Woman gives oral to fuckboy she just met, but delays sex for months with a gentleman. (post by @RouteClearance)

redveinlover · 2023-07-10T15:56:35+00:00

TIL sucking strange cock = “healing”

Joaquino7997 · 2023-07-10T15:10:00+00:00

I'm just not comfortable having sex so soon without commitment.

But she's totally cool with blowing a guy she met within an hour of meeting him.

accused me of using him for time and money

Well, after 45 minutes some rando got his socks blown and the other 'gentleman' only got a freaking kiss from you after three whole months of dating. He has every right to be pissed.

We have kissed however.

Welp, bitch, looks like you can kiss these guys and your reputation goodbye.

Common_Sense_Dudd · 2023-07-10T15:05:46+00:00

WOW. How did that film even come to exist? Either she filmed it, or he did. In any case, it sounds like she was aware the film existed and consented to it existing.

It almost certainly slipped from the guy's phone into someone else's hands, like when he likely shared it with his friends or something. Maybe he uploaded it to a porn site.

In any case, it exists and is irreversibly circulating on the internet because she made a monumental set of bad decisions, with permanent consequences.

It doesn't matter if it's in the past - the video is out there and circulating. It's a good enough reason alone to call it a day.

The fact that she's then playing it hard to get with sex, on top of it, because he's a "gentleman", is the icing decoration on the cake. Don't get me wrong: she's entitled to be selective about who she lets dirty her body... but then he's also equally as entitled to bounce.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2023-07-10T16:04:11+00:00

Something like this will dog OF women. We are close to seeing a tidal wave of such posts “Somebody sent my fiancé pictures of my old OF, now he wants to call off the wedding” “My son is in sixth grade, he came home crying today because some boys at school found my old OF”. Separate from the internet forever issue, we’ve the “I am no longer a harlot” issue. Many women really don’t seem to get how insulting it is, one set of guys get sex at no cost, no need to wife her, provide emotional support or hold her purse in the department store whilst other guys should have to do the work. This is why you cannot be friends with a woman you are attracted too, under the false pretense that you can win her over. In reality, you are simply her platonic boyfriend, providing all the boyfriend duties and actively making it easier for other guys to fuck her without responsibility. Guys should learn as early possible that to many women, beta orbiters/ platonic boyfriends are utterly hated and reviled by women. Being one yourself is an indignity and a waste of time.

jymssg · 2023-07-10T16:51:42+00:00

honestly, the guy should be thanking the anonymous person for sending the video. dodged a bullet

bracel123 · 2023-07-10T19:58:55+00:00

She treated a random guy from a lounge better than she treated the "gentleman" whos been wasting his time on her for 3 months. How can she not understand how he would be hurt by this?

ZurichCrusader · 2023-07-10T15:24:42+00:00

Gross. I'd wouldn't have even bothered contacting her again.

Overkillengine · 2023-07-10T17:25:20+00:00

"How do I make the consequences of my past and current choices go away so that I can have my cock and eat it too?"

Yeah when a woman offers you a worse deal for a higher price than she offered past men, take it as what it is, a mortal insult. She is basically categorizing you as a slave/underclass. And confirmation of lack of moral character on her part for trying to exploit you like that.

It is grounds for an immediate ghost and block, no explanation, and certainly no closure offered for her to try to abuse as a way to reassign blame to you.

Or to make it achingly clear for the spergs, once you find confirmation of hoedom - do not confront them/mention it in a misguided attempt to "save" them, you dumbasses. For starters, it won't work, second, it won't work, third, it won't work, and fourth, you'll just cause issues for yourself while accomplishing nothing of worth. They do not want to be saved!

Just silently demote and move on.

Let her ratchet ass figure out for herself why she can't keep a man, her bullshit is definitely not your problem anymore.

LordGraygem · 2023-07-10T17:38:59+00:00

This part:

And he finished in my mouth.

And then this one:

We have kissed however.

Were I that "gentleman," I would be gargling with bleach after having seen that video and scheduling an STD/STI test.

Parliament-- · 2023-07-10T17:27:52+00:00

I just needed healing 🥴

ViktorVox · 2023-07-10T18:58:58+00:00

"I was in a dark place at the time and needed some healing"

🤭

Dunkman83 · 2023-07-10T16:30:59+00:00

yep, treat me like a chad first date (maaaaybe two) or im done...

period.

id rather cut my loses than to end up like b.rabbit from 8mile.

The-truth-hurts1 · 2023-07-10T19:50:31+00:00

How many women are like this out there?.. but they have had the luck/ forethought not to be filmed?

Lord_Kano · 2023-07-11T02:17:16+00:00

I saw this posted on Facebook last week and it was ridiculous how many women were defending and justifying this shit.

Like, yeah she is free to choose when and with whom she has sex but he is also free to decide that he's done wasting his time with her.

TwizzlersSourz · 2023-07-11T02:34:37+00:00

Gotta love that "logic."

Grant random stranger oral sex but not the gentleman of three months.

She must work for the government.

ritwik_rohan · 2023-07-11T04:26:36+00:00

Oh my fucking god. I mean I don’t usually lose my cool this easily but bro…this has got to be some of the most obscene bullshit I’ve ever seen/heard.

