Does this sound like sex addiction?

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eszibit · 2022-10-24T23:00:36+00:00

Yeah, it seems you have some serious issues, no joke. I mean, i like women too but you need to have other hobbies, friends, a life besides fucking.

HauntingAssignment67 · 2022-10-24T23:01:44+00:00

Stop cumming instantly. Don’t jerk off, don’t have sex. Stop for atleast a month. Figure out what youre lacking in life that’s making you cushion it with women.

C0333 · 2022-10-24T23:11:10+00:00

The jerking off seems excessive. Stop jerking off. The women part seems normal, maybe a little off at age 29 but getting laid is fun.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-24T23:19:08+00:00

This post feels off, like a troll or perhaps written about someone else whom you despise, but in the first person in an attempt to justify yourself in despising him by garnering empathetic comments.

TeddyKisss · 2022-10-24T23:28:13+00:00

I had a friend of a friend like this. It was his sole purpose and all he cared about. He was a legit sociopath. He was so poor he store toilet paper from McDonald’s and lived with his Mom in a trailer. He dined and dashed hundreds of times and ended up lying to a girl and telling her he was a cop and forcing her to have sex with him. He got caught and ended up I prison.

Andress1 · 2022-10-24T22:56:12+00:00

Where do you meet so many women to sleep with?

Exmerus · 2022-10-24T23:46:23+00:00

not sure if you are trolling. Jerking off 8 times a day is humanly possible? I legit can't cum after 3

edit: and after that I can't masturbate within the next 2 business days

TeddyKisss · 2022-10-24T23:24:27+00:00

Totally normal

ChicoBrillo · 2022-10-24T23:13:38+00:00

Do you feel like this behavior is bad for you? Does it impact your life in undesirable ways?

AqueousBeats · 2022-10-24T23:38:22+00:00

jensao · 2022-10-24T23:46:10+00:00

Do you spend money on it? Dating apps, prostitution, onlyfans? If not I would say you're ok, excessive but not addicted

Mindrust · 2022-10-24T23:49:52+00:00

How the hell do you jerk off 8x a day? That would hurt my dick

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-10-24T23:57:57+00:00

Hahahahahah WHAT THE FUCK

NationalContract5970 · 2022-10-25T00:01:21+00:00

That’s crazy I believe you should consider a long time relationship and making a bond rather than being just physical

moderndaygenghis · 2022-10-25T00:07:02+00:00

If you are getting laid so much, then I don't get the excessive masturbation.. Not a doctor, but that's clearly a sign of some addiction. Sorry dude.

Phool__ · 2022-10-25T00:08:10+00:00

Yeah this is a bit extreme. Jerking off 8 times a day is just crazy. You are dopamine addicted to the dopamine hit you get from sex. You need to reset your brain, start by limiting yourself to only getting this pleasure to sexual intercourse. Then try to limit it to once a week and pickup other hobbies that focus more on long term reward than short term reward. Learn to invest, go to the gym, idk if you have this much extra time you could do anything man!

mabden · 2022-10-25T00:13:43+00:00

Have your T levels checked. May be a clue.

In my you ger days, I could jerk off several times a day and still go a couple of rounds that night with the girlfriend.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-10-25T00:14:04+00:00

Are you paying for any of these encounters? Or are you a professional sports player or celebrity?

BigOlBums · 2022-10-25T00:19:53+00:00

It’s hilarious how it’s 50% people mildly concerned and offering advice, and 50% people wanting to know how you get laid so often.

Successful_Teach366 · 2022-10-25T00:22:20+00:00

No man, this is a real addiction. From one addict to another, you need to get help. It will change your life for the better and you will lose the anxiety of always looking for more and more.

Look up SLAA meetings before you ruin your life

GeorgeKaplanIsReal · 2022-10-25T00:33:49+00:00

Those are rookie numbers.

expensiveshit123 · 2022-10-25T00:36:29+00:00

What is ur advice for an average looking guy who is having troubles getting laid ?

Visualize_ · 2022-10-25T00:39:58+00:00

Why would you even jerk off 8 times a day? Who even has time for that

Mayoulee · 2022-10-25T00:42:34+00:00

The ‘fall into a deep depression’ part is something you should be careful of. Take care of yourself mentally, it’s important. Do you have anything that excites you except from sex? That you could give energy and be passionate about?

Digiarts · 2022-10-25T00:43:22+00:00

No problem there bud. You’re doing great. Once you hit your 40s the desire to get laid isn’t as strong. Enjoy it while you can

BigOlBums · 2022-10-25T00:52:59+00:00

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Vinegar_Tits_9 · 2022-10-25T00:53:08+00:00

Oh big yikes. Definitely addicted. I suggest you seek help before you decide to be in a relationship with someone. Unless you want to be alone/single forever in which case, you do you!

burncushlikewood · 2022-10-25T00:55:20+00:00

If you feel depression when you don't have sex that sounds like a problem, sex addiction is a mental health topic that people don't really talk about. When you don't have proper relationships and you are constantly thinking about sex and it gets in the way of you being able to focus and get things done that is a problem. I don't have sex but I'm a happy guy, this is because of strong relationships I have with people. Theres a difference between addiction and just high sex drive, if you're depressed when you can't have sex then you have a serious issue

RProgrammerMan · 2022-10-25T00:57:38+00:00

I wonder if you have a lack of meaningful relationships in your life. The only relationships you have are transactional or even exploitive. You’re lonely and lacking validation and you’re using sex to fill that void.

Title	Does this sound like sex addiction?
Author	BigOlBums
Upvotes	9
Comments	80
Date	October 24, 2022 10:53 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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