The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 58 - The Great SlapGate Debate: Is Male Violence Ever The Answer?

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m_r_rosewood · 2022-04-13T20:40:50+00:00

I've listened to every public and for-patreon-only podcast from you three and I love them all! However, I think that it too often ends up being more a Lilith/Reux duo as opposed to truly involving Savannah. I don't know if Savannah needs to speak up more and/or if the other two need to be more mindful in leaning back and forefronting Savannah, but this dynamic is now well established enough that I feel the need to comment.

All in all, excellent work but I want to hear more from the silent third (aka Savannah)! Wishing you all well and looking forward to more excellence!

Ok-Performance5997 · 2022-04-13T10:28:50+00:00

Roman Polanski, woody Allen and Weinstein have been kicked out of the academy. They just aren’t going to bust down their doors and take the trophies back.

AsleepAd634 · 2022-04-13T16:08:16+00:00

I don’t agree with a lot of things that Lilith says,I didn’t need to hear about her family feud and that she likes violent men and reminds us every 5 minutes. I'm here for the lesson and strategy. This podcast was an hour of celebrity gossip. Couldn’t finish this episode.

Ok-Performance5997 · 2022-04-14T03:42:18+00:00

How is it that Lillith is so much like what incels and MRA’s characterise women as being like? That women secretly love toxic masculinity, aggression and men fighting each other?

It was cringe & kinda inappropriate to hear Lilith go on about what gets her off in a conversation about male aggression and violence. Especially when Reaux was trying to redirect the conversation to try and stay on topic and Lillith just carried on about she finds the idea of fight polycule hot…..🥴

I also think her positions trying to redirect male violence are really poorly thought out. If men need an outlet for masculinity or pent up aggression, let them play competitive and/or contact sports or get them to build shit or forge/wield something. There has to be rule of law, allowing vigilantly justice on a mass scale is just inviting social collapse.

Encouraging men to commit retributive justice against other men is just giving permission for violent men to beat other violent men up. It does nothing to actually challenge men’s misogyny, it does nothing to actually protect women. The crime has already been committed. Men protecting women looks like preventing crimes against women occurring in the first place. These “good” men should be identifying and casting out misogynistic & rapey men from their friendship groups & communities. They should be challenging other men on their views on women.

Also, for someone who rails against narcissists all the time, she does go on a lot about wanting to be worshipped by men, wanting to be in control all the time, etc.

tiny_house_writer · 2022-04-13T22:41:20+00:00

It's not the answer, although I do teach my kids (boy and girl) that of the typical chain of command doesn't help, it can be used to end it. 🤷🏼‍♀️ My mother used to teach me "ignore it and it'll go away" and then I was severely bullied until I was in my mid 20's and taught myself some self respect and a backbone. 😒

notmyrealname10347 · 2022-04-14T09:51:41+00:00

FYI, a slap wouldn't be a felony. Misdemeanors and felonies are very different! Even if Chris Rock pressed charges and Will Smith was arrested AND convicted he still would not go to prison (prison and jail are also very different!) and would not be a felon.

The terms are kind of important, especially since convicted felons lose a lot of their rights (right to vote, own guns, etc).

Also, while you guys might call it lazy, in this case the cops not making an arrest is 100% the right call. It's not celebrity bias. A non-domestic misdemeanor battery with no injury and an uncooperative victim will get dropped in case filing. It will never get to a judge. So it's a massive waste of taxpayer money to make an arrest for something like this when the victim doesn't even want it.

TheKindOfGirl · 2022-04-17T07:31:29+00:00

I like Savannah the most tbh, please let her also speak. 🙏

april261986 · 2022-04-16T14:26:06+00:00

Fire Lilith. She adds nothing of value to the conversation, always butting into whatever Reaux or Savannah is saying, either with a humblebrag about her own dating life or an antiquated world view. It wouldn’t bother me if she didn’t hog the conversation and tell long boring stories that aren’t even relevant to the theme. The podcast is becoming unlistenable because of her. Three is a crowd.

glowmilk · 2022-04-14T07:58:17+00:00

Finally, some slap discourse actually worth listening to! It’s been so exhausting seeing people discuss this topic to death online, under the assumption that everyone already knows the ins and outs of Will and Jada’s relationship. Like Savannah, everything I’ve learnt about them has been against my will and I wasn’t keen on following the news about their “entanglements” a couple years ago. For that reason, I found the backstory Reaux provided to be incredibly helpful. It provided some much-needed context on the dynamics of their relationship and brought me up to speed on everything I needed to know to properly engage in this discussion.

There’s no clear right or wrong answer here which is what makes the discussion so interesting. I don’t really care whether a man slaps another man or not, I just don’t think it should’ve happened on stage…at the Oscars…live…when you’ve been nominated for an Oscar yourself. I love fight scenes in superhero and martial arts movies, but men fighting each other irl is never anywhere near as interesting and just doesn’t do it for me like that 🤣 I do understand Lilith’s perspective though. While fighting in general doesn’t turn me on, I would probably be quite pleased to have a man physically stand up for me if I was visibly hurt by another man’s actions. I’ve witnessed a friend’s ex-boyfriend do absolutely nothing to stand up for her when she was groped in a club and she was deeply upset that he didn’t do anything to defend her.

Title	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 58 - The Great SlapGate Debate: Is Male Violence Ever The Answer?
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Date	April 13, 2022 8:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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