When to Make the Moves On Her

PosVibeEmanator · 2012-08-29T17:40:55+00:00

I've managed to get numbers, but then they never text back. But I never, ever Kino-ed. Its emphasized for a reason, I suppose. Glad to realize I have to do it.

Disclaimer: I'm a noob.

Penny_is_a_Bitch · 2012-08-29T20:31:59+00:00

I'm glad the three day rule was pointed out to be nonsense. It's horse shit people.

I got a number at a poker game. I'm 25, she's 20. Her dad was there so I wasn't going to put myself in a potentially awkward position and I texted her while we were in the same room. We ended up talking about her underwear and blow jobs.

itsmevichet · 2012-08-29T16:58:00+00:00

In depth, practical, and smooth. Winning combination, Nick!

magicroot75 · 2012-08-29T17:47:07+00:00

This is one of the best writeups I have ever seen. Your attention to every possible situation is really helpful. The DiCarlo Ladder is utilized best in very different ways depending on the venue, time, and your history with the girl. This captures that well. Good work!

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2012-08-29T20:07:09+00:00

I've gone from being just friends with a girl for months to having sex with her in five minutes. Just like a women can attract every man around her, there are behaviors a man can engage in that will attract all women around him. If a girl is sufficiently attracted to you and sufficiently comfortable with her own sexuality, you can move as fast as you want. On the othe hand, if the girl's not attracted to you and/or she's just not the type of girl who wants to have sex, no set of guidelines will help you get her into bed.

nycprowl · 2012-08-29T18:05:52+00:00

Very nice!

Since I get a little escalation anxiety I try to tell myself "you should have made a move a while back".

Also, if you're confident enough, you can definitely escalate a lot quicker. I remember I saw someone who was mute and deaf who had more game than anyone I've ever seen, since he completely relied on body language and escalation. He was making out with girls 3 minutes within meeting them, and if they rejected him, he didn't give it a second thought, and IMMEDIATELY moved on.

ikkake · 2012-08-29T20:54:02+00:00

I see you mention dating sites, which would mean you had some success on those - for me it was very off putting experience, tried many styles of profile, pictures etc. from I don't give a fuck, through witty and funny, to total serious, and after sending a lot of messages I had no response at all beyond 1 message back few times.

I must have clearly been doing it wrong, but then again, I'm walking blind here so a lot of experimenting was involved. My take from that was that my pictures were too shit, didn't have better and I just forgot about the whole thing.

Any comments? Thanks

uberafc · 2012-08-29T22:20:31+00:00

good article

Duraz0rz · 2012-08-29T23:13:36+00:00

NickTDS, you always make and post great articles to share :)

TheImpetuous · 2012-08-30T11:45:27+00:00

Nick, just signed up for your emails. I love how you give solid advice minus any rapey bullshit.

NickTDS · 2012-08-29T18:10:22+00:00

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juma606 · 2012-08-29T22:03:08+00:00

Thanks, I'll look it up. I'm in Alien Blue, and the side-bar is not a part of the thread-view of a subreddit.

mixmastabeef · 2012-08-30T07:22:45+00:00

Great stuff man

Jigsus · 2012-08-30T11:02:58+00:00

What if she's unresponsive and you're forced to pull every reply from her?

I've faced this several times and two of them stand out:

one girl was just replying with short yes and no answers. Every little step in our interaction had to be initiated by me. I had to keep asking questions and she never really expressed opinions. Neither did I spot any indicators of interest. I later found out from other people that she liked me a lot but for some reason this turned to this clamshell shyness
another time I faced the same thing. Yes and no answers, she only responded to question not open ended statements, no IOIs... really all the same things as the other girl. Later I found out she was really not interested AT ALL so she shut down to turn me away.

How the hell am I supposed to handle these things?

sdmartyn · 2012-08-30T12:08:27+00:00

Good read. I haven't had much luck taking a stab at it on my own. I'm going to try some of these out. sigh wish me luck.

ikkake · 2012-08-29T23:11:24+00:00

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fish619407 · 2012-08-30T08:49:03+00:00

Uuuuum no. If any dude tries to touch me within 15 minutes of meeting him, that is the quickest way to drive me away and also the quickest way to jail time.

Title	When to Make the Moves On Her
Author	NickTDS
Upvotes	262
Comments	54
Date	August 29, 2012 3:38 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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