Whats one small thing a day I can do to improve my game?

preruntumbler · 2011-12-20T07:53:20+00:00

go out of your way to say hi to at least one girl a day.

bcktth · 2011-12-20T14:58:04+00:00

1.) Work out, be it 15 minutes or 1 hour a day, 5 days a week... do it!

2.) Daily reconfirmations of how awesome you are infront of the mirror

3.) Keep a log of all the great things that happen in your life.

4.) Say hi to one new person a day

5.) Know that one day you will die, and that nothing will matter once this happens.

6.) Balance your spending, make a spreadsheet and ask if it is going to the best places.

7.) Push yourself to do something that makes you scared, game-related.

8.) Accept failing is when you stop trying, not when things don't go as planned.

sillymallard · 2011-12-20T08:03:55+00:00

It's not little, but seriously, gym it up. I have so many more girls looking at me, etc. since I did. And success rate is way up. You'll start making out with girls within 5 minutes of meeting them...they're acting based on pure physical attraction basically. Never happened to me before.

Some of it is how you look, and some of it is how you feel about how you look. You're more confident and so you act more confident, and results follow.

I do cardio 5 times a week. Either 60 min at 6 mph with moderate resistance on an elliptical, or 30 min of HIIT (you can Google it) on an elliptical. Elliptical avoids joint strain. Weights 3 times a week, basically all muscle groups, emphasis on building bulk so it's fewer reps with higher weight. Went from 207 to 172 in 10 months (only started doing weights about 3-4 months ago though) at 6'1". World of difference. I still ain't George Clooney, but it's an improvement.

Best thing is, you'll be in better health in addition to fucking more girls. And it's fun once you get into it. And you can meet girls at the gym, although I'm not really into that. Yet.

Xstream2 · 2011-12-20T09:28:46+00:00

go to the gym
develop inner game (e.g. do affirmations)
practice holding eye contact with people
talk to strangers (ideally attractive women)

sillymallard · 2011-12-20T08:02:44+00:00

Go to the gym or find some other way to sweat everyday.

nextAccount · 2011-12-20T15:02:56+00:00

Open a set every day with a DIFFERENT opener. No repeats, ever.

Over time you will see how little the opener matters, and you won't get wedded to 2 or 3 like so many community guys.

After a year of this you will be a FEARLESS opener. Ask me how I know.

You should also go to the gym, but that doesn't improve "game", it's just your fitness level, and you should be going anyway just for your own health, not because it will make you a hit with girls.

maybe_I_am517 · 2011-12-20T18:32:13+00:00

You see hot girl, take 3 deep breathes. Focus your mind on your breathing. Watch yourself take those three long breathes. Back to the girl, her mystical power over you will be broken and you will see her as just a human full of imperfections like you. Approach is 10 times easier. This advice is mind blowing if you actually do it and center yourself. Field tested.

Edit: I should mention that when you take the breathes you don't have to close your eyes or do anything. Just look around normally but have your mind focusing on the breathes. Your friends or anyone around won't even notice you doing it.

CaptainLeader · 2011-12-20T09:19:56+00:00

pay very close attention to everyone around you. Be as perceptive as possible. This will improve your eye contact a lot, among other things.

NuPUA · 2011-12-20T19:44:26+00:00

Make eye contact with everyone as you're walking. And Smile.

2011-12-21T03:05:43+00:00

Evaluate people. Before you put a negative spin on this concept, contrast it to judging people. Not the same thing at all.

nutmegmagi · 2011-12-20T15:09:58+00:00

Look everyone you come across that day directly in the eye and try to figure out what your gut is telling you about them. It's actually something you can train. Do it with the people in magazines and on TV too.

I_AM_LLAMA · 2011-12-20T15:33:45+00:00

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yokhai · 2011-12-20T16:05:47+00:00

Go talk to people.

tinhat · 2011-12-20T12:28:58+00:00

Masturbate.

Title	Whats one small thing a day I can do to improve my game?
Author	preruntumbler
Upvotes	23
Comments	59
Date	December 20, 2011 7:41 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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