If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.

Snakehead004 · 2022-05-31T18:56:14+00:00

That's a good mentality to have but I wouldn't burn bridges.. I literally can't count the number of women I've had this happen to only to forget them and have them reconnect and try very hard to meet up at a later date. Everyone has stuff going on, don't take anything personally and be genuinely nice and respectful to people who are respectful to you. Good things will happen if you respect your fellow human..

betterme2610 · 2022-05-31T21:30:51+00:00

I have had many tinder / hinge dates and hookups that were me being left on read and just not replying for weeks months until they reached out. Didn’t chase em, didn’t pester them, moved on to others, and they eventually came around. No point in being bitter or burning the bridge, but do expect it’s done. To be fair I’ve done it to women just as well. It happens when you’re talking to many in a online dating scene

Codename-Misfit · 2022-06-01T00:33:05+00:00

Roll with the punches, boys.

Fate-in-haze · 2022-05-31T18:46:44+00:00

Woujo · 2022-06-01T03:32:39+00:00

Strong disagree.

Women rarely "reject" men. They just don't show interest.

There is a difference. "Rejection" means she does not find you attractive and never wants to see you again. Lack of interest means you just did not spark her emotions at that moment.

If a woman does not show interest, you should move on, but the possibility is always there until she does actually reject you. Sometimes I will approach a woman, have a nice conversation, and she will lose interest. I will then leave and maybe come back later. As long as you don't act like a needy creep, the door is still open.

ozzzy83 · 2022-06-02T10:30:21+00:00

Yeah, I only give one chance to any girl. I know that I'm a prize, so if she rejects me, no matter if taken at the time, or what, I'm not interested anymore in that person. There are so many girls on this planet, I don't give a fuck about some specific one that cannot recognize my worth. I don't deal with maybe's, I don't know, we'll see, etc...I just remove them right away, and I do not respond anything to that. I just see them as insecure, low-value people that I am not interested in anyway. When you know your worth, you do not deal with low-value people. You just filter them out.

18cmOfGreatness · 2022-06-01T08:23:51+00:00

That's probably the biggest bs I ever read on this sub, lmao. If you know how to interact with people without being needy and chasing it doesn't matter if they "reject" you because there's nothing to reject, you're just having fun. All of it depends on how you frame their reactions. If you're a cool guy, there's no such thing as a rejection, just incompatibility.

Dakessian · 2022-06-01T10:09:02+00:00

I always try and make a funny remark when they reject. If I invite a girl to go somewhere and then she says she has a boyfriend, I just say, “that’s ok, he can come too”

MK2718 · 2022-06-01T06:50:27+00:00

This is the worst advice that I have ever seen get so many up votes in this subreddit. It's sad to think of all the guys who will never achieve results due to not knowing the truth about confidence and persistence. Yes you should be totally cool with walking away at all times, which can actually create attraction. But you should not expect there to even be attraction prior to interacting enough to create it.

yennybear888 · 2022-05-31T22:07:52+00:00

I agree for the most part but I do think it’s worth one little attempt to make a joke out of it or challenge the rejection. I met a girl on pof once who was super cute, solid 9. 10 years younger. As soon as we exchange numbers she sends me a topless pic. I send her one back that usually does well because my arms look good in it. Well she flatly says “sorry I don’t go for guys with hairy chests” which really surprised me because she had to expect that messaging someone older. I was like “oh you must like those young guys then” she said “actually no :)))” and then we went on to date for about a year.

That’s just one online example but in my experience it’s worth a small attempt but yea, be ready to walk if it’s not immediately landing well

Mick_Hardwick · 2022-06-01T12:27:54+00:00

Forget about the last one. Get yourself another.

Nearby_Advance7443 · 2022-06-01T01:17:54+00:00

About six months ago I kept trying to get in touch with an old friend to hang out. She kept giving excuses, flaking, and sometimes just not replying. I struck a balance between giving her her space and other times texting her with playful exasperation. After a week or so of this, she finally agreed to hang one night. We went for a walk in a nature preserve, where we got naked and I fucked her against a tree.

Flat out rejection isn’t the same as flaking. Your post is correct, in that no means no and to give it up when that happens. But you’re confusing rejection with variations of shit tests.

That girl’s my girlfriend now, BTDubs.

External-Ad6703 · 2022-06-01T11:13:05+00:00

Is it cool to have her as a friend after she reject you?

VegasPartyGodz · 2022-06-01T16:29:11+00:00

Then Hail Mary it an do some man shit that rock here world

Everlast23 · 2022-05-31T23:38:02+00:00

I ask for honest closure

changthaiman · 2022-05-31T22:47:54+00:00

Oh she’ll reach out to you, but will try to manipulate you into giving her money in some way / shape or form lol. Once she’s lost respect for you, there’s no going back.

2022-06-01T01:07:21+00:00

I'd take this with a pinch of salt though, because I never accept a woman's first response as set in stone. We've all seen those candid camera videos of some dude getting blown out by some good looking woman only for her to do a complete 180 when a Ferrari pulls up and he starts climbing into it.

I'm not advocating attracting gold-diggers, but the point is that woman can change their minds.

The thing that's getting you flaked on causing her to lose interest is that you're not attracting her in the first place. This goes back to getting the fundamentals right and working on language patterns which put her in a more amenable state to being fascinated with you.

You can, with practice, bounce back from even the hardest rejections.

Her" You suck and I don't want to talk to you"

Me: "You know that feeling you get when you meet someone for the first time and you just know that you're going to like and trust this person instantly? I guess you want to feel all that before you decide to really open up and let this person come inside your life, right? It amazing when you see this person right in front of you and you instantaneously begin to feel that connection, deep inside."

2022-06-01T02:49:39+00:00

Sigh sound like I should give up . Pretty much every woman confidence or not

mandoa_sky · 2022-06-01T04:27:44+00:00

in my case i probably would - but that's more down to a bad case of adhd and literally forgetting to reply to messages.

billoverbeck00 · 2022-06-01T04:38:23+00:00

Got left on seen gotta just face the fact I’m I Ugly it is what it is

pacificin67 · 2022-06-01T05:02:58+00:00

You're right. It's all our wishful thinking, even though we know deep down it's hopeless

speed0347 · 2022-06-01T06:35:24+00:00

I need a little pieace of advice. Me(22M) met this girl(21) on dating app, and i really like her, we have been hang out a lot through out 2 weeks and i also offer to give her a ride to work and she okay with it, and i really enjoy her company so i asked her to be my gf last sunday but see said her last break up was bad, and we should take it slow and when i asked if she have mutual feelings or not she said she didnt kniw. What should i do. Fyi we still hanging out, but nothing out of bouderies, sometime holding hand and small stuff happens.

javierthhh · 2022-06-01T17:49:17+00:00

But “the notebook”

Title	If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.
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Upvotes	402
Comments	46
Date	May 31, 2022 6:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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