IAMA mPUA Interview Series #3 - Tuesday, March 15th at 7PM PST - Brad Branson from RSD

TofuTofu · 2011-02-25T03:49:09+00:00

As usual, please vote up so people see this. Thanks!

ragefaced · 2011-02-26T17:22:53+00:00

1) How do you react if the target realizes you are using PUA on her or worse - she recognizes you as a trainer and comments on it?

2) 3-part question: What kind of girls are the hardest to get? Has it ever happened that you were very close, but then you messed up somehow? Is there a way to make her feel she missed out on fun by rejecting?

3) What was your favorite "Eureka!" moment where you discovered a new method and it came out to be one of the best so far?

P.S. You can answer either one or all three (whatever the IAmA rules permit). Thanks!

BradBranson · 2011-02-28T04:46:23+00:00

What up guys!

Looking forward to this, don't worry, no selling from me, I just want to offer up some PURE content.

Checkout my blog if you want a view of my current thought processes towards game...

See you soon.

2011-02-25T05:18:35+00:00

What do you wish you knew when you were 18?

throwaway703 · 2011-02-25T06:30:20+00:00

I feel like having a strong identity is essential for inner/natural game. If you agree, how long did it take and what transitions have you made to develop your identity?

frogma · 2011-02-25T05:27:10+00:00

I went to his blog, read some of the self-love article, and decided he's fuckin money.

MonkeySteriods · 2011-02-25T05:42:27+00:00

How has pickup evolved between the days of alt.seduction till now? Has it improved or worsened?

SpiderFan · 2011-02-25T07:47:54+00:00

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SpiderFan · 2011-03-02T19:47:06+00:00

What little things are preventing people with attractive personalities from being abundant with women?

anonymous_hero · 2011-02-25T13:23:23+00:00

Tell him not to go all sales guy on us like Wygant did.

MonkeySteriods · 2011-02-25T05:51:14+00:00

Great blog, I'll have to add that to my RSS feeds.

I agree with you on the whole leading a conversation. In my opinion this is basically prompting the girl to communicate emotionally and non-verbally with you. (http://www.bradbranson.com/what-to-say-to-a-girl/)

From your experience do you have any tips on word and leading the other person? (both good and bad).

adventurious : permiscuious

sassy : flirty

For example being more expressive or dry.

Note: Yes there are a lot of things that one should learn before this, but for someone that has internalized the foundation this would be rather interesting.

am_i_punk_yet · 2011-02-25T06:48:17+00:00

How do you see the difference between someone who is good and someone who is great? Is it only a matter of perfecting the "nuts and bolts", or are there similiar leaps like when you leave the total beginner status? What would be the thoughts and repeated actions which propelled you to be on the level where you are now?

marbles12 · 2011-03-06T09:54:36+00:00

Have you heard of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy? If so, would you recommend it?

throwAwayObama · 2011-03-09T03:08:56+00:00

Is there an idiots guide to eye contact I can read somewhere? I can't see to find a balance between strong confident eye contact, and being a weird staring guy whose using other people to get my state up.

SpiderFan · 2011-02-25T09:44:41+00:00

I like RSD. They've been generating a lot of attention with all the rsdfreetour vids on their channel.

-Did you have any 'aha' moments in the 2 years regarding female/male dynamics?

-What are the most common blind spots do you see on bootcamps with intermediate level guys? Advanced guys?

-The RSD concepts I'm having the most trouble is drawing state from within. It feels like when I do that I go inside me more, and that makes more more introverted and less social. It seems to be in the moment, you have to be able to react and be alert and be affected about what's going on your environment. I don't think what you're trying to teach is a balancing act, that we're supposed to be in the moment and drawing state from within at the same time. But that seems out side my comprehension.

-Another RSD concept. When someone is talking, you're not supposed to be interpreting what they're saying, you're not supposed to be relating what they say to you. Then what do you do with it? If I don't interpret or relate to me, then it's just In one ear out the other; I just feel like a tape recorder. I can't really have a conversation if I do that. Obviously you're supposed to be social at the same time with this concept. But if not through interpretations and relations, how is what they're saying supposed to affect to you?

SpiderFan · 2011-03-01T12:21:10+00:00

What do you think of this post (warming, long as read but you can skip hte first couple paragraphs, a quik skim should be good enough) http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ftwax/introversion_vs_extroversion_and_why_it_matters/

calidity · 2011-03-05T04:03:53+00:00

I understand you are very busy, but I think I speak for most of us here when I ask if it's possible to give a full set script with notes included, detailing what you're doing at different times. I here of all the stages in the way you attract and just need an example to see how it generally goes. Thanks

Skitrel · 2011-03-12T10:59:28+00:00

Why do you use such phrases as "attract anyone" and absolutes such as "all" on your website and in your marketing?

