A month and some change left of living in the same house as this woman and I can’t wait to get out.

Kwen_Oellogg · 2022-05-29T17:42:59+00:00

I remember when things were starting to go really bad between me and my future x-wife. I said 'You know, I've always been good provider'. She got a very surprised look on her face and then said very begrudgingly 'Yes you were'.

It was completely amazing to me that she had never considered that before.

missmewitDam · 2022-05-29T21:59:27+00:00

They always take the fact we broke our backs to elevate the family for granted, it's absolutely disgusting. Especially if they're the ones who committed adultery.

derelictherds · 2022-05-29T21:42:13+00:00

Yep it is absolute hell. Glad you survived it. The real kick in the balls is that many men continue having to pay for the marriage long after it ends. Best of luck to you.

sublimeonskunk · 2022-05-29T23:39:15+00:00

Man, I know what you mean. I’m still at the point where if she is around me my skin literally crawls. I used to think that didn’t even exist, but now I know it’s a real thing and only she can make it happen to me. Good luck man, onward and upward. It’s the only way!

No-Magazine2896 · 2022-05-29T21:17:57+00:00

Though women were always opportunistic, traditionalism encouraged her to see the long-view, to know that life was about give and take. The erosion of traditionalism by feminism meant women defaulted to primitive instinct. In this world, Briffault’s Law is evermore important. In short, all a man is good for is what he can do for her today; his past actions doesn’t accrue to the present. Men did not need traditionalism to retain future orientation- the understanding that relationships are built over time, to reciprocate over the long term. Women did. Without it, women are almost inhumanely opportunistic. It is a mindset that may have been fitting during the Paleolithic Era, but not now and certainly not the basis for a long term Marriage.

Title	A month and some change left of living in the same house as this woman and I can’t wait to get out.
Author	saygrace2
Upvotes	23
Comments	25
Date	May 29, 2022 5:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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