Stop playing the Game and learn some fundamental truth about life.

A lot of guys learn seduction because

  • They crave external validation.

  • They want to attract women to satisfy their ego.

  • They want to show other guys "Hey my girlfriend is hotter than yours."

  • They want to attract girls because they want to prove something to someone.

  • They learn seduction because their own lives are boring. They have never worked hard for anything so they crave that sense of accomplishment from female validation.

These are all the wrong reasons to want to attract women. If you recognize at least 4 of these reasons in your psyche, go to a therapist instead of attending a bootcamp. While a healthy amount of external validation is good, these superficial reasons to attract women often send guys in the bottomless hell of rejection loop. And even if you can attract some girls with that mindset you either attract those girls you don't really like or you quickly loose interest in that girl because you don't like yourself in the first place.

What does it really mean to be happy with yourself?

No, it doesn't mean making crazy amount of money. There are tons of people from all over the world who has lived a comfortable and fulfilling life with a comfortable amount of income.

To be happy with yourself means:-

  • Getting that Black Belt in BJJ after working for 6 years.

  • or Getting that Greek God physique you desire by pumping iron.

  • or Surviving a Navy SEAL hell week and receiving that glorious trident on your chest.

  • or Completing an Ironman triathlon.

  • or Creating that game you have always wanted to create and publishing it on steam.

  • or Hiking in one of the most magnificent places on earth.

These are just a few examples of those things that can give you a sense of worth/high self esteem/happiness/feeling of fulfillment and so on.

The best side of it is that once you have it, you feel so good about yourself that every people you meet can sense it. Your soul becomes purified from all the garbage pick up artist Bullshits that are common in the seduction community. You don't see girls as 10 or 5 or 7 anymore. Everyone you meet seems like an amazing person cuz you're amazing but if you're not good no matter who you meet You'll subconsciously feel unworthy and will never see the nice side of that person.

If you feel like you need an instruction manual for everything you do in dating, if you can't fully be yourself, there is something seriously wrong and it's your responsibility take care of it.

Have you ever heard stories like this?

"The other day I met [.....] I was so nervous at first but man he was the nicest and the most humble person I have ever met."

I have heard people talking about meeting Arnold & Franko, meeting Tom Cruise, meeting Alex Honnold, meeting Delta Force Operators, meeting the mighty Gurkhas, talking with the Life of Boris YouTuber on email on multiple occasions.

I once met this pianist during a festival. I was a chess player back then and I said to him, "Do you know Magnus Carlsen and Bobby Fisher?"

And he said, "No"

I said, "They are some of the best chess players in history and you look like the combination of both of them."

And then he went on to talk about the time he played Chess when he was in college. Again I have one thing to say about him - he was one of the nicest and the most humble person I have ever met.

These people have so much inner fulfillment that they see good in all other people they meet. They have so much self love that they want to spread that love without expecting anything in return. If you meet one of them, you immediately like them cuz they are confident yet down to earth at the same time. So be one of them.