So it was finalized friday, now I'm a free agent. We split the house 60% to me 40% to her because she was having a torrid affair with some clown. Sank her battleship and she wanted the divorce first, well all she got was some of the house, child support, and a used up boyfriend. i kept everything else, 401k, vehicles, my tools,my guns and $190,000. Happy dance! Looking at a motorcycle now.