Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approach

ilikepie145 · 2019-09-18T19:31:09+00:00

YES! This story need to be posted daily

BrunoFromBrazil · 2019-09-18T22:07:40+00:00

WELL DONE on approaching. Way to go.

Work on your openers, though. You will have a much higher success rate with indirect approaches.

We have no idea whether she has a boyfriend or not. That is often the most polite way of rejecting a guy.

Count_Giggles · 2019-09-18T20:11:26+00:00

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Whopper_Jr · 2019-09-18T23:51:17+00:00

say it’s 1/10 success rate

Even at his peak Paul Janka said his success rate was about 11%. I think people forget that it’s ultimately a numbers game. You can be the smoothest mf with great looks, but if you don’t hit the streets hard you’ll go home empty-handed.

ImJustSo · 2019-09-19T00:17:41+00:00

Telling women the reason why you're talking to them is a risk. I personally don't ever see the gain for the risk. There's other ways to establish a man to woman interaction and volunteering information will typically always weaken your position in life, regardless of the scenario you find yourself in, but especially with women.

Girls don't tell me they have a boyfriend often, and usually they're reluctant to share that with me if they do. That's because even if they have a man, they want a shot with me. I don't tell women they're attractive, unless my penis has touched them, or unless I never want my penis to touch them.

Operate on plausible deniability and just go forward with every step needed to develop a physical relationship and you will never have a problem with "Oh, I have a boyfriend." cuz girls that are hot know it's an easy way out of a situation, even if they don't have a boyfriend.

Girls will tell you they have a boyfriend even if they don't, then they'll go home and kick themselves for it, because they actually thought you were hot as fuck. You just put them on the spot and they had to make an instant decision. Girls ain't ready for that shit. Their instant decisions can lead them to 9 months of pregnancy followed by a lifetime of being a single mom.

So maybe it's hyperbolic, but remember the next time you walk up to a hot chick and say, "Hey, you're cute" because you're actually saying, "Hey, here's a dude that's forcing you to make a decision right fucking now about how you feel. You down?"

Statistically, some are, but I don't go to the casino and it's only 3 miles away. So....I'm not into gambling. Food for thought for you.

Alucardis666 · 2019-09-18T19:57:19+00:00

Good job overcoming your fear, sorry she had a bf though.

HanEyeAm · 2019-09-19T02:26:38+00:00

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keytarna · 2019-09-18T20:17:17+00:00

Mah man

2019-09-19T05:42:03+00:00

Is it better to find out she has a boyfriend after you bang her or before? That can be trouble...

Also there are some ways to test a girl if she might cheat on her boyfriend. "That's cool with me, but how open minded are you?" Depends how sleazy you are willing to be lol

ImJustSo · 2019-09-18T22:40:46+00:00

Is it your first time? Still trying to find the courage to do it.

setsuna0 · 2019-09-19T02:20:04+00:00

I saw my ideal type. I didn't even think I had one because I love all kinds. But she captivated me.

She seemed to be eating during her lunch break. I didn't want to intrude and just left. I've been kicking myself ever since. I'd much rather live with a rejection than regret. Good job bro!

dontaskforthewifi · 2019-09-19T02:40:19+00:00

Ignore the negative comments here, what you did was get yourself out of your comfort zone in order to improve your game through practice. Keep it up

DimitriT · 2019-09-19T03:13:11+00:00

Yes totally agree. There is no point of approaching girls you are half interested in, unless for some other reason. It's better to always approach girls you are really into. It's better for you and for them because you are honest about it. If it works out then it's perfect and if not then it's a good practice.

Bammer1386 · 2019-09-19T06:28:57+00:00

After awhile, once you get used to cold approaches, you wont even think or get nervous anymore, and you approach before you even think about it. That kind of confidence is an INSANELY good weapon to have in your approach arsenal, and girls can sense it, and they totally dig it (If done in the right situations.) One step closer!

2019-09-18T23:40:56+00:00

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QuiteTheBrianD · 2019-09-18T22:31:27+00:00

They’re just normal people too

2019-09-18T23:01:21+00:00

I remember the first time I muscled up the courage to do the approach. I was in Myrtle Beach SC and the girl gave me the same answer she gave you, but I never felt more proud of myself. No regrets or worries. Ironically it boosted my confidence.

gingerfreddy · 2019-09-19T08:08:25+00:00

Hell yeah tall girls are great

tardiswho · 2019-09-19T15:08:26+00:00

Once I get past my first three cold approaches, It get into a tighter frame and my approaches get amazing but my AA is always on when its my first approach.

Embrace the AA. Love the AA. You get better everyday.

staggeringmind · 2019-09-19T18:20:51+00:00

never hit on her in the first instance, make it mysterious like, i had this strange feeling that i knew you, and continue just wanted to say hi, your aura was radiating... also when she says she has a boy friend, it's just a cue that she was not looking for anything serious with you, you should reframe, i too have a gf, it's just that i needed to respond to that aura. in this way you disengage and re-engage. she will feel that connection and will not want to to let you go. now you need to eject. saying i really got to go, leave, now turn around, i really want to have a coffee saying to find out why i had this vibe radiating. try to get that coffee in 10 minutes otherwise she will grow timid. or get her digits, be gone.. show that you are busy.

