When paternity test discussions comes up there is uproar about how men are bad for exercising their right to know about their Child's Paternity. Those people are bad people, They want you to raise another man's child.

Do not listen to them. Take the test always take the test. Be honest about it from the start. If your partner is apprehensive about it explain your perspective to her. Show her what happens to men who are victim of paternity fraud. A reasonable partner would listen to you.

If she opposes you, well you know that she is risky woman to have kids with so dont have kids with her.