My parents and hers got divorced too. I guess that's why we feel we have a connection and we learned from that and will do our best to keep the relationship.

I make more money than her and I support all the daily living costs. She keeps her money for her own and purchases new tech like Macbook, iPhone and keep in credit debts. Then her parents both have properties and she doesn't suppose to support them in financial.

My parents is different. My dad has a old manufacturing and have a debt along with it. I don't support the daily cost but always play as a defender, saving to support in urgent cases.

She is keep asking for the f*ck Zflip for her birthday while she is using the iPhone 14.

Different lifestyle. I’m tired to advise but she doesn't listen. Of course she has her parents got her back.

Understand if I would like to utilize the resources from her, I need to take this f*ck situation. Or I feel I will leave it some days.

Recently she ask to divorce and keep the fwb relationship. I’m so confused. Anyone can advise.