What are you here for?

foretee714 · 2014-06-27T13:16:58+00:00

Self Improvement- Becoming the best version of myself.

Spacebound313 · 2014-06-27T14:25:12+00:00

I want to be able to approach anyone I want and chat them up.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-06-27T15:13:35+00:00

To find a great girl, develop intimate feelings with her, and to end my sexual scarcity. That's ultimately what I'm here for.

SouthpawTheLionheart · 2014-06-27T14:35:25+00:00

Because one day I will need this thread, but it is not this day.

ZombieMushroom420 · 2014-06-27T18:34:20+00:00

Psychology is fucking rad.

Diece · 2014-06-27T16:01:52+00:00

Mostly just for the fun of it. I don't take most of the stuff seriously but there is some really good content posted once a week. I like reading FR's because I find human psychology interesting. The self improvement doesn't hurt either.

2014-06-27T16:00:13+00:00

To help me get started on the long term project that is self improvement. I also want to get laid for the first time at the ripe old age of 22

Volentia · 2014-06-27T14:18:34+00:00

The first time i found out about seddit i didn't know how to react towards a girl i liked and i wanted to act in a way that she would like me. Needless to say i failed (the way i phrased it already sell the outcome of the issue when i read it now), then i lurked around for a while to understand why i had failed.

Nowadays i like to challenge myself into new grounds, would it be lifestyle wise with interesting hobbies ; or social wise like going out solo or day game. My life has never been so surprising and enjoyable.

AlexanderGson · 2014-06-27T15:09:26+00:00

To improve my own social self to be able to lose my virginity and get laid as much as I'd like to instead of having dark depressing thoughts about my insecurity about being inadequate.

I mostly have just picked up basics and self improvement tips and what books to perhaps read. FRs or specific advice don't help much. Details explaining things and why are very helpful though. Like that recent guide on compliments and the different levels of them that exist and how to apply them.

Mostly I've tried to meet more women and be more bold expressing my interest. Basically not be afraid of the no but push for it to see what I can pull off. I've gotten some confidence with that. I've definitely been able to flirt and touch girls more in the last year and I can hold conversations a bit better. So that feels great.

Swedish "dating culture" is very different though so can't really apply the cold approach to get dates. At least not yet. I'm applying what makes more sense and fits me.

joshsway · 2014-06-27T15:09:41+00:00

To learn more and give back knowledge I've learned through being involved in the community for 10+ years.

riversongmoonrain · 2014-06-28T07:04:59+00:00

Thought I'd learn some things here to help me be better at flirting and recognising flirting. Wasn't exactly what I thought it would be but have learnt some interesting things.

It's also interesting for me as a psychology student and a woman to see what guys think.

Darth_Dearest · 2014-06-28T15:55:13+00:00

Curiosity. Today I gave out my first advice to help out someone wanting to fuck a girl like me no strings attached, but finding he's having issues getting them to play along. The men who were advising him were clueless, which wasn't their fault, they just don't have the right perspective. I hope what I told him works.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-06-27T15:36:30+00:00

Social and sexual freedom. I don't want my relationships to arise because I'm taking what I can get. If I ever settle down, I want my partner to be the girl that I chose after sifting through dozens, if not hundreds, of girls.

basilwhite · 2014-06-27T19:59:53+00:00

Decision support

Tenderham1356 · 2014-06-27T22:24:48+00:00

Well I got linked here from nofap, and wanted to see if there was anything here to help me. I've always had some trouble talking to girls who I would like to go out with, and so far I've seen a bit of helpful stuff here. Not a bad subreddit at all in my opinion.

Sirius_Nova · 2014-06-28T04:12:48+00:00

Been lurking around here for a solid year or two.

I'm headed to college this fall, and I want to get comfortable with meeting others, forming relationships, and really just being the person desired/envisioned to be in high school. I didn't start sooner because of a few external and internal problems, but given college will be a whole new environment without the aforementioned issues I'll be extremely disappointed if I don't at least give this my best effort.

Benly92 · 2014-06-28T05:22:09+00:00

motivation, techniques, the taste of good article and report, and self-learning.

MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2014-06-28T11:24:25+00:00

I want to be able to fuck hot chicks, I already do it here and there but I need that consistency I tend to just get lucky with the ones I do find but I want to earn it, if that makes any sense.

Mitrimo · 2014-06-27T22:09:18+00:00

Got a crush. Wanna know how to get her. I'm probably in the wrong sub.

Title	What are you here for?
Author	Joined_For_Joke
Upvotes	21
Comments	45
Date	June 27, 2014 12:39 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/298ioo/what_are_you_here_for/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/what-are-you-here-for.1372748 https://theredarchive.com/post/1372748

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