How many of you guys dye your hair/have alt girl styles yet are still conservative?

PerryCox-MD · 2022-09-30T03:45:15+00:00

Me! I live in a medium-sized left city in a red state. I was a die hard metalhead when I was younger and still have loads of remnants of that in my style as an adult, with the clothing and makeup styles etc. Doesn’t help that my interests are tomboyish and my hobbies are male-dominated.

But I am very conservative. Not ashamed of it either. Am a trad housewife type, very feminine with my husband, always have been. My appearance just wouldn’t suggest it.

MythicalShrimp · 2022-09-30T15:30:06+00:00

fellow goth conservative rp girl here :)

Interesting_Exam8166 · 2022-09-30T12:18:49+00:00

Pink for me. I actually just got stuff to put pink streaks back in.

I also am all tattood up, have my tongue peirced, and most people would not guess that my music choice is Christian rock, country and Disney lol

Teacup000 · 2022-09-30T13:52:14+00:00

My younger sister has naturally black hair and is very pale. She will wear skirts and dresses but more than half her wardrobe is black.

She's super artistic and is currently studying sociology.

At the same time, she's very conservative. She was putting the rest of our conversation family to shame for awhile, haha.

Serial-Diarist · 2022-09-30T04:03:16+00:00

Define "conservative"?
To answer your question, it isn't healthy to politicize trivial, stylistic decisions such as hair
color. (To my knowledge), people have been coloring their hair unnatural hues since the 18th century.
Pastel colors look very flattering on me. I like flamingo pink hair, because it matches my skin tone, and gives me a feminine glow.
Anyone who judges people for their hair color is not very classy.

harperfairy · 2022-09-30T02:19:24+00:00

I don’t have the blue hair (anymore) or dress extremely out there anymore but I am that artsy girl. I dress usually pretty feminine but sometimes edgy/boho. And I’m conservative.

Although VERY FEW people know I’m conservative, most just assume I’m liberal because of the circles I run in (all my friends and coworkers are very liberal.) I also subtly project a more liberal persona because I’m afraid of being cancelled. I live in a big, left-leaning city.

So yes, we do exist but I’m literally the only one amongst hundreds of other artsy girls that I know who are extremely liberal and would cancel me if they knew my traditional beliefs!

AgathaMysterie · 2022-09-30T02:18:14+00:00

I think this is me? Or at least it was.. I haven’t had green/pink/blue/black hair in a while, but I’ve always been pretty conservative. I wear a lot of black, combat boots, old band tees… but honestly as a mom I’ve had to put personal style on the back burner because of being pregnant all the time and having to wear nursing friendly stuff. BUT I’m finally getting into a season of life where I don’t have to worry about some of those things, so I’m getting back into building a wardrobe of clothes that I personally like! I’ve always been attracted to punk/grunge styles, but like I said, I’m FAR from anything resembling a leftist. 🙂

buni223 · 2022-09-30T14:02:02+00:00

Yeah I did the whole egirl/goth thing when I was 19-21!! I dyed my hair pitch black, had side bangs, did my makeup all dramatic, I would wear ripped tights with skirts lol. I’m 23 now and my style is now more artsy/y2kish but I know a lot of girls who are conservative that dress differently/have alt music/makeup taste. The only thing is the hair. Most online conservative alt girls I knew never dyed their hair crazy colors because everyone knows what the stereotype behind blue hair is. Not saying that it’s true all the time, just that colorful hair was a hardline in my experience. Idk how prevalent this is irl but my state is more conservative in general so maybe that’s why I met many like myself.

kitkatxxo · 2022-09-30T16:12:28+00:00

I am though I don’t really look like it much since my hair is a natural color. I have multiple visible tattoos, piercings, and wear all sorts of clothes. It’s funny bc I’m also biracial, and my husband is the whitest guy ever so most wouldn’t expect me to be RPW.

I’m in a left leaning city right now in a red state, but am moving to a more centrist area soon. I also listen to various music that has a lot of liberal fan bases, but don’t really care about what celebrity has to say on anything, because why would I? Lmao.

My husband’s family is conservative and are very accepting no matter how anyone looks, which is nice that they hold the same values as us, even though I don’t “look” traditional.

PinkRasberryFish · 2022-09-30T02:56:59+00:00

I like Japanese streetwear and alt style. But I keep my hair natural so I guess I look pretty normal.

Yesaints · 2022-09-30T05:13:39+00:00

I have a sleeve of tattoos, I dress artsy/edgy/feminine but I’m very conservative.

HeraSelene · 2022-09-30T06:13:47+00:00

I am very conservative and a traditional wife and homemaker with a heavy feminine aspect to my style, but I wear almost exclusively black (some forest green and brown thrown in there) I would say I'm a good mix of edgy and feminine. I don't dye my hair unnatural colors but I do have dark brown hair with bleached platinum blonde underneath, I have a nose ring and multiple ear piercings but I wear very feminine hairstyles, makeup, heels and dresses with my leather jacket and combat boots. I believe it can be done!

FiveSleepingOwls · 2022-09-30T10:17:44+00:00

I bleach my hair and dress sort of grunge/dark academia. Still conservative.

OkKaleidoscope9696 · 2022-09-30T03:50:16+00:00

Have to admit, I dress and look fairly conservative. I don’t dye my hair. However, I used to wear a lot of black (not gothic - just chic).

AdSufficient4268 · 2022-09-30T15:42:18+00:00

I think I have a lefty appearance too lol I dress pretty granola... Birkenstocks, linen clothes, flowy loose dresses, patchwork skirts. My hair is down to my butt. Nose ring. I wear patchouli too. Love it. Conservative Christian committed to saving unborn babies 👍🏻

thiswonderlandlife · 2022-10-01T00:33:59+00:00

I did for a bit. I loved having fun hair.

I still wear clothing that wouldn’t be considered conservative on a regular.

I’m a crazy oil lady. Obsessed with my essential oils and natural things. Been described as kind of hippy.

Not sure exactly what you mean by artsy personality, but I am always creating.

SRaeM92 · 2022-10-01T06:54:12+00:00

Wanna be friends with my alt Conservative girlies up in huurrrr. 👌🏻

Bound-Submissive · 2022-10-01T18:33:05+00:00

I am gothic future tradwife and a gamer. I condemn all woke agenda and injustice.

dottywine · 2022-10-04T13:55:26+00:00

You’re asking if you can find your fantasy gothic pixie dream girl that also wants to be your housewife. Get to know women as a human being, first.

ReturnOfTheKing123 · 2022-10-24T13:56:41+00:00

If there are more of you, where do I find you? 🤔😂

Title	How many of you guys dye your hair/have alt girl styles yet are still conservative?
Author	HanzEscalation
Upvotes	29
Comments	31
Date	September 30, 2022 1:28 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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