If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?

No_Ad_9717 · 2022-07-05T16:39:21+00:00

If a girl wants to see you she will….. Nothing will stop them

premedchunsa · 2022-07-05T18:29:21+00:00

Dude stop overthinking. Want to find out if it’s a no? Text her and ask her out after a couple days. If she still makes excuses, then she’s not into you. Move on.

great_account · 2022-07-05T18:06:42+00:00

If she doesn't give you a solid yes, treat it as a no. You only want to hang out with girls who say "hell yes" to meeting up.

2022-07-05T23:07:52+00:00

Girls will rarely straight up tell you no because they love having some orbiters on deck for if they need a does of attention. Go radio silent

MrBlack__ · 2022-07-05T23:13:08+00:00

It’s not a soft no it’s a “I might be seeing my first choice, if he’s not available I’ll see you”

And THAT IS OKAY.

When you first enter a woman’s life it’s normal not to be her priority straight away. Be cool, and say “if you’re not sure let’s not force it, let’s do another time” and rearrange

This shows you’re not a needy bitch that won’t be waiting on her like a loser! Loo

yiggaman · 2022-07-05T21:05:50+00:00

If you really want to check on her then call her. Texting will just add more bs. If ahe doesn't pick up fhen you know what time it is. Time to hang it up

No_Ad_9717 · 2022-07-05T16:48:09+00:00

Also…. Don’t ask her how’s she’s feeling. That’s needy, because you are actually just trying to get her to talk and soothe the uncomfortable feelings you’ve experiencing.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-05T17:18:17+00:00

No. you should not ask a girl you haven’t slept with, how she is feeling as that is mister nice guy behaviour.

it’s better to tease her like: “Don’t go around spreading the virus, or i’ll tell the cops”….

Teasing her more fun, and it avoids the “mister nice guy who pretends to care about a girl because he wants to sleep with her” vibe…

Specially when that is more often than not an excuse, whenever you offer to go out to a girl and she says something like oh i’m sick” she is not really sick i’m the vast majority of cases, so if you act like you are worried she is sick when she lied that makes you look like you don’t get it, basically she laughs at you behind your back for being so naive and clueless.

Yes, girls are not as nice and innocent as you make them out to be.

In this game; you cannot look naive or like you don’t get it, which is the problem of “mister nice guys”.

2022-07-05T16:29:09+00:00

Dude why do you depend only on 1 girl? Go talk to A LOT OF GIRLS. What does it matter if one is not available

Mornin23 · 2022-07-05T17:58:37+00:00

In the Covid era, I would just assume she’s sick and try for a different day.

Vulturo · 2022-07-05T18:54:31+00:00

You've lost son. She's letting you off easy. Don't bother.

sleepstages · 2022-07-05T17:15:45+00:00

There is a 1% chance she is sick, but that's soooo rare. If she tries to reschedule do it, sure, but if not just leave her be.

abandonliberty · 2022-07-05T19:07:21+00:00

Either you're a backup plan or it's a soft no. Make your own plans, bring her if she can join.

west_herbert · 2022-07-05T20:17:34+00:00

Yeah, that's a no. I would just reply,"I hope you feel better." If she doesn't offer any counter date, then it's a No.

Thony311 · 2022-07-05T18:12:48+00:00

I would consider it a soft no.

The only chance ill give her is if she reschedules herself but even that is shaky.

yiggaman · 2022-07-05T20:58:04+00:00

Just be supportive and leave it alone till the day comes and confirm in the morning

theundeadwombat · 2022-07-05T21:03:08+00:00

KisapadajaDoma · 2022-07-05T21:58:08+00:00

You want to make a definite date with definite time and place.

Everything else is bs. If she says "maybe", "I don't know if I would make it", "maybe I'll be sick on thursday", "we'll see" etc. That is not a definite date.

Definite date is: "Thursday 7pm at blabla, see you."

If I can't get straight yes and arrange definite date. I would just say to her "Let me know when you'll be free to go out and we will plan something then."

roakmamba · 2022-07-06T01:13:45+00:00

Just tell her to get back at you when she figures herself out and never ever text her back again and move on with your life. Keep fishing.

joeyggg · 2022-07-06T02:24:31+00:00

The ball is in her court now. If she’s interested she’ll reach out to reschedule.

Quieroculo69 · 2022-07-06T07:06:01+00:00

If she’s sick her staying home seems considerate considering we are in a pandemic.

CowgirlBebop575 · 2022-07-06T07:11:19+00:00

It depends on if she updates you with a new available date or not.

2022-07-06T10:24:25+00:00

Imagine her actually being sick and she genuinely wanted to reschedule for another time. That's when communication comes into place. Just confront her and ask her if you're that doubtful.

GroundbreakingAd8077 · 2022-07-06T10:59:47+00:00

Try to schedule 3 times, if she finds an excuse each time and doesn't propose her own, thats a no, tbh your situation just sounds like she is sick

Economy-Ad-1627 · 2022-07-06T12:04:00+00:00

I had a girl did it and at first she couldnt make it, but we stayed in touch for another month or so. Out of the blue, she sent me a Snapchat about some dude who had his way and ghosted her, i said f that. If its just a one time deal, id offer to reschedule once they felt better. If they do it a second time, id move on.

Mornin23 · 2022-07-06T14:28:08+00:00

If she’s into you, she’ll make it easy. That’s a “I want to keep you in the friend zone” thing normally - don’t offer another day, if she doesn’t, probably isn’t going anywhere anyway

Title	If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?
Author	qurfy
Upvotes	26
Comments	45
Date	July 5, 2022 4:24 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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