Is there a great way to respond to "I can't go home with you tonight, I just met you"?

jspleen · 2011-03-12T14:08:40+00:00

Ask her not to go anywhere. "Stay right where you are."

Then leave and come back. Greet her with, "Nice to see you again!"

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-03-12T20:06:03+00:00

You should beat her to it. You tell HER that you can't go home with her tonight, you just met, but say that BEFORE she ever gets around to it. This reframes her as the sexual aggressor, and is a classic disqualifier.

There are also other useful disqualifiers, something like "You should come over to my place and see my new puppy. But you can only stay about 30 minutes, I have to get up early and go to work tomorrow." This disqualifier is a False Time Constraint and of course, you have no intention of kicking her out after 30 minutes.

ngocvanlam · 2011-03-12T16:29:17+00:00

Your game was probably not solid if she says that. If your game is solid though she might be one of the rare girl and definitely worth catching.

You need an excuse to get her home with you. Girls need to tell themself that there are a reason to go to your house.

"Lets go to my place, i want to show you this really incredible book" the girl will say to herself okay I am going to his house because i want to see the book. but she knows she will fuck and want to.

discharge · 2011-03-12T23:37:08+00:00

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twatanab · 2011-03-12T23:10:45+00:00

"what makes you think you're coming over tonight? :)"

OGtripleOG · 2011-03-12T16:38:00+00:00

Try twisting it around on her. "You're not going home with me tonight, you're trying to get me to go home with you tonight!"

heightmatters · 2011-03-12T11:29:39+00:00

She should WANT to go home with you. In fact, you should say that to her before you fuck her.

redgod666 · 2011-03-12T10:15:56+00:00

That's okay, that's what the last one said. She's still in my mattress.

revolved · 2011-03-12T20:15:12+00:00

Plan a day 2. Not to get something out of her that night but to actually have a Day 2. Because, hey why not. Avoid any type of buyers remorse and have another chance to show her your glorious personality in a daytime venue.

theawesomeone · 2011-03-13T03:16:52+00:00

Second try, "oh don't worry, you don't have to come home with me, my friend can give you a ride to my place"

on_the_dl · 2011-03-12T15:43:47+00:00

That's a pretty open-ended question! Basically treat it like any other LMR.

s0n0fagun · 2011-03-12T16:16:30+00:00

What do you guy think of this: "I can't go home with you either, I do not like sleeping on couches." ?

I know some people like to use the, you are moving to fast approach. I feel this is too much of an AFC.

MrRisky · 2011-03-14T20:43:20+00:00

My favorite is "I know, it's crazy". It works for all kinds of last minute resistance.

Girls throw out the "just met you line" because they don't want to be judged as sluts. That's why I like "it's crazy". You're not convincing her, you're absolving her of sluttiness. It's not her, it's not you, it's just the night, the circumstances, the "magic". You know how girls always say "it just happened"? They eat this shit up.

2011-03-12T13:26:48+00:00

"So?"

Nexism · 2011-03-12T12:46:39+00:00

Tell her you don't want no crazy bitches in your crib.

Or that you never invited her to begin with.

2011-03-13T00:38:45+00:00

Chloroform

redgod666 · 2011-03-12T10:32:20+00:00

I just realized that you are a girl. Lol!

redgod666 · 2011-03-12T10:28:05+00:00

when a laser isn't cool enough-TAZER!

Title	Is there a great way to respond to "I can't go home with you tonight, I just met you"?
Author	discharge
Upvotes	14
Comments	45
Date	March 12, 2011 10:09 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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