Why don't we change things

X-32A · 2022-07-03T06:44:09+00:00

It's absurd. Many men are suffering due to this clown world. I'm a high earner--300k-- and can't marry due to obvious reasons and due to religion can't hookup either. I'm so fing pissed why I have to suffer because of stupid laws made by other men. Why do liberal systems that oppose God have to mingle state with marriage that is mostly a religious decree if you remove the paltry tax benefits. This system is against my beliefs and I'd have moved overseas if any place even paid 1/10 the amount I'm making. They're clearly incentivising hookups and trying to kill marriage. This is an attack on religion by government. Yet not a single attempt by anyone to change alimony or asset split laws. Main question is WHY IS GOVERNMENT MINGLING IN MARRIAGE THAT IS A RELIGIOUS CONCEPT?? Why are men just being cattle and not fighting back and making a better world for next generation of men??

Let me guess! are you an Arabi/ Pakistani Muslim doctor? Believe me, brother, Muslim women are the worst. They will suck you dry during marriage and if god forbid you to want a divorce, god bless your soul.

CRobinsFly · 2022-07-03T03:47:44+00:00

Things are starting to change, slowly; but I dont think they'll be meaningfully changed in our dating lifetimes.

Gattsama · 2022-07-03T06:57:41+00:00

You make valid points but here's the bottom line. People in this nation do not vote. Every politicians number one goal is to be reelected (and only the voting public matter) and second goal is to rise money. The birth rate is in the toilet in every western nation. Several reasons but shirt answer is the more we educate women the longer they wait to get married, have few children and have them later in life.

So while in theory we can fix issue one and vote for better politicians. Nothing else is going to change. There are good women out there. But traditional women in the rest are super rare. As you mentioned better off going over seas, not because women are better. But the percentage of traditional women / good girls is much higher.

At this stage any attempt to correct family law is since as an attack on women and an attempt to 'take away their rights.' Example, ending alimony. That taking away women's rights. You keep what you brought into the marriage. Also taking away women's rights.

Nothing of consequence is going to change until we hit a collapse or a another great war. Neither of wish I hope for. So you are left with two basic choices. Deal with reality or yell at the sky about how it should be 🤷‍♂️ No insult, but it is what it is. Hook up culture is now the predominant culture in college. But only for women. More and more men are virgins. This will only continue to increase.

Mynewadventures · 2022-07-03T12:01:55+00:00

You blame government for trying to control your life but willingly submit to some arbitrary rules demanded of you by other men...that, let's be honest, are no closer to whatever ridiculous concept of an all powerful being you may have.

No pity for you.

Striking-Trainer8148 · 2022-07-03T05:37:57+00:00

“Due to religion I can’t hook up”

Dude have some accountability for your decisions. You’re choosing that life, it is not being forced on you.

Soggy_Nose_7173 · 2022-07-03T07:41:39+00:00

Can't hook up due to your religion?

Bro, it is time to wake TF up and realize that religion is a fucking scam. No one knows WTF happens after we die, learn to live with it. The only thing religion does is try to dictate how you should live your life.

The quicker you learn that religion is a scam, the faster you will find happiness in your current life.

Drop the religion BS, get snipped and then start hooking up with chicks!

but overall, I agree that marriage is between a man + woman and "god" - it is a religious tradition at the end of the day.

Focus_On_A_Check · 2022-07-03T23:30:49+00:00

The only thing that’s stopping you from booking up are your “morals” 🤷‍♂️

James1933-75 · 2022-07-03T10:51:20+00:00

Common law contract + religious ceremony, if your jurisdiction allows it.

Late-Kangaroo6081 · 2022-07-03T08:26:33+00:00

You can't get laid and no one want a to marry you. Of course, thats reason enough to impose a theocratic regime on 330 million people. Government is secular. It neither opposes nor endorses religion. Your problems belong to you, not to us.

WartimeDad · 2022-07-03T20:39:51+00:00

Why are you religious?

InAndUndated · 2022-07-03T05:43:24+00:00

We should have a call together. I’m a post-divorce coach from the UK. I believe I can offer you some powerful insights on the things you talk about

OneNiniFiveFourFour · 2022-07-03T17:23:24+00:00

What a stupid rant! You’re a misogynist nutcase, who uses religion as a crutch. Marriage is more of a legal arrangement than a religious arrangement. It applies to everyone, not just your misinformed religiosity.

JD-Anderson · 2022-07-03T16:35:00+00:00

I was not always a free man, but now I am a free man. That’s all that matter now.

FUMoney · 2022-07-05T09:31:04+00:00

Religion = bullshit. There’s no Santa Claus in the sky. No one with a beard listening to your “prayers” which, I assure you, no one will answer.

Title	Why don't we change things
Author	techfreedom93
Upvotes	3
Comments	20
Date	July 3, 2022 3:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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