Men make up these stupid excuses for their behavior because they are spoiled and never called out

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yesmme · 2022-03-04T14:54:36+00:00

“Ooops sorry I didn’t mean to send that to you” Because talking about another woman (no not you!)in such a degrading manner tells you that this man is a catch. /s

Davina33 · 2022-03-04T08:09:11+00:00

This is the real face of men. They can absolutely detest you but still want to fuck you. Don't believe a word they say and I definitely wouldn't have sex with them whilst being kept their dirty secret.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-03-04T12:15:23+00:00

"The text read: "No bro. She's a solid four and I would for sure keep it on the low.

"But desperate times call for desperate measures.

"Beggars can't be choosers.

"All I saw was [boobs] and an easy lay."

Scrotes are delusional losers.

2022-03-04T06:09:32+00:00

Holy shit, this is really revealing and kind of makes my stomach drop.His mask-on texts sound EXACTLY like so many men.

Also this scrote totally self-roasted and called men beggars. ladies they are fully aware that they are out here begging for a CRUMB of pussy

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-03-04T06:25:13+00:00

What a disgusting POS. I bet he's a 2.

AnniaT · 2022-03-04T14:32:30+00:00

This guy is a huge scrote and I'm sorry for her. But no actual HVM would show up at a date in work uniform. HVM plans a proper date instead of fitting it between shifts. Or at least change clothes at work and show some effort. Anyways remember that men will do anything for a lay so better hold of from sex until minimum a few months committed relationship where he showed up to be HV consistently (and if course don't tell him this boundary)

AvocadoBitter7385 · 2022-03-04T06:49:26+00:00

He definitely did that on purpose. I refuse to believe he accidentally sent that text.

sassenachpants · 2022-03-04T06:51:44+00:00

Yes all men.

cml678701 · 2022-03-04T11:47:38+00:00

Just another reason to insist they pay for the date. Imagine being this woman and paying for the privilege of sipping coffee with someone who thinks of you like this. “I want low investment dates because it’s a numbers game and I can still ask everyone out, durrrrrr.” They will blatantly ask out someone they don’t even find attractive in hopes of free sex, when they could just choose the few women they actually like for a real date. IMO if I am going on real dates and not paying, I will at least get something out of it if some loser guy thinks of me this way. I’m wasting my time, so he gets to waste his money.

slayeroftruth · 2022-03-04T18:23:36+00:00

That was on purpose to lower her self-esteem. He is insecure ugly male. They are always harsh on women beauty. Happy man is not this hateful.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-04T18:21:26+00:00

Ladies… That’s not a “4”. She’s an attractive woman. He’s trying to look cool to his friends, that’s all.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2022-03-05T03:59:13+00:00

Whether it was on purpose to neg her and lower her self esteem or an accident doesn't matter. She really did dodge this scrote bullet and I'm happy for her.

So what do we learn?

I think it's best to never ever post a picture of yourself in swimwear or even post a picture of your body online. It doesn't make you "slutty" because that's not really a thing and you're not the problem, he is the problem. But we can't change him. We can only try to protect ourselves. Block every POS who requests body pictures from you because no HVM will need a picture like that to determine whether or not he's interested.
Online dating sucks. Try to avoid it.
Block him the split second a red flag shows up. Don't let him continue to disrespect you by reading his excuses. He's lying to you. Also, never try to explain why or how he hurt you. He knows and doesn't care. And if he doesn't know, you'll never teach him compassion. Don't waste your time.

MarleySB · 2022-03-04T15:53:40+00:00

This is the reality. Men really hate us but because they want a warm place to put their d**k, they’ll do just about out anything. Let me give you an embarrassingly personal example:

My ex & I were together for 3 years. THREE years, before I found out what he really thought of women & of me. They believe women are just for sexual pleasure & if it doesn’t work out the way they want it with one, then there’s plenty of 🐱 to go around so they’ll move right onto the next one. The way he spoke about women with his friend was embarrassingly degrading & suggested that we were nothing but a warm wet place to stick their d**k. They were always chasing some woman’s skirt tail & getting together to share the details of how it went. Embarrassing & pathetic.

I was so taken aback hearing how he spoke with his friend. When I accosted him, his excuse was that it’s just guy talk. That’s just how men talk to their friends to impress them & that he wasn’t really like that. But he was. That’s how they are. Water seeks its own level.

They are patient! They will sleep with you or be in a relationship with you & still hate you. Don’t sleep on these men. They are selfish but they know how to say the right things to let you think otherwise.

I may never be able to wrap my mind about why men do the things they do just for sex.

FrauleinJ · 2022-03-04T07:32:14+00:00

I had gone on dates with someone who would compliment me like this, in person and in text. He iced me out right after we slept together and said he’s too busy to date. So yeah, they’re all the same, especially the sweet-talker.

Revolutionary_Cell97 · 2022-03-04T10:32:34+00:00

People who think that it’s on purpose, why do you think he’d do it? Found someone better to fuck maybe? It seems to me like he’d want to leave the door open even then for one of those 2 am “you up?” texts.

Many_Perspective_248 · 2022-03-04T11:05:29+00:00

Wtf? She is not a 4! Men are so stupid, they actually believe porn and photoshopped/filtered photos of women on Instagram is what women really look like. Idiots. She’s beautiful and she dodged a bullet, thank goodness for her. The kiss emoji was a bit much coming from a man before even going on a date IMO. Creep!

EatMenforBrekky · 2022-03-04T17:34:16+00:00

So I watched this tiktok when she posted it. A lot of commenters believe he sent that purposely to her because that's a trick they've been using lately. Basically negging.

artemisseven · 2022-03-04T09:16:49+00:00

LVM like to complain how women have their standards set too high, and then you see them calling a beautiful woman like that (who is probably way out of his league) a "solid four".

2022-03-04T11:04:54+00:00

Men: FDS telling women to vet ruthlessly, leave at the first red flag, have high standards and wait to have sex is mIsAnDrY.

Also men: This shit.

There is a reason why he felt comfortable telling other men this. Because they’ve done the exact same thing and will understand it.

Emotional-Ad8205 · 2022-03-04T16:21:40+00:00

Hahaha that's hilarious 😂 another terrible example of the people you meet OLD

Title	Men make up these stupid excuses for their behavior because they are spoiled and never called out
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Date	March 4, 2022 5:01 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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