She wants to change

Retying3043 · 2023-12-30T13:56:13+00:00

1) She has shown you who she really is. 2) People don’t change.

Decon_SaintJohn · 2023-12-30T02:41:19+00:00

Look my man, you didn't break her, and you can't fix her. She has to lose the weight for herself, not to keep you in a marriage. At minimum, you should stay separated, living separately, and work on you. In one year you can assess what was accomplished, or not, on her end. I hope it works out, but I'm not entirely sure she has the ability to make that much of a change.

drtij_dzienz · 2023-12-30T02:20:19+00:00

I watch too many weight loss journey YouTubers to believe she could lose the weight natty (without surgery or ozempic)

Abracadabra-B · 2023-12-30T02:12:58+00:00

“People change when the pain of staying the same outweighs the pain of changing.” Is the best answer so can give you for “why did it take me leaving” question. It’s a quote I heard a while back.

Cecilthelionpuppet · 2023-12-30T02:08:01+00:00

It's your call. We don't know her- you do.

Don't stay with her just because you're insecure about yourself, your ability to find other partners, and be happy. Stay with her because she makes you a better person.

New-Amoeba9042 · 2023-12-30T01:50:14+00:00

Didn’t she say she was going on OLD? She’s going to be sleeping with other men, if not now, as soon as she can.

Entertain it only for what you need to prepare to file unemotionally as you can

GoldDigger304 · 2023-12-30T01:34:34+00:00

its over.

she will never forgive you for leaving and make her lose weight.

you can return but you will definitely be divorced in the next 5 years anyway.

the longer you stay in the marriage the more money and alimony and assets you will owe her.

maybe she will try to get pregnant and claim 18 years of child support or make false allegations to the police against you.

DivorceTA1988 · 2023-12-30T13:50:24+00:00

Lol, lose a 100lbs in a year. Sure

Don’t fall for it bro

Title	She wants to change
Author	No-Secretary2273
Upvotes	10
Comments	31
Date	December 30, 2023 1:22 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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