The #1 most unattractive trait a man can possess is creepiness.

Let me explain.

Have you ever been talking to a girl and she’s finding excuses to get away from you? Or maybe you think she’s interested but it’s impossible to get her number? How about the time when you started talking to a girl and her body language is turned away and you can’t get any eye contact?

These are just a few of the signs that you’ve been labeled creepy. And the worst part about it is, once you’re in the “creep zone” it’s EXTREMELY difficult to get out. In all of your interactions with women, you want to stray far away from creating this label. Let me tell you the top 5 best ways to avoid being creepy.

1) Don’t Ramble. The second you start to ramble in a conversation it demonstrates that you’re nervous and you don’t actually care about the conversation itself. It appears as if you just want to talk and not listen. When a person in conversation won’t stop talking and doesn’t pay attention to who they’re talking to, it exhibits weak social cues. Converse with the other person, ask questions and create an experience. Don’t be a talking robot. Also, stay away from initial conversations regarding death, religion, politics or any other intense debates. This usually doesn’t create a sexy vibe to work off of.

2) Smile. Ever see a person walking down the street toward you with either an angry or straight face? Imagine if a stranger with that face started a conversation with you out of nowhere. Creepy vibe? Yes, definitely. If they approached you with a warm smile, then you would at least give them a chance. The same goes for you! Smile all the time. Especially, when you meet new people. I don’t care if you have to fake it. The creepy guys are the ones who either don’t smile or have a face that looks like their numb. Don’t be that guy.

3) Fashion. Beyond the fact that being fashionable is attractive, it also makes you appear like you’re “with it”. A man at the bar or on the street with a solid getup looks important and appears confident. If you decide to skip out on the way you dress, you have an increasing chance at coming off creepy. Remember, a man in fitted, clean garments will come off more attractive than a man in gym shoes, baggy, khaki pants and a ratty t-shirt. Women think you’re creepy when you don’t seem put together.

4) Cleanliness. Keep the armpits deodorized, your facial hair in tact, and keep the teeth clean. If you’re not already doing that, then I suggest you start right now before you finish reading the rest of this post.

5) Body Language. This is last but definitely not least. In fact, it’s the most important. Confident body language will be a huge factor in keeping you out of the “creepy zone”. Examples: keeping eye contact, straight posture, not fidgeting, and keeping your hands out of your pockets. Also, remember to give her space. A close talker never gets you anywhere, especially if you have bad breath.

Those are some of the basic techniques to being personable and to not being creepy. Employ those in your everyday social interactions and pay attention to your moves. If something ever goes wrong in an approach, NEVER blame the girl. Instead, look back at what you could have done better. This way, you’ll always be striving for improvement.

TL;DR – Body language and demeanor are the best tools to staying out of the “creep zone”.

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