A reminder that porn ruined relationships and lives

Papaverinum · 2021-03-19T17:12:56+00:00

Or "How f dare you expect foreplay? Girls on pornhub are ready all the time!"

_differentmentality_ · 2021-03-19T17:13:07+00:00

There is a very thin line between fantasy and reality. Let’s stop pretending otherwise.

eatnthrowtrashaway · 2021-03-19T18:23:47+00:00

Never forget how my first bf watched this one porn obsessively and then told me in detail how he wanted to tie me up to this beam in his basement while I was unconscious and well you can guess the rest. It was the plot of his favorite porn he later explained and wanted to watch it with me so I knew my role better. (I shit you not I was 15) I remember feeling sick reading all those texts but I assumed that was just how relationships were for everyone else so I entertained the idea but luckily he cheated before any of that bs went down.

But yeahhhh let’s hear again from the libfems how liberating porn is and how it’s harmless when it literally provides blueprints for assaulting women.

electroloop · 2021-03-19T17:29:24+00:00

Men who watch porn or expect me to watch porn is an immediate next for me.

I've been in a relationship with a porn addict who made me feel extremely insecure about myself to the point where I went under the knife to try and become his "fantasy big-titty woman".

Guess what? He still watched porn with women with boobs bigger than my ridiculously sized, back pain inducing ones and fantasized about them instead.

princessdiane · 2021-03-19T17:30:55+00:00

I saw this on insta and the comments just ugh 🙄. Everyone defending porn and how it didn't cause him to cheat. Sure, he cheated because he wanted to, but them attacking her as unreasonable for having this boundary is soooo disheartening

_differentmentality_ · 2021-03-19T17:13:06+00:00

I hate it so much how women are coerced into watching porn with their partner thinking it’s the cool thing to do or that they have to because he’ll do it anyway without them. It’s even worse when advice subs, “relationship coaches”, or “sex therapists” will tell women this is normal or a bonding experience and to try something new, even if they don’t feel comfortable with it.

junegloom23 · 2021-03-19T19:25:28+00:00

I saw this on Instagram and the comments were split, but to me that’s progress. A lot of men in the comments were like “porn wasn’t the reason he cheated” and defending porn and a lot of women were like “look at all these porn addicts in the comments trying to defend themselves” and got a lot of likes. I think more and more women are realizing how fucked up it is.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-03-19T18:50:56+00:00

Its just common sense, If I got off to a bunch of different men while I was in a relationship Id be way more likely to have the compulsion to cheat. Same goes for guys.

kathkath91 · 2021-03-19T19:52:45+00:00

I hate the society we live in today--everywhere you turn on social media, they're promoting porn usage. Seems like everyone is jumping on OF and promoting premium snapchat accounts...I will never believe this is "normal" and healthy in a committed relationship. Whatever you do when you're single is on you, but this shit DOES ruin relationships.

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theawkwardalli · 2021-03-19T22:58:21+00:00

LOL I know this girl!

CynicalSucculent · 2021-03-20T03:13:36+00:00

A tale as old as time

Title	A reminder that porn ruined relationships and lives
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	366
Comments	30
Date	March 19, 2021 5:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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