Honest answer, did any of the RP dating coaches you use to watch get you laid?

Meat_Vegetable · 2022-06-28T07:25:55+00:00

I was already got laid before knowing RP. Knowing RP got me overthinking stuff, hence I was laid less after knowing RP.

redpillnonsense · 2022-06-28T14:17:40+00:00

There's really no science in getting laid. Most of it involves putting yourself out there, talking to people, and serendipity (the last part is rarely mentioned). Just because you meet a woman and sleep with her on the first night, doesn't mean you could have done that any other day. You just caught her at the right time.

Sadly, I've seen dudes in the Red Pill advocate lying to woman about wanting a relationship just to sleep with them.

thom92Pf3105 · 2022-06-28T10:23:37+00:00

No. It was a scam all along. All i needed was confidence really and acceptence about that girls just get more options than guys. But it gave hope and all the Reading gave me and insight before i crashed and made my own mistakes which made it easier to relapse from redpill rage.

RedPillDetox · 2022-06-28T10:31:31+00:00

The question isn't if i was getting laid. The question is if the amount of time and effort and all the game gimmicks and theories were actually usueful or worth it and the answer is a very, very taxative No. Also, out of the dozens of guys i met IRL in the PUA community, those getting laid were usually already good looking or had something going on for them that facilitated getting laid, or were otherwise just playing massive numbers games, approaching everyone, having low standards and doing everything possible in their power to get laid.

neoexileee · 2022-06-28T06:17:05+00:00

No. I just was literally myself. An obese socially awkward guy. And I got married to a girl who is at least 9/10.

Wooden_Worker_3107 · 2022-06-28T08:24:05+00:00

Definitely got me laid 2-3 times, but did not build me a lasting relationship

Red_Trapezoid · 2022-06-28T08:30:15+00:00

Nope.

KingKunta2-D · 2022-06-28T11:41:41+00:00

Nope. Supposed to cope with you NOT getting laid

2022-06-28T13:15:24+00:00

Nah, I struck out hard following their advice, and RP advice in general. I found expressing myself more honestly and being straight up to be far more effective.

I don't doubt that RP advice can help you get laid, but I never had the patience to deal with the types of women that RP claims all women are like (they're really not).

2022-06-28T13:26:48+00:00

I watched a lot of relationship coaches in my adolescence, but later I came to the conclusion that it didn't bring me results

mynameisburner · 2022-06-28T15:50:56+00:00

Lol No. Some of the things they taught started making no sense as I got older.

Naus1987 · 2022-06-28T18:09:52+00:00

Manipulation is obviously effective for short term gains in almost any field. But terrible for long term gains.

sacrivice · 2022-06-28T21:18:49+00:00

If you wanna get laid with broken, narcissistic, extremely self-unaware women, then TRP is for you.

Wanna get laid with a girl who's got her head on straight, you're better off just focusing on general self-improvement and being yourself.

Neil1398 · 2022-06-29T00:27:35+00:00

I was getting laid before. But red pill helped me understand my past situations. Things the regular internet thought I was stupid for noticing.

Like if I was in public with a girl, all the girls would be staring at me giving signals lol. I looked it up and everyone thought it was coincidence. Turns out that’s preselection.

When I was younger girls would say “Neil you’re so shy” but they’d be talking to me and always up on me. As soon as I started talking more they disappeared and lost interest. Turns out I blew the mystery.

When I was younger in middle school I had a gf that was really aggressive. She even used to chase me and hit me. Everyone said she was the man and I was the woman. Turns out I wasn’t dominant enough, or didn’t really wanna walk away to show her I didn’t appreciate the behavior.

I don’t think red pill helped me get laid more but it helped me understand women a bit more. What actually helped me get laid more though was learning pickup which is another rabbit hole. Crazy thing is the shit actually works lol. But even that is really just putting yourself out there and talking to a lot of women.

Everyone comes on here and wants to banish the red pill. But there’s a reason why it was created and why people still follow it. Personally the red pill community is just toxic and it fucked up my relationship with my ex. But even she stuck around and still around me despite all the things I did and she did. I made it super toxic because of my interpretation of the red pill. But I still agree with some of the principles as they really do apply. However it’s not as simple as they make it sound in all honesty.

GoodSilhouette · 2022-06-28T08:54:41+00:00

yes, but only the quality of women you would expect... but if you use it moderately it will get you laid absolutely 100%. it just depends on person to person, you cant use the same on every woman

Title	Honest answer, did any of the RP dating coaches you use to watch get you laid?
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Date	June 28, 2022 6:05 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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