WarDiaz209 · 2019-09-18T22:49:17+00:00

Good job man!

DaxMan12 · 2019-09-18T22:51:51+00:00

Nice work!!

nailback · 2019-09-19T00:58:39+00:00

You rock

2019-09-19T04:04:28+00:00

Thanks for posting this.

2019-09-19T04:33:15+00:00

The funny thing about regret https://youtu.be/F9cq7gCu9Ko

Dangopak · 2019-09-19T05:29:13+00:00

Approach is the best way to beat anxiety

2019-09-19T06:44:26+00:00

True, well written words sir. To have that hunger to not let yourself down--it's more rare than people think. I knew I had gotten far beyond my fears once I was striking up something with women in coffee shops who are sitting down while I'm standing up. They're all crowded too by people on each side of them. These are fun. You just strike something up and let the nosey bystanders listen to true game.

not_really_neutral · 2019-09-19T13:13:33+00:00

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Check out David Snyder on YT. He's a hypnotist with some seduction tips.

DajuanKev · 2019-09-19T13:36:38+00:00

I know. Just go in, man, ignoring the worst possibility that could happen. Some rejections still hurt as shit tho.

Ttyrox · 2019-09-19T16:18:12+00:00

Ikr. Cold approach is fucking empowering

kayer274 · 2019-09-19T17:54:35+00:00

I have had a very similar experience where she had a boyfriend too, but I wasn't too bothered I was just happy I did it. Can completely relate man, good for you.

2019-11-14T15:54:39+00:00

A QUICK FIX FOR YOUR APPROACH

Read the post.

Go out.

Apply what you will just read.

And see your approaches work like a charm.

If you are in the community, probably you realized that most guys don't approach at all or the one who does their interaction goes nowhere.

After they blame it on the girl, weather or the club anything but they never ask themselves: "why my approaches suck BAAAALLS".

The biggest problem that sees in the community is people having some wired idea about the open.

as:

"The approach doesn't matter"...WTF!!!

In reality, the approach matters.

And matters a lot.

If you approach badly; there is no interaction,

if there is no interaction there is no sex.

Truly, the approach can be the most important part of the interaction.

For the simple reason, if you approach properly you will set the right frame since the beginning.

Another misconception that I see: is you should mass approach for improving.

The problems with mass approaches are:

You implement bad habits if you are a beginner.

You straight-up look wired in your environment, especially if you are in a high-end club with few people.

You will unconsciously give yourself permission to do shitty approaches and you will not try to correct yourself.

How elite approaches?

When you want to approach you should focus on solely 4 things :

-eye contact.

-your angle of approaches.

-regulate intensity based on the environment.

-regulate how direct you are based on her initial level of compliance.

The last two points are crucial; understanding them alone will transform your approaches from zero to hero.

What do I mean by regulating intensity based on the environment?

It means the more stimulus there is in the outside environment; the more intense should your approach be(one way of regulating intensity is proximity).

ex. You will not approach a girl in a crowded club the same as a girl walking alone in the street during the night.

Those are easy concepts that you should work on them and you will be amazed how easy is to open a girl.

And they simply quick fixes that you should implement NOOOOW!!!!

P.S: if you are interested in proper coaching that will save you time and years of frustration PM me for more information.

AlleyFrog96 · 2019-09-19T00:56:08+00:00

Most likely she didn't have a bf

cicatros23 · 2019-09-19T02:24:23+00:00

If she says I have a boyfriend just tell her "ok, then take my number and hit me up when u get tired of him,,

Fokker69 · 2019-09-19T03:19:56+00:00

Bitch test... u missed it! She would've told u upfront...fcuk off. Women are ruthless, they don't care. Yes, of course u felt relief, cause she gave u an out, but gud going...least u tried. Now, in future...pro tip, like u swallowed the approach, I know...it gets 2 u, the first few tries...sometimes it really hurts.

Women, ur mother...can burn ur soul! Deflect...she knew, straight of the bat. Should be like water on a duck's back...u just wanted her 2 much...pretty things drive men crazy, detach. What would happen if an ugly chick did the same? Would u be here? Kudos my friend, think about it...u were weighed, u fell short...she liked u enough 2 be civil.

Aim a bit lower...till it becomes 2nd nature...and the water will flow, there is not that much of a difference...it's all in the mind. Go conquer it...1 step @a time. God speed my friend!

blockfuture · 2019-09-19T01:57:42+00:00

Next time don't just say she is cute. she will know you want to date her or sleep with her. This is bad because she needs to be unsure. The main reasons being, she will start thinking she has greater value than you. Instead say something like "you are cute, I want to fid out you are not a bitch"

Secondly and probably more importantly, assume she is just testing you when she says "i have a boyfriend". She will find out 2 things from this: 1) if you are confident enough/socially competent enough to keep trying. 2) She will know if you are trying to sleep with her.You can easily get her number by continuing and find out if she was telling the truth/testing you. Plus you will probs get some fun texting as practice.

Say something like "you are making a big assumption telling me you have a boyfriend, I just wanted to find out if you were as interesting as I hoped"

Title	Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approach
Author	Avalaon2
Upvotes	1512
Comments	97
Date	September 18, 2019 7:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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