How many guys actually have a “rotation” of females?

pokemonpokemonmario · 2021-10-30T05:44:50+00:00

If you have a rotation already you probably won't be in this sub and most men don't talk about seeing multiple women at the same time as its generally looked down apon.

MisterShogunate · 2021-10-30T05:50:31+00:00

Highest I’ve gone is 4 for a very short period. It gets really exhausting like you just go from one bed to another and you feel trapped. I was young and stupid and trying to prove something to myself. Nowadays most I do is 2 at once and care more about my enjoyment rather than “having a rotation.” Anymore than dating a new girl once every few weeks or every month is just stressful imo.

relic127 · 2021-10-30T05:36:26+00:00

Before my relationship i had a rotation of 3 females. Had a couple of one nighters on the side. Then i met my GF who became part of the rotation for a short while. When we made it official i cut the rest off. That was 5yrs ago, im single again and ready to get back at it

EstablishmentLimp477 · 2021-10-30T06:01:44+00:00

Here is the thing about "rotations". For a regular guy to even get 1 girl into bed it takes near 100+ approaches. That eats up ton of time and once you finally do who says she will stick with you. It takes a while to master the craft of build great report and having good "bedroom skills". So for most guy's it's not a normal thing to happen a year in doing seduction, hell maybe even two again maybe on that.

Plus once you start regularly dealing with women there will be drama. For most guy's that get regularly laid with new women in general, there's a lot of drama. I knew many cases where every other girl would be a sicker. A sticker is one who get emotionally invested/clingy or is looking for a longer term relationship but says she is fine with "whatever". This leads to a lot of bad experience 95% of dudes who go out regularly 4 - 5 times a week deal with at least 2 in their first year or so. On top of all these women rejections or successes take up time, for most that are not experienced they usually don't have enough energy to deal with all of that. Furthermore why a lot of dudes who are not efficient at the top of their game choose not to deal with a whole "rotation". Many dudes can vouch for what I am saying down below.

TheRealMe54321 · 2021-10-30T05:30:17+00:00

10-20%

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-10-30T06:29:09+00:00

I have a wife and two girlfriends.

Embrace polyamory and it's easy.

AruiMD · 2021-10-30T08:06:56+00:00

I know one guy who does. I don’t. It’s honestly way too much work.

He is a big time successful guy, has two businesses and is constantly working, never sleeps. More power too him.

I like sleep though. I really enjoy doing absolutely nothing at times. Women are work imo.

That’s fine, and it’s great. But, one is plenty for me.

loudmouthgames · 2021-10-31T04:36:27+00:00

Didn’t believe it was possible. Pushed myself for 6 months. Got a rotation of 5 girls all while they knew I was fucking other girls. Of course they never knew exactly how many or who or anything about it, just that I was a guy they could not tie down. Felt amazing!!! Honestly tho, I’d see each one 1x a week - when you do rotations you can almost never see them more than 1x a week!!! This is a fucking law! - and you have to fuck them every time really good bc they haven’t got dick all week so I was just exhausted dating 5x a week and fucking everytime. Great at first, gets to you after a while. If you want to understand rotations look up Blackdragon’s work. He’s the one who showed me the light. Now 1 or 2 regulars and then just random dates til I find someone I really like to replace a regular and I’m happy

letsgetrandy · 2021-10-30T05:46:32+00:00

I did it for several years. What would you like to know about it?

Domin8u315 · 2021-10-30T05:23:14+00:00

I had a rotation of guys in my youth.

Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2021-10-30T08:19:36+00:00

I don’t have a rotation. I’m having sex with one and a pool with potentials. I demand exclusivity from the first date on. If she spreads her legs for other guys too I’m out and if it’s time frames for a few weeks or months and we know it will end. I’m totally cool with that.

Chad_Thundermember · 2021-10-30T06:29:40+00:00

Umm...

I have a friend who is not even good at pickup and he has a rotation of three ladies he dates. lol. The dude is incredibly friendly and likeable, so that might be the reason they like him.

So I guess if you don't have a likeable personality, just be good-looking or be rich or have a high social status.

btrpb · 2021-10-30T06:43:00+00:00

Currently 2. Had 3, but as middle aged guy with a legit busy life including kids 3 was just a ball ache.

antonthecad · 2021-10-30T08:43:31+00:00

Yeah, I have 3 girls who I sleep with regularly with no commitment. I have other girls who I see less often but usually reply if I ask. The key is getting a rotation that isn't too much work.

Shadow__Account · 2021-10-30T10:12:28+00:00

Its a dynamic thing just like all human relationships, so from the outside it may look like a dream but in real life it’s a non stop Energy taking thing in managing emotions and relations. When you first have it it’s amazing, like one girl goes and you have sex with another one a couple hours later or you need to get a girl out of your house quick before the next one. But after a while it’s not that new thing anymore and sex is not a scarcity anymore so it’s also not something that makes you walk in a cloud for 3 days. Relationships are a constant dynamic thing dealing with emotions. So you will like one girl more than the other and thereby sort of enjoy being with the other less. You are constantly emotionally unavailable to the women so it can start to feel Empty and consumeristic there’s constantly women getting hurt you know they want more so you are hurting them. A lot of the upsides are upsides from a scarcity perspective but when you actually have it they are not upsides anymore. I do like the concept of having multiple women and not putting all your eggs in one basket because you can focus on your work/ life / career because there is just abundance of sex and female attention, but at the same time it means hurting people and not getting a real deep connection, also getting new women in your funnel all the time does take a lot of energy. So upside for me it keeps me sharp and on top of my game, downside dealing with hurting people and maybe wasting time with women that you like and enjoy but you know you don’t want a future with.

2021-10-30T14:34:37+00:00

Most guys don't. Most guys are beta which naturally means they get less women.

But lucky for us humans - and only for us humans maybe, you can go from beta to alpha. You just need more testosterone!

AlbertoA66 · 2021-10-30T15:16:08+00:00

I usually keep 3-5 girls in my general “rotation”. But as the other comments said, it’s more just like an open line of communication with girls I may potentially be interested in.

Timing might be wrong, not able to coordinate, etc

But I usually always have someone to text/or talk to when I’m bored if that makes sense

Title	How many guys actually have a “rotation” of females?
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Date	October 30, 2021 5:21 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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