It’s a fact that men are physically superior to women. When a man wants to be coercive, he uses that physical superiority to force his will. For every inequality there is natural balance. Natures balance to the male physical superiority is women are psychologically superior. When women want to be coercive, she uses her psychological superiority to do so. Women have done an outstanding job of keeping men from realizing just how powerful this weapon of hers is. It’s possible that women can process thought almost twice as fast as a man. Women don’t win arguments because she’s right. She just wants you to think that. It’s a simple method of coercion. She hopes to eventually keep you from arguing at all. Think about every argument you have had with a female. How many times did you realize a couple hours later that she misunderstood or missed your point, but decided to let it go because it wasn’t worth another fight? Hate to tell you, she’s not only very well aware, she orchestrated it. When men argue, their thoughts are a jumbled mess, she knows this because hers are not. This is why he ends up yelling and she cries. What she actually does, is she changed the point of the argument to give herself the upper hand, and it goes right over his head. This is psychological abuse. It’s absolutely domestic violence, but unfortunately women write the laws, the pamphlets the wheels and model. They also write the textbooks and curriculums the “experts” use to become experts. Thing is, women don’t consider it abuse mostly because she feels that if he’s dumb enough to let her trick him into being abused, he deserves it. What’s interesting about that? Sounds like the excuses men used for beating their wives, doesn’t it? So, who decided that it’s worse to get physically beaten than driven to suicide. The difference is, when a woman gets beaten by a man , she get to petition relief and sees justice on multiple levels. It’s not a crime for a woman to drive a man to suicide. Men will never be taken seriously as victims of DV until we stop allowing women decide for us, what we consider abuse. The protections provided to women won’t help men, because men and women abuse partners differently. I feel this is such an important issue that all other men’s rights issue can be on the back burner until this one is fixed. The reality of the situation is, we’re fine with paying for dates. Men donf need shelters. Men need protection from false allegations and fraud