Women often use safety as an excuse to make unnecessarily rude comments to men even when it’s not an obvious concern

wtknight · 2022-10-03T19:48:49+00:00

Re-flaired CMV as this post is making an affirmative claim

prizefighterstudent · 2022-10-03T19:30:24+00:00

The possibility of harm brought about my the physical prowess of man is an inherent danger to women -- it's basically what allowed men to run the show for all of history.

It's lame that women take men's restraint for granted (eg. snarky comments, hitting men), but it's also reasonable that they are cautious of male intent -- your average male can enact violence in a way that is incomparable to any average female.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-10-03T19:31:30+00:00

Okay so first you say she's rude for being direct even if it hurt your feelings despite men constantly complain that women need to be more honest. And then you are butthurt because she's not rude and tries to let you down slowly.

Can't do it right no matter what. Also. You have no right to decide about the safety of someone else and how they react. You can only influence your own reaction to what is happening. If someone feels unsafe they decide what the best measurement of action is for them. Deal with it.

This whole "not all men" is absolutely meaningless when it takes only one rejection to end up in a hospital or dead.

bunnakay · 2022-10-03T19:23:42+00:00

Hard pass on both. My safety matters more than your feelings.

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_demidevil_ · 2022-10-03T19:25:59+00:00

I don’t think you are understanding the fight/flight/freeze response and how it gets triggered.

If someone tells you they are afraid of spiders do you deem them disingenuous because we all know logically that most spiders won’t harm us?

cowfishAreReal · 2022-10-03T19:35:44+00:00

You can't expect people to be nice to you if you're talking to strangers completely unprompted, if you're not in need of help or them or you are providing a service there's absolutely no need to interrupt their life because you find them attractive. Yes you're allowed to do it, but they're also allowed to not be nice

JMoon33 · 2022-10-03T19:23:45+00:00

I'm a bisexual man and it's honestly scary to turn down men sometimes. Sure, it's a minority of men that'll react badly, but it's still scary.

It's the same reason I make sure cars stop before crossing the street even if I have right of way. Most cars stop, but it only takes one to fuck me up.

Chrissyboy1980 · 2022-10-03T19:42:44+00:00

Most of the time when they use safety as an excuse, it really means they just aren't attracted to you. So if you're an average looking dude, they always make the excuse that they don't feel safe around you if you approach them out and about. However, when a hot, tall muscular guy approaches them who looks twice as tough as you are, they all of a sudden don't feel scared one bit! Yes, it's just another excuse to isolate men who don't look hot enough.

PanzerSjegget · 2022-10-03T19:46:57+00:00

Because dumbdumbs are unable to take a simple "no, thanks" on face value without becoming a pissy little child about it. That is why a large portion are scared. As for rude people? Why the fuck would you want to be such people in the first place?

Fuck. whiny little children.

eth_trader_12 · 2022-10-03T19:42:41+00:00

You guys have no idea what it's like to exist in a world where half the population wants to fuck you and is strong enough to do so against your will.

Sorry that hurts your feelings lol

Title	Women often use safety as an excuse to make unnecessarily rude comments to men even when it’s not an obvious concern
Author	eth_trader_12
Upvotes	6
Comments	64
Date	October 3, 2022 7:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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