The front page just re-traumatizes me all over again

randomgirlimok · 2021-03-17T23:51:43+00:00

You can’t even post something about how often women are raped without them going “what about the .0001% of men who are raped?!?!”

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-03-18T00:07:09+00:00

FDS is literally the antithesis of reddit and its kind of funny and ironic that it exists on here, and also is satisfying knowing that we are exposing the truth and therefore attract so much attention. FDS is the 🐝 in the man- baby bonnet that is reddit. on every turn i make the amount of upvoted comments that are low brow- rape/incest humour is embarrassing. Im not even shocked by it anymore it's basically main stream humour on here to mention a dick at every single opportunity. The hilarious part is when commentators think they have a high ground above twitter or youtube hives. It's laughable. IRL Redditors are a joke and never admit any website loyalty because they know society sees them as lame 12 - 40 y/o "men" who live in their parents basement and hate women. Thats how society views "redditors" most users lurk and dont join the cess pool.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-03-17T23:46:21+00:00

Hey I'm really sorry to hear that. As a general rule of thumb it's really best to just avoid the front page altogether. Follow your favorite subs and just stick to your personalized feed if you want peace of mind. But so sorry you had to deal with that as he sounds like a POS! And don't take it personally that the lowlife men on reddit take abuse lightly, just focus on your inner peace and working towards healing.

Maybeimmoody · 2021-03-18T00:17:32+00:00

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ello-motto · 2021-03-18T00:24:43+00:00

Performed misogyny.

A term I read on FDS earlier that reminds me that even the mildest of LV men make sure they "perform misogyny" in order to fall in line and gain approval from their male LV bros.

Another sign that LV men happily siimp for other LV men. It's only an issue to LVM if it's done for a woman. 🙄

What_u_callme · 2021-03-18T00:31:16+00:00

That video is a follow up. Last week they had court and he was at the victims house. I'll find the video but it's terrifying.

The DA (?) called out that she felt he was at her house and called the cops to check on her. Low and behold he was in fact threatening her for the court hearing.

EDIT: I think the video was taken down but tons of reports show up. I'm still looking for it though

monch-bred · 2021-03-17T23:51:46+00:00

I’m sending you a big internet hug 💞 I’m so sorry to hear that, but so glad you’re not there anymore. Echoing another commenter, I also don’t ever look at the front page because the majority of posts and comments are anti-woman, and I just dont need to see that. If it’s possible, I hope you might try to avoid it too for your own sake ☹️

_queeeen_ · 2021-03-18T01:56:14+00:00

I don’t read a single thing on the front page. I just come directly here.

shockingupdate · 2021-03-18T00:21:23+00:00

You’re not pathetic at all. Hopping onto this hellsite to visit the subs you actually like can be dangerous in its own right. It even seems unfair for people to say “just don’t go to the front page,” because it’s the damn front page, you know?

It is for the best, though. I get MGTOW subs recommended to me now, on top of other really anti-woman posts, so no front page for me.

PinkPetalCdistbeauty · 2021-03-18T01:44:52+00:00

The videos on just my very “safe” subs list - somehow I get glimpses from Redit of Videos in my damn feed and they are all for the most part FUCKED. I’m done. Traumatized. My eyes burn and I don’t read the news or main page or other subs hardly. So what IS going on?

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-18T06:11:33+00:00

He doesn’t need mental help lol that’s how men are all the time. Society coddles men it’s disgusting

OrangeyPanda · 2021-03-18T14:13:19+00:00

There's no person more protected or sympathized with on reddit then the young, white, depressed male.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-03-18T05:01:21+00:00

I dont go on any subreddits besides this one anymore, and Ive cut all media besides netflix and youtube out.

fdssavedmylife · 2021-03-18T11:26:00+00:00

I pretty much don’t go anywhere other than FDS, because I always get angry, depressed, or start an argument. Before it was just here and 90DF subs, but even those are hard to stomach with all of the LVM defending other LVM. (If anyone is familiar — the Mike and Natalie situation makes my blood boil. His gaslighting and emotional abuse are so triggering.)

idiopathictendencies · 2021-03-18T03:56:40+00:00

Now I have Longview stuck in my head.

Title	The front page just re-traumatizes me all over again
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	326
Comments	26
Date	March 17, 2021 11:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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