren't rich and successful like you might think. Some are bums. MANY are bums.

-Be wary of the nerdy engineer type Asian man as well. He is often extremely misogynistic due to the amount of video games he plays. I once noticed a nerdy engineer type liking porn accounts on Instagram. They may seem passive and harmless, but these men are not.

-Even if he is studying neuroscience at a good university, he might not be as high achieving as you think. I cannot stress this enough.

-Asian men in America are more likely to resort to pickup artistry due to girls not wanting to date them. They are more manipulative than you might think.

-Some Asian men have non Asian women fetishes. The Asian man who has a friend group of mostly Asian people most likely does not have this fetish.

-Asian American men and non diaspora Asian men are wildly different. They hold varying political views, young Asian American men are mostly liberal left leaning. Whether you can date non diaspora Asian men depends on your language capabilities (or his).

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And above all, always support your Asian sisters above any Asian man!

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