Going to girls home vs yours

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-02-07T05:23:50+00:00

It doesn't really matter to be honest. If you bring her back to your place she knows where you live and sometime you have to kick her out. If you go back to her place she's already home and you can leave whenever you want.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-02-07T06:56:08+00:00

Your own place is almost always superior.

It's in my experience much easier and simpler to get a girl to go to your place than to plan to go to her place. Why?

Your place is always available.

Her place you have no control over. Maybe she has family there, maybe she can't have visitors, maybe she didn't clean her room and it's a mess so she doesn't want you over, maybe she left a picture out of her ex etc.

When you're on a first date you generally don't know if she can have you over. But you know for certain if you can bring her to your place. This makes logistics easier to discuss and plan. You take away some uncertainty in your plan / approach and this increases your chances that things will go your way.

Default to taking her back to your place. Only try her place if you have no other option.

EdUNC- · 2024-02-07T05:32:18+00:00

If it’s a ONS, her place. If it’s more of a casual/FWB then my place.

Pedro_Moona · 2024-02-07T05:36:11+00:00

Most of the time, my place but here place is definitely more sexy so I would pick hers!

Additional_Gear_5958 · 2024-02-07T16:01:45+00:00

I've almost always gone to their place. Seems to make them a bit more comfortable and confident being in their safe space.

Stev2520 · 2024-02-07T07:06:05+00:00

Definitely your place, it's your territory, you have control over everything, so she wouldn't suddenly try to bullshit you.

Also, females have sex to feel that they have value, so at your place, she'd feel that she's worth having that place.

At her place, her mind is gonna be set on that, she's generously allowing you to come to her place.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-02-07T14:23:54+00:00

Concur with others 100%. Your place.

Make sure your place is clean, esp your bathroom. She will excuse yourself at some point and judge your cleanliness. Hard for her to want to get naked with you if your toilet has shit stains and your shower is moldy

Sudden-Conference-65 · 2024-02-07T08:55:31+00:00

I like hers. They are more comfy and I can leave when I want to

Jono_Knows21 · 2024-02-07T21:58:48+00:00

I prefer her place. Women have great beds besides the million little pillows.

I don’t like when women try to leave things around my house to mark their territory. They want to leave signs to other women you invite over just in case. I always clean up and check trash bins after they leave. They also leave things at your house so they have a reason to come back over. If I like them then that’s a plus, if not I’ll bring it back to them.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-02-07T11:45:18+00:00

Doesn't really matter bro. Your place is easier, but mothing wrong with going to hers.

SteveJabbaUK · 2024-02-07T17:34:20+00:00

Always go to yours unless it's logistically impossible. It shouldn't be though because you should aim to go out on dates close to your house.

bert_cj · 2024-02-07T18:11:02+00:00

I personally think its better to go to hers. You can leave when you want vs having someone around who you have to kick out.

WittyJoy · 2024-02-07T21:45:14+00:00

I prefer hers.... If she's wanting to bring me back to her place it's a great filter for me. The intentions at that point are clear.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2024-02-07T16:20:06+00:00

Your place is always better cause you have full control.

In her place she does, she is less invested and can ask you to leave at anytime if she suddenly changes her mind or something, and you have to comply. It's harder for her to make the decision to leave yours cause she is already invested. And if she tells you she wants to leave, at least you have the power to try to convince her to stay.

ioppijj · 2024-02-07T12:21:30+00:00

Her place, I like to eat

modidlee · 2024-02-07T19:33:56+00:00

Doesn’t matter. I knew one woman that said the first time she sleeps with a guy has to always be at her place. She doesn’t feel comfortable anywhere else when it’s the first time

WormholePHD · 2024-02-07T21:27:32+00:00

I've always gone to her place first. In my experience women don't want to go to your place unless they've known you for a while and they're super interested sweating with you.

CheeseDanishSoup · 2024-02-07T22:41:28+00:00

I have my own house while she still lives with parents

Easy for us, my place

Master_Simp_Biatch · 2024-02-09T18:29:23+00:00

You can control the environment way better at your place, I like putting music and dimmed lights when I first take a girl to my room to already set a sexy and comfortable, chill vibe.

I wouldn't like to get to a girl's place and she has fuckin bright neon lights on her ceiling that create a very seductive office vibe ahahah

BraveOcelot1824 · 2024-02-10T02:52:11+00:00

girl home look nice

my home look bad

I made my choice

Title	Going to girls home vs yours
Author	Sectumsempra008
Upvotes	47
Comments	48
Date	February 7, 2024 4:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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