Tips for movie date

ndatoxicity · 2016-02-23T16:50:29+00:00

I would probably go somewhere either before/after the movie date i.e. food, ice cream, a walk in the park, coffee, etc so you have more opportunity to talk and get to know each other. A movie is just not a good first date choice since you can't really talk or kino much besides awkwardly holding hands or something.

angrynatives · 2016-02-23T17:16:31+00:00

If you have one in your area, take her to the drive-in bro! More unique than the tired, this-is-what-we-did-in-high-school movie theater

tuneorg · 2016-02-23T21:14:54+00:00

Buy popcorn and cut a small hole through the bottom of the bucket just large enough for your penis to stick through.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-02-23T19:26:40+00:00

but that ship has sailed since I asked her "do you want to see a movie". And that was what she said yes to.

Nah, man... she said yes to spending a few hours with you. The movie is just the excuse; if she really cared about it, she would have made her own plans to see it by now.

So if you want to change the plans, go ahead and do it. Just say, "Change of plans, let's _________ instead." 80% chance she'll be cool with it. If she's not, she'll say so and you can go back to the original plan.

Spontaneity is a good thing.

Not2original · 2016-02-23T19:29:08+00:00

only light snaking for the movie, then dinner afterwards, walk to dinner to get your legs moving because you've been sitting for a few hours, you can talk about the move and relate it to other life stories. then after dinner walk back to the car help food digest and you can build some good physical contact here; if the conversation was on point.

letsgetrandy · 2016-02-23T19:52:05+00:00

Definitely, definitely, definitely meet a few hours before the movie and do something to build some attraction, so that you're not just two strangers sitting next to each other in dark room full of strangers staring at a moving picture.

Personally, I like to have a couple of drinks before a movie. I also like to pick up my dates on my motorcycle (gets 'em accustomed to physical contact right away).

Also, have a place in mind where you can grab some food after the film is over and discuss your opinions of the movie.

8483 · 2016-02-24T04:56:16+00:00

My favorite thing for first dates is bowling. It is great as it allows:

Playfulness (Because people suck at bowling, myself included)
Teasing (Because they do suck, you have plenty of opportunities to joke about her missing completely)
Touching (Eventually, she'll score big and you can high five her or hug her)
Drinking (Social lubricant, just don't get hammered)
Talking between rounds (You can start sharing personal stories)
Wagering (If you win this round, I swear I will so and so...)

Usually cinemas are in a mall and they tend to have bowling areas. Don't ask her if she wants to bowl, just say "Hey, I'm feeling like bowling and I'm going to kick your ass" or something along those lines.

After the movie, go for a drink somewhere.

Have fun man, props for asking her out.

diggdeserter · 2016-02-23T20:42:47+00:00

1) Torrent the movie.

2) Invite her over to watch it.

3) ????

4) Profit

PS Obviously not advocating stealing. Think of the poor actors, and studio owners.

ihaveabu · 2016-02-23T20:03:29+00:00

Most important thing to do before you go to the theater/drive in, establish some kino!

Nothing is more awkward than sitting there awkwardly next to her not sure what to do with your hands or arms.

Mathieulombardi · 2016-02-23T21:59:37+00:00

Don't sweat it. Just one date. Meet up for a movie, have fun, then go out for a walk after. Walk about what she liked and disliked how it relates to how she grew up, her life story. If you guys are hungry by after go to a nice candle lit place and share some food. Take her back to your place for "drinks", or back to her place sex. Close the deal. Do it all over again next week.

Bassethounds4ever · 2016-02-24T07:33:31+00:00

If you consider "wanna go to the movies?" as asking out for a date, dont be surprised if she misunderstood it as just two friends seeing a movie.

homercimpson · 2016-02-23T19:14:04+00:00

Personally I think movies are a great first date if you have the balls to be touchy during the movie. As soon as the trailers start, i go straight into some leg touching action, then build up to arm around her shoulder, then that usually turns into one armed neck massages, and beleive it or not, it can go a bit further if your playful about it. After that I ask them to chill in the back of my truck and they typically say yes since the touch barrier is broken.

Monsterpiece42 · 2016-02-23T20:11:53+00:00

My preferred movie date structure is [activity][movie][activity]. So what I mean is, you do something to open/get to know each other (for first dates) like a walk or a coffee, then watch the movie, then something else. I like to follow up with light eating like ice cream because it's hard to eat fast (brain freezes) and gives you time to talk about the movie. This continues to work well time after time. I've been married 4 years now and it still feels fresh each time.

_UsernameUnknown_ · 2016-02-23T22:20:11+00:00

I don't know if it's a bad idea or not but I'd say go to the movie first and then somewhere else (go get something to eat for example).

That way you have something else to talk about as the ice breaker/during dinner (the movie).

Edit: grammar

SkatingOnThinIce · 2016-02-23T22:57:31+00:00

This is an easy one. Read about the movie and be ready to talk about it afterwards. Watch all the kohen Bros movies. Be ready to have a smart critical view on the movie and the subject of the movie. She is not taking you to see spider man so she has some brains. yes, she is taking you, she already decided she is in, it is for you to screw it up by bring too superficial.

BTW, When she mentions that you know a lot about the movie, you will say *with confidence * "I don't, I just read a few things to impress you". Now u r smart, sensitive and confident.

Live happily thereafter.

Mage505 · 2016-02-23T23:38:25+00:00

Don't see a movie for the first date unless she's knowingly without a doubt attracted to you.

Take her out. Tease her. Escalate her. Seduce her. Then take her to the movies and kino escalate. Movies are bad first dates.

However. Plan something before or after. Just know youre on a timeframe to put yourself in a sexual frame.

MonoXideAtWork · 2016-02-24T00:06:41+00:00

Here's your task: Find the hip movie theater with a bar, or bar nearby. You'll want to arrive early with your date, so you can drink, talk, kino, escalate.

Here's the menu from my local one, so you kind of get an idea what you're looking for:

Menu

Don't pay her way, IMHO.

the_life_is_good · 2016-02-24T01:22:56+00:00

I don't know if they play it near you, but they play a Coca Cola commercial where I live where the guy goes for the arm around the girl, and a couple variants of that.

Fucking golden opportunity, works every time.

chadbrochillout · 2016-02-24T02:30:06+00:00

If you have access to a vip theater go see Deadpool, it's a more intimate setting, and you can have some drinks before and during the movie. Go grab a bite afterwords. Did this with a date before valentine's and had a really fun time.

GoingRaid · 2016-02-24T03:55:55+00:00

For a movie date. Find a place to eat near the theater first. Leave time to have a little walk before the movie, maybe get ice cream or something. Afterwords if all is well go on a walk to stretch legs and talk about the movies. Movies dates are super casual, treat it that way.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-02-24T19:26:20+00:00

I wouldn't actually ever recommend movies, it instills / establishes that you both don't talk in each other's presence. Even if you're having an awesome conversation just before going in it's going to be a slight uphill battle coming out of being silent with each other.

So you better have some convo lined up for right after leaving the movie and a few things about the movie to talk about. Or even though you both know you shouldn't you might / will associate wrong things to the silence / difficultly getting talking again.

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