Do You Think Men Should Marry A Overseas Woman & Not Bring Her Back To America?

Diablo_Canyon2 · 2023-05-16T23:57:48+00:00

Don't marry at all.

vector5633 · 2023-05-17T01:06:41+00:00

I think no man should get married period!

lasher7628 · 2023-05-17T01:16:46+00:00

I married on overseas woman and brought her back to America. Our relationship went to shit very quickly after that. Would not recommend.

Reflog1791 · 2023-05-16T23:52:58+00:00

No. Just casually date and be upfront that it’s not exclusive. If you’re not getting action then start going to the gym. Don’t cohabitate and you’re golden.

smooth-vegetable-936 · 2023-05-17T05:43:30+00:00

Man let me tell you. I got married overseas and brought her to the United States. Supported her for 10 years she didn’t work. I taught her the system of how everything works, got her her drivers license, citizenship, we have two kids, found her a job. She’s been working for almost 3 years. After 13 years of marriage this year she wanted divorce. I tried to convince her to be family and do it for our daughters but she refused and kept on threatening me that she knows the law and can take half of my wealth. I’ve been working to build myself for a very long time and I was nervous of the threats. So one day she says that she will sign anything as long as she’s divorced. I immediately took action and filed, she signed, I signed and the judge signed and everything is finalized. She demanded 45k cash out and I kept my house. I kept my car brand new, kept all of my retirement accounts, savings checking etc. she kept her car and the 45k. She gave me full custody of my daughters bcs she says that she wanted to be free and I took advantage of that and said don’t worry I will fully take care of them and u can fuckin do whatever. No child support or alimony etc. she has full visitation and I won’t stop her at all. So No don’t get married. U can still have a great relationship without marriage. Even if u marry, I don’t think the western countries are the best place for marriage bcs of the law . I will personally never get married again bcs it’s a trap. I got very lucky. This could’ve destroyed my life. By the way, I even offered her to stay home and don’t work and offered her a brand new 2023 camry zero mile paid in cash but she refused. I just want to know what kind of dumb person refuses all this? I’ve been honest in fact haven’t touched another woman in 14 or 15 years. I’m a hard worker and speak 4 languages. I have served the United States for two years as an interpreter in the Army. I’m a sommelier level 2 working on 3rd. And I’m completely debt free meaning no mortgage no student loans etc. I make 100 to 120k a year. Any way I guess you just can’t fix stupid.

riserobotrise · 2023-05-17T03:06:24+00:00

You should go overseas and find a bunch of women, spend some fun time with them, and come back home without a wife.

Kwen_Oellogg · 2023-05-17T03:36:55+00:00

When you marry an overseas woman you are also marrying her family. It doesn't matter what country, they are all like that.

And it's not like it used to be 50 years ago. They all watch TV, and are on Socil Media and have developed Western values. Just avoid marriage and trade them off when they show their crazy.

SII75 · 2023-05-17T00:21:24+00:00

Don’t get married at all. And depending how old you are, snip snip them so no surprises. Not ideal because I adore kids but that’s the reality we live in.

david10277 · 2023-05-17T01:53:17+00:00

Marry....??

Did you say Marry ?????

Why ???? Do you read the divorced forums ?

Educate yourself

LonelyNC123 · 2023-05-17T14:50:08+00:00

Men should never, EVER get married. Period!

1antinomy · 2023-05-17T04:15:44+00:00

Don’t marry at all. You’ve gotta get out of the societal programming bro

Your life has meaning without being married

Any woman that comes to a western country has a 80-90% chance of assimilating into the “culture”.

It’s promoted everywhere — in music, movies, social media, TV

Unless she finds a group of like-minded women from a similar background, the writing is on the wall — Hell, the women that grow up in this country can’t fight the influence their friends have

If you choose to do it, you know what’s coming.

Getting an American man is like a lottery ticket for a lot of foreign women. You’re her ticket to better life

Once they get here, they don’t need you anymore

Token_or_TolkienuPOS · 2023-05-17T05:39:28+00:00

They can be more dangerous and conniving than your locals. They want the life that they see on TV. They aren't as ignorant as they would seem. Not bringing her back to the states just means you'll be seen as a cash machine in her country and be expected to pay for the entire family

NotACoomerAnymore · 2023-05-17T07:26:13+00:00

The environment will eventually influence her

SecretDoctor8121 · 2023-05-17T00:02:07+00:00

Personally think Don't marry at all....I did now got burnt too bad. I'll teach my son exact the same...get much women as possible but don't marry any of em... I think they won't like what they cooked but thats what most women do in my area and age range(Hence Single moms everywhere from age 22-45)

Htjrjjdnc · 2023-05-17T03:04:56+00:00

The losers giving advice here are all divorced or divorcing (i.e. they either picked whores or let their wives become whores). So you shouldn't ask these weaklings for any advice, except maybe where to buy the cheapest Fleshlight.

Title	Do You Think Men Should Marry A Overseas Woman & Not Bring Her Back To America?
Author	Mother-Breath-9576
Upvotes	3
Comments	28
Date	May 16, 2023 11:35 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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