"Girls can't be stalkers. Only guys can be stalkers". Proceeds to stalk xpost/r/OkCupid

Bodertz · 2013-11-01T17:24:26+00:00

Eh, this is probably a troll. Or maybe I have too much faith in people.

just_a_handsome_guy · 2013-11-01T21:25:29+00:00

You had me going until "stop being sexist"

scarfnation · 2013-11-01T17:51:57+00:00

Hey Kids! How many red flags do you see?

Muffinizer1 · 2013-11-01T19:33:33+00:00

Fake as shit.

WordsNotToLiveBy · 2013-11-01T20:38:41+00:00

It's a troll.

Naga67 · 2013-11-02T02:56:42+00:00

I've seen a lot of these in /r/creepyPMs

Redskull673 · 2013-11-01T19:08:29+00:00

This will be the last message....after this message...and this one...also this one.

HugeFish · 2013-11-01T20:45:14+00:00

pls respond

only_does_reposts · 2013-11-01T20:13:03+00:00

yikes.

fukuaneveryoneuknow · 2013-11-02T00:41:11+00:00

I hit refresh so I know when you get on

No amount of socially engineered bias can make that comment not creepy.

Also the rest of it, fucking yikes.

Women like that are DANGEROUS.

piar · 2013-11-01T18:44:01+00:00

Seems like a pretty obsessed, mentally unhealthy individual.

K-Li · 2013-11-01T15:19:03+00:00

For many mobile browsers, there is a limit to the degree to which a particular image can be zoomed. Consider breaking this up into an album so it can be read by a larger audience.

JaydenPope · 2013-11-01T20:22:57+00:00

Doesn't OkCupid have a block option cause thats creepy as fuck. It's not cute when a girl decides to stalk your profile then make up crap to get you to respond.

2013-11-02T00:24:30+00:00

Is this for real ?

I've interacted with a creepy woman on a dating site once but nothing this clueless. She got really aggressive because I didn't respond to her IM right away. The truth was, the IM pop up was blocked accidentally and I didn't see it, it was only the sound cues eventually that got my attention mixed in with the music. My first IM yeah !!!

But when I finally answered it was "why was I ignoring her, don't think your that special because you aren't .... but lets chat now " It was rage. Not a good first impression.

It's when she starting asking whether I loved my job and she found it a character defect that I was like majority of other people out there and honest with her, that no I don't like my job but I have other interests I'm working on.

I said, nice talking to you and blocked her.

2013-11-02T04:25:04+00:00

I'm gonna go out on a limb and just say it... That girl is 13 secret herbs and spices of crazy.

HarryPeratestiz · 2013-11-01T18:07:29+00:00

plsrespond.jpg

typhonblue · 2013-11-01T19:07:38+00:00

It doesn't matter what she thinks, what matters is what her male victims think.

2013-11-01T15:40:51+00:00

Oh look, another brigaded thread!

cypher197 · 2013-11-01T18:56:22+00:00

Yeup, that's stalky.

It's sad to see this failure mode of the human drive for companionship.

logrusmage · 2013-11-01T21:03:05+00:00

I like how you were polite and receptive until she went over the top, but instead of passively aggressively responding and then posting to reddit about how creepy her pms are you assertively told her to stop talking too you and stopped taking to her.

2013-11-01T22:05:36+00:00

ur being sexist

2013-11-01T22:16:50+00:00

At first I was kinda bummed that girls never send me messages, but then after reading the whole thing I'm kinda glad.

2013-11-01T21:44:16+00:00

Reminds me of logging into msn or yahoo IM. I think I would have reflexively responded '10 seconds to prove not a bot'.

TheOtherBono · 2013-11-02T01:45:00+00:00

Holy shit...

You just sent me back in time to 2011 when I dated this chick. Maybe not her 'name' but her personality.

Bullet-fucking-dodged

The only points Id deduct are for letting this conversation go waaaay too fucking long to begin with. And you should have stopped 'lol'ing (at least!) the instant she said you'd been ignoring her despite it only being her first message- because that's psycho shit

Rhynovirus · 2013-11-02T02:36:28+00:00

Well... there goes the fuse in the Cray-dar

I would have blocked her.

josh_legs · 2013-11-02T07:44:14+00:00

"i'll stop messaging you now"

"hello?"

"i'll stop messaging you now, though."

"helloo ... ?"

funnyfaceking · 2013-11-02T08:38:48+00:00

this is classic!

2013-11-02T16:19:12+00:00

I've had similar exchanges on ok cupid, though nothing this extreme.

nwz123 · 2013-11-02T18:28:27+00:00

Troll.

librtee_com · 2013-11-03T04:50:52+00:00

http://scherle.com/psychoexgirlfriend/voicemails.html

Just listened to a few of these the other day. It was like deja vu. I had an ex who sounded EXACTLY like them, even used most of the same ploys and emotional swings..at one point even trying to frame me for drug possession while we were in india.

Red flags, pay attention to them.

Gorilla_daddy · 2013-11-04T17:16:34+00:00

Bitch is crazy

StuntPotato · 2013-11-01T18:40:40+00:00

aaaaaand I'm sad.

Muggerita · 2013-11-02T02:57:22+00:00

Come on guys. Are we really harping on some half-literate okcupid comment? Aren't there more important issues to talk about?

PieMasterBob · 2013-11-02T04:33:07+00:00

Way to much to read, I couldn't waist my time reading this.

nihilist_nancy · 2013-11-01T22:47:07+00:00

Poe?

Couldn't be bothered do get past the third post.

2013-11-02T00:53:00+00:00

OP pls

sputnik4024 · 2013-11-02T02:25:49+00:00

"only guys can be stalkers. when a guy follows a girl, its creepy. when a girl follows a guy, its cute." "I'm not sure I agree with that." "ur being sexist" Woman logic...

TRIGGER__WARNING · 2013-11-01T17:34:16+00:00

The girl's behaviour seems a bit too obsessive for her own good, but it is also kind of cute.

Title	"Girls can't be stalkers. Only guys can be stalkers". Proceeds to stalk xpost/r/OkCupid
Author	Blemish
Upvotes	339
Comments	80
Date	November 1, 2013 2:11 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1poqyg/girls_cant_be_stalkers_only_guys_can_be_stalkers/
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