I’m always fascinated by the differences in how men and women tend to communicate. One such example I’ve noticed is through through the verbiage “it doesn’t matter”.

See, I’m a guy. If someone asks me if I prefer B or C cup boobs and I respond “it doesn’t matter” it means that I literally don’t care at all. It makes absolutely 0 impact on me objectively. I might not even be able to notice the difference.

If a woman says “dick size doesn’t matter” what she’s really saying is “I might prefer it if you had a big dick, but I love you so much I’m willing to overlook my preferences” or “A big dick would feel better inside me, but because there’s other ways to please me I’ll tolerate yours”.

I think this leads to a common situation where women are constantly giving advice that men misinterpret. Because when a woman says things like looks, height, money, status, size etc. don’t matter, they don’t mean it in the literal way that men do — those are still significant factors that can and will make or break your attractiveness to her. What she’s really saying is if you’re funny/charming/exciting/confident enough you’re able to ‘overcome your shortcomings’ in a way so to speak.

What do you guys think about this?