The reason why most women here can't relate to male complaints about women are because they have lower standards

Let's be real. The women on reddit, and likely this sub, aren't necessarily the most attractive. They may be more intelligent which sometimes can have a correlation, but not always. Overall, the most sought after and attractive women are not visiting a site like this every day.

However, it has been shown, that the more attractive a woman is, the higher her standards are. This includes physical attractiveness, income, commitment, and parenting ability: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/147470490800600116#bibr31-147470490800600116

Note that this doesn't apply to attractive men. It has been shown that a man's standards don't change much the more attractive a man is.

You're talking to the wrong crowd. Most men's complains about women come down to a very simple thing: you're likely just not good enough. It's as simple as that.