Possible hook up after div

AudreyTooTwo · 2023-09-15T23:59:44+00:00

I'm starting to have guilt

Sir, in all seriousness, with all due respect, grow a pair. Sexuality is a gift from God. There is no reward for rubbing one out when there's an attractive willing partner ready to go. Hell, most of us don't get another attractive willing partner, at least not with a ton of baggage.

There is still red blood pumping through your heart, isn't there? Look at it this way, when you die, you'll be dead for a REALLY LONG TIME. Strike while the iron is hot. You're alive and you deserve to have the human experience here on Earth.

l3tsR0LL · 2023-09-15T22:41:31+00:00

I've read a lot of comments about waiting for a year after divorce

But after a few years of no sex, I'm starting to think I won't be able to wait. 🤷

I say go for it as long as you both know it is just play time and not a commitment

iSurvivedltd · 2023-09-16T15:28:52+00:00

Pipe her down.

Do you think your ex is second guessing opening her legs to someone else? Absolutely not.

Bring a pack of condoms and make up for all the times your ex didn’t fuck you.

Old-Macaroon8148 · 2023-09-16T19:22:07+00:00

If you pass on this opportunity DM me your address so I can drive over and punch you in the nuts.

tdwriter2003 · 2023-09-15T23:08:19+00:00

Thanks guys We all need need a little fun and a little confidence.

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2023-09-16T02:09:43+00:00

I won't speak to the guilt part. I will speak to the performance and enjoyment of having sex with a childhood friend part.

Personally, I would hook up a few times with someone that I knew the relationship wasn't going anywhere, more of a one / two-night stand type of thing... to get the butterflies out of your stomach. Before hooking up with your childhood friend.

I say that after having hooked up with a childhood friend just recently and I think I had almost the best sex of my life with her. And given her response, she definitely seemed to enjoy it.

But I have been hooking up or having short-term relationships over the few years since I have been divorced. So sex is no longer such a big deal as it once was.

DocHolliday80 · 2023-09-16T20:31:22+00:00

Man, most of us are getting no chances, if you get lucky, for fuck’s sake, please enjoy the ride.

Noodletrousers · 2023-09-15T22:29:36+00:00

Enjoy yourself and if it feels right then go for it.

The first new one lady after a very long relationship is strange, but you’ve gotta start somewhere.

Be honest with yourself. Does she turn you on? Could you clobber your meat baton to completion unaided to the thought of getting down with her? Take it from there.

Alatornio · 2023-09-15T22:40:30+00:00

If you find her attractive, GO FOR IT.

Maybe this could turn into something more. Go have a nice time out. Enjoy the food and if something happens, it happens. This outing will give you the confidence to feel desired and get over your divorce.

Remember, this woman finds you attractive. It's a huge confidence booster.

ivereadabookor2 · 2023-09-16T15:17:08+00:00

It’s probably fine if she doesn’t want a LTR.

Noodletrousers · 2023-09-19T19:13:23+00:00

Have you guys met yet? What was the outcome?

Title	Possible hook up after div
Author	tdwriter2003
Upvotes	12
Comments	24
Date	September 15, 2023 10:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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