Question for singles: What do you imagine doing in a relationship?

MikeArrow · 2023-12-18T04:17:22+00:00

I'd like to watch tv in bed with my so nestled into the crook of my shoulder.

Electronic_West_1831 · 2023-12-18T08:04:33+00:00

At this point, I’ve just given up, so this is like asking me what I’d imagine doing if I went to the moon

iSellNuds4RedditGold · 2023-12-18T09:53:01+00:00

Cute shit.

Chilling in bed with warm blankets on a cold winter morning.

Bike riding together.

Going to eat somewhere new.

Hiking in the mountains where there's only us.

Simple things for a simple man.

cel-shaded · 2023-12-18T17:13:15+00:00

Support each other. If she has a bad day at work, i would emotionally support her. If she's feeling bad whatever reason i would try to make her feel better. And, importantly, i would expect the same done to me. Acts of kindness; for example i would cook for her some days a week and she would cook for me sometimes. We'd spend time and do things together. Walk in the city, travel, do sports maybe, etc.. And lastly, we wouldn't let each other feel touch starvation.

Steakman1 · 2023-12-18T07:07:30+00:00

what is the thing you want most out of a relationship?

Technically two things, but kids and her as happy and fulfilled as I can help her be.

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-12-18T16:25:44+00:00

It's not always about what it lets you do but how it makes you feel. Just seeing the person makes you giddy after a long time of not seeing them. But just spending time doing our own thing in the same room is nice. Or watching dumb netflix shows.

SadDevelopment4813 · 2023-12-18T05:17:12+00:00

Going on a Walk together lol

justforlulz12345 · 2023-12-18T12:17:39+00:00

Naked wrestling!

That’s what mommy and daddy were doing when I went into their bedroom last night

OkHoliday8798 · 2023-12-18T14:59:20+00:00

Travelling together.

voyager14 · 2023-12-18T05:43:32+00:00

Kids

Southern-Mistake7543 · 2023-12-18T07:10:25+00:00

It is kind of hard right now since I am like a fresh on the market single but because of that I am aware of what I absolutely want out of my next relationship (or if this one works again):

complete commitment and exclusivity, ability to come out of comfort zone for the growth of the relationship and not expecting compromise/adjustment at every step, no long distance at any cost because sex is too important, trust on self bullshit detectors and no disrespect tolerating clause at the head as if the relationship is a contract, enough space and variety in the relationship to let both the partners be all of their variations that they want to be.

For now these do

ArtifactFan65 · 2023-12-18T13:42:22+00:00

Talking :(

Regular_Session_3827 · 2023-12-22T05:21:14+00:00

Cute stuff like cuddling, sex, and not having to put on an act and pretend to be someone I'm not for fear of her leaving over the absolute tiniest flaw I might have.

Tobor_Xes240 · 2023-12-18T06:47:48+00:00

Splitting a joint while she talks about her day and I do the dishes.

RevolutionaryJob7908 · 2023-12-18T07:44:50+00:00

I want to give her a thoughtful gift once a week, to share and write a diary together of our adventures, to plan out vacations once a year, to spend time with our kids, to paint a painting of us once a year, to take her out on a date once every two weeks, to work on misc team projects together using our various talents complimentary to one another, to interpret a new definition for the meaning of life, but honestly,

its been so long since I've had motivation to chase after such a dream. The women are not what I thought they were. Not here.

LadyLazarus2021 · 2023-12-18T12:55:09+00:00

Damn, men be a bit romantic

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Ayaka_Simp_ · 2023-12-18T09:34:56+00:00

I'm not looking for a relationship, but if I was: companionship and connection.

63daddy · 2023-12-18T15:11:22+00:00

When I’m seeking a relationship things I’ve wanted are good conversations, someone to share things with, being able to share and provide things for each other a single person can’t do, enjoy the classical dining out, etc. Of course the big thing a relationship brings that my male friends can’t provide is the intimacy, that including sex, but not just sex.

apresonly · 2023-12-18T21:35:54+00:00

snuggling and watching movies, cooking for them

TheRealMichaelBluth · 2023-12-19T00:38:00+00:00

Having kids together, traveling and of course someone to share physical affection with

social_mule · 2023-12-19T01:44:33+00:00

There seems to be a lot of arguing over who was supposed to load the dishwasher from my observations.

Spyro7x3 · 2023-12-19T09:09:16+00:00

I've always liked the idea of running a business together.

Uglypostwall · 2023-12-20T13:34:36+00:00

Money, getting spoiled,cuddles,loyalty,being private about relationship and never mocking me in front of me and others

Teaseasy · 2024-02-21T11:20:57+00:00

Not having any expectations. I can't expect anything from a person I'm getting to know romantically. I'll just constantly be let down if I do. I guess.... Laughing a lot together would be ideal but crying more than laughing a deal breaker

Title	Question for singles: What do you imagine doing in a relationship?
Author	NockerJoe
Upvotes	6
Comments	37
Date	December 18, 2023 4:02 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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