Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins]

KingClose · 2013-12-27T23:37:15+00:00

tl;dw

Stop chasing girls. Do this by keeping any non face-to-face communication to a minimum. Try telling them "I'm not sure what I'm looking for right now. I need some time to figure it out so if you want to hangout with me and have fun while I figure it out, you're welcome to."
Don't try to buy her love. Don't pay for dates. Don't buy her gifts.
Don't get caught up in materialism.
Don't amass personal debt. If you can't pay cash for it, you don't need it.
Avoid fanaticism for a group of people especially religious or political.
Complete a formal education. Master degrees are the new college degrees.
Seek out people who are better than you. You can't be lazy. Seek out new friendships. Be the one who initiates. "Hey, what's everyone doing tonight?" Be the social ringleader.
Take care of your body. Paleolithic diet and high intensity training.
Don't limit your exposure to new ideas. Read a lot. Travel the world. Don't get tied down. Recommended books: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, The Millionaire Next Door, The Millionaire Mind, It's Not About The Bike, Seconds Count, and It's Only a Mountain. Recommended authors: Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, and Brian Tracy.
Improve the quality of people in your life. The biggest waste of time is staying in a bad relationship. What you see is what you get. Look at her mum. The acorn never falls far from the tree. Red flags: Lying. Jealousy. Emotional/physical abuse of any kind. Lack of proper boundaries for management of time or money. Irrational fear of losing the relationship.

stukz · 2013-12-27T23:04:04+00:00

don't get a lot of debt in your 20's but make sure you get your Master's in anything.

okay....

mkz212 · 2013-12-28T01:05:22+00:00

being in my late 20s and having done for myself what i think is well, my only advice is read everything with skepticism and think critically for yourself. successful people don't need to read "how to live" lists to know what works best for them.

easyGame23 · 2013-12-27T21:47:28+00:00

tl;dw?

Ciwi · 2013-12-27T20:07:52+00:00

Can anyone tell me if this is good shit? Want to have some "assurance" before I start taking notes and take the content to heart haha.

ProductivityMonster · 2013-12-28T00:46:32+00:00

I'm going to agree with most all of that minus two.

First, your twenties is the exact time to get debt. College, buying a car, maybe a house in your late 20s. It's called investing and, for the economists out there, consumption smoothing.

Second, there are a multitude of ways to eat healthy and get stronger other than paleo/Crossfit/HIIT.

slurmfactory · 2013-12-28T09:22:26+00:00

Great stuff. Gonna use the "i dont know what im looking for right now" line. My two roommates are naturals and im an afc turned pua turned half afc/ pua... This is something they would have no problem saying to any woman if thats how they felt. Aka they are each man enough to tell a woman, knowing it may end things, that they are seeing and hooking up with other girls, AND they are able to take a girl breaking up with them and still treat them as a friend. With genuine friendliness and affection, not bitterness or jealousy, even if it hurts. THIS MY FRIENDS SEPARATED MEN FROM BOYS.

A man who can handle girls love from glorious beginning to painful end is a real man. The type that will have ex gfs' respect.

RussianGnomeMissile · 2013-12-28T10:21:17+00:00

Guys just a tip, turn ON the sub-titles on Youtube before watching the video.

Title	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins]
Author	The21Convention
Upvotes	192
Comments	81
Date	December 27, 2013 5:46 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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