Got divorced and after a year started doing a lot of activities with a wonderful woman. During that year, we were just friends even though I was attracted to her. A year later we started dating and she wanted to be exclusive. I thought that when we started dating, I would grow closer to her, but did not. Other than the initial lust I had when we first had sex, there wasn't the "new love" feelings that I thought I would have. Instead of wanting to be with her all the time, I go over because I think it's what I'm supposed to do. Not sure it's because I have a thing against relationships (baggage from the divorce) or since we've known each other previously there isn't any new love feelings, or we just don't have chemistry. Sometimes I feel that if I just decide to go for her and really commit to her, things will blossom, but there are times that I just want to go back to when I had the time and freedom to just do my own thing. Anyone else go thought this?