If you install dating apps on and off every couple of months, isn’t that an indication you actually want a relationship?

MikeArrow · 2023-12-04T20:47:10+00:00

What does 'refuse to settle' mean in this context?

AngeCruelle · 2023-12-04T20:40:18+00:00

I propose a modified concept of fomo called fomooto: fear of missing out on the one.

Perhaps there's a nagging part of you that thinks the guy of your dreams is out there waiting on an app and if you don't use them you'll prolong your first meeting or, worse yet, never meet him. You wouldn't be alone.

baiser_vole · 2023-12-04T21:05:38+00:00

Since you seem to think you want a relationship, it sounds like you don't know how to get into a relationship. Just choose someone. There is no one absolutely perfect.

DustAffectionate5525 · 2023-12-04T20:13:00+00:00

no it shows that you're indecisive.

~ andy

Mauf066 · 2023-12-04T20:28:19+00:00

If you don't want kids, I don't think there's much rush tbh. Maybe if you want a LTR with an attractive guy in his 20s, since that type of guy probably won't want to date a woman older than him. But as far as being able to get into an LTR or married at all, that happens at all ages, what redpillers say about the wall isn't really true. I'd just consider whether your standards are unrealistic, since it seems like you couldn't find even a single suitable candidate after several months on dating apps. Also consider changing yourself to make yourself more attractive to the type of guy you want (gym, makeup skills, fashion, be less annoying or negative if that's your current personality...)

jay10033 · 2023-12-05T01:41:42+00:00

Actions speak louder than words.

AFuzzyMuffin · 2023-12-05T04:29:45+00:00

No it’s an indicator you need to ask why and maybe talk to someone about it. If you are a good quality woman for real you should find yourself with good quality men which means ur prob disregarding them and have weird attachment styles etc

talk to someone

Muscletov · 2023-12-05T07:08:54+00:00

I diagnose you with Chadsexuality

mods_have_small_ween · 2023-12-04T20:29:16+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOA43CzHfgA

If you don't settle you will get used and discarded.

macone235 · 2023-12-04T21:01:07+00:00

All women want a relationship. It's just that not all women like their options.

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-12-04T20:28:23+00:00

No people do it to normally just reset the algorithm and start fresh in the deck. The dating apps are to be treated like a game as they are based off an elo system in the back end.

Bright-Personality70 · 2023-12-04T21:26:47+00:00

This isn't anything unusual.

I often install the app, speak to some guys and then delete it. Sometimes I'm just feeling a bit depressed and the thought of meeting a complete stranger for a date is too much for me to deal with. Sometimes I'll have too many bad dated in a row

Lots of reasons, really.

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FutureBannedAccount2 · 2023-12-04T23:34:13+00:00

Not necessarily. It's most likely just a sign you're bored

blarginfajiblenochib · 2023-12-05T10:50:53+00:00

I saw someone for a few months jn my early twenties & haven't seen someone since bc I refuse to settle.

Why did this relationship end? Why would you be settling by seeing someone else?

I'm told I'm cute/ attractive but never get noticed by guys I like in person (as in actually approached)

Have you tried approaching these men yourself?

OP it seems like you’re not sure if you actually want a relationship, but you have a certain type of partner in mind. To me, the way you delete and redownload the apps seems to be more of a control thing - you didn’t get the results you wanted so let’s reset the game and start over.

Title	If you install dating apps on and off every couple of months, isn’t that an indication you actually want a relationship?
Author	Dsg1695
Upvotes	2
Comments	37
Date	December 4, 2023 8:11 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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