My main problem is I'm spending too much time with women I only want sex from. I always make an excuse for us to hang out whether it's going to the beach or getting some drinks but really I just want sex and don't want them to feel like sluts. I feel like the only girls that would be willing to just be fuck buddies would be gross to me. Usually the most promiscuous aren't the most attractive. I feel like I have to present an illusion to them that I want to get to know them and don't just want them for sex.