I guess that’s where the phrase “Nice guys finish last” comes.

Ibrafikovic · 2023-07-10T19:04:53+00:00

These 304 have their brain (i'm not even sure if they have one) upside down. A "gentleman" has to pay and wait to have a kiss, and a nobody who disrespects them can have it all without paying and within 45 minutes. Amazin'

Your_Supremacy · 2023-07-10T20:39:39+00:00

A story as old as time.

Most_Read_1330 · 2023-07-11T08:01:31+00:00

It's bizarre how all the women were lining up to defend her. None of them even tried to look at it from his perspective.

rb577511 · 2023-07-10T18:24:09+00:00

When he kissed you did he ask what that funny taste was?

onlypinhead2000 · 2023-07-10T21:27:08+00:00

Who knew that semen is a cure all?!

bogmonkey747 · 2023-07-10T16:53:43+00:00

This is why in the end, just paying for it up front is a better deal.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2023-07-10T22:02:59+00:00

♪♫ Same as it ever was...

...Same as it ever was...

...Same as it ever was ♪♫

Triplesfan · 2023-07-12T11:45:36+00:00

And you can bet when nice guy finally gets some head, first thing out her mouth will be ‘don’t cum in my mouth’. 🙄

anon_likes_tendies · 2023-07-10T16:16:00+00:00

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA HOLY COW!!!!

Mein_Tarnaccount · 2023-07-11T13:54:36+00:00

And as always, she is "a completely different" person now, so nothing she ever did should count!

West_Instruction8770 · 2023-07-12T07:34:05+00:00

A hero is who sent the video

justtenofusinhere · 2023-07-12T01:16:33+00:00

Originally posted in reply to a comment, but I want to make it more visible.

This isn't a situation where she met some guy, the vibes were off the charts so she grabbed him by the arm and led him to a secluded corner.

This was a situation where she already had everyone's eyes on her and, being the center of attention, she was hamming and eating it up, and decided to ratchet it up to a whole other level and publicly display her sexuality and sexual prowess. So, she cast about, found the immediately available hot or taboo guy and started sucking him off to public applause and gaps.

One of the many people watching, cheering, and jeering had enough presence of mind to whip out a camera and start recording. That guy, because we know damn well it was a guy, later made the connection between her and her now BF and did the BF a solid.

Content-Board7302 · 2023-07-11T02:24:35+00:00

I remember this, though I wonder if it’s a troll post?

scifipoorguy · 2023-07-11T13:48:03+00:00

If you play the games of harlotry, do not be surprised when the bill comes due

sunmadmurfster · 2023-07-12T16:47:13+00:00

Hopefully, your dude runs. Sex is usually super important to build and maintain a relationship. Obviously, this guy feels used.

philseven12 · 2023-07-11T09:02:24+00:00

god damn

di_thomasso · 2023-07-11T06:47:18+00:00

Jap, Just Part of the reason i checked Out... Fuck this, thx for the reassurance

Outside_Bumblebee861 · 2023-07-13T08:06:24+00:00

She wasn't in a dark place.. the darkness was in her 😃

Plazmatron44 · 2023-07-14T12:14:20+00:00

"I was in a dark place at the time and needed some healing". The speed at which women can absolve themselves of responsibility is astounding.

polishknightusa · 2023-07-14T13:04:31+00:00

I chuckle at this reasoning from her, quote: "accused me of [...] withholding sex for 3 months (which btw is false im just not comfortable having sex so soon without a commitment)"

So what? One can still consent to something and not be comfortable. Men consent to pay for dates even if we're not comfortable doing so because if we don't, the women may not want to see us again. That's extortion but it's legal. My wife wanted me to go with her to the pool and I went because it made her happy and made the best of it. Relationships are about sometimes doing things to make the other person happy.

Just because she didn't feel "comfortable" having sex doesn't mean she WASN'T "withholding" it from him. If he wanted sex, and she withheld it, then she withheld it regardless of the reason.

From King of the Hill:

Hank: A man came by from Shiny Pines Trailer Park today, and he says you’ve still got a trailer there
Luann: No I don’t, it tipped over
Hank: But it’s still there
Luann: No, it tipped over
Hank: Luann, let me try to explain. I have a beer can. It tips over. Now is it still there?
Luann: I can’t live in a beer can, Uncle Hank. I can live in a trailer but I don’t have a trailer because the trailer tipped over [runs off crying]

lurkerhasarisen · 2023-07-10T15:37:38+00:00

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Axdorablee · 2023-07-10T23:14:54+00:00

BFFR

Zefirez · 2023-07-15T09:15:14+00:00

She was in a dark place back then..

Pretty sure the dark was inside her..until it jizzed xD
I can only imagine the uptake in listerine sales after her current bf learned the truth visually..

Sea-Notice3181 · 2023-07-10T15:12:39+00:00

Can I see the video 🫠

Title	Woman gives oral to fuckboy she just met, but delays sex for months with a gentleman. (post by @RouteClearance)
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	322
Comments	99
Date	July 10, 2023 2:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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