I can't help but notice how many guys just don't want to hangout anymore like they used to. I remember before guys used to hangout and we will slowly build a social circle. I remember we will just find fun things to do. I also remember girls will occasionally notice and want to be a part of it.

Now it seems like guys just don't want to leave their house anymore. To get them to actually come out I have to have some kind of event or something. Any other time they would rather stay home watching pornhub and playing video games. If you haven't realized it yet, online dating doesn't work (for you). Trying to flirt at work or school isn't worth the risk unless you're Chad. You need to actually leave your house and have an actual social life. You can't just order a relationship online like you order a pizza.

If you don't know it already, girls are not going to like you unless they see you already have an actual life. You aren't gonna overcome any social anxiety you may have if you don't spend time with people. Even if it's just with your boys.

Then some guys don't even think they are supposed to hangout with other guys. A few times I invited guys to hangout and do something and they would give me weird reactions like they think it must be some kind of gay thing or something. That's how foreign the concept of being friends and hanging out is to them.

I've been trying to get some guys to go camping sometime or simply come over to my mancave to smoke weed and play streetfighter but they don't want to unless there's going to be girls there just waiting for them. They don't seem to see how having pictures of them canoeing or just the fact that they have a life and friends would make them more attractive. The ladies here even tell you many times to "go out and touch grass". I'm even tempted to go online posing as a girl just to see what kind of pictures they have on Tinder because I doubt they have pictures of them out somewhere cool.

It isn't just me noticing this. I hear this from a lot of people these days. Maybe it isn't the magic bullet that will solve all your problems but it would help. Girls like to see that a guy has friends. Many consider it a red flag if you don't. They also are impressed when you take them to a bar and you're friends with the bartender and know some people there.

Sorry if this seems like a rant but it is something I noticed that does negatively impact your dating life. Ladies feel free to chime in on this and tell us what you think of guys like this. I would like to know.