Those of you who open directly during the day, what is the most common reaction when you say "I thought you were adorable and had to come meet you"?

RedPosterboard · 2012-06-29T10:23:51+00:00

I've done between 300-400 direct daytime approaches, telling them off the bat that I had to come and meet them because I thought they were cute/adorable; typical reactions I get are 1) girls loving it, melting, and IOI'ing like crazy, and 2) girls who say thanks and then hurry away when they realize I'm only hitting on them. On maybe 20-25 occassions I've had direct antagonism or outright fear (me coming in wrong) or them branding me as a complete weirdo/creep. Hate when that happens, haha :)

In my experience, girls are generally polite and loving it. Even if they reject you they will sometimes compliment you on your courage.

FoodNinja · 2012-06-29T16:36:34+00:00

I work day game pretty much exclusively. Responses vary widely, though rarely are they really negative. Sometimes she's totally into it. Sometimes she's flattered, but not necessarily interested. Sometimes she blushes and gets all flustered and tongue-tied (which I actually love). Sometimes she's creeped out.

My favorite are the ones who light up and tell me that I made their day. Even if they say they have a boyfriend (or husband!) and nothing comes of it, I can still feel happy that I brightened her day up a bit. This is the frame I try to have when I do a day approach: my only goal is to make her day more awesome by giving her the experience of being hit on by a cool guy. Hell, even if she gets creeped out she'll have a funny story to tell her friends later.

sukka113 · 2012-06-29T08:47:53+00:00

I did that exact approach today, replace 'adorable' with 'cute'. She giggled and smiled. She appeared overwhelmed that some dude would break social taboo, just stroll up and talk to her.

toughluck1 · 2012-06-29T10:07:27+00:00

I object. 1. Girls are used to lame things like, you are cute. 2. Express interest in who she is or the situation. Not her appearance. All guys comment on her appearance. You should be interested in her (comment on where she got cool necklace, etc) or making funny jokes about the situation or environment. Dont do what all the other guys do. If you think you are being unique you probably arent. Keep at it!

2012-06-29T21:25:51+00:00

1." Omg! thank you that totally just made my day!!" 2."thank you" 3."thank you" and then says she has to be somewhere and or keeps walking. 4. IHAB objection right off the bat 5.(rare) ignores you completely/ tells you to fuck off/ scoffs

I think that about covers it, at least in my experience.

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