"Go out to have fun, not to pick up girls" works. Went to bar solo, talked to another dude doing the same, we got approached, got 2 numbers. Last week, bartender gave me her number.

BonjourComeBack · 2021-08-21T10:54:52+00:00

Basically enjoying the moment and DGAF attitude were thé way to go

goblinlvl99 · 2021-08-21T09:28:41+00:00

This only works if you're attractive trust me I've tried

JohntheAnabaptist · 2021-08-21T12:55:43+00:00

Abundance mentality

TheRealNotaredditor · 2021-08-21T16:51:13+00:00

Tfw you're in Vegas at a strip club and have a nice watch on.

2021-08-21T16:31:40+00:00

I was like ok these guys are cute as fuck

There's your answer. It's never, ever worked for me.

HappinesSource · 2021-08-21T13:30:04+00:00

I personally would have struggled to get the conversation going with this unknown man. Can you explain how you started things?

earsurgery9 · 2021-08-21T09:35:23+00:00

An hour into our convo this hot girl walks up and says "Hey, I'm with my friends and I was like ok these guys are cute as fuck but you're in some deep man talk so I didn't want to interrupt"

You must have imagined this. Seddit says Girls don't approach and don't care about looks as they aren't visual. j/k ;) Good stuff. This happens a LOT to my main wingman

kylefofyle · 2021-08-21T13:45:41+00:00

……………………..Rule 1 and 2

Blackmetalpenguin90 · 2021-08-21T15:44:18+00:00

I'd absolutely do this if I could find a single thing about a bar that is fun

Armybert · 2021-08-21T18:20:20+00:00

a) this is true and you're handsome
b) "...and then everyone started clapping"

PaqS18 · 2021-08-21T14:48:01+00:00

The bartender asked you to get her number? 'That like never happens, you lucky mf!Did you kiss any of the girls on that night? I might start doing it too, going solo to a bar. I'm quite attractive, have had girls approaching me before but not in a way it happened with you.

But tell me about that bartender, how did you do that mate! You started talking to her and flirted with her the whole time and then at the end she asked for your number?

And what kind of bar did you go? Cause when I'm with friends at like some place it's mostly friendgroups in their own bubble sitting at their own place. Not really approachable I feel like..

RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-08-21T18:28:58+00:00

Was this in a U.S. city?

FlowStateVibes · 2021-08-21T17:11:31+00:00

energy energy energy. good shit my dude. you're putting yourself into a higher state of vibration that attracts the right kind of attention. keep doing your thing.

EvilYoshi84 · 2021-08-21T18:05:24+00:00

I will talk to anyone about anything. I don't care where I'm at. I'm not the best looking guys but if I can get a conversation going than it's game over for the girl. Obviously, not all the time but I do okay for being a solid 6 out if 10.

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