Open question: What patterns do you see in several girls that just turn you off?

Here are a few I avoid:

  • Overly logical and ambitious girls.

Women who have internalized the male status-seeking behavior and aren't in touch with spontaneity or emotion. They come off as mechanical and uninterested even when they verbally declare their attraction for you, and often can't orgasm or even relax in bed.

  • Overly religious (particularly christian, particularly catholic) women.

They just have too many issues with sex, guilt, and clinging on. They're the kind likely to go psycho on you for leaving or stalk you for not being interested.

  • Baggage ladies.

Girls who warn you about the time they were almost raped, or the bad experience they had with guys growing up, as if somehow by understanding that, it gets you closer to her. These girls are really just narcissistic and into themselves; everyone has baggage, but they don't realize you put your best face forward and move on. These girls don't seem to grasp the concept of 'caring for others' and want you to cater to their whims without offering anything in return. Sometimes they truly are emotionally damaged, but that doesn't get any sympathy from me, nor does sympathy turn me on or make me want them romantically - if a woman really is that damaged, she should be seeking help, not love; it's just not time yet.

  • Party girls

After so many hookups and sex-in-the-city like disregard for men while using them for comfort, sex, and attention leads to a certain jaded lack of attachment. Sex becomes meaningless; desires to please him, care for him, or keep him around are consciously fought away. They're always chasing the next high, and different men are just different drugs.

Men who study seduction think that nice guys can change and grow into men. Do you think women can grow out of their patterns and problems, or once it passes a certain threshold, is their sexual market value permanently damaged?