Do you think using a testimonial that states "you will not get better value for your $2,000 than a bootcamp with Brad" is ethical? There are 10 week courses for as little as £200, explain how a 3day boot camp for 7-8 times the price is better value.

None of the above can be explained correctly if you're being truthful, don't worry though, I won't hold you to your marketing spiel. It doesn't change the fact that you're lying to folk though.

DrTwitch · 2011-03-13T07:15:12+00:00

1) As an older guy (I am almost 30) how does your game have to change as you get older? Young guys can get away with almost any type of inappropriate behaviour, etc just by being in that age group. What works best for a guy at 30 to game a 20 year old girl?

2) Is there a modern equivalent to Tylers 25 points? Or even "the top 10 things i learnt since i started".

3) Any philosophical insights into love?

s0n0fagun · 2011-03-15T20:21:21+00:00

I am an international graduate student from the United States living in Germany. My German is currently terrible but improving. I understand a lot of nonverbal communication is very important, however, I have this language hurdle.

What are your suggestions to overcome the language barrier and what is the best way to capitalize on nonverbal communication so she does not pay too much attention to what I am saying?

SpiderFan · 2011-03-16T02:38:51+00:00

I've known some high value girls who never seem to have trouble getting a boyfriend. On the other hand, I know girls who are also high value, but never seem to get a boyfriend, always just hanging out their their friends on valentines and stuff, and it isn't by choice, they would love to have a boyfriend

I'm guessing the latter are more 'pickier' than the former. Any idea what they're picky about. Both types have social circles with decent guys in my opinion.

TofuTofu · 2011-02-25T05:12:06+00:00

I'll start: How did you get involved with RSD? What were your impressions of The Blueprint?

dontwanturvalidation · 2011-02-26T11:20:39+00:00

Have you ever dealt with self-sabotarge? Sometimes it is difficult to discerne when you are sabotarging yourself, so I'm wondering if you've got any tips for dealing with this issue.

Naga14 · 2011-03-09T11:03:02+00:00

A lot of guys are charming if they can ever get the guts to approach. In a sentence or two, what would you say to motivate a guy to approach?

MonkeySteriods · 2011-02-25T05:40:53+00:00

As I've asked with the other ama's:

"what was your ah ha moment? A time when things clicked together about pickup and what prompted it"

dermarr5 · 2011-03-09T20:34:28+00:00

1.)Have you ever had moral qualms about picking up women? I.E. Married women 2.) I have tried working on my inner game and presence (posture, eye contact etc.) and as a result I have been getting opened more and more by women. However I am still having trouble opening when I don't see the women as interested, do you have any advice for me. 3.) I haven't been in the game very long and am not that well acquainted with RSD. What is your biggest building block when it comes to guys with little experience? Thanks again for doing this. It's amazing that you "masters" are coming in and doing something that we would normally have to pay top dollar for, just to help us out.

dermarr5 · 2011-03-09T22:32:13+00:00

If you were learning pickup all over again and had to take a boot camp or learn new material, but you couldn't learn from RSD, who would you choose and why?

ImKumarYo · 2011-03-10T22:51:55+00:00

Not going to lie, I'd never heard of you before this but recently watched the Flawless Natural (and saw the Blueprint 6 months or so ago). I went to your blog and must say I was quite impressed.

I have a question very specific to me. I'm at a point where my inner game is very solid. I believe I'm awesome and the catch in every interaction (helpful when looking for jobs as well) and I feel I'm actually very well calibrated with this.

The problem I'm running into is that I feel the need to proclaim I'm awesome (in various ways) in ways that come across as arrogant or boastful. Obviously, I can just stop doing this and fix this problem but then I have trouble conveying that "I'm awesome" attitude.

I figure it's just a time thing to internalize my new inner state and eventually that'll shine through with me needing text but I wanted to see if you had any thoughts on this issue? As a RSD instructor I was hoping you'd been through a similar issue.

Any input is much appreciated.

graffiti81 · 2011-03-09T13:22:25+00:00

I'm 110% AFC. In fact, average doesn't really cover it. Approach anxiety is a big problem for me, but that's not even my biggest issue.

The thing I'm having the hardest time dealing with is getting out of the rut. As much as I want to change, (I'm 30 and I haven't had any kind of intimate relationship in 13 years) this would be such a complete turn-around for me, I'm very worried about what the consequences of failure would be.

Anyway, my question is this: Could you talk a little about where you were prior to finding the seduction community and RSD?

voodoo_child90 · 2011-03-09T21:47:43+00:00

what's the best piece of advice you would give to a newbie who wants to follow their own intentions and be completely unreactive to the thoughts and actions of others?

ApuaA · 2011-03-10T20:54:35+00:00

What is your opinion of "fake it 'til you make it" as a tool for beginners developing inner game?

Title	IAMA mPUA Interview Series #3 - Tuesday, March 15th at 7PM PST - Brad Branson from RSD
Author	TofuTofu
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Date	February 25, 2011 3:48 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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